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Carol Wightman Obituary
Gates: June 29, 2014, age 72. Predeceased by her husband, Ronald G. Wightman. Survived by her beloved companion of 31 years, John Delibert; her children, Christopher (Sandy) Wightman, Jeffrey Wightman (Christine Hollebrandt); grandchildren, Justin, Ronnie, Kristina, Jeffrey Jr. and Andrew; great-granddaughter, Liliana; her siblings, Janet (David) Baker, Sharon Stefanello, Raymond (Jessica) Hale, Valerie Hale, Susan (Gilbert) Tegg, George Benson, Nancy (Douglas) Hine, Dr. Raymond Belmonte and Elaine O'Donnell; special cousin, Beverly (Earl) Ruf; also many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. Carol was the manager of Merwin-Auto Services and Drive Line.
Memorial calling hours, WEDNESDAY 4-8 PM at the Falvo Funeral Home, 1295 Fpt. Nine Mile Point Road (Webster Rte 250). On Thursday family and friends are asked to go directly to St. Monica's Church (831 Genesee St., 14611) for the Celebration of her Funeral Mass at 11 AM. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the James P. Wilmot Cancer Institute, 300 River Road, PO Box 278996, Rochester 14627. Interment, Oakwood Cemetery.
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Memories and Condolences
for Carol Wightman
nancy hine
July 23, 2014
I was wondering if you could feel it in your heart when we think of you. My wish is that a warm feeling washes over you as we think of you or miss you, because that is what happens to me every time you come to mind. I miss you so much
Lollypop Farm
July 17, 2014
May your happy memories of Carol comfort you and ease your heart during this difficult time.
July 16, 2014
Carol,
I miss you. You will forever be in my heart.
Love You Susie
July 8, 2014
John, Chris and Jeff, so very sorry for the loss of Carol- I felt like part of the family speaking with carol, she always wanted to know how my boys were doing which just shows what a thoughtful person she was. she had a smile that is impossible to forget. God bless her, and her wonderful family.
Michele Skubis
nancy
July 6, 2014
I miss you today sister I woke up to tell you something but you are in heaven so I sent you the message anyways through God. Love you always
Tricia and Bill Kilpatrick
July 4, 2014
Janet,Dave and Family,
Our hearts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Keep her beautiful smile and memories close in your hearts.
with love
Tricia and Bill Kilpatrick
Mike, Tricia, Hailey and Anna Trapani
July 3, 2014
Our hearts are with you in this time of sorrow.
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Jerry Tomassini
July 3, 2014
My deepest sympathy.Remembering great times in the late 1950's.Time fly's but memory's last forever...RIP
Kristine
July 2, 2014
So very sad when I saw Carol's obit.I remember her very well,I just loved her sense of humor.To Chris and Jeff,even tho it has been many,many years since we shared a friendship(my last name was briefly..McKee)I will always remember how fun your mom was!May she rest in peace.'God is never more present,than when his children are suffering.' May you all find peace.
tina dinsmore
July 2, 2014
To Chris and Jeff and family. We are truly sorry for the loss of Carol. She was a great person and will be truly missed everyday. Love u guys. Always
Tina and Jasmine and Darnell
Debbie and Lee covill
Ricky Trottier
July 2, 2014
To John, Chris & Family,
Carol was a very special person, She will be greatly missed, My Thoughts and Prayers are with you, your Families and Carol.
THE MACHOWSKI FAMILY
July 2, 2014
TO THE ENTIRE WIGHTMAN FAMILY , OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU DURING THESE SAD TIMES !!!
MACHOWSKI FAMILY
July 2, 2014
OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE WHOLE WIGHTMAN FAMILY AND FRIENDS !!!
L Pudetti
July 2, 2014
Chris-So sorry for your loss.
Christine
July 1, 2014
I am blessed to have known Aunt Carol for so long. Her and I had so much in common and she always loved and accepted me and my children no matter what. She has truly made my life better. She was the example on how to treat people in good times and in bad.
Karen McEwen
July 1, 2014
Dear John, Chris, Jeffrey, Janet, Susie, Sharon, Raymond, and all the family,
Carol was one of the nicest people I have ever known. She became a great friend to me at a young age; her quick laugh, great sense of humor, balance, love of family, understanding, and ease of doing anything made such a great impression on me. The world has lost such a beautiful light, and I am greatly saddened. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Much love, Karen Machowski McEwen
Thomas Doherty
July 1, 2014
Chris and Jeff. So sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family.
Eric Welch
July 1, 2014
Chris, Ronnie and family very sorry for loss, our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Eric Welch/ Steve Hockenberger
PJ Industrial Supply
Emmanuel Church of the Deaf
July 1, 2014
The community of Emmanuel Church of the Deaf extend our deepest sympathy to John and Carol's family. You will continue to be in our prayers. God bless.
Eddie Machowski
July 1, 2014
So very sorry for the loss of Carol, a friend and very good ex boss.
Josie Hiler
July 1, 2014
Chris, Jeff, so sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. The Hiler's
Kenn Mastrodonato
July 1, 2014
Sorry for your Family's loss Chris. She was a Fine Woman, with always something nice to say , whenever I would see her ,Again Chris You & Her Family have my heartfelt condolences.
Marilyn Parchus
July 1, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. Carol was a jewel and a wonderful delight to be around. I will miss her dearly!
Marilyn Parchus
North Winton Village Neighborhood Assoc.
Karen Markajani
July 1, 2014
Chris, Sandy and family...I am deeply sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tom DeBellis
July 1, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You were loved tremendously by everyone and will be greatly missed. Thank you for always being so kind to me. I hope to see you again in another life.
Patty (Machowski) Lewis
July 1, 2014
I always loved Carol! Her smile and loving ways always made you feel welcome. Although she will be missed by many here, I also know she will have a rip roaring time in Heaven. I also know she will be one of the many to greet us all when it is our time.
Rest in peace Carol
July 1, 2014
Aunt Carol,
Thank you for always making us laugh, your smile was contagious. We will miss you with all of our hearts.
Susan
July 1, 2014
RIP Carol. You were a pioneer woman who showed me as a young girl that being a woman meant we could do anything! Your infectious smile and winning attitude will be missed. Barbara Jean (Machowski) Germano
Carol and Liliana
Nancy Hine
July 1, 2014
My Beautiful sister Carol, Thank you for showing me the way. I love you dearly and I will miss you always. Kiss Mommy and Dad for us.
Dave Pailthorpe
July 1, 2014
I believe that Carol is with the angels, saints and is in heaven. I feel honored to know her and remember all the good times we had.
Marie Gillman
July 1, 2014
Sympathy & Blessings to Carols family. She was a fine woman
Kim May
July 1, 2014
To John and Carol's family:
May the memories you have help you through this difficult time. She fought to stay with us even in her pain...what a remarkable lady she was! My deepest sympathy.
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