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Candace Young
January 27, 2024
My first memory of her (when we still knew her as Kathleen) was when she appeared with her sweet smile, quiet demeanor, and braided hair in our 5th grade classroom after moving to Santa Monica. I quickly discovered what a very fun girl she was as well. We became instant friends who loved nothing more than laughing and going to the library and reading together. We were both smart girls in a world that was more apt to value nice girls than smart girls but we were kind of both. I think our parents liked us being friends with one another because we both had such a sense of kinship and fun with each other, but were also smart and modestly well behaved.
My parents really liked Kathleen too. When our family moved to the Northwest they invited Kathleen to join us for a month and my dad even gave the two of us a job at his bank while she was there. Then later when we were traveling in Europe we picked up Kathleen in England from the Stanford campus and she traveled with us for awhile. My family wasn't that inclusive generally, and rarely were friends invited to anything other than to play or hang out at home. So it really said how much they felt like she was part of the family.
During grad school I spent one summer in Berkeley where I lived with Cathy and Dru Schultz and saw a lot of Kathleen who by then was married and had baby Gwyneth. She was so young to have a baby when all of the rest of us still were kind of juvenile ourselves. I remember what a sweet and responsible mother she was, which must have been challenging for her when her peers were so footloose and fancy free. But she loved that baby.
Later when Kathy and Dan got together, it was such a happy time in her life, so that was a new phase of our friendship too together with the wildly fun and funny Dan. When Gwyneth was grown up and a mother herself, Kathy and I started to take spa trips where we went to the Golden Door and similar places which was a total blast. For awhile we went on a spa trip every year and it gave us plenty of time to fully catch up and reconnect. And we really had some fun times.
The last time I saw Kathy before she became ill, she came to my son Peter's wedding in Asheville, NC where she was a great addition to the festivities. (I remember Gwyneth's wedding much earlier, also such a special time.) Then I had a chance to see her several times once she got ill and I was there visiting on her last days. The last sweet memory I have of Kathy is in the hospital when she was very tired and already almost gone. I didn't know if she could hear me but i took her hand and told her she had been a wonderful friend and a blessing in my life. She opened her eyes and blew me a kiss. That was a sweet goodbye for a treasured lifelong friendship.
Kelley Burnett
January 17, 2024
Kathy and her family were a HUGE part of my childhood - including a spell where all of us lived in one house after she and my mom both went through divorces. We had a lot of wonderful times together. Long live the Sappho Champagne Society!
Margo Pepe
January 17, 2024
Margo Pepe
January 17, 2024
Margo Pepe
January 17, 2024
As adults we four sisters,-Liz, Margo, Kathy and Barbara - always enjoyed being together. Visiting LACMA and eating Dim Sum were our favorite treats!
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