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Robert Gaskins Obituary

JACKSONVILLE - Robert B. "Bob" Gaskins, 86, of Jacksonville, passed away Sunday, March 16, 2014, at Liberty Commons Assisted Living Center.

Funeral services will be held 11 a.m. Tuesday at Trinity United Methodist Church with the Rev. George Speake officiating. Burial will follow at Onslow Memorial Park.

Bob Gaskins moved to Jacksonville in 1950. He became the Music Director at Jacksonville Senior High School, a position he held for 29 years. He also served as principal there in 1956. In 1963, he started the Jacksonville Spring Musical. He was the Cultural Arts Director from 1979 until 1989 and served as the President of both the North Carolina Music Educators and the Southern Division of the National Association of Music Educators. Additionally, he spent 16 years on the Onslow County Board of Education and ten years as the Chairman of the Onslow County School Board. As one of the founding members of the Onslow Community Concert Association, he helped to bring professional performers in all musical styles to the community for all citizens to enjoy. He was instrumental in bringing the acclaimed North Carolina Symphony to Onslow County to perform annually for the community and free of charge for fourth grade students in our schools. In 1989, Mr. Gaskins decided to retire after 39 years of dedicated service to the Onslow County Schools. During his retirement celebration, Mr. Gaskins was presented The Order of the Long Leaf Pine, the Governor's Award which is the state's highest honor for civilians based on his contributions to education and the arts in Onslow County. Mr. Gaskins also received the Distinguished Alumni Award, presented by the East Carolina University School of Music and was inducted into the North Carolina Music Educators' Association Hall of Fame.

In 2009, he was the recipient of the Jacksonville-Onslow Civic Award and was honored in 2013 to have the auditorium at Jacksonville High School dedicated the Robert B. Gaskins Auditorium.

Mr. Gaskins was the son of the late Wardie Gaskins and Mabel Chadwick Gaskins Mayo. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his first wife, Minnie Caison Gaskins; and grandson, Caison Allen Gaskins.

Survivors include his wife, Malinda Bangs Gaskins of Jacksonville; one daughter, Brenda Gaskins Sanford and her husband, Richard of Mt. Airy, Md.; one son, Ward Gaskins and his wife, Belinda of Cary; two step-daughters, Kimberly Babb of Winchester, Va. and Patricia Babb of Charlotte; two step-brothers, Alfred Mayo of New Bern and Hallet Mayo of Goldsboro; and two grandchildren, Thomas Kirtland and Meghan Parkinson.

The family will receive friends Monday evening from 6 – 8 p.m. at Jones Funeral Home, Jacksonville Chapel.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Sponsors for Academic Talent, Inc., PO Box 233, Jacksonville, N.C. 28541 - onslowcounty.schoolinsites.com.

Electronic condolences may be left for the family at jonesfh.org and JDNews.com.

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Published by Jacksonville Daily News from Mar. 17 to Mar. 20, 2014.

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Dan Potter

March 12, 2020

He was a very good teacher and a great man. I just wish I had listened to him more.

Dan Potter

March 27, 2014

He added a great deal to my life as a student. He mentored a lot os people and will be missed.

Beverly Floyd

March 21, 2014

As my first clarinet teacher, Mr. Gaskins was a major influence in my life, as I'm sure he was in many lives. I was sorry to hear of his passing. He will be missed.

TAKEY CRIST

March 19, 2014

HE WAS THE BEST OF ALL OF THEM

March 18, 2014

Bob was an instructor at MCAS New River, when I was Program Coordinator for Campbell University. The instructors were a small, tight group that were student centered, and Bob taught Music Appreciation for us for several years. A fine man. Condolences to his family.

Kenneth L. Pointe

March 18, 2014

Oh, what a delight it was for me to meet and spend time in the presence of Mr. Bob Gaskins. It was shortly after we had integrated high school that I not only came in contact with Mr. Gaskins , but I was able to become to know him as a loving sharing man who seem to not only love music, but also love people regardless of who they were. Now that I have lived life I know that it was through his music that he introduced many of us to Christ. I loved my time in the choir and band, but most of all I enjoyed being in Mr. Bob presence. Thank you Sir for all the love and caring that you choose to show a little misguided black child during those troubling days of my life. I saw love and light in and through your life. I praise God for the impartation of life that you planted in my life. I am eternally grateful to you for that. I will see you in Glory sir. Love always Mr. Kenneth L. Pointe

Ted Barker

March 18, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Mr. Gaskins. He was a great influence to me and a wonderful mentor during my years at JHS and in the various components of the band.

Deborah Kinsky

March 17, 2014

This wonderful person was my introduction to the flute and was an amazing teacher. When he smiled, you knew you did good, and you were always striving for that smile. He made such a difference in so many people's lives. To this day, at the age of 43, I still play my flute. Hewas a lovely person and will be missed.

March 17, 2014

Dear Brenda and Rick. So sorry for the passing of your Dad. He sounded like such a great man. Know that he is an angel now and will be watching over you from heaven. Gena, Tommy, Lexi and Madeline.

March 17, 2014

Brenda, Rick, Ward & Belinda please accept our condolences for your loss. Your father has touched so many lives in such a positive and meaningful way. He will always be a presence in those lives and in the community.
Love from Loretta & Bob Clarke

March 17, 2014

Ward, Belinda, Brenda and Rick
you are in my thoughts and prayers today
"Grandpa Bob" and me had lots of good
chats
Love, Gran

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