Paul D. PHELAN

Paul D. PHELAN obituary, Toronto, ON

Paul D. PHELAN

Paul PHELAN Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 22 to May 26, 2021.
PAUL D. PHELAN With great sadness the family announces the passing of Paul D. Phelan, 70, on May 20, 2021. P.D. passed peacefully in the early morning, surrounded by his children in the family home of over thirty years, just a few blocks from where his parents, Paul J Phelan and Helen Gardiner Phelan, raised him. A truly original character, colorful story-teller, loving father, fireworks enthusiast, devoted sailor, and perennial life of the party, Paul will be leaving a big hole in the lives of those who loved him: His daughters Jennen, Jamie, and Hayley, his son Paul, the mother to his children and dear friend Rundi, his sons and daughter in law James, Amit and Ailey, grandchildren Romeo, Odin, Ava, and Lucia, and longtime friends and confidantes Ian Patten and Stephen Kelley. He will be met in heaven by his beloved daughter, Paula Dawn, who predeceased him.P.D. accomplished many things in his life. He was a world-class Finn sailor, successful businessman, tireless champion of Canadian sailing, father of five, and, by his tongue-in-cheek telling, the first individual to use a personal computer. In his later years, Paul worked on a book, The Water's Edge, which explored his theory that human migration and dispersal occurred mainly through seafaring. "This is my way of giving back to the sea, which had given so much to me," he wrote, crediting his father for introducing him at an early age to the sport which he would remain passionate about for the rest of his life. Paul dedicated much of his years to passing on this great love of sailing: Through his creation of Wind Athletes Canada, he mentored countless young sailors and provided coaching, equipment, funding, and enthusiastic encouragement to the National Sailing Team. In 2011, the Canadian Yachting Association awarded him the prestigious Rolex Sailor of the Year award in recognition of his vital contribution, unique achievements and unforgettable presence around the docks and slips in marinas across the country. Describing the time he spent living alone on a sailboat (on which he asserted he had more computing power onboard than the Apollo 11 mission to the moon) he wrote: "On some evenings, the darkness of the water merged with the darkness of space, providing me with a spiritual experience that is still hard to describe." We know he's out there now, sailing through that inky expanse, finally at peace. The family thanks Karen Henderson, 'super girl', and the staff at the Collingwood General and Marine Hospital for their compassionate care of Paul in the last year of his life. Due to Covid-19 restrictions, the funeral service will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Wind Athletes Canada:https:// www.windathletes.ca/donate

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September 29, 2021

Teddie Laframboise posted to the memorial.

September 27, 2021

Kushal Gupta posted to the memorial.

July 2, 2021

Cara Wenig planted trees.

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Teddie Laframboise

September 29, 2021

Dear Rosemary and Gail,
I am sorry this is so late and I am sorry to hear of the death of your brother. I did want to say that during my year at U of T I visited your parents often. I met Paul David at there home several times and he was always very nice to me. I had no idea he was such a sailing enthusiasts and I suppose he had that in common with your Dad. It is such a shame to see him die so young with all those kids and grand children. Condolences from our de Ste. Croix-Laframboise family.

Kushal Gupta

September 27, 2021

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Cara Wenig

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Rob Fox

May 28, 2021

I feel pretty fortunate that Paul was willing to give so much - through his generosity I was able to make tons of great sailing memories with friends and peers on multiple continents. I don't sail much anymore but still do offshore racing..also greatly in part due to Paul’s support of the O’Canada program. Very grateful to the opportunities Paul opened up for a bunch of us. Thank you Paul.

Dorothy & Emily Pyfrom

May 27, 2021

We would like to express our sincere condolences to the Phelan Family our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Raines Koby

May 27, 2021

Condolences to family & friends. I echo the kind and remarkable sentiments expressed. I remember Paul with the sparkle in his eye as the north wester cranked up on Georgian Bay as he rigged up his windsurfer.

