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PAUL BANGIOLA AGE: 86 MORRIS PLAINS Paul Bangiola, 86, born in Basking Ridge NJ, January 9, 1923, died at St. Clare's Hospital, Denville on Sunday, Nov. 8, 2009. He was a graduate of St. Virgil's Elementary School, Boonton High School, Rutgers College, and Rutgers University Law School, Newark. During World War II, he enlisted as an aviation cadet in the United States Army Air Corps, June 30, 1942. After operational training through the Third Air Force in Perry, Florida, he was transferred overseas and joined the 57th Fighter Group, 66th Fighter Squadron, Naples, Italy, whereupon he participated in the transfer of the group from Naples to Corsica, and the commencement of "Operation Strangle." He flew 50 missions until he was seriously wounded in action on his 50th mission, while strafing a gun emplacement near Buca, Italy. He participated in dive-bombing and strafing missions, and the interdiction of supply lines. The last mission flown on May 27, 1944, resulted in a crash landing on Corsica, after sustaining four hits from 20mm ground fire. After an 8-month hospitalization and 14 months on the ground, he was restored to flying status and separated from the service on March 18, 1946, with the rank of Captain. He was awarded the Distinguished Flying Cross; the Purple Heart, Air Medal; ETO Battle Ribbon, Eto Theatre with 2 battle stars; American Theatre Medal and Victory Medal. In addition, he participated in the award of the Presidential Unit Citation of the 57th Fighter Group and Group. A lifelong resident of Morris Plains, Paul Bangiola lived a life committed to public service in a broad array of civic, charitable and political activities. He was a member of the VFW, the Knights of Columbus, and Rotary International. He volunteered with the Cub Scouts, Boy Scouts and served on the Board of the Morris Area Girl Scouts. He was a member of the St. Virgils's Parish council. He was instrumental in developing the P47 Thunderbolt collection at the New England Air Museum and was past president of the P47 Thunderbolt Fighter Pilot's Association. As an attorney for 31 years in private practice in Morris Plains he served as an attorney for the Morris Plains School Board, Morris Area Girl Scouts, the Borough of Morris Plains, and St. Virgil's Parish. He was elected President of the Morris County Bar Association He represented a diverse array of clients in a variety of matters before the State and Federal Courts, and argued several cases before the New Jersey Supreme Court. He served on the Judicial and Prosecutorial Appointments Committee of the New Jersey State Bar Association. In 1981, he was appointed to the Superior Court of New Jersey where he served as Presiding Judge of the Civil Division at the time of his retirement in 1993. He continued to serve after being recalled to the Bench until 1996 when he fully retired. As a Judge, he practiced kindness and humility in his dealings with litigants, lawyers, and court personnel, as consistent with the requirements of law and justice. Paul Bangiola was elected Mayor of Morris Plains in 1960, and re-elected twice, serving from 1961-1967. At the time of his election, he was the only Democrat ever elected to any Morris Plains office in it's entire history. As Mayor of Morris Plains, he spearheaded the acquisition of the land to build Community Park. In order to persuade a reluctant Morris Plains Borough Council to complete the purchase the land now known as Community Park, the location of three baseball fields, a senior citizens center, municipal swimming pool and pond, he personally purchased an option to buy the land for a bargain price of $25,000.00 and then offered to transfer the property to the Borough for just the cost of the option-$100.00. The Borough Council finally agreed. As a Founding Member and first President of the Occupational Training Center for the Handicapped, he started the organization that has now evolved into Employment Horizons, a comprehensive regional training resource for those challenged by mental and physical disabilities. Paul Bangiola stood on the shovel that broke ground for the first building. His gifts to his family and many friends, who grieve his loss and celebrate his life are his memorable jokes, his faith in God, his love for others, his commitment to family, and his ability to bring out the best in everyone. He was married in 1946, and is survived by his beloved wife of 63 years, Elsie Alexander Bangiola; their eight children and their partners, Catherine and Stuart Feenstra of Stillwater, Theresa Landrigan of Edison, Mary and Ronald Phillips of Morris Plains, Donna Bangiola of Morristown, Barbara and B. Joseph Messner of Leawood Kansas, Margaret and Stephen Wilcox of Danville, Calif., Paul M. Bangiola and Nancy M. Bangiola of Morristown, and Robert J.A. Bangiola of New York City; 17 grandchildren, Jonathan Feenstra, Colin and Thomas Landrigan, Mathew and Megan Phillips, Edwin Eaton Fairfield, III, Daniel, Joseph, and Thomas Wilcox, Benedict, Anne, Mary, Mark and Christopher Messner, and Paul M., Jr., Gloria E., and Aldo Joseph Bangiola, and one great granddaughter, Ella Messner. He is also survived by two beloved sisters, Cecelia Bangiola of Parsippany, and Antionette Ayres of Delaware. He was predeceased by his sister, Madeline Bangiola, in 1970, and a granddaughter, Christine Marie Feenstra, in 1997. Viewing will be from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. Thursday, Nov. 12 at Dangler Funeral Home, 600 Speedwell Ave., Morris Plains. A Funeral Mass will be held at 10 a.m. Friday, Nov. 13 at St. Virgil's Parish. Interment at 11 a.m. Thursday, Jan. 7, 2010 at Arlington National Cemetery, Washington, D.C. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Employment Horizons, 10 Ridgedale Avenue, Cedar Knolls, NJ 07927.

