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Thomas Sullivan Obituary
SULLIVAN, Thomas J. Thomas J. Sullivan, 56, of Wethersfield, retired detective, Hartford Police Department, died suddenly Saturday, (April 16, 2005) at his home in Melbourne Beach, FL. Born in Hartford August 31, 1948 son of Elizabeth (Geetersloh) Sullivan of West Hartford and the late Patrick A. Sullivan. He was a graduate of Weaver High School, Class of 1966. Tommy joined the Hartford Police Department in 1968, his illustrious career spanned over 30 years. He was the most decorated police officer in the history of the Hartford Police Department, receiving numerous citations and medals of valor for his actions above and beyond the call of duty, having been involved in many high profile investigations. He and his brother Timmy were the first identical twin officers in the department history, and were directly responsible for overseeing the PAL Golf Tournament for over 10 years in which thousands of dollars were raised to support programs for disadvantaged Hartford city youths. He was a member of the Wethersfield Country Club for many years, a founding member of the Hartford Police Emerald Society, a member of the Hartford Police Benevolent Association, a member of the Hartford Police Retirees Association, an "honorary" guest member of Wampanoag Country Club in West Hartford and a member for many years of the Hartford BPOE # 19 in Hartford. Besides his adoring mother he is survived by his beloved fiancee Karoline Davis of Wethersfield; his twin brother Timothy F. Sullivan and his wife Paula of West Hartford; his two sisters, Ann Sullivan of West Hartford and Mary Ellen Connors and her husband Lawrence of Harwinton; his special sister-in-law Cathy R. Sullivan of Newington; his three loving nieces Patricia, Erin, Jennifer and their spouses and children, Karoline's children, Michael, who treasured his time with Tommy and his twin sister Alyssa, his three children, Julie, Christine and Patrick and their children, his "cuzzs" Patty Ellen, Susan and Wendy, his loyal companion Murphy and many dear friends. Friends may call at The Ahern Funeral Home, 180 Farmington Ave., Hartford Friday (Apr. 22) from 4-8 p.m. Funeral procession from The Ahern Funeral Home will be Saturday, Apr. 23, at 9:15 a.m. followed by the Funeral Liturgy in the Cathedral of St. Joseph at 10 a.m. Burial will be in the family plot at Mount St. Benedict Cemetery, Bloomfield. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Connecticut Humane Society, 701 Russell Rd., Newington, CT 06111 or to a charity of the donor's choice. He never turned away from a friend in need.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Sullivan
Al and Deb Russo
June 21, 2005
Tom,
You made living at 26 Tabshey a memorable experience for then a newly married couple. We remember saying know there is a guy who is enjoying life. I dare to say the sole reason the Whalers left town was that they could not handle anymore of your parties. :)
Take care from all of us who knew you at Hartford Fire.
Capt. Russo
Cindy Ballard
April 27, 2005
MY deepest regrets to the sullivan Family.
Tom will be surely missed by all who knew him.
What a great guy,a good fellow too.
Friends of the Hartford Mounted Police.
Cindy Ballard
Barry Wolfgang
April 25, 2005
Timmy,
My wife & I ran into Tommy at a local restaurant a couple of months ago. It was great to meet Karrie & catch up on old times. After they left, our waiter came over with a round of drinks "compliments of Detective Sullivan". That was so typical of your brother. I wish the best for you & your family during this most difficult time.
richard brown
April 23, 2005
To the Sullivan family: I send my prayers and sympathy to you. Tim and family; always remember the good times and the great person that Tommy was! Regrets, Richard A.Brown and family...Weaver class of 1967 and HPD 1970-1979
Pat Miller
April 23, 2005
The Sullivan Family
May God's angels surround your family at this time. Remember Tim the class of 66" is here for you.
Earth has no sorry that heaven can not heal.
Marjorie Rancourt
April 22, 2005
Karrie, Mrs. Sullivan, Tim and entire Sullivan family. Tom ,though a twin was one of a kind. Very special. I shall miss his calls to Karrie at work. They were a special couple. I shall miss him. You are all in my prayers.
Ellen Nurse
April 22, 2005
Dear Timmy,
I am sorry to hear about the lost of Tommy. We have been friends since old school Weaver High School. He was great back then and will be miss by all of the members f Class of 1966. May the peace of the Lord be with you and your family in the days to come. You will always be the Sullivan twins to me.
In frienship
Ellen S. Nurse
STEVEN HARRIS
April 22, 2005
TOMMY I'LL NEVER FORGET OUR DAY'S SPENT AT WEAVER HIGH AND THE FUN TIMES WE SHARED DURING THOSE TIMES. TO THE SULLIVAN FAMILY I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT HE WILL BE TRULY MISSED BY THOSE OF US WHO HAD THE HONOR OF BEING IN HIS PRESENCE, MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU. STEVEN M. HARRIS ,WEAVER CLASS OF'66'.
Kathy brancato
April 22, 2005
I was honored to share many happy memories with "sullie" I will cherish every memory that I have..
SAL ABBATIELLO
April 21, 2005
TO THE FAMILY OF TOMMY SULLIVAN, I WISH TO EXTEND MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES.TOMMY WAS A GOOD COP AND WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED AS SUCH.
TIMMY, MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.
SAL ABBATIELLO HPD RET.1970-1995
Alan and Laura (Franco) Jeppesen
April 21, 2005
We've known Tommy from grammar and high school through HPD. Remember Westbourne Pkwy and Canterbury St... play hookey or go to school! He was a great guy and will be missed. Please accept our condolences on this great loss.
