1945 - 2013
1945 - 2013
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March 25, 2015
Sorry for my late, but still very sincere condolences. Hugh was a mentor and friend for over 30 years. I was in one of his first classes at Stony Brook as an undergraduate-"The Artistic Consciousness" and he supervised my dissertation many years later.I learned much about postmodernism from Hugh and benefited from his introducing me to Men's Studies in the 1990s. My own founding of a center owes much to Hugh's pioneering work at IAPL. I remember years at Edmonton, Villanova especially well. Most important Hugh was a kind and generous man. Students always lined up outside his office and Hugh made sure to speak with everyone no matter how long it took. He was dedicated to helping students learn, succeed and thrive.May he rest in peace.
David seelow, Albany, New York
Nita de Oliveira
October 17, 2014
Professor Silverman was a great scholar, a captivating instructor and a real friend. I'll always remember the great time we had together in Brazil's Deep South in 1992. Hugh was a true Mensch and will be missed by many.
Nythamar "Nita" de Oliveira, Porto Alegre, Brazil
Mary Honan
April 25, 2014
Have mercy on the soul of Hugh Silverman. I had the honour of meeting Professor Silverman when he was the external examiner at my friend's successful Viva Voce (Ph.D) defense. He was an absolutely lovely man who gave me so much encouragement about my own Ph.D research into Holocaust inspired literature from the Child's perspective. I'm due to have my Viva Voce (Defense) soon and I thank him once again for making me feel that it was something I could achieve.
Lillian Burke
December 15, 2013
I was shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Prof. Hugh J. Silverman. He was a gentleman. As the external examiner for my PhD in literary theory he awarded me the highest grade and the most sincere praise. Hugh Silverman changed my life. He came to Dublin to meet my team from Limerick. I remember we were all so excited and nervous about meeting him. Later we marvelled at how kind and genuine he was in person and the interest and enthusiasm he had for philosophy and literature. My viva voce lasted nearly five hours. He informed me afterwards that he held me that long because he was so interested in my topic of psychosis and deconstruction. I will never forget that day in Dublin. We were in touch a few times after that when he offered to publish my book and he invited me to IAPL conferences. The care and interest he had for people was beautiful. My thoughts are with his family. Thank you Hugh for changing the life of this Irish woman. You were a wonderful human being. I will always think of you. May you rest in peace. God bless.
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Purushottama Bilimoria
November 2, 2013
I just came to learn of this sad news (been travelling). I am so very shocked and sorrowed. Hugh was a close friend, and remains so, and a mentor too; I worked him with him at Stony Brook and on IAPL over several years, reinforcing the comparative/cross-cultural thrust American philosophy is just beginning to be open to (far ahead in Australia and New Zealand and parts of Europe, even Ireland). We last saw each other in Melbourne, may have been July 2008, joint ("3-some") conference of AAP (Australasian), IAPL, and ASACP (Aistralasian Comparative Philosophy Society); it was a terrific conference and we had a great time there, as elsewhere during IAPL. Philosophical life for me will never be the same with the kind if leadership Hugh provided via IAPL and in other ways for me (he opened up many a connection for me and many others indeed). I need to contact Gerda, could someone plese pass on my phone number to her 6313351366 (Stony Brook number still!).
Tina Dornauf
September 6, 2013
Er war ein Men(t)sch, ein (Ehe)mann, ein Vater und Freund. Er war außergewöhnlich in seiner Freundlichlich einem jeden anderen Menschen gegenüber. Man konnte mit jedem Problem jederzeit zu ihm kommen.
Mein Sohn saß ein zweijähriger auf seinem Schoß in Kastelrutt. Dies wurde in einem Photo festgehalten. Später fertigte ich ein Kunstwerk, welches diese Szene wiedergibt. Gerne hätte ich ihm noch mitgeteilt, daß Ares (Sohn) diesen Sommer sein Abibac am Lycée Francais Victor Hugo machte. Es hätte ihn sehr gefreut.
