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John Howard Nielson 1944 ~ 2007 John Howard Nielson passed away October 20, 2007 in Afghanistan. He was born July 31, 1944 to Joseph Leroy and Marian Gardner Nielson in Moab, UT. He graduated from San Juan High School, Blanding, UT. He was a superb athlete and participated in virtually all of the school's athletic programs. He was an All-State basketball and football player and was named to the National All-American High School Football team. Upon graduation, although he had a number of athletic scholarship offers, he elected to attend, for religious reasons, Brigham Young University, where he played on the BYU freshman baseball team. He later played on the championship basketball team for Snow College, and together with his brother Francis won the All-Church basketball tournament. He served a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in the West German Mission from 1964-1966. He graduated from Brigham Young University with a Bachelors degree in Languages, received his Masters Degree in Languages from the University of Arizona, and later earned his Doctorate in Languages (German Philosophy) from the University of Utah. He married his childhood sweetheart, Trudy Burtenshaw in the Salt Lake Temple and they were blessed with three children, later divorced. His employment included several years with Utah Power & Light as a Management Development Supervisor and at the U of U Continuing Education Dept. For the past 14 years he worked for various civilian contractors in many countries including Mongolia, Russia, Bosnia, Ukraine, Georgia and Moldova; most recently he served in Iraq and Afghanistan. His duties were to assist in the advancement of small business and other economic ventures with the local people. John was proud of his pioneer heritage and loved growing up in Blanding. He looked forward every summer to working with his father and his three brothers on the family cattle ranch on Elk Mountain. Riding horses, hiking the Bears Ears, looking for arrowheads, and summer baseball games were favorite pastimes. He was a generous and loving person, evidenced by the numerous students and others he assisted throughout the world. He was an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and served in many leadership and teaching positions. Above all, he loved his children and grandchildren. They were truly the pride and joy of his life. He spent his life being the best Dad he could be. He is survived by John-David Joseph, Nicole Thacker (Randall), Heston Hamilton, grandchildren Wyatt, Kaleb and Aspen Thacker, and brothers and sisters, Rhoda Jane Ashley, Virginia Black, Francis (Joe), Robert, and numerous nephews, nieces and cousins. He was preceded in death by his parents, a brother Preston and a sister, Barbara, brothers-in-law Kent Black, and Lyman Ballif. Viewing to be held from 10-11 am with funeral services following on Saturday, Oct. 27, 2007, at the Emigration 4th Ward, LDS Chapel, located at 589 18th Ave., SLC, UT 84103. Interment in the Salt Lake City Cemetery.

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Published by Daily Press from Oct. 25 to Oct. 26, 2007.

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Garland Boyette

October 29, 2007

I had the pleasure of knowing and working with John during his time in Tbilisi, Georgia, and it was with great sadness that I learned of John's recent passing. My sympathy and condolences go out to the family.

Tudor Mocanu

October 29, 2007

We would like to express our deepest and most sincere condolences to John's family. John was a very exceptional man and changed a lot of lives while he had worked in Moldova. He will be always remembered as a caring and loving human being.

Rodica Nosko (Mocanu), Chisinau, Republic of Moldova
Tudor Mocanu, Burlington, Vermont

Spencer Wu

October 27, 2007

Nicole and Heston:
15 years ago,J-D served a mission in Taiwan for the church of Jesus Christ of latter-day saints. It was a difficult days for J-D because he tried hard to adapt himself to the different culture and new conditions. J-D looked forward to receiving letter every day from your father wrote once a week because it was a way to deaden the homesick. J-D always shared with me all letters from your father sent out in U.S. We read the letters together every Monday night on the top of the dormitory. I felt deeply that your father’s love for you was very great when the letters I read it. The letters brings J-D and me back many good memories. I am so sorry to hear of your father's passing. I send my best to you at this difficult time.

Shane Cannon

October 27, 2007

JD, Nicole, Heston & Trudy

I will miss your dad a lot. He was a great fatherly figure and influence in my life. He always had encouraging and kind words to say. I always admire how hard he worked and exersized. He loved his family so much. I must mention he was a great tipper whenever I babysat Heston which reflected his generous nature!

I have great memories with your family and wish you the best at this difficult time.

Shane Cannon

Stephanie & Keith Cannon

October 26, 2007

Fond memories of life on Northcliffe Drive will remain with us always. We cherish all that we shared with John, Trudy, JD, Nicole and Heston. Stephanie, Keith, Shane & Rusty Cannon

Georgan Burtenshaw

October 26, 2007

Dear Nielson family:
I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. It is hard when you lose someone you love. Especially when they are so far from home. I pray that you will be comforted and blessed at this difficult time. The memories of our personal relatiionships with Johnny in the earlier days will always be cherished. J.D., Nicole and Heston: I love you so very much The obituary notice was well done.
Grandma Burtenshaw

Lilia & Lilia Carasciuc

October 26, 2007

It is difficult to think of only one story now, because everything about John was nice: the way he spoke to people, the way he listened to them; his sense of humor, his kindness, his sensitivity, his generosity and his intelligence.

We remember him as a happy person that always cared and talked about his family. We remember him saying “…there is not a single minute in my life when I am not thinking of my children…”

We love you, John, and we are eternally grateful for these memories.
Lilia & Lilia Carasciuc

All of the people that John worked with in Moldova express their sympathy and send condolences to his family.

