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Jacob Tyler Oakes
1997 - 2015
Jacob Tyler Oakes
1997 - 2015
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BORN
1997
DIED
2015
Jacob Oakes Obituary
Jake was born to Gary & Marcia Oakes, August 27, 1997, in Austin, Texas. Jake was an extremely bright, polite and caring young man who loved his family, friends and his dogs. Jake attended the Liberal Arts and Science Academy High School where he enjoyed studying science and technology.
Jake was often quiet and reserved but, in the right setting with family and friends, he was a funny and charming person with a beautiful smile and contagious laugh. He loved the LASA school community and his many friends there. Jake was a former Boy Scout who enjoyed camping, hiking and fishing. His passions were computer programming, gaming with his friends, Pokemon and were a tenacious reader of all types of literature, especially Sci-Fi and Fantasy.
Jake is survived by his parents Gary & Marcia Oakes; his sister Emily Kaye Oakes; his three dogs Cammie, Pepper and Stella. His grandparents also survive him: Gary & Kaye Oakes, Will & Barbara Pannabecker, Sharon Pannabecker, great-grandmother Fern Ingold. Jake is also survived by his aunts, uncles and cousins: Glenn & Lea Smith, Rodney & Elizabeth Pannabecker, John & Carrie Oakes, Alexandria Becker, Anne Marie Smith, Riley Oakes, Ruby Oakes, Sabastian Deere.
In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting that donations be made to the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): http://www.nami.org
A visitation will be held on Friday, July 24, 2015, from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m., at Cook-Walden/Forest Oaks Funeral Home, 6300 W. William Cannon Dr., Austin, TX 78749. A private family internment service will be held on Saturday, July 25, 2015, at Cook-Walden/Forest Oaks Memorial Park.
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Cole Peterson
April 15, 2018
I'll never forget the great times I had playing with you and our other friends over Xbox and at your house.
Thanks for the memories, man. I just wish you stuck around to make more.
Gary Bahl
August 3, 2015
I will always remember the first time I met young Jake and the last time I saw him all grown up. Both times he was smiling and fortunately, for me, I'll always have those joyful memories. My thoughts are with you everyday.
Ryan Bearden
July 30, 2015
Marcia, I was devastated to hear about Jake and feel heartbroken for you and your family. Ciara, I and the Johnny Carino's family will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. You have our deepest and most sincere condolences.
Shawn & Barb Searles
July 29, 2015
Dear Gary, Marcia and Emily:
We are devastated by the loss of your dear son and brother Jake. The pain this is causing has no words to measure. Jake, such a promising young man; smart, kind, thoughtful, funny and a true friend. We loved him so much and will miss him terribly. He will remain in our hearts forever. Hard to forget his smile and engaging laugh. Our deepest sympathy for the loss you endure. Love Shawn & Barb.
Dear Jake:
We will miss you for the rest of our lives. Such a great friend to Kyle since Grade 1, we are so thankful for all the wonderful times you spent with our family. The many sleepovers, vacations, Pokemon tournaments, and early morning drives to LASA; just a few of the memories that go on and on. We enjoyed your sense of humor and dry wit, your passion for Sci-fi and computers, Pokemon!, and the wonderful connection you shard with your friends. You have left us better people with your presence and perspective. We lament that it was far too short. We will miss spending time with you and Kyle, seeing the world through your developing minds and eyes. Loved always, Shawn and Barb.
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Dru Robinett
July 28, 2015
Dear Gary, Marcia, Emily, and family.
I am so saddened to just learn of Jake's passing today. Jake was a very special boy and young man that we loved having as a part of the Clayton family. My heart is broken for you guys, as I can't imagine what you are going through. I will always remember him fondly as a kind and generous little boy with a warm smile. Again, I am so so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for your sweet family and Jake. Please let me know if there is anything you need. Once a Cardinal, always a Cardinal.