In treuem Andenken und mit Gedanken des Mitgefühls Gerda, Christopher und Claire und der ganzen Familie gegenüber
Tina Dornauf
Frankfurt am Main, den 6. September 2013
Lisa Costa
August 9, 2013
Claire,
I was your babysitter for a while when you were very young, and your parents were always so kind to me. I have only just found out about your father's passing. I am saddened and so very sorry. Please know that I have always remembered you and your family very fondly, and accept my sincere condolences.
Lisa Ihde Costa
Claire Goberman
July 9, 2013
Just a quick note to those who have written and check back and those who chose to write in the future. Your words and tributes mean so much to me personally. It is nice to read how my father touched other people's lives, thank you for taking the time to do so. Some of you I remember in person from years ago, others just in name from my father mentioning you. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and memories.
Timothy Ryan
July 8, 2013
Hugh. . .i was stunned. . .when I found out. . .{July 2nd}. . .i miss you so much already. . .(I found out when I was trying to reconnect with you after 11 years. . .let me quote you and let you know. . .i am who I am because of you. . .as well as the man I will come to be. . .you made everything possible for me and I will dedicate what is to come from me in the future. . .to you as we'll. . .hopefully I have begun to learn that "The signs of the self are produced through the interpretation and maintained through the ongoing activity of interpretive experience. Self-knowledge. . .will depend upon careful understanding of signs in relation to one another." ("For a hermeneutic semiology of the self" closing essay of Inscriptions, 1987)
Gerard Greenway
July 4, 2013
We were proud to have Professor Silverman on the editorial board of Angelaki and very saddened to learn of his death. Angelaki 18.2, shortly to be published, has been dedicated to him.
Letitia Dunn
June 6, 2013
I was very sad to hear that Professor Silverman had passed away. I did not know he was ill. I worked in the Philosophy Dept some years back and have very fond memories of him. I still have some treasured wooden angels from him that always remind me of his thoughtfulness. My deepest sympathies.
Christina Schües
May 28, 2013
Hugh, you had the stunning ability to embrasse the world and your friends in such a way that geographical distance would not matter. We would not only meet at many different places in the world but also in manifold spheres of thought and laughter. Meeting with Gerda and Hugh was the greatest joy! I will remember and miss you, Hugh; und ich fühle mit Dir, liebe Gerda, in diesem Abschied, der wohl kaum in passende Worte zu fassen ist.
F. Scott Scribner
May 23, 2013
"Hugh always made time for me - even as an undergraduate at StonyBrook. He provided important counsel for me over the years, as my career progressed, and continued to be open, giving, and generous with his time and knowledge, whether at conferences, or hosting gatherings at his home. A prolific scholar, organizer, community builder - he will be greatly missed."
George Noble
May 22, 2013
Hugh was such a friendly person. He will be greatly missed. I studied with him in the early-mid 1980's in the Comparative Literature Department at Stony Brook. His open-mindedness and willingness to explore literature and philosophy in innovative ways were instrumental to my ability to earn a PhD. I dare say I would not have earned my degree had he not been an important mentor. Of course he was much more than that, but his recognition of the ongoing transformations in the fields of literary and critical theory over the past 30 years must have been a breath of fresh air for many graduate students and colleagues. His friendship and support during my years in the Port Jefferson-Stony Brook area and afterwards will always be special memories for me. His loss is tremendously sad because it leaves a hole for all of us who knew him. He always had a smile, always so positive, always willing to help others. The world would be a better place if we had more like him. Love and strength to Gerda, Claire, and Christopher
Hugh J. Silverman Memorial Service
Claire Goberman
May 18, 2013
For those who don't already know, there will be a public Memorial Service for my father on Saturday, May 25th, 2013, 3pm in the Javits Room, Frank Melville Memorial Library, Stony Brook University, Stony Brook, NY 11794
William Melaney
May 18, 2013
I first met Hugh Silverman as a Ph.D. student at Stony Brook, entering from the University of Chicago, in a course on Continental literary criticism as offered in the spring term of 1989. This course was exhilarating to me because of the way that it opened up new approaches to interdisciplinary research that were rarely explored, even then, in comparative literature. After entering my profession, I continued to meet with Hugh on those special occasions when the IAPL convened in many locations—Leeds, Freiberg, Helsinki and Estonia, to name the places that provided me with opportunities to renew our concerns. Every conference seemed better than the one before. When I recently learned that Hugh had died, I was stunned and remorseful as if I had lost someone who had always been very near. As I send these words from Cairo, Egypt, I would like Gerda, and all who were close to Hugh during his final hours, to know how important it was for me and for so many others, in so many fields, to have been in Hugh's company.
