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Valerie Ludwig Obituary

LUDWIG, Valerie Jayne Valerie Jayne Ludwig, 25, of Tucker Rd., Cheshire, passed away Monday morning, (October 27, 2008) at her home surrounded by her family. Valerie was born August 24, 1983, in New Haven, the daughter of Ernie Ludwig and Leslie Brainard, both of Cheshire. She attended local schools and graduated Magna Cum Laude from Eastern Connecticut State University, where she gave the student address at graduation. She was a Premium Specialist for Hartford Financial Group and a communicant of St. Bridget Church. Besides her mother and father, Valerie is survived by her step-father Gary Brainard of Cheshire; her step-mother Joanne Ludwig of Cheshire; her sister Sarah Lynne McKenney and her husband David of Leominster, MA; her brother Nick Ludwig of Cheshire; her paternal grandparents, E. John and Katherine Ludwig of Cheshire; her maternal grandmother Sally Drury of Southington; her best friend Tim Ruwet of Torrington and her beloved cat Tank. She was predeceased by her grandfather John Drury. Funeral services will be held on Thursday, 9:15 a.m. from the Slater Funeral Home, 242 S. Main St., Cheshire to St. Bridget Church for Mass at 10 a.m. Burial will follow in St. Bridget Cemetery. Calling hours will be held on Wednesday, from 4-8 p.m. at the funeral home. Memorial contributions may be made to American Brain Tumor Association, 2720 River Road, Des Plaines, IL 60018. These arrangements and online condolences are available at: www.slaterfh.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Oct. 28, 2008.

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Alicia Bartlett

October 22, 2023

Every Time I wear Pink it is in Memory of Valerie. She was such an amazing soul inside and out.

Brandi DeGeorge Martelli

November 23, 2008

I went to CHS with Val and I have to say she was one of the most animated, fun loving, and high spirited girls I knew! If she was in a crowd she would stand out with her natural carisma and beautiful smile! I will always remember her for that!

Kimberly Vernon

November 10, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. I went to college with Val, we were in the news club together. She was so driven and dedicated. She always had smile and a positive attitude. She was such a wonderful person. My prayers, thoughts and heart go out to her family and friends. She will be dearly missed.

Blair Everett

November 5, 2008

I went to college at Eastern with Val and had many classes with her over the years there since we were both communication majors. She was always so smart and so happy during classes and she was always talking about Tim, how happy she was and it really was a shock and sad to hear the news of her passing. I never in a million years would have known that she was sick because she was always so happy and lively. She was such a beautiful girl and a very inspiring person to know. To Valeries family I am very sorry for your loss and pray for you during this difficult time.

Lizzie

November 3, 2008

I went to high school with Val and she was a great, happy, and very sweet young lady and friend. I think back on the great time we had on our Senior Trip to Myrtle Beach. She will truly be missed. You are in my thoughts. God Bless you during this difficult time.

Jessica Pelletier

November 1, 2008

I graduated from CHS with Val and although we weren't exactly friends i remember she would always smile and say hi as she passed people in the halls, when i think of Val i remember this sweet friendly girl who will be forever in our hearts and forever missed.

Tim Ruwet

October 31, 2008

Valerie Jayne,
Im going to miss you so much but I'm happy your at peace now. You will forever be with me, I love you.

Scott & Linda Kirk

October 30, 2008

Ernie and Joanne, We were so saddened to hear of Val's passing. May you find peace in knowing that she is with the Lord now, and in the memories you have of her. Bless you.

Melissa de Leon

October 30, 2008

I had the wonderful opportunity to work with Val at the Hartford for abouta year. She was beautiful and inspiring person, and I am happy to have known her. She will be greatly missed.

Mark Freeman

October 30, 2008

I met Valerie through working at The Hartford. What a lovely girl. So sad. My condolences to the family in this difficult time. She was a vibrant girl, I always saw her with a smile on her face. What a tragedy. She will be missed.

Dale Oleksak

October 30, 2008

I was very sorry to hear about Val's passing. She was a great person who had the ability to light up the room just by being there. I know we will all miss her. I'm glad I had the opportunity to get to know her.

Diane Wilson - The Hartford

October 30, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

Gloria Colwell

October 29, 2008

Leslie,

My deepest sympathy in the loss of your beloved daughter, Valerie. God be with you and your family during this difficult time.

