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Thomas Bontly Obituary

Bontly, Thomas J. Entered Eternal Life on June 29, 2012 at the age of 72. Born in Madison to Thomas L. Bontly and Mary H. Bontly (nee Hackett). Resident of Bayside. Beloved husband for 49 years of Marilyn Bontly (nee Mackie). Loving father of Thomas (Allison Ponce) Bontly. Proud grandfather of Adeline Bontly. Dear brother-in-law of Frederick (Mary) Mackie and uncle of Margaret Hanke. Further survived by many cousins, relatives, and good friends and colleagues. Tom was a fiction writer and Professor Emeritus of English at UW-Milwaukee, where he taught literature and creative writing for 35 years. He published four novels (The Competitor, Adventures of a Young Outlaw, Celestial Chess, and The Giant's Shadow) and numerous short stories, essays, and reviews in Esquire, McCall's, Redbook, Boy's Life, Sewanee Review, Cream City Review, Fiction Midwest, Wisconsin Review, and other publications. He was also a scholar of the writings of Henry James. Recently he was writing several pieces, including a novel based on Swiss immigrants in America. Tom received his BA from UW-Madison in 1961 and his PhD from Stanford University in 1966, where he was a Wallace Stegner Creative Writing Fellow. He also attended Cambridge University (Corpus Christi College) as a Rotary fellow. At UW-Milwaukee, he chaired the English Department from 1979 to 1982 and was one of the founders of the Creative Writing Program, which he coordinated for many years. He supervised numerous PhD and MA theses. He won many awards for his work, including the Christopher Latham Scholes Award in 1998 for outstanding service and contributions to Wisconsin literature from the Council for Wisconsin Writers. When he wasn't writing, Tom enjoyed painting, fishing, golf, music, theater, travel, and puttering in his garden. But most of all he loved spending time with his dear wife Marilyn, his family and many friends. Visitation will take place on Thursday, July 5, from 9:00 to 11:00 AM at St. Eugene Catholic Church, 7600 N. Port Washington Road, Fox Point, followed by the celebration of the Mass of Christian Burial at 11:00 AM. Interment will take place on Friday, at Highland Memorial Garden Cemetery in Madison. Memorials in Tom's name may be made to UWM Foundation (Att. Christina Makel), St. Eugene Congregation, or Schlitz Audubon Nature Center, 1111 E. Brown Deer Rd, Bayside, 53217.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Jul. 1 to Jul. 4, 2012.

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Mark Connelly

June 25, 2025

I remember his classes so well after fifty years...always inspiring

Tim O´Leary

December 3, 2024

I went fishing with Tom and our fathers in Canada in 1957. We took a train from Madison Wi to I believe mile post 210!

Mark Connelly

June 25, 2024

I recall my classes with Tom Bontly in 1973 so clearly because I learned so much.

Bill Polhemus

October 15, 2023

It´s many years after Prof. Bontly was laid to rest, but I thought I´d pen these few lines.

Never knew him personally but recently it came to my mind a short story I read in Boys´ Life magazine when I was 13. An hour of research on the Internet Archive discovered the issue of the magazine and the precise story, "The Coward," published in the December 1971 issue. And I find the author was Thomas Bontly.

I´m 66 years old now and the story´s author himself has been gone over ten years, yet I still recall the story and the impression it made on my young mind 53 years ago. I simply wished to give tribute to the author while it´s still possible for me to do so.

Thank you.

Dr. Mark Connelly

June 26, 2023

Tom Bontly was my first creative writing professor at UWM in 1973. I have a copy of his first book "The Competitor" on my desk.

Mark Connelly

June 25, 2021

As a writer I read passages from The Competitor for inspiration...

Pete and Marlys Fritzell

July 7, 2012

Our deepest condolences, and memories upon memories.

Marilyn Taylor

July 6, 2012

Tom was always someone I could count on to make me smile, to clear out the redundant underbrush from any conversation, and to impress me with his extraordinary talent. He will be much missed. Marilyn, please know that I'm thinking of you during this very very difficult time.

