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Edward Whitesides Obituary

CLOVER, SC -Edward Steele "Buddy" Whitesides, M.D., of Windy Ridge Farm, Clover, husband of Margaret Baldwin Rowland Plowden, passed away on Saturday, October 28, at the age of 94, at the Wayne T. Patrick Hospice House in Rock Hill.

Born on June 17, 1923 in Gastonia, N.C. to Major Vance Whitesides and Lillian McCown Whitesides, Dr. Whitesides faithfully served God, his family and mankind. He was educated in the Gastonia public schools and was a graduate of Davidson College and the Duke University School of Medicine. He was a member of First Associate Reformed Presbyterian Church in Gastonia, where he served as an elder, taught Sunday School, and sang in the choir.

During World War II, he served in the U.S. Army in the European Theatre of Operations. Dr. Whitesides married George Anne Robertson of York, S.C. in 1948 and they initially lived in Durham while he was in medical school. Following the completion of his medical education and training, they moved to Gastonia, where he practiced orthopedic surgery for more than 40 years. They had been married for more than 60 years at the time of Mrs. Whitesides' death in 2009. In 2010 he married Margaret, a long-time friend of Dr. Whitesides and George Anne. Up until Dr. Whitesides' final illness, the couple divided their time among Windy Ridge Farm, Wedgefield, S.C. and Bennetts Point, S.C., where they were instrumental in the founding and construction of the Bennetts Point Interdenominational Chapel.

In addition to his medical practice in Gastonia, Dr. Whitesides was deeply committed to medical mission work in Haiti. Beginning in the 1970s, his involvement included arranging the shipment of hospital equipment to a newly built 50-bed hospital in Bonne Fin. That hospital would be known as the Hospital of Light. Several times a year for many years, Dr. Whitesides and his medical partner Dr. Robert Blake traveled to Bonne Fin to treat the impoverished people of Haiti. Dr. Whitesides was instrumental in the creation in 1987 of Lumiere Medical Ministries, a Christian non-profit that today supports Christian medical missions across Haiti. At the time of his death, he was a director emeritus on Lumiere's board of directors. His last visit to Haiti was in 2010 to attend the ribbon-cutting ceremony for a new hospital, King's Hospital in Port-au-Prince, of which Lumiere Medical Ministries is a supporting partner. During that visit, the "Great White Doctor," as he was often called by patients, had a joyful reunion with many Haitian friends, some of whom he had not seen in 25 years.

During his time practicing in Gastonia, he served on a number of medical boards and committees including the Board of Governors of the American Academy of Orthopaedic Surgery; member and vice-chair of the Board of Gastonia Health Care; and Chief of Staff of the former Gaston Memorial Hospital, today known as CaroMont Regional Medical Center. Dr. Whitesides was also instrumental in the organization of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes chapter in Gastonia. For years, he, along with his wife and daughters, attended the FCA summer camps near Black Mountain, N.C. He also served as the team doctor for local high school football games.

A man of many interests, he was an avid hunter, fisherman, trainer of dogs and horses, farmer and gardener. He played the piano and he sang for many years with the Gastonia Choral Society.

He also enjoyed making Southwestern Native American turquois-and- silver jewelry, which he would sign "EZW" - for the whimsically self-named "Edward Zuni Whitesides." He owned and piloted an airplane, having learned to fly in self-defense, fearing what might happen if something befell one of the pilots of the little two-seater planes used in flying him to and from in Haiti.

Dr. Whitesides is survived by his wife, Margaret; his two daughters, Maryanne Whitesides of Windy Ridge Farm and Roseanne Whitesides (married to Jeff Rockholt) also of Windy Ridge Farm; grandson Cole Nichols (Amy) of Colonial Beach, Va.; and a sister, Mary Lou Pearson of Gastonia. He is also survived by stepchildren Charles G. Rowland (Sylvia) of Walterboro, S.C., Earle Rowland (Denise) of Paxville, S.C., Louise R. Burns (Jim) of Camden, S.C., and by numerous nieces and nephews.