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Published by Daily Record from Nov. 10 to Nov. 11, 2009.

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September 29, 2010

Terry,
I just got word of your Father's passing. It saddens me that i was not able to contact you during this time. It's been a long time since we talked and i'd love to catch up. Please email me at [email protected] or call 910-619-1303. God Bless,
Glenn Davis

Joshua Allfree

January 6, 2010

Dear Bangiola Family,

I'm saddened to hear of your loss, and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I have fond memories of Mr. Bangiola.

Ethan Allfree

December 2, 2009

Dear Bobby and Family,

I am very sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Mr. B was a wonderful man and always very welcoming and generous.

Jim Murray

November 22, 2009

To the Bangiola Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve the loss of Paul.

Our families have shared some wonderful times together.

Paul's love for his family, his community, the law, and his country,
has been a postive influence on all that have known him.

Arlington National Cemetery is the perfect resting place for a true American Hero.

Paul Bangiola, may you rest in peace.

November 19, 2009

I wa sad to hear about the death of your father. I only meet him a few time during your term as Morris county chairman. We will keep you and your family in our prayers
Joe(Carmel) Connolly, Chair, Long Hill Township County Committee

Peg Murray

November 15, 2009

Dearest Bangiola Family- It has been many years ago, but the first 20 years of my life were entwined with your warm and loving family, led by your dear husband and family. My memories are precious and I grieve with you.

Rachel Stein

November 15, 2009

Dear Paul and family,
Please accept my condolences to you and your family.
May G-d comfort you during this time of loss and sorrow.

Vickie (Reinert) Dugger

November 14, 2009

Mrs. Bangiola & Family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You loss a wonderful man.My Mother (Karen Reinert) & I met him as Judge Bangiola about 23 years ago. Yes as a teenager I was in front him several times as a juvenile. I always will remember him because he is the person who set me straight & becoming a good person. Also, the words he told the Mother (which he told her several times) I quote " Don't forget to put your car keys under you pillow every night". Well, Judge Bangiola, the keys are with you now so Rest in Peace & thank you so much for your compassion, concerns & saving my life with advice etc. I will always remember you & I always kept your suggestions & help in my mind for the rest of my life. God Bless You & Your Family. Luv Ya! With All My Love, Vickie (Reinert) Dugger

Mary & Austin Kelly

November 13, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

November 12, 2009

Elsie, with our sympathy! Cathy, Terry, Mary, Donna, Barbara, Peggy, Paul and Bobby, so sorry to of the loss of your father. Ceil and Antionette our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Prayers are with all of you!

Wish we could have made the services. Hope to see you all soon.
God bless,
Jocelyn Bangiolo Cresswell and Family(Potomac, MD)

Bonnie Marple

November 12, 2009

Terry,
He gave so much of himself to his Country and his Community ! But, what I will always remember the most was his devotion to his children and grandchildren.
Bonnie

November 12, 2009

Paul, Nancy & Family

I was sorry to hear about the death of your father. He lived a good life. I always liked and respected him. He was an American hero.

Tom Schiavo

Ann and Bill Allnutt

November 12, 2009

Terry,

We are so sorry to learn about the loss of your father. Though we never met him in person, he sounds like someone we would have enjoyed knowing. He must have been a truly great man. We hope you and your family can find peace in all the wonderful memories he left you with.

Please stay in touch when you can.

Love, prayers and sunshine

Jody L.

November 12, 2009

Terry, I was sad when I read your email about your dad, but I smiled my way through the entire obituary in the Star-Ledger. What an amazing man! What a full life! Will call when I'm back in NJ

Clyde & Gail Bangiola

November 11, 2009

Clyde & Gail are sorry to hear about the terrible loss of another family member. Paul will always be in our prayers & fond memories along with the family. I hope you will be able to view the pictures that we sent today on your computer. So happy that we had the opportunity to spend time this September with Paul & Elsie & other family members. He will be missed by many. Real Hero in more ways than one.
God Bless the Family

james griggs

November 11, 2009

was sorry to hear of paul's passing.we had a lot of fun and created a lot of memories when we were neighbors in morris plains i am sure that joyce will look him up when he arrives in heaven.