Mark Connelly

July 5, 2012

I happened to review my copy of The Competitor just this morning. I studied under Tom Bontly in 1973. A dozen books later, I believe he truly inspired my career.

Carolyn Kott Washburne

July 5, 2012

Marilyn and Tom,

Tom helped me get my first teaching job in the UWM English Department (from which I just retired), recruited me for the Council for Wisconsin Writers board (which I'm still on), was a thoughtful and supportive colleague, and, of course, mentored thousands of creative writing students over the years. I'll miss him. We'll all miss him.

Peter Fissel

July 5, 2012

Marilyn, deepest condolences on your loss. Tom seems to have been an extraordinary man. We should all be so lucky to have someone like that in our lives for so long.

July 5, 2012

Dear Marilyn & Family, My sympathy to you in the loss of Tom. I was a high school classmate of Tom's at Madison East High. Tom had a very interesting & successful life. With thoughts, prayers, & sympathy, Sharon (Davis)Childs

Mary & Peter Edge-Blewett

July 4, 2012

Dear Marilyn and all, On behalf of Mary, who took courses with Tom, I want to say how sorry we are to hear the news. Mary told folks that the most important things she learned about the novel she learned from Tom, and he played a big part in so many of our good memories of the UWM English Department.

Michael Wiviott

July 4, 2012

I just wanted to express my condolences to the entire Bontly family - I am sorry for your loss.

Ellen and JP Lafouge

July 4, 2012

Dear Marilyn,

We are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Our hearts go out to you and your family. Our prayers for you are those of solace and peace in the midst of your sorrow.

Ellen and Jean-Pierre Lafouge

July 2, 2012

Dear Marilyn - We were so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. We will be in Madison on Friday and are planning to attend the internment. Love, Tom & Darla Mackie

July 2, 2012

To Professor Bontly's family,

Tom was the best kind of teacher and mentor. Enthusiastic for another's work, with a true talent of his own, which he never flaunted.

Sicerely,

John Pidgeon, former student of Tom's in creative writing

Benjamin Brin

July 2, 2012

Hi Marilyn, You may not remember me. I used to babysit your son. I loved Tom's book and I'm now giving it to my own son to read. Such a wonderful legacy Tom left.
Sincerely,
Benjamin Brin

July 2, 2012

Dear Marilyn, Tom, Allison and Adeline,
Our sincerest sympathy. Please know that you are in our prayers and loving thoughts.
Diane and Warren Thompson

Maurice Kilwein Guevara

July 2, 2012

Dear Marilyn,

Janet and I (both former students of Tom and in whose class we first met one another twenty-five years ago) are so saddened to learn about his death. There are many lessons I learned from Tom that I share with my students today: for example, remembering the trains he worked on in the basement with your son, Tom advised us not to try to re-create the entire world as we wrote, but rather to create a miniature version of a world, a small iworld, but one made with such careful attention to detail that it couldn't help but point to truths outside itself.

We're thinking of you and your family at this very difficult time.


With love,

Maurice K.G. & Janet Jennerjohn

Lynda Smith

July 2, 2012

Dear Marilyn, Tom, Allison and Adeline,

Our deepest sympathy to all the Bontly family at this sad time.

Ron and Lynda Smith

mary-jeane smoller-phillips

July 2, 2012

To the Bontly Family - - The depth of the sorrow I feel at my dear friend's and mentor's and special guardian's passing is almost more than i can fathom. i will be always grateful for every kindness and support tom always had for me. i consider him always one of my most treasured champions. i recall the story he read to me when he came to visit after my serious car/pedestrian accident. besides bringing sub sandwiches for lunch and walking my cocker spaniel, claire, for me as i was wheelchair bound, he read a piece about what heaven will be like for writers. i pray, tom, it is everything you dreamed of. love, mj

Doranne Jacobson

July 1, 2012

Dear Marilyn,
We are so very sorry to learn of Tom's passing and send our deepest sympathies to you, Tom, Allison, & Adeline. Tom was such a wonderful person, he will be sadly missed by everyone who knew and loved him. Our hearts are with you at this time of sadness.
love, Doranne & Jerry

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