The Hitchcock's
July 28, 2015
We have only great memories of Jake! The joy he brought to our family with countless sleepovers, play dates, scouting events, the after school care we provided, and of course how he was such a great BEST FRIEND to Cody when they were younger. His sweet, gentle and loving nature was infectious. Our hearts are saddened that he has left his earthly body but we rejoice in the fact that we will all see him again by Jesus' side one day.
Much love to your family,
Brandi, David & Cody Hitchcock
Sarah Thornton
July 27, 2015
Marcia, my heart breaks for you and your family. You have been in my thoughts constantly. You have my deepest condolences, and hope for peace for your family and for Jake. Love and prayers to you all.
Leisha, Rodney, Maddy and Matthew Johnson
July 27, 2015
Marcia, please know that we will continue to pray for strength for you and the family. We know that you will miss your precious boy and we are here anytime you need a hug. Love,
Melissa Murphy
July 27, 2015
Marcia, Gary, and Emily - We are so sorry for your loss. We pray that each day you will feel the Lord's presence, peace, and comfort. Jake was one of Jacob's first friends in preschool, and we will remember with great fondness all of the fun times they shared at school and in scouting. Sending prayers and love from the Murphy family.
Betty Hart
July 27, 2015
Marcia, Gary and Emily, Although I did not now Jake, I had the wonderful pleasure of going to middle school and high school with Marcia. I can see your smile Marcia, in the pictures of Jake. I know you have had to put forth a lot of grace over this past week and I'm thankful that you have the loving example of God's grace to help you through this time. Jake will hold a lasting memory in so many peoples lives. My prayers will be with you and your family. In Him, Betty (Taverner) Hart
Devon Banta
July 27, 2015
Gary, Marcia, & Emily. We grieve with you over the loss of Jake's precious presence in your lives. Please let us know if there is anything you need; we can probably get there faster than anyone else. Love, the Bantas
Isaiah 43:2 When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.
Susan Dotson
July 27, 2015
Dear Gary, Marcia, and Emily,
I have prayed fervently for your family over the last week, but just didn't have the words to share. Our whole family is so deeply sorry for your loss. I have heard how incredibly smart and kind Jake was. I have no doubt that he was an amazing kid with you as his mama, Marcia! Please know that even as all of the people go home and you begin to try to find some sort of "new normal", the Dotson family will not forget and will still be praying. Praise God for the hope He gives and that you will one day see Jake again. I pray His supernatural peace over your family. Lots of love!!!
Ava and Emily Yoder
July 27, 2015
Marcia and family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You all have been on our hearts and in our prayers and will continue to be. Praying you will feel the arms of Jesus comfort and love around you every minute of every day.
Kaye & Gary Oakes
July 26, 2015
Jake, Papa and I are going to miss your beautiful smile and the sparkle in your eyes. Jake, you were so kind, loving, respectful, always accepting of others. Our hearts are so broken, but we know with out a doubt that God is holding you in his arms surrounded by Angels. We will miss such a light in our lives. You will always be with us. Just wish we could hug you- just one more time. What a great grandson. Love NaNa and PaPa.
Gary Oakes
July 26, 2015
Jake, Dad here.
I will miss you every day of my life. We fought together, we laughed together, we discussed some might say argued' together. I thank you for all the great memories. Thanks for going to those action movies with me that I know you didn't want to see. Thanks for pulling me out of the cactus when I crashed my mountain bike. You were passionate about your ideas and I loved that about you. Thanks for being such a great Son. I'm not sure how we will get along without you. You are so loved, so smart, so polite and so funny funny when you wanted to be'. I'm proud to be your father you made me a better person. I'll spend the rest of my life trying to be the father, husband, friend that you would be proud of. Love Dad
July 26, 2015
Dear Marcia, Gary and Emily and extended family,
Please feel the light and love I have been sending your way since we heard the news of Jake's transition. You are surrounded by God's love, never separate from it. I hope peace will land in your heart soon.
