Thomas Michael "Mike" Barr

1955 - 2014

Thomas Michael "Mike" Barr obituary, 1955-2014, Bartlesville, OK

Thomas Michael "Mike" Barr

1955 - 2014

BORN

1955

DIED

2014

Thomas Barr Obituary

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Thomas Michael (Mike) Barr, resident of Bartlesville, Oklahoma, passed away in his home on February 14, 2014, at the age of 59. He was born on February 2, 1955, in Borger, TX to William E. and Phyllis Barr. Until age 11 he lived in the extraordinary community of Phillips, TX.
At age 11, he moved with his family to Puerto Rico. In 1973, he graduated as Valedictorian from Caribbean High School.
Mike was a graduate of Oklahoma State University where he earned a Bachelor of Science degree. He also earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Information Technology Software Development and Multimedia from Rogers State University.
Mike learned to fly in the 1990's and became a licensed commercial pilot in 1996. In 1997 he became a licensed flight instructor and taught in Bartlesville for some time. He went on to learn to fly jet aircraft and earned a position as First Officer in 2004.
Mike was a loving son and brother. He enjoyed flying, golfing, tennis, working with computers and spending time with his family.
Mike was preceded in death by his father. Mike is survived by: his mother, Phyllis; his brothers, Ken and his wife, Nanci; John and his wife, Virginia; his sister, Tricia Derryberry; and a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and other relatives.
Mike generously donated his body for scientific research. Memorial services for Mike will be held at 2:00 p.m., on Tuesday, February 18, 2014, at the First Baptist Church in Bartlesville.
In Mike's memory and honor, donations may be made to the charity of your choice.
Services are under the direction of the Arnold Moore & Neekamp Funeral Home. Online condolences may be left at www.honoringmemories.com.

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February 28, 2014

Sandra Waldo posted to the memorial.

February 18, 2014

Marlyse Bassett posted to the memorial.

February 17, 2014

Melinda Pfeiffer DiCarlo posted to the memorial.

Sandra Waldo

February 28, 2014

Phyllis, I am so very sorry for your loss.

Marlyse Bassett

February 18, 2014

My parents, Mikkel and my thoughts and prayers are with the family today and during this sad time.
I will always hold close to my heart the great friendship that Mike and I had in Puerto Rico.

Melinda Pfeiffer DiCarlo

February 17, 2014

Patty and Mrs. Barr, it saddens me deeply to learn of Mike's death. I remember him fondly from our time in Puerto Rico. I wish that I could be with you tomorrow. I will be holding you all in my prayers.

February 17, 2014

Patty and Mrs. Barr, it deeply saddens me to hear of Mike's death. I remember him fondly from our time in Puerto Rico. I wish that I could be with you. I will be holding you in my prayers. Melinda Pfeiffer DiCarlo

Melanie Lay

February 17, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

February 17, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Linda McGinnis
Friend of Tricia's

Judy Santiago

February 17, 2014

My heartfelt condolences to the Barr family.

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