Randall J. "Randy" Killian

Randall J. "Randy" Killian obituary, Melrose, formerly of North and Nordeast Minneapoli

Randall J. "Randy" Killian

Randall J. Killian Obituary

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Randy was born in Minneapolis on March 22nd, 1951 to Mary and Joe Killian. He graduated from De LaSalle High School in 1969. Randy, also known as "Hardware Randy," started working in the family hardware store at the age of eight. He was a hard worker, often working 70-80 hour weeks after he bought the hardware store from his dad in 1976. Besides valuing hard work, Randy also valued "lake life." He grew up spending summers on Big Birch Lake, getting into lots of trouble with his siblings, many cousins, and friends there. When he was just 19, he bought his own land on Little Birch Lake, building it up over the next 46 years into the dream oasis of his retirement. He loved nothing more than sitting on the deck with his wife, friends, and family, enjoying a drink while looking at the lake. Gayle and Randy met on January 3rd, 1992 at Tony Jaros River Garden Bar in Nordeast Minneapolis. Gayle stole his barstool to get close to the bar to order a drink when he went to the bathroom. When Randy came back, he said, "You stole my seat! What are you drinking? I'll buy." After having her first Greenie (the signature drink at Tony's) and spending a couple of hours with this great guy, Gayle was smitten and so was Randy. They were married at the lake on August 31st, 1997. Randy and Gayle traveled extensively, including 3 trips to Europe. Randy would say, "Moltz, you plan it and I'll pay for it!" He loved seeing new places and meeting new people, always making lasting connections with others. Randy and Gayle moved to Little Birch Lake in 2002, where Randy promptly established himself as a memorable member of the community. He worked part time at Roseview Manor for 12 years and was a valued member of Melrose Lion's Club. Randy loved to garden, cook, entertain, golf, and just hang out with friends and family. His dry sense of humor and one liner's will be missed by his happy hour crew and by his Sunday afternoon buddies. Although often displaying a rough exterior, Randy was overly generous and kind hearted. Those words, "What are you drinking? I'll buy!," were often heard coming out of his mouth. He would do just about anything for a friend or family member in need. Randy is survived by his loving wife, Gayle, step-mom Delores, little sisters Jane (Dan) Schmidt and Nancy Killian, sister-in-law Elaine (Dale) Erickson, brother-in-law Brian Moltz, nieces (Mary and Corrie), nephews (Paul, Grant, Jesse and Mike), niece in-laws (Laurie and Susan), grandnephews (Isaiah, Henry, Hamdi and Yohannes), and countless friends. We know he is now hanging out in heaven, keeping an eye on all of us, reunited with his parents Joe and Mary, brother Mark, brother-in-law Al, father and mother in-law Chuck and Helen, niece Juliette, nephew Gabe, best friends Larry, Don, and Dean, and many other aunts, uncles, and cousins. Rest in peace, dear man. You will be sorely missed and always lovingly remembered. Family and Friends will gather Friday, November 11th, beginning at 4:30 p.m. at ElmerZ 1225 Timberlane Drive, Sauk Centre, MN to celebrate his life, share a meal and drink a toast to a wonderful man. Please come prepared to share your favorite Randy story – we know there are many! In lieu of flowers, please donate to a charity of your choice.

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November 10, 2016

Kim Kilian (the other Kilian) posted to the memorial.

November 10, 2016

Wendy Richards posted to the memorial.

November 9, 2016

Bob Larson Larson posted to the memorial.

Kim Kilian (the other Kilian)

November 10, 2016

Gayle, I'm so sorry for your loss! I can't even imagine the sadness you must feel. Please know that my prayers are with you. I wish I could be there tomorrow at Randy's service. I talked to Dianne today. She is supposed to hug you for me. Sending you lots and lots of love.

Wendy Richards

November 10, 2016

I am very sorry for your loss. Hugs and love to all. Rest in peace, Randy.

Bob Larson Larson

November 9, 2016

Oh Man--I can`t believe you`ve left us--we`ve been great friends for about 35 years, competing on the golf courses and the cribbage board, traveling to find interesting situations,always talking business, but always united in spirit---Gayle-am certain that your time with my friend were enjoyable-lets cherish what we had and remember one of the most unforgetable people that I`ve ever had the pleasure of knowing.

Kathy Guthrie

November 8, 2016

We are very grateful for all the years that we could call Randy our friend. He will be missed. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

Sandy Smith

November 7, 2016

Gayle, my heart goes out to you. I can't imagine what you are going through right now, but know that I am thinking of you always. You and Randy seemed to have a special bond and happy marriage. I wish I would have had the chance to meet him. I hope that you will find some peace and comfort in your many memories you had together. I will be praying for you during these hard times. Love you, Sandy Smith

Randy Herges

November 7, 2016

From one Randall to another "Hergie" wishes you a fond farewell!!

Terri (Tieman) Melton

November 7, 2016

He will be truly missed! Randy has done so much for the people of Melrose and has made an impact of its community! May he Rest In Peace! Hugs and prayers go out to his whole family.

Snow Pogones

November 7, 2016

Gayle I am so sorry!! I just love seeing the pictures you two share on fb! I can't imagine how hard this is especially since it happen so suddenly. I'll be praying for you during this hard time! Snow Pogones

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