All my love! Shana Tatum
Caveman Jake
Gary Oakes
July 25, 2015
July 25, 2015
Gary, Marcia and Emily,
We are deeply saddened by your loss and holding you extra close in our hearts. We'll always remember Jake's sweet smile, curious mind and his genuine kindness. He was truly a gift.
Cory, Christian, Sean and Brian McDonald
Samantha Searles
July 25, 2015
Jake, I remember meeting you when I was in kindergarten. We've had a bunch of funny jokes and stories together. Like how you and I had a debate over chicken nuggets and talked about dinosaurs. I'm gonna miss seeing you at my house all the time. You've been Kyle's best friend for his whole life. You were like a brother to me. I hope you don't feel pain anymore. We love you, Jake. Goodbye, sweet soul.
Fi Graham
July 25, 2015
Thanks for introducing me to Star Trek. I'll miss you.
July 24, 2015
Dear Gary and Marcia & Emily
Please accept my heartfelt condolences. I am so sorry for your great loss, and I hope and pray that God, and family and friends will help comfort you all.
All my love,
Shawn Daugherty
July 24, 2015
Dear Marcia, Gary, and Emily,
I'm heartbroken to hear that Jacob has passed on, and I'm sending you my love and support. I pray that Jesus will be with you all and rally around your beautiful family, and hopefully help lift your spirits during this time of grief and great sorrow.
Love,
James Daugherty
Laura Williams
July 24, 2015
To the Oakes family -- may peace be with you, may He hold you in His hands and bear your grief during this time of mourning.
Chris Howington
July 24, 2015
Gary and Marcia, may God bless and comfort you and your family during this time of indescribable grief.
T Rickhoff
July 24, 2015
This is too sad. I am very sorry for your loss(I'm the roommate of Katherine Stiffler. )
Tami
Beatrice Walker
July 24, 2015
Dear Gary,
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Sending you my deepest condolences.
Barbara Podbevsek
July 24, 2015
Dear Marcia & Gary - We are heartbroken to hear of your loss. We will continue to pray for you and your family - Barbara & Tony Podbevsek
July 24, 2015
Gary and Family, I am sorry for your loss. Please except my sympathy.
Mike Wilson
Becky Andon
July 24, 2015
Dear Gary,
My heart breaks for you and your family during this difficult time. As I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers I pray that God will surround you and yours with His unending love and comfort.
Jill Klucher
July 24, 2015
May peace, love and faith surround you all during this difficult time.
Carl and Kathy Bley
July 24, 2015
Praying for all of you today. May God give you His grace and strength, His comfort and peace, as you grieve the loss of your son, grandson, and brother. May He uphold you with His right hand and help you stand today and in the months and years ahead.
Lori Lesko
July 24, 2015
My heartfelt condolences to your entire family. There is no loss like that of a child. The memories & love for Jake will forever live on in you & everyone he touched. May you find strength from your family, friends & above all God. Your in my prayers always & wish for you to find comfort in our Lord.
Lori Floyd
July 23, 2015
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. So very sorry for your loss. In Christ's Love, Mike and Lori Floyd and family
Bridget Brown
July 23, 2015
Dear Marcia and family, I can't even comprehend your great loss. I remember Jake as a fun kid in the Boy Scouts who kept us laughing with his quick wit. Wishing you love and strength during this difficult time.
Sarah Farrar
July 23, 2015
Marcia, Gary & Emily,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We'll keep you in our thoughts and prayers and hope that you find any measure of comfort and peace that you can during this time.
Much love to all of you,
-Sarah, Ian & Declan Farrar
Kem Griffin
July 23, 2015
Marcia, Gary and Emily... No words can even touch what you are experiencing. I am truly sorry for your loss. Know that we love you and we care and we want to help. Let us know if there is ANYTHING that we can do. You are all in our prayers.
Cindy Flickinger - Family Connections
July 23, 2015
My heart breaks for your loss of such a special son. You are heavy on my heart, and I will continue to pray for a peace that passes understanding in the months and years to come.
