Patricia L. Cross

Patricia Cross Obituary

CROSS Patricia L. (Morrison) Cross died on July 15, 2007 in Sarasota, Florida. She fought hard to the end, and spent her last days in the place where she had always hoped to retire. Her battle with diabetes and its complications was long and difficult. Pat attended both Johnstown and Granville schools and had worked for OSU Hospitals and Newark Trust Bank. Her most beloved career was as the school secretary for Northridge Hartford School. She was an Emergency Medical Technician and understood what it took to be the wife and mother of a police officer and firefighter. Her generosity to others will not be forgotten. She is preceded in death by her husband of 37 years Richard Cross, daughter Diana (Cross) Strider, father Raymond Morrison and son-in-law Bill Holbrook. She is survived by her mother, Alice Bernsdorf; daughter, Cheryl Holbrook; son, Jeffrey Cross; brothers, Robert (Carol) Morrison and Phillip (Evelyn) Morrison; and grandson, Jonathan Strider. Her sidekick Raggs the dog will miss her dearly, as well as all of her many loving relatives and friends. Calling hours will be held at the CROUSE KAUBER SAMMONS FUNERAL HOME, 225 N. Main Street, Johnstown, Ohio on Sunday, July 22, 2007 between 2-4 p.m. and 6-8 p.m. Funeral will be held on Monday, July 23, 2007 at 10 a.m. at the funeral home and burial will take place at the Hartford Cemetery in Croton, Ohio immediately following the service. In lieu of flowers, spend time with a loved one, perform an act of kindness to a stranger and give to your favorite charity. "Sign the online guestbook at www.dispatch.com/obituaries"

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Jul. 20 to Jul. 21, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Patricia Cross

11 Entries

David Swaney

July 30, 2007

We are sorry to hear of your loss. We were out of town and just heard today. Our prayers are with you.
Dave and Barbara Swaney

Nora May

July 26, 2007

The Cross Family; We are so sorry for your loss. We remember Pat from Hartford. She was always a light to our daughters. We were out of town and did not know of her passing. God Bless You All
The Jim May Family (Jim, Nora, Patricia & Teresa)

Hook's Oxygen & Medical Equiptment

July 24, 2007

We are very sorry to hear of the passing of Patricia. She will be missed dearly. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Mary Kindle

July 21, 2007

Cheryl and Jeff, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. God holds us in the palm of his hand while on this earth with unconditional love. He welcomes us into his heavens with huggs and a well done. Your mother is being welcomed by all those she loved and have passed what a reunion that must be. You as well as the rest of your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings to you all. Mary Kindle

Douglas and Michelle Kindle

July 20, 2007

Jeff and Cheryl, Please except our sympathy in your hour of your Moms passing.Our prayers go out to you both and your familys.

Kim Hobbs

July 20, 2007

Jeff and Cheryl, I know that you both are going to miss your mom. I remember so fondly all the fun times we use to have at the Hartford Fair - that is usually the only time we ever saw each other and we only lived a few miles away. I am praying for you all and hope you know that we all are here for you. We know your hurt and your loss personally. Love to you always.
Kim (Duke)Hobbs and family.

Kathy Kindle

July 20, 2007

Jeff and Cheryl,

Please know how much your Mother was truly loved by all who knew her and how much you both loved her. Thank you both for allowing me to get to know her and to hear her laughter and see her smile. She was a very special person to me who is in a much better place and with her husband, daughter, and Father. She's in pain no longer and when times get tough, put your left hand on your right shoulder and your right hand on your left shoulder and squeeze; it's a hug from me to you being sent with lots of love and support. If either of you need anything, you have my number. Call anytime, day or night. You both are in my thoughts and prayers, now, always, and forever.

Crystal Napier Buxton

July 20, 2007

Jeff, I know how much you are going to miss spending time with your mom – treasure every minute you got to spend with her. She was a very special person who had a gift for making people feel her love and warmth. She left behind an incredible legacy in you – a very caring and loving son who cared for his mother through every day of a tough journey of illness. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, and know that I’m always here for you. My love to you always - Crissy

JOHN HANEY

July 20, 2007

I will always remember Pat. Pat Dick were a team. I can't tell all the fun we use to have. Those were some of the best days of my life. Pat was so funny,not only when she and all of us were drinking[ Sneaky Pete]. I loved the saying she used to say [TOUGHTY Woufy] I don't know if I spelled that right,but get the picture I'm sure she will give Dick some trouble for leaving her so soon. We talked about all of us when we retired, moving to Flordia. Dick and I would be on the beach renting out umbrellas. Funny thing is, I all but forgot that,till one day after I reired to Florida I got a job on the beach doing that same thing. One day on the beach it came back to me,I got chills thinking about it. Dick hadn't forgotten, he made my dream come true . They were a pair, I loved them as you who knew them .

Paula Smith

July 20, 2007

I loved Pat as much as I did DIck and Diana. I am sorry for your lost but I am glad she is at peace. She longed to be with her husband and daughter. She loved the rest of us, but she was too tired to fight to stay on this earth. WIth all my love. Paula. Please call me when you feel up to it.

Amber Napier Finck

July 20, 2007

Jeff-find happiness in the loving years you had with your mother and find joy in her pursuit of ever lasting life. Know those around you are here to help you in this time of sorrow. I found this poem I thought would bring you comfort. I LOVE YOU sweet brother! -Amber
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Loss of Mother Poem

Now that I am gone,
remember me with smiles and laughter.
And if you need to cry,
cry with your brother or sister
who walks in grief beside you.
And when you need me,
put your arms around anyone
and give to them what you need to give to me.
There are so many who need so much.
I want to leave you something --
something much better than words or sounds.
Look for me in the people I've known
or helped in some special way.
Let me live in your heart
as well as in your mind.
You can love me most
by letting your love reach out to our loved ones,
by embracing them and living in their love.
Love does not die, people do.
So, when all that's left of me is love,
give me away as best you can.

~ Author unknown