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David P. Nelson

1947 - 2020

David P. Nelson obituary, 1947-2020, Erie, PA

BORN

1947

DIED

2020

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2122 Raspberry Street

Erie, Pennsylvania

David Nelson Obituary

David P. "Digger" Nelson, 73, passed away Thursday, September 24, 2020 at UPMC Hamot. He was born May 23, 1947 in Erie, a son of the late Rexford K. and Dorothy Blodgett Nelson.

David attended Strong Vincent High School, graduating in 1965. He was an accomplished athlete in his youth competing in swimming and track and field. While in high school, he was named to the Scholastic All-American swim team numerous times and swam many record times in individual events. He was the world record holder in the 60-yard freestyle and featured in the swim magazine, "Swimmers Ready". David was also the PIAA State Champion in the 50-yard freestyle and freestyle relay. As a member of the Colonel track team he was City Champion in several events and went on to be named "Athlete of the Year" by the Erie Coaches Association. He spent his summers as a lifeguard at Presque Isle.

He earned a swimming scholarship from Syracuse University where among his numerous wins he set a school record in the 50-yard freestyle. He was inducted in the Erie Sports Hall of Fame in 2006 and was one of the first to be inducted in the Northwest PA Aquatic Hall of Fame.

David attended Syracuse and Gannon Universities and received a degree in psychology. He worked for National Fuel Gas, retiring after more than 30 years. He was a skilled woodworker and loved to fish and golf with his boys. David cherished his time spent with family and friends.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his sister, Barbara Fitting and a brother, John Nelson, who died serving his country in Vietnam in 1969.

He is survived by his wife of 52 years, Mary M. Benacci Nelson; sons, Jon D. Nelson (Jennifer) and Robert K. Nelson; his sister, Marty Nelson; grandson, Jacob Nelson; bonus granddaughters, Lauryn and Ryleigh Robie; his brothers-in-law, Robert Benacci and Joseph Benacci (Sandy); and sister-in-law, Nancy Cox (Michael). "Uncle Digger" is further survived by his nephews, Tim Benacci (Jennifer), and Matthew Benacci (Allison); his niece, Alexandra Benacci; and many great nieces and nephews.

Friends are invited to call on Sunday at the John R. Orlando Funeral Home, Inc., 2122 Raspberry Street, Erie, PA 16502 from 3:00 p.m. until the time of service there at 7:00 p.m. Visitors are required to wear masks and abide by social distancing standards. In lieu of flowers David would want you to take someone you love out to dinner. To send condolences visit www.orlandofuneralhome.com.

Sign the Guestbook at www.GoErie.com/obits.

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Published by Erie Times-News on Sep. 26, 2020.

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Sharon Christopher

September 20, 2022

Miss and think of you every day.
To one of the best man I´ve ever known.
Love you, Sharon and Dennis

DALE COOK

September 28, 2020

Jon & Jen:
So sorry to see about this. I know how close you were to your father. I know you will always cherish the memories.

Dale

Stephen DiRaimo

September 27, 2020

You couldn’t meet a nicer more humble person than Dave. My sincere condolences to Mary and the entire family. Sorry I can’t be there to express my condolences in person.
Respectfully, Steve DiRaimo.

Nancy Zurn

September 27, 2020

Mary and Family. I know words,however kind, can’t mend your heartache. I am so sorry for your loss. Remember Dave from Strong Vincent. Such a great guy. Thinking of you with sympathy and heartfelt condolences.

Nancy Zurn

Tom Robie

September 27, 2020

To the entire Nelson family , iam truly saddened by ur loss, Dave was a great guy & family man ! I sorry to miss viewing ! Rip dave

Tom Robie

September 27, 2020

To the entire Nelson family , iam truly saddened by ur loss ! Dave was a great guy & family man ! So sorry I can't attend viewing leaving for va today !

Deacon Tom Matusiak

September 27, 2020

Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord,and may perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and all the souls of the faithful departed rest in peace. Amen

Pete Rounds

September 26, 2020

A great friend for 61 years. Best athlete I ever knew, but a better person. Great sense of humor and all around good guy. Loved his family and his friends

Gloria Carlson

September 26, 2020

Dear Mary, Jon, and Rob, I felt so sad to learn of David’s passing. Please know that my love, thoughts, and prayers are being sent your way. Surround yourself with family and friends. It helps tremendously.

Jamie and Barbara Ferrare

September 26, 2020

Mary and Family,
Barbara and I were so sorry to learn of David's passing and extend our sincere sympathy to you and your family. We have wonderful memories of David, dating to our high school days and beyond. In our early married years, we recall with great fondness the times we spent together, the fun we had and the respect we gained for David - the friendship he shared, the love of family he modeled and his easy and caring manner. In this time of sorrow, we hope that you will hold close the memories of David and many of the good times you shared together - those memories will bring a smile to your face and allow you and family to remember David for all his wonderful ways. Please know that we will keep David and all of your family in our thoughts and prayers. With love and sadness, Jamie and Barbara

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Brian Gallagher

September 26, 2020

To the Nelson Family,

Your Dad/Husband was a very special person in my life, especially in my days at Penn State. His sense of humor and genuine caring for others was always on display. When you came into the Nelson home, you were treated as one of their own and felt a genuine love -- the door was always open. He made a positive impact on my life (especially as a father), and I'm sorry I haven't seen him for some time. I can still hear his laugh.....always young at heart. You're all in my thoughts and prayers....

Brian Gallagher

SHARON CHRISTOPHER

September 26, 2020

David was the sweetest, dearest man I have ever known. I will think of you often and use your cutting board every day to thank you for all you had done for me and my girls. Rest in peace my dear man. Love you. Sharon

David J. Brown

September 26, 2020

Dave was one of Strong Vincent's last in a long tradition of truly great swimmers and conducted himself with class. He was a gem in SV's Class of 1965.

JonBoy

September 25, 2020

I love you dad. I could always count on you for anything. I wish we could throw a line one more time. I wish I could call you for advice one more time. Please watch over your family and friends who are left here without you, but we remain with love in our hearts for you. Best dad ever...my buddy...

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