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Vince & Judy Lackner
June 24, 2005
We were so sorry to hear of John's death. We hadn't seen John since he was at Carnegie Tech, but we had kept in touch through his mother or his brother Tom. The whole Lilly/Lippert family has always been close to us: Mary Jo was a cousin of the Lackners, and it was she who introduced us to each other more than 60 years ago.
We remember how talented John was, and how varied his art. It's sad that he had to leave this world so young--he had much more to contribute.
Time really does heal so much--but the ache never quite goes away. How wonderful that you have some tangible pieces of art to help you to remember John.
Vince and Judy Lackner
Tom and Robi Lilly
June 23, 2005
As the wind catches the dust that is now John's body
And makes it whole with the desert he loved
His spirit which we had the great pleasure of knowing and loving
And of being loved by him
Will still and forever be with us
John no longer needs to dream the solutions
He so creatively brought to projects brought to him
But our memory of him will surely be of his Ah ha
His smile when he knew the puzzle was solved
And of his great craft in creating what needed to be
John spoke through his work
And his work shows the beauty of his mind
The depth of his vision
The power of his hands
And the gentle caring of his soul
We are better for knowing John
And will be happy remembering him
Brother, Father, Uncle
And always our Dear friend
Mary Joan Walheim
June 13, 2005
It is hard to express the loving feelings and sense of loss that are so profound for me.
I am greatly saddened by John's death, but know that he had prepared well for this eventuality.
I hope Alex and Mary know that John's family includes the Philadelphia area where they are always welcome.
My condolences also to Mary and Tom who have lost a loving brother
Mary Jo Rafferty Walheim
Peggy Rafferty/Connolly
June 13, 2005
My best memory of cousin John was visiting at Lake Erie. John was so tall and handsome. He was about to go kayaking with a friend.
John sculpted a wonderful owl for my Mother, his Aunt Vera Lilly Rafferty, that we all loved. It was prominently displayed on the family mantle, and was a loving reminder of John.
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Tom and Robi Lilly
June 13, 2005
To know John was to love him
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