Lori Porter

October 26, 2007

Trudy,
I am so sorry to hear of Johnny's passing. I have thought of you often and the great example you and he were, to me, as I was growing up in Blanding. Being a flower girl at your wedding is one of my favorite childhood memories (I had such a crush on Johnny)!

I'd love to talk to you and get caught up - maybe next time my mom is in town, we can take our mom's out to lunch (if we dare).

Again, I'm so sorry for your loss and hope the good times and memories will help you through these rough times.

Lori (Lyman) Porter

Matthew Coles

October 26, 2007

J.D., Nicole and Heston:
We send our best at this difficult time. I loved growing up in the neighborhood with you and going to your house. Your dad was a strong man, who I admired. I remember seeing him lift weights and run up the Avenues hills with his bat. I never wanted to mess with him. But he was quick with a smile whenever we talked.
We love you.
Matthew, Julie, Joseph and Benjamin

Nancy and Bob Redd

October 26, 2007

We were so sorry to hear of John's passing. One of my fond memories is that fifty years ago, I directed "Promised Valley" in Blanding, with Johnny and Trudy in the leading roles. They were such a sweet couple and fun to work with. I've thought of them often over the years. May you find peace and comfort in special memories of your father, brother, and friend. Nancy and Bob Redd

Steven Bronson

October 26, 2007

To the family of John H Nielson, the Steve and Pam Bronson family send their love and condolences. As a fellow Blandingite and graduate of San Juan High School, I remember fondly his friendship. He was always gracious and kind to me, an underclassman. May God comfort your family in your hours of grief.

Sincerely,

Steven L and Pamela Bronson

William Clark

October 26, 2007

Dear JD, Nicole and Heston,

I had the pleasure of being a friend to your Father John in the Wynn Johnson ward years ago. I liked and respected your father. He was a very good man. I enjoyed knowing you three and Trudy when we were all a lot younger. My our Father in Heaven bless you at this time with the sure knowledge an faith that you will see and be with your Father John again, for it is this promise that makes this sorrow you are feeling, hopefully a little easier to bare. God bless you.

January

October 26, 2007

JD...I am so sorry to hear about your dad. Your friends are here and will be here to support you. You are in my thoughts, many hugs.
January

Jerry and Patricia Striplin

October 25, 2007

Dear freinds and family,
John and I arrived in Kabul, Afghanistan about the same time. There was an immediate connection... one that will last the rest of my life. He touched us all. His work made a tremendous difference in the lives of the new Afghanistan. Please know he is missed and remembered.

John and Lezlie Ballif

October 25, 2007

My fondest memories of Uncle Johnny were when we would drive up on a weekend from California to stay with Grandma and Grandpa Nielson in Blanding; we got to see him as a young man, with a sharp wit and a strong urge to be very well groomed at all times. One day all of us kids sat in the dark in Grandma's kitchen on that blue vinyl couch she had, and Johnny was telling us a very scary story ... in the dark. At the climactic moment in the tale, Johnny flipped on the light and lunged at us with a scary mask on and knives held threateningly. We screamed with fear, and then begged him to tell us the story again! We loved his "cool" ways and even then were proud to be his nephews and niece. We feel that pride now even stronger, as we remember Uncle Johnny as a grown man, who made his mark in the world working in distant countries to build lasting capacities and institutions in the new democracies. Our thoughts, prayers, and deepest sympathy go out to you, John-David, Nicole and Heston at this time.

David & Robyn Osborn

October 25, 2007

As Newly weds and young parents raising a family we appreciated the friendship of Johnny and Trudy. John was a pretty talented guy, athletically as well as intellectually. A good example and could talk to anyone about anything, and often did. It is little wonder his career path took him in that direction. He will be missed!

Sonja Burdash

October 25, 2007

JD, Heston & Nicole: We are so sorry to hear about your dad. Please let us know if we can assist in any way. Kyle & Sonja Burdash

Scott and Kathy McNeil

October 25, 2007

We have very fond memories of John. Our early years of marriage were spent with Johnny and Trudy and our children who were great friends of their children. He was intelligent and interesting. We wish to send our condolances to his family. He will be missed by all who knew him.

Carla Hewitson

October 25, 2007

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your dad/brother. John was a dear friend - we met at the Deseret Gym around 1991(we dated for the two years prior to him leaving for his work over in eastern europe). It's been about 4 years since we last spoke, but I think of him often. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Ron Frandsen

October 25, 2007

John was my second companion on my mission. I was from Gunnison and we enjoyed talking about high school sports and southern Utah girls. We had a good two months together. I admired him greatly. We even had a baptism together. Please accept my sympathy. Ron Frandsen, Cottonwood Heights, UT

Pat, Paul and Jessica Dalpiaz

October 25, 2007

We are so sorry to hear of John's passing and send our sincere condolances to the family. We lived across the street from them for about 30 years, and enjoyed lots of fun together. We hope that the family finds their way through this by recalling his memory and the times they spent together. He was a bright, happy influence in our lives.

Michael Wozniak

October 25, 2007

Our thoughts are with the family at this time. May our Heavenly Father bless you in your time of need.

Michael & Jean Wozniak
Calgary, Alberta

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