"When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze."
July 23, 2015
Oakes Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
the Woolley Family, LASA
Linda Harless
July 23, 2015
Marcia, my dear sweet friend, I am lifting you, Gary, & Emily in daily prayer! Asking Jesus to hold you tight in his loving arms through this unbearable pain and loss! There are no words to express the sorrow I feel for the loss of your baby boy! Please know you will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers, and if I can help you in anyway just let me know. Love you, Linda
July 23, 2015
Marcia, we are holding you and Gary and Emily up in prayer in the days and weeks ahead. Words cannot sufficiently express our sorrow for your whole family at this time. Know that each of you are in our hearts and we know that you all are firmly in His grip.
Love, Dave, Julia and Molly (Moran) Bryant (Fort Worth, TX)
Martha Holt
July 23, 2015
Dear Oakes Family.
My heart breaks for all of ya'll. No words can express how sadden I am in the loss of Jake. May God wrap his loving arms around your entire family now and for months to come. Praying for peace. (Sharon's friend)
Monica Willenberg
July 23, 2015
Gary, I am so very sorry for the loss of your son. Jake was incredibly blessed to have you, Marcia and Emily. There are no words to adequately express what you are going through. I only hope that you find comfort and strength from the love of your family and friends, and from your precious memories of Jake. You are in my thoughts and my prayers.
Laura Urquidi
July 23, 2015
Marcia, my deepest condolences to you and your family. May God help all of you overcome this loss.
Shelia Taylor
July 22, 2015
Marcia, My deepest condolences to you, Gary and Emily on the loss of your son and brother. I am praying that God will provide you his peace and strength to carry you through this time of grieving.
July 22, 2015
My wife, Ellen, and I are so sorry for your loss of Jacob. We are volunteers with Family Connections like Nicole Spotts and Cindy Flickinger. We are also members of NAMI and I am on their Advocacy Committee, trying to get better at helping people like ourselves. That makes it an easy call to honor your request and donate to NAMI. Finally, my daughter, like Jacob, would want her pets to be included on who she is survived by! Take care, Eric Kunish
Kenneth Benko
July 22, 2015
Gary and Marcia, I am so sorry for your loss. You and Emily are in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you strength and love during this very difficult time.
Eric Rouse
July 22, 2015
Gary, I'm very sorry to hear this news. I can't even fathom a loss like this. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jenny Jungmann
July 22, 2015
Gary, Words can not express how sorry I am for the loss of your son. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Carrie Lumb-Dewey
July 22, 2015
Marcia -
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart is truly breaking for you at this time. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers and if you need anything, please don't hesitate to ask. Much love to you!
Rachel Pickett
July 22, 2015
Sending prayers and love to you from Atlanta.
Cory Norton
July 22, 2015
Gary,
My deepest sympathy for your loss goes out to you and the Oakes family. May you find strength and peace through The Lord. God bless.
Wayne Edwards
July 22, 2015
We are so sorry to hear of your sad loss. The photographs capture his charm and his spirit. He will always be with you. May you find comfort in the family and friends who care for you and your family. Wayne and Glenda
Vici Lacy
July 22, 2015
Marcia, My heart is just broken for you and your family! There are no words I can possibly say that can bring you comfort during these tragic times. Just breathe in and out and take one step at a time. You have a wonderful family, friends and your church family that can help you carry this burden. Lean on the wonderful memories of your son which no one can take away from you! Let yourselves grieve as you need to grieve. There are no rules on how you should feel, what you should do or not do. Give your broken heart and burdens to God and he will help you persevere.
May all the wonderful memories of Jake give you comfort and peace.
