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Peter Barthelmes Obituary

Peter J. Barthelmes "Mr. Pete," 50, of Waterford, passed away at Millcreek Community Hospital, on September 26, 2018, following a lengthy illness. He was born on August 9, 1968, in Erie, Pa.

Peter graduated from Fairview High School and went on to Edinboro University and obtained an Associate Degree in Social Work. Peter worked for 20 years with at-risk youth as a child development specialist in Erie County. The children "Mr. Pete" worked with held a special place in his heart. Peter played in the band the Acoustic Refugees and his favorite gig, because he could take his kids, was playing for The Golden Gloves fundraiser each year. Peter loved camping and always kept the fire going with music, jokes and endless conversation. He will be remembered by his children for his love of music, Jeopardy, The Simpsons, the Raiders, and his undeniable love for their mom, Paula. Peter married Paula Rene Anderson on May 16, 1998.

He was preceded in death by his father, Terry F. Barthelmes, who passed just two short weeks prior to Peter's death. He is further preceded by his Golden "Reteaser," Abby.

In addition to his wife, Peter is survived by mother, Lita Lander Barthelmes; brother, Scott (Linda) Barthelmes Pittsburgh, Pa.; sister, Lori Barthelmes Yukon, Okla.; children, David (Brittany) Anderson of Erie, Jesse (Shaddow Walters) Anderson of Wattsburg, and Tori (Alex) Cochrane of Fort Drum, N.Y.; and granddaughters, his pride and joy, Leyla, Lauralie, and Lainey. Peter's pup, Shelby, and kitty, Sylvia, never left his side.

Special thank you goes to Dr. Brian Viviano, Dr. Eric Milie and Dr. AJ Farris for never letting Peter give up hope.

A Celebration of Life Memorial Service will be held at St. John's Lutheran Church, 2216 Peach Street, on Saturday, October 6, 2018 at 3:30 p.m. with the Rev. Erik Young officiating. Memorial contributions may be designated to the family through the Scott Funeral Home, 2104 Myrtle Street, Erie, PA 16502.

View the on-line obituary and send condolences at www.ScottFuneralHomeErie.com.

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Published by Erie Times-News on Oct. 4, 2018.

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Lisa Melaragno

October 11, 2018

Dear Paula & family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts & prayers.
Your former co-worker from Hamot transcription

Julie Nolan

October 9, 2018

My deepest sympathy to Pete's family. He was my classmate in high school. Such a great guy, very fun and kind to all. May you rest in peace Pete.

October 6, 2018

We offer our condolences. We pray in your behalf, and we offer the hope of welcoming back our loved ones on a Paradise earth. Psm 37:29

Aunt Jane

October 6, 2018

Love You Peter will never forget you

Nicest man you would ever know. Loved ever person he knew and ever stranger he didnt. Purest kindest heart I have known. Miss you

Barbara Royer

October 5, 2018

October 5, 2018

I had the pleasure of being in the Acoustic Refugees with Pete, his heart and great musical talent put a smile on everyone's face, the world is a lot less brighter without him, I will miss him greatly. - Charlie Peyton

Paula Barthelmes

October 4, 2018

Paula BARTHELMES

October 4, 2018

Janice Sayers

October 4, 2018

I had the wonderful privilege of experiencing the joy and hope Mr. Pete offered to his clients as I worked alongside him at the school. I will always remember how he generously shared his amazing talent, especially at our Kindergarten Fun and Free Stuff events, and how he had such a sincere love and compassion for the children he served.
Praying that God will Bless you and give you Peace at this sad time.

Jesse Anderson

October 4, 2018

Kristin Kindle-Oswalt

October 4, 2018

Paula and Family, I'm so very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy goes out to Paula and ur children. He was a great guy,he will be missed by so many. My prayers are with you all. I'm just lost for words im just very sorry. Thinking Of You All..

Smith Family

October 4, 2018

My condolances to family and friends. Prayers to you all. Mr. Pete was one of my son's provider's in the past. Great guy. He will surely be missed by many.
May you find strength and peace during this time.

October 4, 2018

Paula and family We are very sorry for your lost of a great man and glad we had the pleasure of knowing him . May god be with all of you at this difficult time he's in a good place,if there's anything you need let us know . Love always your other family, Jim and Sue Dempsey and family

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