Steve Jarrett

May 27, 2021

My condolences to family and friends. I had the pleasure of knowing Paul during the inaugural days of windsurfing. He was an early enthusiast, embracing and supporting the sport in its formative years. Organizing local events that he also competed in, supporting upcoming kids through to the world stage. He was instrumental in bringing and supporting a number of Canadian and North American Windsurfing Championships in the Collingwood area during the ‘70s and ’80s. I have fond memories of Paul’s windsurfing prowess in the strongest of winds, both in Hawaii at the Pan Am Cup, a forerunner of World Cup Windsurfing, sporting a big smile as he held his own against the world’s best in gale force winds; and at a Canadian Championship in Quebec as the only windsurfer not to get knocked down when a wind squall flattened the entire fleet! Sail on Paul.

Suze Weir

May 27, 2021

If you knew PD your life was better for it. Sail on old friend.

Ken kelly

May 26, 2021

Over the 15 years on CST as a paralympian in the Sonar class Paul was a huge supporter of the paraplegics and of my team. The foundation provided incredible assistance with boats and adaptive equipment purchases that took my team to multiple world championships and to Beijing for the 2008 games. Always supportive, always be remembered.

Henry Haiduk

May 26, 2021

Paul was a great supporter in the Sailing World but he also lent his philanthropic hand to start the National Ski Academy in Collingwod.
Thanks Paul, you will always be in our hearts.

Stephen McBride

May 25, 2021

Paul was such a presence and so supportive of us all in the sailing community. We have all lost a true friend. My condolences to Paul’s family and his many friends. Sail on Paul.

Quentin Pollock

May 25, 2021

I some very wonderful and funny memories of Paul. We hung out together at windsurfing regattas in our younger days and worked together later on to support Canadian competitive sailors. He had a very unique personality that combined so many wonderful attributes: generosity, humour , empathy, competitiveness and much more. I cherish the times we spent together and will miss you Paul.

Chris Cook

May 24, 2021

Paul had the unique gift of seeing what was to be. He was able to guide his support to others by offering his unique insight. I was fortunate enough to be one of those whom he went out of his way to help. He's a key influence in who I've become. Thank-you Paul.

Zachary Plavsic

May 24, 2021

Thank you Paul for helping bring so many dreams to reality, and all of your generosity and passion for the ocean!
May the wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face!

Nigel

May 23, 2021

Thank you Paul for everything. You are a generous as you were joyful.

Dr. Ian D. D. Brown

May 23, 2021

My condolences. I hope you are sailing amongst the stars!

Pippa Blake

May 23, 2021

I have wonderful memories of Paul when I worked at the National Ski Academy from1986-2001. His generosity and big hearted love of life quite literally lived in the walls of 200 Oak Street. I feel extremely fortunate to have known him during those exciting times.

David William Greig

May 23, 2021

The first time we met was at the lagoon on Toronto Island in the cut between Snake and Algonquin Islands. PD was stuck in the willows with his Firefly and I helped extricate him and his boat. We were next door neighbours on the Island.

That was the beginning of a friendship that led to PJ, PD and me competing in the 1968 Olympic Trials on the Dragon Mia and finishing in second place.

Paul and I had many other adventures as well. I was sorry to hear of his passing ... an end of an era. Irie old friend.

Elizabeth Smythe Brinton

May 23, 2021

I had the chance, later in life, to thank him for championing all the fledgling efforts of my teen years. He was a constant source of support, as was his mother. I simply would have had an entirely different life had our paths not crossed so intensely. Our shared Irish heritage, our Catholic and Protestant sensibilities, our mutual love of all things natural and beautiful led to adventures by land and sea. He is forever in my heart. He will be missed.

Randall Carpenter

May 23, 2021

Memories from the 70’s - Paul and Rundi in their orange van, babies, sails and boards surrounded us all. Off shore breezes, beers, trick boards, riding the rail in tiny bikinis, the Gonzo races and lots of blonde hair - what a life we had at Northwinds Beach in the good old days. Sail on. Miss you Paul. XxRandall

Mike Rutigliano

May 22, 2021

We would like to extend our sincerest condolences to the whole Phelan family in this time of grief, please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
May he rest in internal peace.
Keep sailing Paul.

Tim Godfrey

May 22, 2021

He was a great pal when we were together in the Prep a million years ago. And I remember fondly some wild parties in the basement of his parents’ ski chalet at Osler. And I enjoyed the birthday parties at the old parental home in Forest Hill. The Phelan family was always so welcoming and fun to be around. Never a dull moment. Paul was a gentleman.

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