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McCARTHY, John "Jack" J. John "Jack" J. McCarthy, 64, of Waterbury died Tuesday, (November 20, 2007) in Waterbury after a brief illness. Jack was born in Waterbury where he lived most of his life on August 2, 1943, son of the late John and Mary (Flaherty) McCarthy and the grandson of the late John and Brigid (Kennedy) McCarthy and the late Patrick and Mary (Crean) Flaherty, all from County Kerry, Ireland. Jack was a graduate of St. Margaret Grammar School, Sacred Heart High School, St. Thomas Seminary in Bloomfield, Niagara University and the Simmons School of Embalming. As a licensed embalmer, Jack worked at the Murphy Funeral Home, the Bergin Funeral Home, and Sisk Brothers Funeral Home. A lifelong educator in Catholic schools, Jack worked and/or administered at St. Margaret Grammar School, St. Francis Xavier Grammar School, and Sacred Heart High School in Waterbury, Xavier High School in Middletown and currently was at Lauralton Hall in Milford. Jack was an active and life-time member of The Ancient Order of Hibernians, Msgr. Slocum Division #1 in Waterbury. Over the years, he held the offices of financial secretary, vice-president and president in the Waterbury Division. On the New Haven County level he served as secretary, treasurer, vice-president and president. He was chair of the religious services committee for the National Convention of the AOH in 2002 and was a member of the National Board of the AOH. He was also a member of the Knights of Columbus, and St. Patrick's Parish where he was a Eucharistic Minister. He was the Waterbury Mayor of the Day on St. Patrick's Day in 2003. Jack is survived by his sisters and brothers, Sr. Mary McCarthy, RSM, of Middletown, Sr. Pat McCarthy, CND, of Norwalk, James and Magda McCarthy of New York City, NY, Thomas and Penny McCarthy of Waterbury, and his nieces, Mary, Christina, Kathleen, Katherine and Patricia McCarthy, and his McCarthy, Dillon and Flaherty cousins. Funeral will be held Saturday November 24, at 9 a.m. from the Murphy Funeral Home, 115 Willow St., Waterbury to St. Patrick's Church, 50 Charles St. for a Mass at 10 a.m.. Burial will be in New St. Joseph Cemetery. Calling hours are Friday 4 - 7 p.m. at the funeral home. Visit www. MurphyFuneralHomeCt.com for more information. In lieu of flowers, please send donations for the children of South Africa in areas served by Jack's cousins: the late Bishop Michael O'Shea and Brother Brendan O'Shea. Checks can be made to Br. Brendan O'Shea and sent to Thomas McCarthy at 133 Columbia Blvd, Waterbury, CT 06710.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 22, 2007.

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Patrick M Flaherty

October 7, 2020

Patrick M Flaherty and I met John's sisters/Sisters Mary Agnes and Pat in Madison, Connecticut, last summer (2019) at a Memorial for Margaret (Peg) St John Flaherty. We also enjoyed conversations with Jim and Tom. We missed you, Jack, however! Carol Bishop Flaherty and Patrick Michael Flaherty of Montana 2020

Brian Gladney

March 18, 2008

Mr. Mac was my favorite teacher at " The Heart" also leader of the Irish American club as well. I will long cherish my senior year trip to see the celtics at the old Boston Garden with him leading the way of all of us Hooligans back in 1994. He was a great credit to his nationality and a great man. I am stunned to hear of his passing. I know St. Patrick is taking good care of him upstairs. What better way on St. Patricks day to pay homage to a great individual. The Last time I saw him was at a wolfe Tones concert. What a great irishman and good person. I will look you up when I get there! I am sure you are doing the jig upstairs on this day right along side FR. Meaney. Rest in Peace and god bless until we meet again.

Maureen Martin

December 15, 2007

Dear Mary, Patty and Family,
I was saddened to learn of your dear brother Jack's death. I remember reading about him when he was principal of St. Francis Xavier School in Waterbury. In faith we believe he is no longer suffering, and we shall be with him in the great after life.
Our prayers and thoughts continue to be with you. Maureen Martin and husband Rob Secker

Frank Greaney

December 13, 2007

I just learned about Jack's passing. We attended Sacred Heart and St. Thomas together. He was such a nice, quiet guy, with a kind disposition and a gentle sense of humor. Rest in peace, good friend Jack.
Frank Greaney

Ellen Marron

November 26, 2007

My Dear Friend Jack,
You were a wonderful human being and I will always cheerish our long friendship. Your Irish humor and zest for life will stand out in my memory of you forever. May God bless you and keep you close.
Ellen Marron...Anaheim Hills, Ca.

William McCarthy

November 24, 2007

My dear cousin Jack,I alwys enjoyed
your zest and dedication to life.I
loved the talks we used to have together, and the times we had at the AOH. God Bless you and keep you.

Janet Barney

November 23, 2007

Dearest Jack,

May the road rise to meet you
May the wind be always at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face
The rains fall soft upon your fields
And until we meet again
May God hold you
In the palm of His hand.

We will miss you dearly but know that you are in His hands. God Bless you.

Nicole Benson

November 22, 2007

You were a great man and you always brought so much light to our LH family. We will miss you!!

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