Love and friendship always,
Vici & Don Lacy
Theresa Johnson
July 22, 2015
Marcia, Gary and Emily! My heart and prayers go out to you in this time of loss! Many hugs and thoughts during this time. May God wrap you up in comfort to help ease the pain that is left in your hearts. Much Love, Theresa (Shick) and Al Johnson
Punita Chhabra
July 22, 2015
Dear Gary, Marcia and Emily- I am so very sorry for the loss of your son and the pain that your family and you are going through. My heart goes out to you and I pray that God gives you strength now and forever. With lots of love, many prayers and best wishes, Punita
Jimmy Evans
July 22, 2015
Gary and Marcia: please let us know if there is anything we can do. Jimmy and Jenni
Louise McKee
July 22, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss, your family is in my prayers.
Denise oliver
July 22, 2015
Marcia Gary & Emily - so sorry for your loss-please know that we hold you in our thoughts and prayers as well as in our hearts -May God continue to provide you comfort and peace - our deepest sympathies -Denise Jeff and Brooke Oliver
Lara Price Schmauch
July 22, 2015
Marcia, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathies go out to you all.
Meagan Butler, Wellness Counselor
July 21, 2015
We are all deeply saddened by the loss of Jake. He was a kind-hearted and caring person who loved his family so much. I will always remember my conversations with him- he was witty and honest and just a really good person. He will be missed at LASA. I will send you all healing thoughts.
Darien Wilson
July 21, 2015
Marcia, please know we are holding you and your family in our hearts. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Brandi Wright (Reynes)
July 21, 2015
My deepest condolences to your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Courtney Oldham
July 21, 2015
Marcia, Gary and Emily, We are sorry for your loss. May the love and kindness of friends and family support you through this difficult time. Please know you are in our prayers.The Oldham Family
Sherri Karley
July 21, 2015
Marcia and Gary, your family has our deepest sympathies and prayers of comfort at this time.
LeighAnn Lear-McMahan
July 21, 2015
What do you say to a mother and father who have lost a child??? I say to you, lean on one another and God and hold on tight. There are no words, my heart bteaks for you and as I write I realize the truth and honesty in the affirmation that a parent should never have to bury a child. I pray for peace and understanding, comfort anf light. God IS good and will surround your family in his grace and one day you WILL all see Jake again...perfect, healthy and happy!!! Heal and take comfort in that fact and take care of yourselves, but most important one another and do this in YOUR time!!! Bless you all, you have my deepest and most sincere sympathy!
Ryan Daugherty
July 21, 2015
I am sorry that I never met you cousin.
may God Bless You and your Family
Dorothy Caldwell
July 21, 2015
My heart is aching and my mouth is speechless. Sending you love and light.
JoAnn Roach
July 21, 2015
Marcia and family, I am so very sorry for your loss! My thoughts and prayers for you and your family. May his memories bring you peace and comfort. Hugs!
Elizabeth Rogers
July 21, 2015
Oh, sweet Marcie. I am so deeply sorry. I have you in my prayer journal as you walk this deep, dark valley. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for y'all. Praying you all feel the God hugs and the peace that only He can give.
The Zern Family -LASA
July 21, 2015
We are so sorry to hear of your great loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sabrina Fross
July 21, 2015
Dear Gary and family,
I am so sorry for your loss of Jake. My heart is breaking for you all and I think of you daily. Praying for your comfort at this difficult time.
Kellie Bledsoe
July 21, 2015
Marcia, my heart is aching for your family. May the peace that passes all understanding and your strong love for each other live in your hearts and send your Jake into the Light.
Jose Mireles
July 21, 2015
Gary,
I'm sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts are prayers during this difficult time.
Bonnie Clipper
July 21, 2015
Gary, Marcia and Emily, Please accept our condolences at this difficult time. This is a very painful reminder of how short life can be. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. We are here to support you in any way we can.
Robin Swenson
July 21, 2015
Dear Gary and Family, You have my heartfelt condolences on your loss. Sending love and light in your direction. May your happy memories of Jake bring you strength.
