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Alan Neishi Obituary

ALAN K. NEISHI Age 52, passed away in Castro Valley on October 6, 2005. Alan was born in Oakland on December 1, 1952 to Hideso and Julia Neishi. Alan was an extraordinary father to Mikey, 10, and Ryan, 7, and a wonderful husband to Marcia who will miss his presence so much. He will be remembered for all of his kindness and unselfish ways. Alan will be missed not only by his entire family who loved him so much, but also by his enormous circle of friends. His generous heart will never be forgotten. Alan is survived by his wife of 11 years, Marcia Neishi of Castro Valley; his parents, Hideso and Julia Neishi of San Leandro; 2 sons, Mikey and Ryan and one brother, Dan Neishi of San Leandro. A memorial service to celebrate Alan's life will be held on October 15, 2005, 5:00 p.m. at the Oakland Buddhist Church, 825 Jackson St., Oakland, CA. Chapel of the Chimes 510-471-3363 "Service of Marked Distinction" www.chapelofthechimes.com

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Published by ANG Newspapers on Oct. 12, 2005.

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Bob Edmonston

August 25, 2025

I knew Alan only for a short time 1973/74 while we were doing our military schooling in Virginia. We developed a friendship during that short time which certainly helped me get through our training. After we both went back to homes after training, we kept in touch through letters. I actually visited Al for a week in 1974 and stayed at his home in San Leandro. He had very nice parents as I remember. I was looking up old friends when I came across his obituary. It saddened me but it appeared as if he enjoyed a good life. RIP Al.

Marvi Choy

October 13, 2005

Dearest Marcia, Mikey and Ryan,

We are truly blessed to know your family. In the short time we have known Alan, we will remember him most for his big heart and generosity. His friendship was a gift to us all.

Love and prayers,

Gary, Marvi, Stephen and Christopher Choy

Nancy & Carl Kimm

October 12, 2005

Dear Marcia, Mikey, and Ryan

Our deepest sympathies. May all of your memories keep Alan alive forever in your hearts.

Always,

Carl, Nancy, and Jonathan Kimm

Cynthia Mulholand

October 12, 2005

Dear Marcia, Mikey & Ryan,

My deepest condolences and prayers go out to you and to the rest of your family. Alan was a great friend, nurseryman and golfer. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Always in my prayers. Cindy Mulholand

Kathie Sakamoto - Decker

October 12, 2005

Marcia and Family,



Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. With Deepest Sympathy.



Kathie and Curt

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