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Shirley Jean "MeMy" Hicks

Shirley Hicks Obituary

Shirley Jean Hicks "MeMy", 72, of Kansas City, MO, passed away Friday, July 15, 2005, with her family by her side. Funeral services will be 2 p.m., Monday, July 18, at D.W. Newcomer's Sons Floral Hills Chapel. Visitation will be Sunday 3-5 p.m. at the chapel. Burial in Floral Hills Memorial Gardens. Memorial contributions are suggested to Three Trails Animal Hospital, 600 W. 23rd St., Independence, MO, 64055. Shirley was preceded in death by her husband, Don Hicks and her parents, Boots and Jackie Morgan. She is survived by her son, and daughter-in-law, Rick and Lynn Hicks, daughters, Connie Tarwater, Tammie Hicks, and special daughter, Diana Scarcello; five grandchildren, and one great-grand daughter. (Arr: D.W. Newcomer's Sons Floral Hills Chapel)

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Published by Kansas City Star from Jul. 16 to Jul. 17, 2005.

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Connie Tarwater

July 11, 2006

Well Mom, we've almost made it a year without you. What a year it has been. You had another beautiful great grand daughter. Donnie had a wonderful year in baseball. The babies name is Julia, but you know that. You kissed her before she was born. The dimples are on her little cheeks to prove it. I can not express to you how very much I miss you. My heart will never be the same. I want to call you and share everything with you. Mama, I love you more than words can ever say. Till we meet again, talk with God, and make sure our children stay safe. I love you, your buddy Connie

Pam Shadduck

July 19, 2005

Connie, Tammi & Rick



I am so sorry to hear about Mama Jean. You know that we have such wonderful memories of her and loved her dearly. So sorry that I couldn't make it for the service but you are all in my thoughts & prayers. Cherish your memories and know that she will always be by your side.

Connie Tarwater

July 19, 2005

I love this, what a better way for people to see how very special she was and still is in our hearts. Mom and I spent many hours together in the last 6 or 7 years. Especially the last two months. She and I had some very heart felt talks and she said to me Connie, you'll be fine when I'm gone, and I know I will but in the mean time I'm so very lost. I pick the phone up to call her so many times, because just the sound of her voice could calm me down in a second, or to tell her something Madison said or did. She so loved all her kids and her wonderful grandchildren.



Mom, you know how special you are to me and I just want to thank you for all your love and guidence. You have no idea how much influence you had on my life and how much I listened to you. I know your watching over us and all your kids. Please keep them safe and help to make Madison understand why she can't see Jesus to get you back. She says I want to see Jesus so Mi Mi will come home, and then says I need her, I want her. Never fails when I talk with her or see her that she wants to know where Mi Mi is. We tell her your her ANGEL, and you can see and hear her, but she can't see you. Mom, we're doing our best to honor your wishes and find good homes for your pets. Well I could go on for ever, but will end here. I love you more than the world and will miss you so very very much.

Your daughter and buddy, Connie

Jaime McGuire

July 18, 2005

Rick, Tammy, and my best buddy, Connie----No one needs to tell you how special she was, for you know better than anyone what an angel she was to everyone who had the privilege of knowing her! A long time ago, after we lost our mother, she was like a second mother to me, Karen and Pam,, and we loved her dearly for that. On behalf of the entire McGuire family, please know that we are praying that you will find all the strength and comfort you need to get you through these difficult days. But, oh, what glorious memories we all have to cherish! God Bless you all!

Diana, Terry & Sammy Nations

July 18, 2005

Connie and Family, in your time of grief please think of the words that I wrote.



Looking over photos, something came to mind

Captured in a picture, it's what we leave behind

The human body, with its faults and its age

Taken with a camera, through each of life's stage



But there is something, only memories can see

The spirit of that person, of what they use to be

Their physical body ends, but the spirit carries on

In the spirit world, across the great beyond



As you relive their memory, they know and are near

To hold upon the special bond, of all that you hold dear

There's no restrictions to the spirit, their love is real

In the calmness of your soul, it's them that you can feel



Photos mixed with memories, come alive for you

Two souls join together again, in a bond that's true

Captured by a camera, to help your memory

Of the ones you love, in your photo history



Your soul feels the picture, memories to hold

When the time passes, and they are like gold

Memories to cherish, some can make you laugh

Spirits of a time gone, within a photograph.



Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers, Love the Nations

Lisa Compos

July 18, 2005

To Connie and family, my heart goes out to all of you for your loss and may all of your wonderful memories pull you guys through each day.

Stacy Houston

July 18, 2005

Shirley jean was a every nice and sweet lady with a every big heart.

My thoughts and prayers go out to her family .

Jackie and Jason Heimer

July 18, 2005

To all of the family,



I just wanted to say what a blessing it was to know Shirley and that she will be greatly missed. My family and I will be praying for you.



Thank you and God Bless

Nancy McBreairty

July 17, 2005

Rick, Connie and Tammy,

I am so very sorry for your loss. Your Mother was a truly wonderful lady. I tried not to ask her for help often but whenever I did, she never told me "no". You have no idea how I aprpreciated this! Love, Nancy

Debbie Madison

July 17, 2005

Jean is a special lady that made a wonderful impression me as a young girl. She, Don, Boots and Nanny and their children are some of my fondest memories from my teen years. My love goes to the whole family as I how it feels to lose your "rock". Stick together.

Steve & JoAnn Graham

July 17, 2005

On behalf of all the Pete Graham family we send to you our prayers and thoughts . May God Bless you at this time of sorrow. We have many wonderful memories of YOUR family.

Brandy Lambrecht

July 17, 2005

To MeMy: Thank you for your wonderful hugs and loving heart. Thank you for giving Jacob his first unrestless sleep and me peace even if only for a little while. I will miss you.

Jolene Berg

July 16, 2005

Shirley was one sweethearted person who I loved very much.I truely am going to miss her.May god bless her and her family thru this time.

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