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Bailey, Ralph E.
Ralph E. Bailey, 92, passed away peacefully on February 1 in Greenwich, Connecticut surrounded by his loving family and friends. Born on March 23, 1924 in Pike County, Indiana and the son of Enos M. and Gertie L. Bailey, Ralph became a distinguished veteran of the coal and petroleum industries. The former Chairman and CEO of Conoco Inc., he helped mastermind the largest corporate merger of its day when Conoco was acquired by DuPont in 1981, after which he additionally served as Vice Chairman of DuPont. He is regarded not only for his impressive accomplishments as an executive, but also for his early staunch commitment to safety, engineering and improving operations.
Ralph was raised in Lynnville, Indiana where his father and many relatives worked in the coal mines. Following his World War II service in Patton's Third Army, he returned home in 1945 to marry his high school sweetheart, Bettye J. Holder, and complete his Bachelor of Science degree in Mechanical Engineering in 1949 from Purdue University. After graduation, Mr. Bailey joined Peabody Coal Company (formerly Northern Illinois Coal Corporation) and rose from Master Mechanic to Executive Vice President in 1964. While at Peabody, his leadership and creativity paved the way for major gains in coal mining productivity with the use of a new generation of giant shovels and draglines.
In 1965, he joined Consolidation Coal Company (Consol) as Vice President, and became its President and CEO in 1975. Mr. Bailey is credited with many innovations, including the first longwall system to operate in eastern bituminous coal, now the standard for efficient underground mining. His namesake Bailey Mine in Southwestern Pennsylvania is among the more productive and higher volume underground coal mines in the United States.
As important as productivity was Mr. Bailey's commitment to employees and their families. He treated all, from miners to executives, with the same dignity and respect. In conversation, he listened with mind and heart, personally knew many family members, and rarely forgot a name. He championed a grass roots program at Consol to greatly improve the health and safety for both underground and surface miners, and the dramatic results set a new standard for the industry. Lost time accidents, injuries and fatalities were all greatly reduced, while fires, floods and explosions were virtually eliminated. The "Ralph E. Bailey Safety Trophy", awarded to operations that worked a million man-hours without a lost time accident, was a reminder of his commitment to the safety of miners and his principled and compassionate leadership.
Consol was acquired by Conoco in 1965 and Mr. Bailey later rose to be Chairman and CEO of Conoco by 1979. He led the company through its merger with DuPont in 1981 and subsequently retired from Conoco and DuPont in 1987. He then joined his son, Douglas, at American Bailey Corporation, which they co-founded in 1984 as a privately-owned investment company. During his career, he served as President of the American Mining Congress (AMC) and received AMC's Distinguished Service Award for his industry contributions. He also served as Chairman of the National Petroleum Council, Chairman of the Environmental Task Force of the Business Roundtable, and Director of the American Petroleum Institute. Purdue University awarded him an honorary Doctorate in Engineering in 1979 and he was inducted into the National Mining Hall of Fame in 2015.
Mr. Bailey was an enthusiastic outdoorsman, enjoying bird hunting and fishing, and was a founding director of the National Forest Foundation. He was an avid golfer, often willing to make a small wager, and a member of Augusta National Golf Club. As an active community member, he was noted for his devotion to his churches in Elberfeld and Log Creek (IN) and in Greenwich; for his leadership and support of the Manchester, VT Music Festival; and for being named a 33rd Degree Mason.
Perhaps most important was his commitment to educational quality and support for students. At Purdue University, he and Bettye endowed a merit scholarship program for graduates of Tecumseh High School (IN) and a Professorship of Combustion in Mechanical Engineering. Most notably, they were the visionaries and lead donors to create the Ralph & Bettye Bailey Hall as a home for the Purdue Musical Organizations. In addition, they established a Chair for the Dean of Arts and Sciences at the University of Pittsburgh (Bettye's alma mater) to fund strategic initiatives in the fine arts.
Ralph's greatest love, however, was always for his family, to whom he was intensely devoted. Throughout his life, he demonstrated that, while life is full of challenges, with perseverance, wisdom, empathy and humor, there is always a way forward.
Mr. Bailey was predeceased by his six siblings and his daughter, Rhonda Pidgeon. He is survived by his wife of 71 years, Bettye J. Bailey; son Douglas G. Bailey and his wife Sara of Westport, CT; daughter Cinda Bailey Joyce and her husband Stephen of Freeport, ME; daughter Lisa Bailey Cassidy and her husband Kevin of Greenwich, CT and Key Largo, FL; five grandchildren and two great grandchildren.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Purdue Musical Organizations, 359 Northwestern Avenue, West Lafayette, IN 47906-2967.

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Published by Stamford Advocate & Greenwich Time from Feb. 8 to Feb. 12, 2017.

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Denny Moore

October 27, 2023

Ralph, you have always been my favorite boss. I was your pilot in the G-II and III with CONOCO for the good years before the DuPont merger. I still admire your genuine caring for all us Conoco employees at each airport we came to from the ground crew, jet fuelers to limo drivers and their families and their names. Later after retirement I was delighted to continue friendships with Bettye, you and Lisa at our time at Ocean Reef. In God's love for you and family. Denny Moore

Mr Bailey and family after he was inducted into the Mining Hall of Fame

February 13, 2017

AL

February 12, 2017

I am so sorry to learn about the passing of Mr Ralph Bailey. My heartfelt condolences are with the family and friends. May God's word found in Hosea 13:14 brings comfort and peace to you all in this time of grief. I send my prayers.

AC

February 11, 2017

May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times you shared together as you celebrate a life well lived and loved by many. Psalms 90:10.

