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Susan Marie Rathke of Emporia passed away on March 31, 2023, due to complications from cancer. She was 67.
Susan was born on October 19, 1955, in Kansas City, Kansas to Milton D Merritt and Shirley Marie (Cowgill) Merritt. She was the third of four children. Susan grew up in the KCK area, winning spelling bees, belonging to 4-H, the Camp Fire Girls, the Presbyterian Church and its youth group, and other clubs and groups. She truly enjoyed working on her parents’ Christmas tree farm.
She was a Water Safety Instructor (WSI) for high level swimming skills, gave swim lessons, and was a lifeguard for several pools in the KCK area throughout her high school and college years assisting with many AAU swim events. She was also on the Washington High School girls swim team and was involved in theater productions. Susan was an avid softball player in her early years and continued to play through her twenties and early thirties.
Susan came to Emporia in 1973 to attend KSTC and never left. She graduated from ESU in 1977, being one of the rare students to attend KSTC, EKSC, and ESU. She worked in banking for 16 years, starting at Citizens National Bank and finishing her banking years as the Office and Supply Manager at Columbia Savings. She joined the Emporia Chamber of Commerce office team and enjoyed over 28 years working with the public, eventually retiring as the Convention and Visitors Bureau Director.
Susan was instrumental to many community groups, serving on numerous boards including the Emporia Rec. Commission, ESPI, Twin Rivers Festival, and many more. Susan was often called upon by various organizations due to her knowledge and experience in planning successful activities and events. Some of these include such notable events as the All-Veterans’ Tribute, many disc golf tournaments, and the (DK) Unbound Gravel biking races. Susan will long be remembered for her dedication to making Emporia a great place to visit, live, and play. Susan was also involved with many state and regional groups for tourism including the Travel Industry Association of Kansas and the Flint Hills Tourism Coalition, where her opinion was requested, respected, and appreciated.
On June 25, 1977, she was married at the First Presbyterian Church in KCK, to Edward J. Rathke. To this union three children were born, Leslie Ann Seeley, Russell (Rusty) Edward Rathke, and Linsey Marie Hopkins. Susan was a member of Messiah Lutheran Church, the Beta Sigma Phi sorority (of which the sisterhood endures to this day), Red Rocks William Allen White House, Emporia Celebrates the Flint Hills, and the American Legion ladies’ auxiliary.
Surviving family members include: husband Edward Rathke, daughters Leslie (Sam) Seeley and Linsey (Bret) Hopkins, grandchildren Sophia Seeley, Calvin Seeley, Briar Hopkins, and Landon Hopkins. Brothers Brad (Eileen Breslin) Merritt and Scott (Marian) Merritt, and sister Sheila (Joe) Markley. Sister-in-laws Eileen (John) Jenek and Arlene Young. Plus numerous nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews, and one great, great nephew.
She is preceded in death by her six-month-old son Russell (Rusty) Edward Rathke, her parents Milton and Shirley Merritt, and a sister-in-law Patricia (Patty) Merritt.
Susan was truly thankful for all of her family, friends, and the staff of Hand In Hand Hospice, who had been so very supportive of her and her family during this time. Susan showed considerable strength and grace through her battle with cancer, which made her family stronger.
A remembrance memorial and celebration of her life will take place at the Emporia American Legion Post #5 on Sunday April 16, 2023 at 4pm. The family requests no flowers.
Memorial contributions to American Legion Post #5 “Bingo Fund,” Hand In Hand Hospice, or Messiah Lutheran Church. Memorial contributions may be sent in care of Roberts-Blue-Barnett Funeral Home, PO Box #175, Emporia, KS 66801
A private family burial service will take place later at Evergreen Cemetery.
7 Entries
Warren and Linda Wood
April 10, 2023
We're so sorry to hear of Susan's passing. We know how important she was to your life and how much you loved her. We pray for the repose of her soul and for God's comfort to you and all who loved Susan.
Don Roberts
April 6, 2023
Sorry to hear of your loss. Times like this are not easy.

Kansas Tourism Conference
Kelli Orender
April 6, 2023
One of my favorite people I worked with in the tourism industry. We all will miss her! Prayers to you all.
Peggy Cowan
April 4, 2023
Ed, so thinking of you & your family.
Dorothy E Shipman
April 4, 2023
Susan was a beautiful soul. She was loved and she will be missed.
Gary & Kathleen Wilkerson
April 3, 2023
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Michael Forrester
April 3, 2023
I am so very sorry for your loss...
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