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Phil Danko

1960 - 2014

Phil Danko obituary, 1960-2014, Santa Barbara, CA

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1960

DIED

2014

Phil Danko Obituary

Phil Danko
Resident of Santa Barbara
Phillip Steven Danko passed away on April 28, 2014. Phil was born to Joseph and Marion Danko on July 18, 1960, in Minneapolis, the third of five children. In 1967, the family moved to south San Jose, where his parents still reside. In a neighborhood teeming with sports-crazy boys, he was among the most gifted athletes. As a young teen, he ran the Bay to Breakers and other races before such endeavors were commonplace, and he showed great promise in football. His true calling, however, was wrestling. He was dedicated to the sport and was a star performer at Santa Teresa HS, where he was a High School All-American in 1978, his senior year. He was also an outstanding student, winning the school's scholar-athlete award. He received a wrestling scholarship to Cal Poly San Luis Obispo. His wrestling was cut short by injuries, but Phil took advantage of his opportunity and obtained a bachelor's in Industrial Engineering, and later, a master's from USC. He had a successful career in aerospace and defense engineering, spending two decades with Delco. Phil, who fellowshipped at Calvary Chapels in the Santa Barbara area, loved his church, work, Giants, 49ers and NASCAR, wood working, and his family. He is survived by his parents; his former wife Suzy Danko; his son, Zachary; brothers Pete and Ken; sisters Liz and Debbie; and a large extended family. A celebration of Phil's life is planned for May 17 at 3 pm in Santa Barbara. Donations in his memory may be made to Cal Poly Wrestling. For details, contact petedanko [@] gmail.com.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on May 11, 2014.

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Greg Seybold

July 19, 2024

Phil, thinking about you always and wanted to stop by. You are missed by many.
Your BiL,
Greg

Jo-Jo

July 18, 2024

Thinking about you on your Birthday!!
Rest in Peace Phil. You are so very missed by everyone.

With love your cousin,

Aunt and uncle

July 4, 2024

Hi Phil, wishing you a `´Happy 4th today We have you in our thoughts today´love Aunty Fran and Uncle Den

Uncle Dennis & Aunty Fran

June 16, 2024

Wishing you a heavenly `´Happy Father´s Day `´Phil, we all love and miss you.Uncle Dennis and Aunty Fran

Den and Fran

April 1, 2024

Hi Phil, `´Happy Easter´´ to you . We still remember all our wonderful get togethers .RIP dear nephew, love Uncle Den and Aunty Fran

Uncle Dennis and Aunty Fran

December 27, 2023

Hi Phil, Sending you and our heavenly angels best wishes for Christmas and the New Year . We all love and miss you . Uncle Dennis and Aunty Fran

Dennis and Fran

November 23, 2023

Hi Phil,wishing you a `´Heavenly Thanksgiving . You are missed by so many . Love Uncle Dennis and Aunty Fran.

Greg

July 21, 2023

Happy Birthday Phil! Sure do miss talking with you and hanging out.

Jo-Jo

July 19, 2023

Happy Birthday to you my dear cousin Phil!

I actually wrote to you on the 18th but for some reason it didn´t go through. I just wanted to let you know that you are missed and you are in my thoughts!

Rest in peace!

Your cousin,

Uncle and aunty

July 19, 2023

Hi Phil, a belated happy birthday . We hope you had a great celebration with all the angels. Love you , Uncle Den and Aunty Fran

Deb

July 18, 2023

Happy heavenly birthday little brother. I miss you.

Aunty & Uncle

June 18, 2023

Happy Father´s Day to you Phil, this is a special day for all the fathers. Love and miss you ,Aunty Fran & Uncle Dennis

Deb

June 18, 2023

Thinking about you too - xoxo

Liz

April 25, 2023

Miss you so much, big brother.

Uncle Den and aunty Fran

April 8, 2023

Hi Phil, thinking about you and wishing you a Happy Easter . We miss you ,love uncle Den and aunty Fran

Deb

January 7, 2023

Just thinking about you <3

Uncle Dennis & Aunty Fran

December 25, 2022

Merry Christmas to you Phil, We all miss you.RIP, Love Uncle Dennis &Aunty Fran

Aunty Fran and Uncle Dennis

November 24, 2022

A happy Thanksgiving to you Phil,it was always so nice to see all the family being together to celebrate the day.you are missed so much, love Aunty Fran and Uncle Dennis

Aunty Fran & Uncle Den

July 18, 2022

Wishing you a very happy birthday Phil. Rip dear nephew, we love and miss you so much,Aunty Fran & Uncle Den.

Deb

May 1, 2022

Not that you are ever far from my thoughts, but seeing so many mementos of what an extraordinary person you were reminds me just how much I miss you and that you left us way too soon.

Aunty Fran

April 18, 2022

Happy Easter Phil ,sorry I´m late sending the greeting. I had remembered to do it and the I forgot.we love and miss you.RIP Phil , love Uncle Dennis and Aunty Fran

Liz

February 14, 2022

Happy Valentine's Day!
Love you and miss you!

Aunty Fran and Uncle Dennis

January 4, 2022

Wishing you a very Happy New Year Phil. You will forever be missed by everyone that loved you RIP dear nephew,love Aunty Fran and Uncle Dennis

Aunty fran

December 25, 2021

HI Phil,writing to wish you a Merry Christmas.I talked to your sister Deb today, she mentioned that Ken and Ann will be here to see them tomorrow. We love and miss you.Love Uncle Den &Aunty Fran

Aunty Fran& Uncle Dennis

November 25, 2021

Hi Phil, Happy Thanksgiving to our dear nephew. It seems like yesterday we were altogether celebrating the holidays. RIP Phil, love Aunty Fran & Uncle Dennis

deb

August 3, 2021

Thinking about you meeting up with dad

Fran Danko

July 20, 2021

Happy belated birthday Phil.I was so upset when my message wouldn't go through the other night I couldn't write Kurt or Clint either.We were invited to your mom's for dinner the other night and everything was delicious..,Debbie was the chef and Liz was the cleanup and dishwasher. It all was very nice..RIP Phil,you are always in our prayers.Love Uncle Den & Aunty Fran

Jo-Jo

July 18, 2021

Happy Birthday Phil!
Thinking about you today.