Daniel Murphy

November 11, 2009

My deepest condolences in you time of sorrow to the family>
I new Paul as a Ham Radio operator, A Member of Chapter 63 Disable Veterans, A great person. I went to School at St Virgil’s he was a few years ahead of me. I believe Antoinette was in my class. The lord had his place reserved in Heaven

November 11, 2009

Dear Elsie,

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We have such fond memories of the times we spent together. Our fun in Florida - early birds - bridge - visits to the parks.

It is such an honor to have such special friends.

Love & Prayers,

Mary & Bob Roff

November 11, 2009

Please accept my condolences for Paul. I knew him always as a man of great integrity, pride in his family, faith in his God, and accomplished jurist. The world is a better place because of his life. Catherine Langlois

Karen & Vickie Reinert

November 11, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Rafael Maradiaga

November 11, 2009

"My sincere condolences to Robert Bangiola and his family."

Ronald Kimbrough

November 11, 2009

My deepest condolences you are in my prayers

Robert MacLeod

November 11, 2009

Paul was a very good man, a wonderful Mayor , and a good friend. He will sadly be missed by everyone.

Tom Valiante

November 11, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Nancy Bettinger-Hitchner

November 10, 2009

Dear Elsie and family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of Paul. I have many wonderful memories of good conversations filled with laughter and jokes at the "Bettinger Ranch". He was a wonderful man and will be sorely missed. I hope that knowing he was loved by many will ease the burden of your grief. He is with Mom and Dad in Heaven and they are looking down on us. I'm sure they have a drink in their hands, and he and Dad are telling jokes! My love and prayers are with you all.

November 10, 2009

To Elsie and family, my Mother, Beverly Vance, worked with Paul for years. This is Pattie her daughter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Many fond memories of a wonderful man; friend to my Mom and family and the many snow days I spent with you guys and camping trip.

Lisa Masterhouse

November 10, 2009

Aunt Elsie (and family) - Please accept my deepest condolences in the loss of my godfather, Uncle Paul. I have lots of wonderful memories of times spent together laughing and joking at my parents house. May it help to comfort you that he will be missed by many as he was loved by many. Lots of love to you.

Angela Gibbs

November 10, 2009

Sorry to hear of your lost. What a wonderful man Judge Bangiola was, kind and sincere. I worked with him in the Morris County courts and he was such a kind and gentle man with a good soul. He had such a wonderful life. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends. Now he is resting in peace.

MaryEllen Mendl

November 10, 2009

Bobby and family,
I have very fond memories of your dad. He always seemed to know what we were up to! He lived a full life, loving and supporting others. The world lost a great man this week. My sympathies.

Cindy Cerillo

November 10, 2009

Dear Elsie and Family,
Please accept our deepest condolences in the loss of Paul. We have many happy memories of the Bangiolas and Bettingers getting together for barbeques and all of the laughter. Paul and you have been great friends to our family.

The love of each other will surely help you through this period of grief. God's peace to you.

Love,
All the Bettingers (Carol, Nancy, Stephen, Jimmy, Kevin, Cindy, Sheila, Janie, Lisa, Carl and spouses and families)

November 10, 2009

My husband and I knew Paul who attended our radio club meetings in Morris County Police and Fire Academy many years ago. Vincent and Amy Palazzo Hampstead NC We send our sympathies to the family.

November 10, 2009

My husband and I knew Paul who attended our radio club meetings in Morris County Police and Fire Academy many years ago. Vincent and Amy Palazzo Hampstead NC We send our sympathies to the family.

Suzanne Humphrey

November 10, 2009

November 10,2009
To the family of Uncle Paul and especially Aunt Elsie...Im at a loss of words..I will miss Uncle Pauls visits to Montana.I have always appreciated his love for the West.Sorry Im unable to attend the services however you will all be in my thoughts. What a great Man he was My Uncle Paul!...Suzanne Humphrey

Patricia Mazzatta

November 10, 2009

Elsie and Family,
Remembering all the kindnesses shown by you and Paul and sending my sympathies for his passing. He led a life very well spent.
Pat Mazzatta

Janet Blanchard

November 10, 2009

To the Bangiola Family,

My deepest condolences in your time of sorrow. May the Lord continue to keep your family.

Janet Blanchard

November 10, 2009

DEAR PAUL WHAT A FULL AND WONDERFUL LIFE YOU FATHER HAD. YOU HAVE MY MOST HEARTFUL SYMPATHY AT THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME. FRAN BRAVIAK

November 10, 2009

An incredible man - gentle and humble amidst a triumphant legacy.
Love and blessings to his family.

Juli Savettiere and Kate Connolly

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