Love,

Jeannette Ramos

October 29, 2008

Leslie, my thoughts and prayers are with you & your family. I am very sorry for your loss.

Karen LeVasseur

October 29, 2008

You are in my thoughts and prayers and I am so sorry for your loss!!! Love you!!!

Karen Goulet

October 29, 2008

I had the pleasure of meeting Val through my daughter Jessica who worked with her at The Hartford inviting her and some friends up to a cottage I rented at Highland Lake a few years ago. She was a star in her white bikini and we had a blast. She came to my house to visit sometime after that day too. I will continue to wear the gray rubber bracelet she gave me; "Say it, Fight It & Cure it"

AKA..Mama "G"

Jill Seropian

October 29, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Val's family and all who loved her and were fortunate to know her. Her best friend Tim Ruwet is my cousin and he and his family always spoke so highly of Val. We are very sorry for your loss and pray that you will find comfort in fond memories. She will always be with you - smile often for her as I'm sure she would want that.

"When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I do not want a gloom filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?

Miss me a little, but not too long
And not with your head bowed low
Remember the love we once shared
Miss me, but let me go.

For this is a journey that we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all part of the Master's plan
A step on the road to home.

When you are lonely and sick of heart
Go the the friends we know
And bury your sorrow in doing good deeds
Miss me, but let me go."

God Bless you all and help you through this very difficult time.

Sheranda Pender

October 29, 2008

Leslie,my prayers are with you & your family.

Sheranda Pender & Family.

Dave & Jenn Moran

October 29, 2008

We are very sorry to hear about Valerie. We offer you our thoughts, our love, and our prayers in this difficult time.
The Morans
Dave, Jenn, Madison, Amanda, Emily

Kenneth Allen

October 29, 2008

Gary our prayers go out to you amd your family during this stressful time always know that you and your family are in our hearts, although Valarie is not her physically she lives on in spirit, her memory will live on forever.

Kelly Zahorodni

October 29, 2008

You and your family are in my thoughts at this difficult time. You will never be forgotten. Miss you everyday.

Star Fairy

October 29, 2008

Jenny & Stuart Rabinowitz

October 28, 2008

Sarah, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time. We are so sorry for your terrible loss. Words cannot adequately express it.

Lisa Phillips

October 28, 2008

In the few times I have met Val, I knew right away that she was a special kind-hearted person full of energy, optimism, laughter and style. My deepest sympathies and condolences extend to all that have known and loved Val.

Andrew Walsh

October 28, 2008

Liz and I are so sorry for your loss. You will all be in our prayers.

Sandy Santangelo

October 28, 2008

I met Valerie at The Hartford when she just started in the annuities contact center. It was my pleasure to be her mentor and work with her each and every day and we became friends as well as co-workers. Her smile, her brightness, and her loveliness brought much joy to everyone. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

God our Father,
Your power brings us to birth,
Your providence guides our lives,
and by Your command we return to dust.

Lord, those who die still live in Your presence,
their lives change but do not end.
I pray in hope for their families,
relatives, and friends.

In company with Christ,
Who died and now lives,
may they rejoice in Your kingdom,
where all our tears are wiped away.
Unite us together again in one family,
to sing Your praises forever and ever.

Amen.

Hiram Gonzalez

October 28, 2008

Ernie,

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Alicia Bartlett

October 28, 2008

I only knew Val for a short time. I started in the lab at Dr. S. office a little less then a year ago. But Val truly touched my heart from the first day we met. Because of her, I have a appreciation for pink I never had before. Her smile lit up a room & her laugh was contagious. She was angel on earth. I am so very sorry for your loss. Her passion, grace & vibrance will never be forgotten.

Sharma Kiesner

October 28, 2008

My deepest sympathy go out to the Ludwig family. Valerie was a great person while i was getting to know her. You're family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Holly Ghoston

October 28, 2008

Val your were an awesome women. When ever I think of you I think of your bright smile and joyful laugh. The Lord was ready to hear you laugh and see you smile in his kingdom forever.

My condolences to the Ludwig family. I know this is a hard time but try to remember that Val would not want you to hurt but to be happy that her pain has gone away. All of those who believe will once again be reunited with the Lord.

Trish Martin

October 28, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. When I think of college, Val often sticks out in my mind. She was always there to offer a smile, a hug, and a lot of fun. She was so driven and beautiful. She was so full of energy. Anyone that knew her in any point in time has been blessed.

