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Thomas Slater Obituary

Thomas 'Tommy' Slater of Downingtown Thomas "Tommy" Slater, age 9, of Downingtown, passed away on Tuesday, Sept. 24, 2013, at Children's Hospital of Philadelphia. Born in Falls Church, Va., he was the beloved son of Sean Christopher and Heidi Huseby Slater. Tommy was currently a 3rd grade student at West Bradford Elementary School. One of Tommy's favorite things to do was swim. He participated in Special Olympics with the West Chester University Adaptive P.E. Program, known as the "WCU Rammies". He also participated in the Special Olympics Track & Field through West Bradford Elementary, and was a member of both the WBYA Soccer League and West Side Little League Baseball team. The Slater family is also very active with Chester County Down Syndrome Interest Group (CCDSIG). In addition to his parents, Tommy is survived by his brothers, Jay, Todd and John; paternal grandparents, Thomas and Deborah Slater of Virginia Beach, Va.; maternal grandparents, Thomas and Marilyn Huseby of Sarasota, Fla.; and by his paternal great-grandmother, Bettye McGuire. A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, Sept. 28th, at Calvary Fellowship Church, 95 W. Devon Drive, Downingtown. Today, Friday, a visitation for family and friends will be held from 6 to 8 p.m. at the James J. Terry Funeral Home, 736 E. Lancaster Ave., Downingtown, PA 19335. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to one of the following: d Downingtown Community Education Foundation (c/o Pat McGlone) 540 Trestle Place Downingtown, PA 19335 Memo: Tommy Slater Memorial Fund d WCU Foundation P.O. Box 541 West Chester, PA 19381 Memo: Tommy Slater Memorial Fund d Chester County Down Syndrome Interest Group (CCDSIG) P.O. Box 258 Exton, PA 19341 Memo: Tommy Slater Memorial Fund To send online condolences, visit www.jamesterryfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Daily Local from Sep. 26 to Sep. 27, 2013.

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Molly Siefert

September 20, 2025

I thought about this when I drove home tonight. And it was almost surreal.
He was one of a kind. That smile so full of sweetness, love ,and fire.
I am lucky enough to have had time with him and his brothers.
Love you Tommy say hi to Nathan and Josh for me!
Molly

LaShante O’Banion

September 20, 2020

Tommy is missed so very much. Your love and dedication to honor his memory is so very special. The way you guys have pulled together to be stronger than ever and love one another to the fullest is so encouraging and admirable. Your beautiful family is a testimony to everyone. You are in my continued prayers and I am so thankful to have you in my life. Heidi you are an amazing mom and your kids are so blessed to have you. Love ya’ll and remembering Tommy now and forever! His smile will forever be in my heart!

Janet Eissenstat

November 19, 2013

I'm thinking about you and Tommy often and keeping you in my prayers.

Tabatha Bruno

October 5, 2013

sorry for your loss, we are praying for you.

Bruno Family

Christy Sweet

October 1, 2013

Dear Heidi and Sean,

There are no words at a time like this. My love and prayers are with you and your family.

Lisa Heck

September 30, 2013

Dear Heidi,
I am Christy Sweet's sister. She told me that you were a good friend of hers at Chatham HS. I want to let you know that my heart is broken for you. My five year old son passed away in February of this year in an accident. There are absolutely no words that can even begin to express what you are going through. I know the pain you are in and it is unbearable.

I think Christy sent you a card with my contact information. Please know that I am here for you if you would like to talk or write to someone who understands.

I am thinking about you and your family and you will be in my prayers. I am deeply sorry.

September 28, 2013

Your family has been in my prayers. My God give you peace and strength now and in the future.
Carolyn Speakman (Scott's mom)

September 27, 2013

love and miss you yellow sun :)

Paula Provost

September 27, 2013

Although we have moved away from West Bradford, Juliet has never forgotten her little buddy from kindergarten. He was a special little boy that touched so many lives. He will be greatly missed. Our thoughts are with his family.