Lois M. Perrupato
April 21, 2005
I am so sorry to hear of the unexpected death of our neighbor. My condolences to the family.
gary and anna smith
April 21, 2005
We are sadden to hear of the loss of tommy, We worked with tommy for many of years at the Hartford Police Dept, and feel honored to have known tommy. To Timmy our prayers go out to you and your family as well as tommy's family. Timmy will always remain in our memories and hearts.
Gary and Anna Smith
Both Retired Detectives
Hartford Police Dept
Tina & Michael Bove
April 21, 2005
Sullivan Family: we share in your pain & sorrow in losing Tommy too soon. Karrie, your and Tommy's friendship has meant the world to us, especially during the difficult loss of our daughter in July '04. You've been persistent in staying in touch and offering a few laughs when we thought we'd never laugh again. Tommy was a wonderful man and always razzed me about being "one of the guys". Our lives have been enriched from knowing you dear friends. Tommy is not forever gone - he lives in our hearts and memories forever.
serge khuzkian (hpd retired)
April 21, 2005
God Bless you Tommy!
Sincere prayers and condolences to the Sullivan Families
Jim Pasqurell
April 21, 2005
To the man that lived life to the fullest, I tip my hat! A bit rough around the edges, but deep inside an attitude and a caring heart that was not only inspirational but unique. Tommy, you called it as you saw it and I've always admired you for that. Your love, commitment, loyalty and dedication to your friends, family and colleagues throughout the many years that I have known you was unquestionable. The obituary photo says it all my friend! God bless you and please watch over Timmy; he will need you now more than ever!
Martha Pivnick
April 21, 2005
Timmy,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your brother. I'll never forget those Weaver days with the both of you. My thoughts are with you.
Taking Back Charter Oak Terrace
Thomas J Murphy
April 20, 2005
Taking Back Charter Oak Terrace
Place: O'Neil Rd. C.O.T.
Date: July 72-73
Officers from Left to Right:
Thomas J. Sullivan, Noel McGregor, Subby Basile, Thomas J. Murphy
Marissa Busiere
April 20, 2005
Timmy & Karrie - I feel honored and priviledged to have known Tommy for the past 10 years. I met him through my boss at work and we formed a friendship almost immediately. We would talk on the phone sometimes three to four times a week. He would always end our calls the same way - if you need me you know where I am. He would get so excited just like a little kid everytime the new promotional catalog would come out at work. He would tell me how he couldn't sleep and would have to go through the catalog 4 to 5 times to make sure that he didn't miss anything. I know that where ever Tommy is now he is relaxing with an ice cold Bud Light. I will hold Tommy in my heart forever - he was a true gentleman.
God Bless - Marissa
THOMAS J. MURPHY (RET.DET.) H.P.D.
April 20, 2005
TO ALL THE SULLIVAN FAMILY,FRIENDS AND BROTHER AND SISTERS OF THE HARTFORD POLICE DEPT.I WAS VERY SADDENED TO LEARN OF THE DEATH OF TOMMY.I SEND TO ALL OF YOU,MY CONDOLENCES TO A GREAT HUMAN BEING.BOTH TOMMY AND MYSELF WENT THROUGH THE H.P.D. ACADEMY AND SERVED TOGETHER FOR MANY YEARS IN THE PATROL DIVISION.TOMMY WAS NOT JUST A PARTNER,HE WAS MY FRIEND. TOMMY I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN,STANDING IN LINE ON JUDGMENT DAY. TO TIMMY SULLIVAN MY SPECIAL CONDOLENCES FOR THE LOSS OF BRO.TOMMY. BRO.MURF
meridith paris
April 20, 2005
i wish i didn't have to say goodbye like this, but you did live a full life. god bless you.
love meridith
Bruce Carrier
April 20, 2005
I have lost a true friend, as have all of us. Words cannot express the sadness I feel at the passing of Tommy and I pray for the comfort of his wonderful family.
I have no doubt that he will soon be 'teeing it up' on Heaven's best Country Club, challenging the best and sometimes winning.
He will be missed.
Nancy Walker
April 20, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Sullivan family and Karoline. We share in your loss and are thinging of you all. With our deepest sympathy, may you find comfort with family and friends.
The Wethersfield Country Club Board of Governors & Friends
Ondrea Chasse
April 20, 2005
Dear Ann and Sullivan Family,
Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your brother Tommy. Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. Tommy was a wonderful man and he will truly be missed by all who knew him.
Love,
Ondrea
Tricia
April 20, 2005
Daddy,
How do you put into words the impact Uncle Tommy had on our lives. Who can forget the summers down at the beach when you could hear the "coolest uncle" coming from a mile away. Some children would fight to play horsey on their uncles knee, not us; Erin, Jen and I would fight over who got to sit in the front seat of Uncle Tommy's car and "crank" Shalimar while he would drive us around Niantic. Even as adults we could always count on Uncle Tommy to be their for us during some tough times in our lives or just to "hang out".
We will always remember and we will never forget!!
I Love You,
Tricia
Diane Croughwell
April 20, 2005
Both Joe & I are deeply saddened over the death of one of our oldest friends @ HPD. We spent many times laughing & playing with him & will especially miss his great sense of humor, With much Love, Diane & Joe Croughwell
Michael and Nella D'Onofrio
April 20, 2005
We send our heartfelt sympathy to all the Sullivan family on the loss of your loved one. We were saddened to hear of Tommy's death. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely, Mike (retired HPD) and Nella D'Onofrio
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