In addition to his first wife George Anne, he was predeceased by a sister, Anne Whitesides Alexander.

The family extends its heartfelt gratitude to the staff of the Wayne T. Patrick Hospice House for the tender care and comfort provided to Dr. Whitesides during his final days.

A celebration of his life will be held at First ARP Church, 317 South Chester Street in Gastonia at 1:00 p.m. on Thursday, November 2, 2017. The family will receive friends at the church following the service. Burial will be private.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to First ARP Church, 317 S. Chester St., Gastonia SC 28052; Lumiere Medical Ministries, 510 S. First Street, Lowell NC 28098; or to the charity of one's choice.

Condolence messages may be sent online at www.McLeanFuneral.com.

McLean Funeral Directors of Gastonia is serving the Whitesides family.

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Published by Gaston Gazette on Oct. 31, 2017.

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Jim Harrington

April 4, 2019

I didn't know of Dr. Whitesides' home going until recently. Know that he's in the presence of the King of Kings. I used to attend the ARP church in the late 70's, and sang in the choir with Dr. Whitesides, as well as in the Gaston Choral Society. I loved the way he sang with gusto and authority, giving it his all. Moreover, he was faithful to his call to which God led him. Look forward to seeing him at The House.

Valerie Morquette

November 3, 2017

We extend our most heartfelt sympathies to the Whitesides family and close ones. Dr. Buddy Whitesides was a longtime friend to our family and a tireless benefactor to Haiti. We shall cherish his memory.
The Morquettes and the King's Organization family

Rick Aberle

November 1, 2017

My the Lord be with the Whitesides Family at this time. Blessings and Love from the Hôpital Lumière Missionary Family.

Rick Aberle
Missionary and Administrator
Hopital Lumiere
Bonne Fin Haiti

Garry & Mitzi Barker

November 1, 2017

We have such wonderful memories of Dr Whitesides and Dr Blake coming to work at Hôpital Lumière in Haiti, both the work they did and the meals we shared together. God bless his family as you remember him and miss him.

Janie and Rhea Spencer

October 31, 2017

Second Dad was a wonderful man, full of kindness and grace. He always had a smile and kind word. I remember when we were at Holden Beach and Margaret and he were there with with Rosie and I and we sat out on the patio and talked , could see Jesus through him and I felt like I was one of his kids. Loved him for that. May God comfort this loving family at this time of loss. Love u Rosie ,Margaret and family!!

Patricia Bartlett

October 31, 2017

To Mary Anne and all the Whitesides family, I send my deepest condolences to you all. What a long and wonderful life Dr. Whitesides led, what a remarkable, giving soul! I know he will be missed. My memories are from Mary Ann's years with me at Salem Academy and I was always happy to see him--- he was a great Salem dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Mary Anne, and your family as you go through this loss. Blessings and peace, Patricia Eckbert Bartlett

Debra Lee-Black

October 31, 2017

My thoughts and condolences are with you all during this time of grief. Dr. Whitesides was one of the best ortho doctors in Gastonia. I worked with him from 1975-1980 at GMH. His patients all truly loved him as did we nurses there!! May his memory live on with his mission work in Haiti and in your lives. God Bless you all.

Ethel Pettigrew

October 31, 2017

I Really only knew Buddy as Margaret's husband, but he seemed to be a very kind man. He was always so kind to my family, even though we were only stepchildren of Margaret. His gentleness was so evident. He will be greatly missed.

Mary Harris

October 31, 2017

I had the pleasure of working with Dr Whitesides in the 80s at Gaston Memorial on the orthopedic floor and when I think of him I think of kindness and respect and pleasant memories . I know He is reaping his reward in heaven after helping so many people here and may he Rest In Peace ! We know he deserves it.

October 30, 2017

May the God of all comfort be with you during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. My heartfelt condolences to the family during this time of sorrow. (1Corinthains 15:26) Please find peace in knowing that God understands your grief and He cares. 1 Peter 5:6, 7

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