September 27, 2013

To The Slater Family...
Much love and many thoughts go out to you all....just know how much Tommy was loved by his WB family..
Deanna Bradley

September 27, 2013

Tommy,
when i first met you in the West Bradford Cafeteria, your smile when asking for a hot dog everyday was angelic....later i was able to see your beautiful, happy face daily in the hallways and classrooms...i will treasure your smiling face always....and am grateful for each passing conversation we had...
With fondness and love i will miss you,
Mrs. Bradley

Maria McCann

September 27, 2013

So sorry for your loss. Tommy was a special boy, he is a special angel. God bless you .

September 27, 2013

I don't what to say but I am truly so very sorry for your loss, as a parent of a son whom is 18 and down syndrome I cant even begin to no how u feel. I will say prayers for you that you may go on day by day

cheryl patterson

September 27, 2013

We had the pleasure of meeting Tommy and his family last year during soccer, the Slaters acually sponsored the team. Tommy was always making everyone smile. May your memories comfort you in this difficult time. Comforting and healing thoughts for your family.

September 27, 2013

My prayers are with you. I met "Tommy" twice at Morgan Boyce's events in school. Morgan loved him. I thought he was a sweetheart. God bless you and your family.

September 27, 2013

Wonderful Slater family,

My life is so much richer having known Tommy. It was such a pleasure to have him in my life for 3 summers. Your entire family is an inspiration to us all. My heart is with you.

God Bless,

June Koehler

The O'Neill Family

September 27, 2013

Heidi, Sean & Boys- there are no words that can be said to express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. Tommy will surely be missed by all who were fortunate enough to have come in contact with him! May you eventually have some sense of peace!

Pat Blank

September 27, 2013

We will miss Tommy very much here at West Bradford Cafeteria. He always made me smile when he came in for Lunch. Such a Great Smile!!

LaShante O'Banion

September 27, 2013

Dear Heidi and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Tommy was such a sweet and adorable little boy that made you smile when you watched him. My favorite memories of Tommy was in the afternoons in the WB cafeteria at parent pick up. His eyes would light up and have the biggest smile when he saw you Heidi and yours would equally light up. You have a beautiful family and Tommy was so lucky to have you as his family. He will be greatly missed by all who had the honor and pleasure to know him. We are here for you guys. Our love and prayers are with you...
Tje O'Banion clan

Craig Stowell

September 27, 2013

To the family, I met you at the bball party at the Woodward's. Words aren't enough but my heart goes out to you. The smile on Tommy lights up the world. I wish you all peace and send my prayers to all.

September 27, 2013

Tommy,
I will miss you so much! It was so much fun working in the classroom with you at West Bradford and at ESY this summer. I love you and I will miss you!

Mr. & Mrs. Slater & Family,
my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Tommy will be greatly missed by all.

Love,
Mrs. Pat "L" Leszkowicz

Taylor Singmaster

September 26, 2013

I only was lucky enough to meet Tommy once. Him and his family were part of a photography project I did for my senior thesis about children who have Down syndrome. The day I spent with Tommy, it was obvious what a special young man he he was. I feel grateful to have that memory and those photographs. I would like to send my most sincere condolences to the Slater family, who showed me so much acceptance and love.

Molly Siefert

September 26, 2013

Tommy, the world is a sadder place without you. You taught me so much. I love you. I love your family. Fly on angel. Nathan will teach you the ropes of heaven. Rest your soul. Forever team tommy slater.

Debbie Brown

September 26, 2013

I am deeply saddened to hear of Tommy's passing. Hew was such a sweet and happy little boy who was always smiling. My thought are we the Slater family at this difficult time.
Debbie (HSP)

Leah Fenicle

September 26, 2013

Dear Tommy I will really miss you. I loved having you in my class this year. I will always remember when we found out that we were in the same class and we held hands walking in to back to school night. I will always remember you. "NEVER SAY NEVER!" love Leah Fenicle see you in heaven!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

September 26, 2013

Tommy you were a great friend and I miss you so much! I hope you are having fun in heaven! Hope you are OK and remember that we had some great times together. Love, Liam O'Neill

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