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Jim Harrington
April 4, 2019
I didn't know of Dr. Whitesides' home going until recently. Know that he's in the presence of the King of Kings. I used to attend the ARP church in the late 70's, and sang in the choir with Dr. Whitesides, as well as in the Gaston Choral Society. I loved the way he sang with gusto and authority, giving it his all. Moreover, he was faithful to his call to which God led him. Look forward to seeing him at The House.
Valerie Morquette
November 3, 2017
We extend our most heartfelt sympathies to the Whitesides family and close ones. Dr. Buddy Whitesides was a longtime friend to our family and a tireless benefactor to Haiti. We shall cherish his memory.
The Morquettes and the King's Organization family
Rick Aberle
November 1, 2017
My the Lord be with the Whitesides Family at this time. Blessings and Love from the Hôpital Lumière Missionary Family.
Rick Aberle
Missionary and Administrator
Hopital Lumiere
Bonne Fin Haiti
Garry & Mitzi Barker
November 1, 2017
We have such wonderful memories of Dr Whitesides and Dr Blake coming to work at Hôpital Lumière in Haiti, both the work they did and the meals we shared together. God bless his family as you remember him and miss him.
Janie and Rhea Spencer
October 31, 2017
Second Dad was a wonderful man, full of kindness and grace. He always had a smile and kind word. I remember when we were at Holden Beach and Margaret and he were there with with Rosie and I and we sat out on the patio and talked , could see Jesus through him and I felt like I was one of his kids. Loved him for that. May God comfort this loving family at this time of loss. Love u Rosie ,Margaret and family!!
Patricia Bartlett
October 31, 2017
To Mary Anne and all the Whitesides family, I send my deepest condolences to you all. What a long and wonderful life Dr. Whitesides led, what a remarkable, giving soul! I know he will be missed. My memories are from Mary Ann's years with me at Salem Academy and I was always happy to see him--- he was a great Salem dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Mary Anne, and your family as you go through this loss. Blessings and peace, Patricia Eckbert Bartlett
Debra Lee-Black
October 31, 2017
My thoughts and condolences are with you all during this time of grief. Dr. Whitesides was one of the best ortho doctors in Gastonia. I worked with him from 1975-1980 at GMH. His patients all truly loved him as did we nurses there!! May his memory live on with his mission work in Haiti and in your lives. God Bless you all.
Ethel Pettigrew
October 31, 2017
I Really only knew Buddy as Margaret's husband, but he seemed to be a very kind man. He was always so kind to my family, even though we were only stepchildren of Margaret. His gentleness was so evident. He will be greatly missed.
Mary Harris
October 31, 2017
I had the pleasure of working with Dr Whitesides in the 80s at Gaston Memorial on the orthopedic floor and when I think of him I think of kindness and respect and pleasant memories . I know He is reaping his reward in heaven after helping so many people here and may he Rest In Peace ! We know he deserves it.
October 30, 2017
May the God of all comfort be with you during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. My heartfelt condolences to the family during this time of sorrow. (1Corinthains 15:26) Please find peace in knowing that God understands your grief and He cares. 1 Peter 5:6, 7
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