John L. Holmes Jr.

1918 - 2014

John L. Holmes Jr. obituary, 1918-2014, Jacksonville Beach, FL

John L. Holmes Jr.

1918 - 2014

BORN

1918

DIED

2014

John Holmes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 16, 2014.
HOLMES Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com Captain John L. Holmes, Jr, 95, USN retired, passed away peacefully among family and friends at his Atlantic Beach home, July 9, 2014. A native of Jacksonville, Fl., he was born August 6, 1918. He was preceded in death by his daughter, Harriet Holmes Raffo and his beloved wife, Harriet Elizabeth Clarkson Holmes, Betty. He is survived by his son John L. Holmes, III (Teresa), brother Rogers B. Holmes, son-in-law Tom Raffo, 6 grandchildren, 9 great grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews. After attending Sewanee, he served 241/2 years in the U.S. Navy retiring in 1965 at the attained rank of Captain. He served in WWII with various duties including gunnery officer on a carrier in the Pacific theater. After the war, among his many duties, he commanded the USS Blair, DE 147 and the USS Ingraham, DD 694. Upon his retirement from the Navy, he joined his brother, Rogers Tiger Holmes at Holmes Lumber Co., where he eventually became president. He was an avid golfer, swimmer and fisherman and will be missed immensely by all who knew him. Arrangements are under the care of Beaches Chapel by Hardage-Giddens (904)249-2374. A funeral service will be held Tuesday, July 22, at 10:30am, at St. Paul's By The Sea, 465 11th. Ave. N., Jacksonville Beach, Fl. A reception will follow the service at the church. Burial will take place at 1:30pm at Evergreen Cemetery, Gate 5, 4535 Main St., Jacksonville, Fl. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Harriet Holmes Raffo Memorial Fund, c/o UF Health, Office of Development, 580 W. 8th. St., Jacksonville, Fl., 32208.

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September 4, 2015

He was an excellent C.O. on the USS Ingraham. His crew had utmost respect for him. After over 50 years out of the USN, I still keep him in my mind as a great example of a respected man.

July 21, 2014

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July 21, 2014

Johnny, you outlived them all! What a blessing and to have Betty by your side for so long then Betsy, lucky. Your kids were Lucky too for them to have you and Betty in their lives for so long. You will be missed, friend, neighbor, and someone I looked up to......Wayne

Betsy Lindsay

July 19, 2014

Oh, Johnny! The majority of your last 26,208 hours (3 years) was spent with me hovering around, trying to keep you between the buoy's of life....you sure lived life full tilt boogie. Loved by sweet Betty Clarkson Holmes till her dying breath, you on one side holding her hand, I on the other. Then OUR adventures together began in earnest, intensely, immediately. I was scared. How on God's green earth were the aging hippie chick and THE CAPTAIN going to get on together? But we did, and often quite splendidly. I learned to love you thru Sandy and William Goodling's eyes, and was supported unconditionally by John III, Teresa and Rogers. Your mind was as deep as the oceans you sailed, your wit as sharp as the crack of gunfire from your shotguns, and your desire to help and be no burden was there into your very last hours....I on one side holding your hand, Yankee Linda on the other, and your son John there, praying you safe passage into Heaven. You came to trust and love me, for you told me so. And for this, and being brought into your circle of friends and family, I am truly blessed. My life is changed for the better. I am eternally grateful. Give Betty and Neese a kiss and a hug from me. I miss y'all so much....Pax Christi...till we meet again, dear friend....

July 17, 2014

Captain Johnny,
Eternal thanks and gratitude for nearly 50 years of heartfelt friendship with you and Miss Betty. Always a wide-eyed, fun adventure from going mach 5 on the Venus Baby, to swimming laps at the BAC, to tackling home repair projects at 81 5th., to watching golf on the cinema sized TV,to the thrilling rides to Singleton's to Hobie Cat racing, etc. A lifetime of grand memories for us. You are greatly missed.

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