Ernst Oder

Ernst Oder obituary, Joliet, IL

Ernst Oder

Ernst Oder Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 14, 2013.
Oder, Ernst F. "Ernie" Called to his heavenly home on Wednesday, June 12, 2013. Age 82. Survived by his beloved wife of 54 years, Shirley (nee Charles); his four children, Jane (Alan) Costello of Joliet, IL, Emilie (James) McCallister of Frankfort, IL, E. Stephen (Cindy) Oder of Rincon, GA, and Alan Oder of Joliet, IL; four grandchildren, Robert and Michael Oder, Brian and Danielle Water of GA; two great-grandchildren, Emryk and Clementine Waters; and a sister, Marlene Oder of Shorewood, IL. Preceded in death by his parents, Ernst F. Oder Sr. and Berta A. (nee Schwartz) Oder and his brother, Kurt F. Oder. Ernie was born in Joliet June 5, 1931 and a lifetime resident. He graduated from Joliet Township Central High School where he was a member of the acapella choir. He proudly enlisted in the U.S. Navy and served during the Korean War (1950-1954) aboard the USS Bremerton and USS Telfair. He married the love of his life, Shirley on August 30, 1958 at St. Peter Lutheran Church in Joliet. Ernie worked for 36 years for IL/Ameritech and was a member of the IBEW Local 136. Ernie and Shirley were active members of Messiah Lutheran Church in Joliet. He loved attending his Navy reunions and was a member of the VFW Cantigny Post 365, the American Legion Post 1080, and the Telephone Pioneers. Ernie was a loving husband, father, son and brothers who loved his God and his country. He loved spending time with his family and friends and watching Cubs games. He was known for his humor and generosity and will be greatly missed. Lying in state at Messiah Lutheran Church, 19901 S. Houbolt Road, on Monday, June 17, 2013 from 11:30AM until time of services at 12:00-Noon. Interment Abraham Lincoln National Cemetery. Visitation Sunday from 2:00-6:00PM.

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June 17, 2013

My sincere condolences to the Oder family. I only knew Mr. Oder for a couple years while I was dating his daughter, Jane, but I knew him long enough to be able to discern his loyalty to God, family and country. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Dave Daniels

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June 14, 2013

I wanted to send my regards to the Oder family, I worked with Ernie for years at Ameritech, he was a wonderful guy to work with, I am so sorry for your loss.

Pam Terlep-Harbaugh

June 14, 2013

Shirley, Emilie, Jane, Steve, and Alan, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have so many fond memories of spending time with all of you growing up, and having a second "Mom and Dad". Ernie was a wonderful man and hope your hearts will be filled with beautiful memories of him. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. Love and hugs to all of you.

Darrell Holmquist

June 14, 2013

As a teacher at Joliet Central in the 1970's, I had several of Mr. Oder's children in classes and activities. They were a joy to be around and I'm certain it was because of the excellent upbringing that Mr. Oder and his wife provided. My prayers to the Lord for Mr. Oder's family and friends.

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