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Barbara Rhoades Obituary

Barbara L. Rhoades

AGE: 84 • Formerly of Wilmington

Barbara L. Rhoades, of Burlington, NJ, went to be with her Lord on Monday, January 12, 2015.

She was born in Newark, DE to the late Alice and Cyrus Oakes and graduated from Wilmington HS in 1948. Shortly after graduation she married the late Rev. William H. Rhoades, Jr., where she was not only a "Pastor's Wife", but a homemaker and mother of 9 children. She was a member of Fountain of Life Center, Burlington, NJ.

Barbara is survived by her 3 sons, Rev. William H., III, (fiancée, Cheryl Cannon), Rev. Stephen P. (Susan) and David J. (Kristin); 6 daughters, Barbara E. Underwood (Richard), Linda A. Lobley (Edwin), Carol L. Brooks (Larry), Joan E. Gitaitis (Michael), Susan P. Lanza (Rev. John) and Phyllis J. Shipley (Rusty), 25 grandchildren, 24 great grandchildren; 2 brothers, John L. and James M. Heisler and 2 sisters, Nancy M. Heisler and Grace E. Daukas.

A funeral service will be held in New Jersey on Saturday, January 17, at 11 am, at Fountain of Life Center, 2035 Columbus Rd., Burlington, NJ, where a viewing will begin at 9am. A local funeral service will be held on Monday January 19, at 12 noon at First Assembly of God, 201 Hawthorne Dr, Wilmington, DE, where a viewing will be starting at 10am. Burial will be in Silverbrook Cemetery.

For online condolences visit: www.mccreryandharra.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News Journal from Jan. 14 to Jan. 16, 2015.

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NANCY HEISLER

January 19, 2015

My deepest condolences, Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

January 18, 2015

Pastor Billy,
Our deepest sympathy to you and all your family in the loss of your mom. What a glorious day in Heaven for her to see Jesus and be reunited with your Dad.
Pete & Betty Romano (FOL)

January 17, 2015

I will cherish you forever. 10

January 17, 2015

Sending love and prayers from the Henrys.

Karen Buhrman

January 16, 2015

Dusty, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

January 16, 2015

Barbie,
such a nice lady & family. my prayers are with you & your family at this time.
chris pollinger, Acme

Virginia Kellum

January 15, 2015

Barbara you have been there for me and I will keep your family in prayers, Love to all.

Benjamin Matwey

January 13, 2015

Mrs. Rhoades, hearing your soft voice of kindness shared with me every time I came into your home was your gift of respect and appreciation to me for so many of my formative years. I drove in front of your old Hockessin home today on Old Wilmington Road to hear your warm voice in the winter wind. Thank you.

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