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Barclay G. Johnson

1934 - 2018

BORN

1934

DIED

2018

Barclay Johnson Obituary

Barclay Johnson lived as a literary artist and a teacher. Barclay died peacefully on July 3, 2018 after some years of dementia and with excellent care at the Broadmead retirement community in Cockeysville, MD. Barclay was fortunate to have his son, Matthew, daughter-in-law, Sarah, and grandchildren, Clay and Harper, living nearby. He also had visits from his son, Paul, his daughter-in-law, Susan, and his granddaughter, Tess. Barclay had a knack for amicable divorce. He died with fondness in the hearts of his first wife, Sabra, and his second wife, Patricia. Each marriage lasted 9 years. His second marriage also brought him joy with the Bradley children from Patricia's first marriage: Chris, Tim, Marion, and Ruth. He was born Barclay Giddings Johnson Jr. on July 21, 1934. He grew up in Plainfield, NJ with his younger sisters now, Alden Byrholdt and Susan J Moseley. He proudly loved his practical father, a Navy veteran of WWII, and his very funny mother, the former Susie Milne Laing. With a fascination for military history that helped him relate to his father, spiritually he leaned toward his mother. Like his father, Barclay attended The Taft School. He graduated with the class of '53 after putting on a theatrical roast of the faculty. Barclay studied literature at Middlebury College where he met Sabra and graduated with the class of '57 after writing and producing two musical comedies. As a 1st Lieutenant of the U.S. Army Armored Corps in '58, Barclay led a squadron of tanks. He would have been honored to see combat, and he presumed that he would have been killed. Instead, Barclay and many of his peers lived long and with survivor's guilt. During postgraduate study at Trinity, he and his wife, Sabra, along with her brother, Tony, started a franchise location of King of Pizza. Barclay liked to tell of getting caught by his students as they walked by the restaurant and saw him tossing pizza dough. Barclay took great pride in teaching and coaching at The Taft School. He started in '61 teaching English and coaching football and track. He led the school's Independent Learning Programs and served as Dean of Faculty. He finished as Faculty Emeritus. A long time friend, peer, and headmaster, Lance Odden recalled, "For nearly 40 years Barclay Johnson was Taft's beloved teacher, coach and school master. Great characters make great schools and Barclay Johnson stood at the foremost of that group of inspirational leaders touching the lives of thousands of Taft students". Women were much more than a physical attraction for Barclay. He truly loved the company of women. Barclay lived with only one profound sadness. In 1972 his 9-year-old son, Clay, was hit by a car and killed. Just two years ago, Barclay rallied for a trip to see his dear and dying best friend, Chip Spencer. Recently, Barclay expressed gratitude for the good fortune in his life. He said that his sons were 'at the center' of his mind. With the expectation of dying soon Barclay offered, "The World has been good to me". A Celebration of Barclay's life will take place at The Taft School in Watertown, CT on Saturday October 20, 2018 during halftime of the 3 pm football game and adjacent to the field.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jul. 21, 2018.

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Charles Flynn

September 13, 2018

He was our line coach at Taft and an oversized personality. We will miss him

John Collett

September 13, 2018

Barclay taught me how to write. First paper of my PG experience was on King Lear. He gave me a D- and said he could tell that I had read the play. He then took my paper, marked it up with a red pen, showed me what I could have done and had me rewrite it. Upgraded to a C. Many papers later before Christmas break I turned in a Clockwork Orange paper and received an A-. Steady progression up the grade ladder with Barclay advising and critiquing all the way. Easily the most valuable thing that happened in my one year at Taft.

I was able to recount this story for him in person at one of the reunions and we were both moved by it.

RIP Barclay.

John Collett , Taft 1970

July 25, 2018

Mr Johnson was my favorite teacher at Taft. I will have many fond memories of sitting in his office (which always smelled of pipe tobacco) and having very animated conversations. He always made me feel that he was truly in my corner. My condolences to the family.

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