Melissa S. Wiley

1979 - 2012

Melissa S. Wiley obituary, 1979-2012

Melissa S. Wiley

1979 - 2012

BORN

1979

DIED

2012

Melissa Wiley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 16, 2012.
A celebration of Melissa S. (Van Acker) Wiley's life will be held on Friday, July 20, at 3:30 p.m. in the Home Economics Building on the Tulelake-Butte Valley Fairgrounds in Tulelake. Potluck finger foods will follow.
Melissa, 32, passed away on June 21, 2012, and was born Aug. 1, 1979.
She was raised in Tulelake, where she graduated valedictorian in 1997. Having received her bachelor's degree in English literature and master's degree in education at Willamette University in Salem, Ore., in 2002, Melissa began her teaching career in Phoenix, Ariz., at Santa Maria Middle School.
She is survived by her loving husband Brandon Wiley, daughter Morgan Wiley and step-daughter Jessica Wiley. Melissa was the proud mother of three beautiful children Braeden, 4, Breana, 2 1/2, and Brocc, 16 months.
As Melissa described her life on Facebook, "Potty training and teething…lots of smiles and laughs :0)." Melissa's infectious smile, big heart and love of her family and friends will be greatly missed.
She is also survived by her parents Mitzi and James Van Acker of Tulelake, sister Jenifer Van Acker of Phoenix, and brother and sister-in-law James and Cassie Van Acker of Eugene, Ore. She was also the proud auntie of her niece Addison and nephews Scott, Ismael, Emilio and James III.
Wiley Educational Fund has been set up at Sterling Savings Bank for Melissa's three young children.

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July 22, 2012

Elona Bunch posted to the memorial.

July 21, 2012

M. Johnson posted to the memorial.

July 16, 2012

Chris Howard posted to the memorial.

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Elona Bunch

July 22, 2012

I'm sorry to hear about your loss! Losing a child is the hardest thing to go through! I've been there and I am keeping you both in my prayers-Elona

M. Johnson

July 21, 2012

In your sadness, may there be hope... In your thoughts, may there be peace... In your heart, may there be healing. My condolences to the family on the loss of your loved one.(Psalms 55:22)

Chris Howard

July 16, 2012

My heart aches for the family. She is in a better place but that doesn't help the pain we feel as losing our the biggest part of our world. Brandon, be as strong as you can for the kids. Don't be afraid to ask for help. My prayers are with you and your family.

Sincerely,

Chris Howard

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