Henry Joseph Frabotta

1914 - 2014

Henry Joseph Frabotta obituary, 1914-2014, SAN DIEGO, CA

Henry Joseph Frabotta

1914 - 2014

BORN

1914

DIED

2014

Henry Frabotta Obituary

Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Apr. 6, 2014.
Frabotta, Henry Joseph SAN DIEGO -- Henry J. Frabotta, age 99, of San Diego, CA, passed away on Friday, March 28, 2014, in San Diego, California. He was born on October 12, 1914, in North Adams, Massachusetts, to Francesco and Rosa Frabotta. Originally named Arigo John, Henry was the second of six children, growing up and attending school in New Haven, Connecticut. Henry served in the 176th Company, Civilian Conservation Corps (CCC) in Paugnut State Forest Camp Number 2180, Torrington, Connecticut, 1933-1934. Henry auditioned for and was admitted to the newly established U. S. Navy School of Music, Washington, D.C., graduating in Band ONE in 1936. Notable Navy tours included accompanying President Roosevelt on his Latin American tour aboard USS Indianapolis (CA-35) in 1936, USS Pennsylvania (BB-38) 1936-1941, U.S. Naval Forces, Europe, 1945-1946, (Band Leader, "US Navy Dance Band in the ETO" performing weekly on BBC Radio, London) and USS Valley Forge (CV-45) 1950-1951. Henry's Navy awards included Navy Unit Commendation, U. S. Navy Good Conduct Medal (four awards), American Defense Service Medal (1 star), American Campaign Medal, European- African-Middle Eastern Campaign Medal, World War II Victory Medal, China Service Medal, Navy Occupation Medal and Korean Campaign Medal. Henry was a World War II and Korean War veteran. He married the former Winnifred Josephine Mallonee of Wilmington, California in Yuma, Arizona, in September, 1938. They had four children, eventually settling in San Diego. Henry was widely known throughout San Diego as a musician. "Trap drummer" and arranger, he formed the Toppers, a jazz/swing combo, in the late 1950s; playing at numerous private parties, dance clubs and senior citizen centers every year through 2009. He was the band director and lay teacher at Saint Augustine High School where he mentored many aspiring musicians between 1958 and 1979. His wife Winnifred passed away in 2000. He is survived by his sister Mary of Wallingford, Connecticut, sons John of Hingham, Massachusetts and Frank of San Diego, California, daughter Josephine of Indio, California, seven grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. A memorial service was held for Henry at El Camino Memorial - Sorrento Valley Chapel on Sunday, March 30, 2014. Donations in lieu of flowers can be made in Henry's name to the Zoological Society of San Diego. "The Song is Ended But the Melody Lingers On" - Irving Berlin.

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September 23, 2019

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May 26, 2014

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April 19, 2014

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Richard Davila

September 23, 2019

Mr Frabotta was not only a great band director but a great music teach. He directed and me 3 yrs at St. Augustine HS 65-67. He will forever be in my memory.
R Davila

Andrew DeSoto

May 26, 2014

Mr. Frabotta was my band director from 1970-1974 at St. Augustine HS. He would often play/practice swing music with me & we would switch between clarinet & sax instruments. Those personal experiences with "Hank Frabotta" made music class my favorite!

April 19, 2014

I remember Mr. Frabotta as dedicated to the boys at Saints. He cared and did a good job. May he rest in peace.

Richard Sisterson

April 14, 2014

Mr. Frabotta was our marching band and concert bad leader while I was in the band at Saints from 1966 to 1970.

He was a wonderful instructor who took an individual interest in his students and....he taught me music. He taught music discipline without disciplining! He had a great manner and everyone respected him.

My genuine condolences to his family.

Thank you Mr. Frabotta for this most precious gift.

April 9, 2014

I'm sorry to hear about your loss and hoping the Frabotta Family may be strengthened and lifted by the right arm of God.

Bernie Ordona

April 8, 2014

Mr Frabotta was my band director while I was at St Augustine High School 1970 - 1974. It always amazed me how many instruments he played well. He had a great positive influence on me as a musician. I ended up getting a degree in Music Composition from the California Institute of the Arts. Thank you Mr Frabotta for dedicating those thousands of hours of musical instruction. You're a great man.

Ron Cota

April 8, 2014

A good man.

Richard Eveland

April 8, 2014

Mr Frabotta was a very positive influence on my life ! He is the reason I am a drummer today , I was in the band 1970-73 at St Augustine High School , he taught me discipline and was even my drivers training instructor ! I remember he lived a very short distance from school , but would drive there anyway ! Thank you Henry , you will be missed by many ! I will never forget you sir !

John Goodbody

April 8, 2014

Thanks to the family for Mr. Frabotta's contribution to the world. I had the pleasure of his teaching at Saints. He was a good man with a great heart.

RIP BOJORQUEZ

April 7, 2014

MY PRAYERS TO HIS FAMILY. HE WAS SUCH A GENTLE MAN . I WAS FORTUNATE TO BE A TEACHER AT SAINT'S IN THE 60'S TRULY A SAINTMEN GOOD BLESS HIM AND HIS FAMILY

AL AVALLONE

April 7, 2014

My band teacher 1964-65 first 2 years at St. Augustine.I always liked him and respected him. He lived a long life.God rest his soul.

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