Dennis Duffy

February 10, 2017

I knew Rhonda and Cinda as friends at Upper St. Clair. Several years later Ralph was responsible for my hiring at Consol where I enjoyed a fantastic 34 year career. Mr. Bailey was one of the finest executives I ever met. He treated every employee top to bottom with the utmost respect. God bless Ralph Bailey and his entire family.

February 9, 2017

It's very saddening to hear about your loss. I know how hard it is to cope with situations like these. So, I hope you remember that God is here and ready to help you out in making it through this hardship. He loves you so much and so do we. I'm so sorry for your loss. 1Corinthians 1:3, 4

Becky

February 9, 2017

My deepest sympathy to your family, and may you keep in mind the scriptural hope of life everlasting which can help sustain you through this difficult time-John 17:3

Mike Bear

February 9, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with the Bailey family.

Pinky Crabtree Markey

February 8, 2017

Ralph and Bettye were great friends of my mom and dad who shared many affectionate family stories.
Alas, June and Bob have passed too but fond memories of your friendship remain.

KELLEY

February 8, 2017

MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING THAT FRIENDS AND FAMILY SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF BE OF COMFORT TO YOUR FAMILY.PLEASE READ PROV 17:17

February 7, 2017

May you now rest easy with your brothers in arms. Another of our "Greatest Generation" has gone on to a new journey. Thank you for serving our country and protecting us.
A grateful American

Francine Webber

February 7, 2017

Bettye and family,

I am saddened to learn of the loss of your family patriarch. While I only had brief but contact with him and the family during his induction into the National Mining Hall of Fame, I immediately felt the immense love and respect the family has for him.

He didn't make it to 100 as hoped but he gave it one heck of a shot!

Thinking of you during this time of sadness.

February 7, 2017

I'm so very sorry to hear of the loss of this incredible man. My prayers and condolences to Ralph's family and many friends.
Mary & Jim Barnes (Former Conoco Employee)

Janet Casey

February 6, 2017

Deepest sympathy to all the Baileys and especially Lisa and Kevin on the loss of your wonderful dad.
With love from Aunt Janet

Denise Mersky

February 6, 2017

So very sorry for your loss- Mrs Bailey, Lisa and family. Lisa and I were childhood friends since kindergarten. Lots of wonderful memories in Brookside Farms. Mr and Mrs Bailey always treated me like family with love and kindness. Through the years, I came to see such a kind, gentle, humble and loving man. Bigger than life. Special place in heaven for you Mr. Ralph E Bailey.
Denise (Dell'Aquila) Mersky, Collegeville , Pennsylvania

Alicia Blair

February 6, 2017

As a longtime friend of Lisa's from Greenwich High School, I met Ralph when I was sixteen years old. I will always remember his smile and the sparkle in his eyes. He was a great, kind and special man. I will miss him. Sending love and strength to Bettye, Lisa, Henry and the whole family.

February 6, 2017

Dear Aunt Bettye,

My thoughts are with you. I am so very sorry for your loss. I adored Uncle Ralph, he was the very best. I love you very much,

Mark Bleckmann

Lucy Collins

February 6, 2017

Rest In Peace Granpa bailey

Mark Bleckmann

February 6, 2017

My uncle Ralph was one of the smartest men I ever knew. On top of that, he was a genuine, sincere person that graced whatever room he happened to be in. I will always love and miss him.

Mark Bleckmann

Bob Schmidt

February 6, 2017

My condolences to the entire Bailey family. Mr. Bailey was part of the "Greatest Generation" and his story is a true Horatio Alger story. A local boy from Pike County Indiana who may a difference in the lives of many coal miners in many states.

His leadership in improving safety and productivity made him a visionary. He set standards, at the time no one thought were achievable but that's what made him who he was.

He was appreciative of those who worked for and with him. He gave back to benefit others who were less fortunate and always set a great example for others to follow.

He made a positive difference. He will be sadly missed. It was both an honor and a pleasure to work with him at Consol.

Doris Powers

February 6, 2017

To Ralph's family and friends, so sorry to hear of his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.

Former Conoco employee in Casper, WY,
Doris Powers

Patricia Justice

February 6, 2017

My prayers and condolences to the family and friends of Ralph Bailey. He was a wonderful man. I was privileged to have made his acquaintance. May he rest in peace.

February 6, 2017

May his memories be a blessing, bringing comfort to mourning family and friends as he R.I.P

Pam Oshlo

February 5, 2017

Bettye and Ralph Bailey are two of the most wonderful people I have ever met. Rick and I are truly blessed to be honored to call them our friends. I will never forget the first day I met both of them as they treated us as if we were the most important people they had ever met with loving kindness and grace. The world has lost an incredible man and heaven has gained an incredible angel.

February 5, 2017

Dear Aunt Bettye, You have my sympathies, and I will keep you in my prayers.
Mike Holder

Laura (Holder) Fischer

February 5, 2017

Dear Aunt Bettye,
Please accept my deepest sympathies and please know that you and the family will be in my prayers. ((HUGS))
Laura

February 5, 2017

To the Bailey Family: My heartfelt sympathies go out to the family and friends during this difficult time. I hope that the promise in 1 Thessalonians 4:14 can bring comfort. Knowing that there's a hope for the ones we have lost in death can be so reassuring.

Rebecca Schumacher

February 5, 2017

To Bettye:
My heartfelt sympathy to you on the passing of Ralph. You were both so special to my parents, and I know my father greets Ralph in heaven with a toss of a baseball.
Take gentle care of you.
Rebecca Schumacher

Carol Leonhardt

February 5, 2017

I am forever grateful to Mr Bailey for making my husband, Donald, a part of the Peabody Squw Creek mine at it's inception. It was a job he looked forward to going to work every day. He and his wife Bettey were the most kind people
May God rest his soul.

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