Neil Loewenstern
July 21, 2015
Dear Oakes family, I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. I had the pleasure of teaching Jake this year and getting to know him as a sweet and bright child. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sharon Norton
July 21, 2015
Marcia, Gary and Emily:
We are so saddened to hear about Jake. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers; hugs from Sharon and Rick Norton
Tu Russo
July 21, 2015
Dear Gary and Family:
My deepest condolences to you and your family. I'll always remember Jake as a sweet boy with a bright smile. My thoughts are prayers are with you during this difficult time.
July 21, 2015
JAKE, as your family knows, it was and is an
honor to be your Baba.
My love and prayers always for Gary Marcia and my precious grand daughter EMILY
Leslie Aranda
July 21, 2015
Marcia, I don't know you personally, but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you be granted Peace and strength in your time of mourning. My condolences go out to you all. GOD be with you.
Doyle Lane
July 21, 2015
Gary and Family,
Deepest condolances on the loss of your son Jake. My family will continue to pray for strength, healing and peace for all of you.
Jay Hakala
July 21, 2015
Marcia, My profound condolences to you and your family, I was very saddened to hear of Jake's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ryan Dohse
July 21, 2015
Gary and The Oakes Family, I am deeply saddened by Jake's passing and my prayers are with you and Jake in heaven. Peace be with your family.
John Ridings
July 21, 2015
Gary, my deepest condolences to you and your family. You are in my thoughts. May God provide strength and serenity to you and your family.
Steve Foster
July 21, 2015
Gary, Marcia, and Emily,
my profound sympathies for your loss
Beth Warren
July 21, 2015
Gary, I am so saddened for your loss of your son. Sending prayers for strength and comfort during this difficult time.
Fabio Peres
July 21, 2015
Gary, my sincere condolences to you and your family, we are very saddened to hear of your loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Gwen Halterman
July 21, 2015
Gary, Marcia and Emily,
At this difficult time in your life, I pray that God will grant you the serenity and peace that you need to get through this. Stay strong and know that you are remembered in my thoughts and prayers. Gwen Halterman
Roxana Rivera
July 21, 2015
Gary I am sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during these difficult times.
Paul Hoffman
July 21, 2015
Marcia and Gary,
I am heartbroken by this loss, as so many of us are here at calendars.com. Marcia is so loved by her work family. We are here for you and with you. Always.
Jenni Evans
July 21, 2015
Marcia, Gary, and Emily, we are praying for God to hold you and keep you all in his arms. We love your family and are sorry for the loss of your sweet son. Jenni, Jimmy, Avery and Charlie Evans
July 21, 2015
Dear Oakes family,
Our family wishes to express our profound sadness for the loss of your beloved son. With love, Grant, JoAnn and Cora Palmer
Ricardo Zamora
July 20, 2015
Dear Gary,
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your son Jake.
I have you and your family in my daily thoughts and prayers.
My family has offered a mass and a Rosary for Jake and you all, to give you the necessary strength during this difficult time.
From the little we shared together this time, I know you are a great father and Jake was always proud of you.
I strongly hold you from here my friend, and keep you all in my heart.
May God keep you and hold you tight.
Mike Conroy
July 20, 2015
Gary, my sincere condolences to you and your family at this heartbreaking time.
Ron & Marcia Schott
July 20, 2015
So sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you and praying for you.
Steve & Terry Lewis
July 20, 2015
Gary & Marcia,
Steve & I are so sorry to hear about Jake - you & the family are in our thoughts & prayers as you go thru this extremely difficult time.
Jenny Turney
July 20, 2015
Dear Gary, Marcia and Emily, we are so very saddened by the loss of Jake. We have such fond memories of him being Matthew's first friend in Kindergarten. They had a good time! We pray for strength, healing and peace for all of you. Jake will be missed by many.
July 20, 2015
Dear Gary and Family, my prayers and thoughts are with you during this very difficult time .
Nathalie Bes (Austin Tx)
Susan Krick
July 20, 2015
Gary and family, I am so sorry and very saddened by what you are going through. Please know you are in my thoughts.
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