CONCORD, N.C. - The Rev. Reta Dover Steck, Associate Pastor at Central United Methodist Church in Concord, passed away at her home Tuesday morning, Dec. 7, 2010.
A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. Saturday at Central UMC officiated by the Rev. Andy Langford. The family will receive friends following the service in the Coltrane Memorial Room.
Reta was born in York, S.C., on Dec. 1, 1958, to the late Emmett Isiah Dover and Grace Mary Calhoun Dover. Reta began Winthrop University and then left school to care for her family after the death of her mother. When Reta was age 26, her father died. Reta then obtained her B.S. degree in Business Administration from Limestone College. She began a career in human resources that took her to Charlotte, California and back to Charlotte. She began serving as Director of Human Resources for MedCath Corporation in 1995, when it had fewer than 90 employees and left 10 years later when the company had more than 3000 employees. During her time at MedCath, she began her spiritual journey as an adult and met her husband, Dr. Todd Steck, in a Sunday School class at University City United Methodist Church. She started Sunday School classes, led Disciple Bible study groups and was a leader in many church activities. While a member at Davidson UMC, she felt her call to ministry. For three years, Reta lived in Durham during the week and in Charlotte on the weekend while she pursued her M.Div. from Duke University Divinity School, which she earned in 2005. Her natural leadership abilities, professionalism, strong work ethic, kindness, love of others, love of the United Methodist Church and love of Christ touched many lives while she was an Associate Pastor at Central United Methodist Church in Concord. She loved the members and they loved her. Reta became an Elder in the United Methodist Church in 2008 and had hoped to retire to a home in Lake Junaluska, N.C. After her diagnosis, Reta was named Central's "Pastor of the Heart." Reta will be greatly missed by all who had the good fortune to know her.
She is survived by her husband, Dr. Todd Steck; sister, Tammy Martin and husband, Eddie; niece, Brittany Moses; nephew, Devin Martin; mother-in-law, Mae Dreier; and other loving relatives.
Memorials may be sent to the Ruth Dollars Fund at Central UMC, 30 Union Street North, Concord, NC, 28025.
Online condolences may be made at www.wilkinsonfuneralhome.com. Wilkinson Funeral Home is in charge of the services.
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julie stainton
April 1, 2011
Tammy. I just found out about Reta. I am so very sorry for your loss. I think of you often
April 1, 2011
Tammy. I just found out about Reta. I am so very sorry for your loss. I think of you often
Steve & Lisa Beagles
December 13, 2010
Steve & I were very sad to hear of Rita's passing. You are in our prayers, God Bless You, Steve & Lisa Beagles
December 10, 2010
Tammy,
I was really saddened when I heard of Rita's passing. I remember her smile, laughter, and most of all, her love. I know you will truely miss her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Todd.
Just remember she is with the Angels watching over you.
Rhonda Johnson Williams
December 10, 2010
Tammy,
I light this candle in memory of Reta. I know she will light up heaven with that wonderful smile she has. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love
Cherry Bailes Armstrong
Theresa Breedlove
December 9, 2010
Todd, sorry to hear about Reta. I know you will miss her. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
December 9, 2010
Tammy,
I was saddened to hear the loss of your sister Reta. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May you have peace and comfort knowing that she has gone to heaven to be with your mom and dad. I love you and hope to see you soon.
Love,
Debbie Beard Yelton
Dee Williams
December 9, 2010
Tammy, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your sister. We are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything we can do please let us know. The family has been through a lot the past few months. Love ya, Dee
Martha Lee
December 8, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time, Todd. Reta was such a wonderful reflection of her Father and will be greatly missed.
Jay and Martha Lee
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