Allie Ruwet White

October 28, 2008

I know that my girls Chelsea and Taryn now have an angel in pink heels on their shoulders! You were taken too soon.We will forever miss you! Watch over us!We love you!

Kenneth Vosgien

October 28, 2008

Our deepest sympathy is with you all at this sad time. you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Leslie Williams

October 28, 2008

My deepest condolences to Valerie's famliy and friends. I worked with her at The Hartford a while ago. Valerie was a wonderful person that will truly be missed.

Dennis Phillips

October 28, 2008

We're very sorry for your loss and wish you all the best.

Michele Mendillo

October 28, 2008

My deepest thoughts and sympathy to you Gary and your family in this most difficult time.

Anita Presmarita

October 28, 2008

Dearest Karla,

My heart goes out to you and your entire family.

You will be in my thoughts and prayers,

Thomas Boshuyzen

October 28, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

Renny

October 28, 2008

VJ,
You will forever be remembered as one of the strongest and kindest friends I've ever had. You always found a way to make me laugh and you're smile will never be forgotten.

Denise Matthews

October 28, 2008

To Valerie's Family
I was one of her teachers at Eastern. She was such a wonderful student and person. Truly someone who made a room come alive--I remember her telling me about her condition but she was always so upbeat I forgot about it. I am so very sorry for your loss. The world has lost an incredible young woman.

Denise Matthews

Sarah G

October 28, 2008

I only knew Valerie from working a summer internship at NBC, but she was a wonderful light, and I am deeply sorry and saddened by her loss.

Liz Williams

October 28, 2008

Ernie and family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Val was a remarkable young lady, she was truly beautiful. I admire her for her courageous strength and perseverance, I always enjoyed talking with her. She was always smiling. I love her so much… She is the lily of the valley; she is as bright as a morning star. She will be an angel in Heaven. May you find comfort and strength in the Lord as you grieve in this time of loss, she will be missed.

Liz & Chris Williams
Wethersfield, CT

Erick Pedra

October 28, 2008

Who would have known a girl so full of life and happiness was facing such a tough road. Valerie, as you know, has a very special soul. She's made a lasting impression on me in a very short time. She will be deeply missed and never forgotten. She is my hero.

Sandra Martinik

October 28, 2008

Karla
My prayers are with you and the whole family.

robin jakiela

October 28, 2008

I work with Valerie's father and I am so terribly sorry to hear of your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.

Joann P

October 28, 2008

Valerie, you were loved and you will be missed. Your family cherished your time with them on earth. May you rest in peace now.

Robert (Rob) Roy

October 28, 2008

Ernie, I am sorry for your loss, please accept my sincere condolence.

Melissa Dicklow

October 28, 2008

"When you're scared of dying and your holding on, you see devils tearing your life away. When you've made your peace, then the devils are really angels, freeing you from the earth."

Never let go of the memories she left with you, imprint them on your heart for ever and always. My heart goes out to you. I am here for you, should you need me, for a hug or a shoulder to cry on.

Hilary Crane

October 28, 2008

I would like to extend my condolences to your family! I hadn't known Valerie very long but she will always hold a special place in my heart!

Shelly Katz

October 28, 2008

Val, we will all miss you very much. Rest in peace.

Adrienne and Jon Palley

October 28, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Adrienne and Jon Palley

Elise Ruwet Chabre

October 28, 2008

The lord took one of his best angels. He called you way to soon but i know that you are at peace looking down on us. love you forever my other sister!!

Cassie DuBois

October 28, 2008

Valerie was one of the most upbeat and lively of my friends - I know she has taught me alot and will be missed.

Cindy&Fred Lynn Bereaved Parents USA Ct Chapter

October 28, 2008

We understand your pain as our son gained his wings in 2003. Our children are the light of our hearts and when we are left to grieve them we can feel so alone with the overwhelming pain of loss, please know you are not. Many walk with you and are near if you ever need. The world returns to normal for everyone else and you are forever changed. During this time hold each other close and we will hod you in our prayers.

Joyce and Jimmy Spencer Spencer

October 28, 2008

Leslie, Gary, Sarah, Nick and family,
Our deepest sympathy is with you all at this sad time. No words will take away your pain, but you are in our thoughts and prayers.

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