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Barbara Burnham Obituary

Barbara Nevers Burnham, a lifetime resident of South Windsor, died at home at the age of 89 on April 8, 2015.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Russell L. Burnham. She is survived by her devoted daughter, Sue Burnham and partner, Sia Dowlatshahi; and three loving sons, Keith Burnham and wife, Maryanne, Alan Burnham and wife, Irene, and Paul Burnham and wife, Elaine; also eight grandchildren, Matthew Burnham and wife, Joanna, Jeffrey Burnham and wife, Sarah, Brian, Kevin, Elizabeth, Zachery, Chase, and Calya Burnham; and three great-grandchildren, Dominic, Lilly, and Gabriel Burnham. She also leaves her cousin, Nancy Nevers Gozdeck and her husband, Ted.

Barbara is the daughter of the late Wilbur H. Nevers and is predeceased by a brother, Theron E. Nevers. In 1930 at the age of five she attended the one room Pleasant Valley schoolhouse on Ellington Road. She then went to Union School and graduated from Ellsworth High School Class of 1942. She then graduated from Green Mountain College in Poultney, Vermont. She retired from the office of Finast Stores in East Hartford. After raising her family, Barbara worked as a loving caregiver for newborns at the South Windsor Child Development Center at Union School. She was a volunteer for FISH (Friends in Service Here) in South Windsor for 38 years. Barbara was an avid golfer and tournament champion at Century Hills Golf Course. She was still a champion in croquet at the age of 80. For years she enjoyed the family gatherings in Sunapee Harbor, New Hampshire. Barbara cherished the company of special close friends with whom she played cards several times a week at each others' homes as well as at the Senior Center.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of Barbara Burnham to the South Windsor Senior Center, 150 Nevers Road, South Windsor, CT 06074.

Friends are welcome to attend the burial at Wapping Cemetery, 50 Oakland Road, in South Windsor on Saturday, April 11, at 10:30 a.m.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Journal Inquirer from Apr. 10 to Apr. 14, 2015.

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John and Carol Parda

April 14, 2015

Sue, Sia and the Burnham family,
Our sincere condolescences on the passing of your mother.

Raymond Landry, Jr.

April 13, 2015

Sue, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. With time all will heal and knowing your mother is at peace will make it easier. With love and deepest condolences. Ray

Julie Gabriele

April 12, 2015

Our condolences to all the Burnham family on the loss of such a special and beloved person. -Julie Gabriele & Bill Haydasz

Laura Lacy. (Grimaldi)

April 11, 2015

Barbara was a great lady. I worked with her at SWCDC. Sorry for your loss. My prayers are with all of you.

Bill and Susan Gabriele

April 11, 2015

We only knew Barbara the last few years. She was a classy lady and remarkable in her abilities right up to her last days.

keith leonard

April 10, 2015

I knew MRS. Burnham for many years. What a wonderful woman she was full of life.I know she loved her family like no other. She will be missed. Her family will be in my prayers

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