Margaret C. May

1920 - 2014

Margaret C. May obituary, 1920-2014, Danville, CA

Margaret C. May

1920 - 2014

Margaret May Obituary

Published by Contra Costa Times on Aug. 21, 2014.
Margaret C. May
January 16, 1920 ~ August 17, 2014
Resident of Danville
Margaret ("Mimi") May died at her home in Danville, CA. She was born in Milo, Maine, and at the age of 2, moved with her parents to Hollywood where she graduated from Hollywood High and attended USC, remaining a loyal Trojan to the end. Margaret married John May on June 27, 1941, who shortly thereafter joined the US Army Air Corps to become a B-24 pilot in the South Pacific. Margaret and John moved to Danville in 1951, where they raised 5 daughters, Diana (Deedy) Ogden, Susan Foord, Marilyn Gardner, Barbara McMahon and Melinda Malin. Both of them loved their family and their community, volunteering countless hours in school, civic and philanthropic activities. As an inseparable team, they worked tirelessly to see the incorporation of the Town of Danville, and became the "First Couple" of the town when John became its first mayor. Together, and with their daughters, they ran The Shoe Stable stores in Danville, Lafayette and Pleasanton for 30 years, and Margaret created her own catering business, May Day Catering. John preceded Margaret in death in 1994. She remained involved on the boards of Hospice of the East Bay and The John Muir Health Foundation.
Her love for family defined Margaret's life. Just 2 weeks before her death, her daughters held a family picnic at Hap Magee Park in Danville where she was surrounded by them, their spouses, her 10 grandchildren and her 2 great-grandchildren. She died at peace leaving all who survive her with sweet memories of Thursday night family dinners at the Shoe Stable, daughters' weddings at home, Super Bowl parties, overcooked vegetables, countless gin rummy hands, and a life well lived.
A celebration of Margaret's life will be held at the First United Methodist Church, 902 Danville Boulevard, Alamo, at 1:30 pm on Saturday, August 23. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Hospice of The East Bay or The John Muir Health Foundation.

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Deepest sympathies to the May family. Tamra (Low) Amato

Michael Hatton

October 27, 2014

I grew up next door to Mrs. May, Marilyn and Barbie (Barbara) were my childhood playmates. She was a very good mother to me. As a little boy, I was a handful, still am at 63, but since, Marilyn and Barbie and I played together everyday, she put up with me. She was the prettiest lady, and Mr May was so handsome. They took to see My Fair Lady, Music Man. Marilyn and Barbie and me, use to stand in the cold waiting for the school bus, in front of my house, or the Sunset Nursery. Grew up on horses, played cowboys and Indians, baseball, even Man from Uncle. But above all, M & B & Me, were Explorers, going up the creek in our area. Mrs. May was the best baker in the world!! I don't know how many brownies I snatched when I thought no one was looking. Her chocolate cake was so amazing to a boy my age. Growing up next to the May family was one of the greatest gifts in my life. We were allowed to be kids, playing kick ball and kick the can, and making inner tube rafts, to sail the great seas (creek by the old graveyard.) How Mrs. May put up with us, (there were no pcs, tv in our area was a couple of channels), but she did, and taught us manners too if we misbehaved. I will always remember you, Mrs. May, as the beautiful lady, that opened the door for me and I could run upstairs, and go see Marilyn and Barbie.

Meredith Madsen

September 9, 2014

Margaret May was one amazing Lady. I have so many happy memories with her, and her family. All the Christmas Eves, dinner parties, Easter egg hunts, the weddings, my parents 25th Wedding anniversary, my Father's memorial, and when she came to the hospital to say goodbye to my Mother. I will never forget her. My life was enriched by having her in it. I am sorry and sad for those she left behind. But I know she is home now with John, and I am sure with my parents playing cards once again.

Jeff Young

September 3, 2014

To the May family,
Please accept our deepest sympathies for your loss of Margaret-- may she rest in peace. She was such a sweet person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families during this difficult time. Jeff and Candice Young

Shannon Smith

September 2, 2014

Margaret was my grandmother's (Marian Madsen) very best friend. My mother and two aunts have grown up with the May girls and I have heard so many lovely stories about the family. Margaret was a very kind and caring person. I will never forget when she let me come stay with her for two weeks when I was in transition to move to LA. She welcomed me in her home, cooked me delicious meals, and we had some great talks too! About two years ago, my husband and I visited Maraget at Sunrise. She chatted with us and shared many stories about her life. I am now in town and was hoping to see Margaret again. Sadly, I heard that she had passed. I am so sorry for your loss and pass my deepest condolences to the immediate family. I know what a wonderful and loving person Margaret was to many and she will always be remembered in my heart!!!

Lots of love,
Shannon and Richard Smith

August 21, 2014

I'm so sorry for you loss. She was a wonderful lady. Fondly, Sue Tulis

August 21, 2014

One year, long ago (40+ years), when I lived with my parents...I wanted to give my parents a Surprise Anniversary Party...but I didn't know how to go about it, since my parents were active in nearly every local committee in the area. How could I keep this surprise party a secret? And then, I recalled Margaret and John May...I remembered my Mom had mentioned Margaret started a catering service. I recall, I drove to their "beautiful" home, (unnannounced) and travelled the l-o-n-g driveway up to the front-door. Margaret was home and answered the door. I introduced myself...I informed Mrs. May of my idea, and asked if she might have any ideas on how I could create this party? Margaret stated
she would have the party at her home...she stated she would invite my parents over for dinner. Margaret then stated, she had a large yard, and she would set-up 8 round tables with cloths, and take care of the catering, too. I don't remember the details of our party agreement; but, I do recall going to the May's home and doing manual-labor to set-up tables, chairs, decorations, and anything else that was needed to complete my agreement obligations. I had much admiration for the May's. They surprised my parents with a PERFECT anniversary party of their closest friends...my parents were elated, and so was I!

Both Margaret and John May were wonderful people. I'm glad I had the opportunity to meet the May's.

Condolences to the immediate families. My heart shares your grief.

Nancy Olson
Daughter of Carol and Bob Olson

August 21, 2014

We are deeply saddened to hear of Margaret's passing. She was a Wonder Woman. Our sincere condolences to the family of Margaret and John May, leading members of the Greatest Generation.
Jim and Charmaine Moore

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