Francois Raffoul
May 16, 2013
I first met Hugh 25 years ago, when I joined the Philosophy faculty at Stony Brook. We were very close during the years I spent there, and Hugh was like a father to me. I saw him last in 2011 at the annual conference of SPEP. We had coffee together, laughed and joked like old times... I am glad I had that time with him. I feel his loss as if for a member of my family.
Nathan Jun
May 16, 2013
Professor Silverman was an incredible scholar. He will be greatly missed.
Silvia Stoller
May 16, 2013
I have known Hugh for 20 years. I met him when I was a young graduate student in Vienna. For me he was, at first, a famous phenomenologist and Merleau-Ponty scholar from the United States. Early in 1995 we (“Gruppe Phänomenologie”) organized a workshop with him on his book “Textualities” in Vienna. He also generously encouraged me to come to Stony Brook in 1999 as a post-graduate student, and he even invited me to stay in his house in Port Jefferson for a while. An unforgettable time. Then he became a colleague and we met each other at phenomenology events all over the world, among them three IAPL conferences, I believe, as he always encouraged younger philosophers to participate in his conferences. Finally, over the years, we became friends, last but not least because he and Gerda regularly spent their summers in Vienna. Gerda and I also became very close. I remember when I was teaching Hugh to dance the Viennese waltz in front of a Viennese “Beisl”–together with Gerda at one of the spontaneous New Year's Eves. And there are so many, many things I also remember. But what will always stay in my mind is this image: “the non-smoking US-phenomenologist with the hat” (or many hats) and the charmingly Americanized Austrian dialect of German that he spoke. I was shocked to hear he has gone. But his image in my heart and mind is firmly planted. I'm deeply sad, I will often think of Hugh, and my thoughts are entirely with Gerda at this moment in time.
Lynn Wells
May 13, 2013
I was honoured to work with Hugh as a member of the IAPL's executive over the past few years. He was always witty and urbane, immensely well-read, the consummate scholar. His passing is a great loss to us all. My thoughts are with Gerda, Claire and the rest of Hugh's loved ones.
Esther Hutfless, Elisabeth Schäfer
May 12, 2013
This is to say Adieu to Hugh J. Silverman. The message of his passing left us with great sadness. Both as students and later on as colleagues of him we appreciated the philosophical exchange with Hugh a lot. We will miss him also as a friend. Adieu, Hugh: "Infinity would have no meaning for a thought that goes to the limit, and the à-Dieu is not a finality." (Derrida with Levinas in: Adieu to Emmanuel Levinas)
Lee Silverman
May 11, 2013
I miss Hugh already as a brother and a friend. His loss and his early departure leave a big hole in the family. I regret not being able to see him in Singapore for the IAPL conference in early June. Our hearts go out to the family and we will help them through this trying time....
Brian Schroeder
May 11, 2013
I know that I speak for many when I say how stunned and saddened I am by Hugh's passing. Over the past thirty years we shared nuermous conversations and broke much bread together in many parts of the world. Hugh was both a personal friend and a friend to our profession. He will be missed.
May 10, 2013
Over more than twenty years Michelle and I counted Hugh as a close friend; his untimely passing is a deep loss for the world of interdisciplinary theory and for those of us who knew him well. We send best thoughts to Gerda and Christopher, and to Claire and her family. Stephen Barker
Leonard Lawlor
May 10, 2013
This news has left me with great sadness. He was my mentor and friend. I cannot express sufficient gratitude for these two roles Hugh played in my life. Since 1978, Hugh supported me personally and professionally. I will him.
Galen Johnson
May 10, 2013
Adieu, my friend, Hugh. I am sad and did not know you were so ill. I will miss our friendship and will remember the many happy times we shared, in Port Jefferson and at Stony Brook, at URI, and all around the world. Jean and I offer our sincere sympathies to Gerta, the children, and entire family.
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