Rest in peace dear cousin.

Fran Danko

July 4, 2021

Hi Phil, we can just see you and the family waiting for your dad to arrive, all ready to greet him. We got to visit with your dad a few times before he left on his journey. It was so nice we got see Greg ,Nick and Chris. We love you and miss you,,Aunty Fran & Uncle Den

Aunty Fran

April 4, 2021

Hi Phil, Happy Easter to you dear nephew. I just got done writing to Clint & Kurt and I want to make sure you get one also, It is so nice that Debbie and Liz are here to be with your mom & dad to celebrate Easter. RIP Phil Love Aunty Fran & Uncle Den.

Aunty Fran

January 24, 2021

Hi Phil, we didn,t forget about you ,our puter decides to go on the fritz at times and won't work right.We want to wish you the very best in the New Yr.RIP dear nephew,love Aunty Fran&UncleDen

Fran

December 18, 2020

Hi Phil,

Merry Christmas to you dear nephew!
You are always in our thoughts and prayers.

Rest in peace,
Aunty Fran and Uncle Dennis

Greg

July 19, 2020

Always think of you but especially this time of the year while working on the pool..

Jo-Jo

July 18, 2020

Happy Birthday Phil,

Didn't want to let the day go by without letting you know that you are being thought of on your special day!

Rest in peace my dear cousin,

XOXOXOXOXOX

Aunty Fran

July 18, 2020

Hi Phil, HAPPY BIRTHDAY NEPHEW I'm so glad that I remembered your birthday ,Sure wished you were here to celebrate with the family.We all love and miss you very much.RIP dear nephew,Aunty Fran & Uncle Den

Deb

July 18, 2020

always in my heart - most especially today

Fran Danko

April 29, 2020

Hi Phil,I can't believe I forgot to send you a message last night.You were in my thoughts all day.Sorry about that.It's hard to believe that you left on your journey 6 yrs. ago.You are still missed as much as ever and you are always in our thoughts and prayers.RIP dear nephew.love Aunty Fran & Uncle Den.

Fran Danko

February 4, 2020

Hi Phil, you are always in our thoughts and prayers.RIP dear nephew,love Aunty Fran&Uncle Den

Fran Danko

December 31, 2019

Hi Phil, wishing you a very happy New Yr. nephew. May God bless you and keep you safe.Love Aunty Fran & Uncle Den.

Fran Danko

December 25, 2019

Hi Phil,Merry Christmas to you dear nephew.We love and miss you very much RIP Love Aunty Fran&Uncle Den

Fran Danko

July 25, 2019

Hi Phil, wishing you a very happy belated birthday.You are missed by so many people that loves you.RIP dear nephew Aunty Fran&Uncle Den

Jo-Jo

July 25, 2019

Hi Phil,

I was just thinking about you and wanted to wish you a Happy (belated) Birthday!

Rest in peace dear cousin.

Fran Danko

June 18, 2019

Hi Phil,I really got behind in my message writing.I never forget to say your name in my prayers.RIP dear nephew.Aunty Fran &Uncle Den

May 5, 2019

Always in my heart.

Fran Danko

December 26, 2018

Hi Phil,I was hoping to get this message to you before midnight but they dis connected me.We can still wish you a happy New Year.We love and miss you very much.Aunty Fran and Uncle Den

Fran Danko

November 18, 2018

To our dear nephew.wishing you special thoughts and prayers on Thanksgiving Day.Each one of you will be mentioned at prayer time at the dinner table.RIP dear nephew.Aunty Fran &Uncle Dennis

Fran Danko

November 4, 2018

Hi Phil,thinking about you while I was writing Kurt a message.We hope you,Kurt,Jeff,cousin Duane were there to welcome Clint into heaven.We miss all our sweet young men so much and you all will never be forgotten.RIP Aunty Fran & Uncle Dennis

October 25, 2018

Miss you terribly

Fran Danko

October 4, 2018

Hi Phil,thinking about you dear nephew.I just wrote Kurt a message and decided to do the same for you.You are always in our prayers. RIP dear nephew loveAunty Fran &Uncle Den ,

Fran Danko

July 18, 2018

Hi Phil,knowing that today is your birthday, we want to wish you a very Happy Birthday.RIP dear nephew,you are always in our prayers.Love Aunty Fran & Uncle Den

July 17, 2018

Miss you terribly. You are always in my thoughts and heart.

Fran Danko

June 5, 2018

Phil,I just read the message I sent you last night and I have to make a correction,I meant to write that we love you and miss you and you are always in our prayers,instead I wished you a belated birthday.Oh well.Love Aunty Fran& Uncle Den

Fran Danko

June 4, 2018

Hi Phil,wishing you a belated happy birthday.We were away at that time.We miss you so much and you are always in our prayers.RIP dear nephew,love Aunty Fran & uncle Den

April 29, 2018

I love you always, forever, and so very much.

Sherri Al-ahmad

April 25, 2018

Dear Phil,I was thinking of you today and I wanted to write you a note to let you know. Rest in peace my sweet cousin.

Fran Danko

April 4, 2018

I'm so sorry Phil,that I overlooked sending you a Easter greeting.Don't feel bad I did the same to Kurt.Both of you were in our prayers at Saturday night mass.RIP dear nephew.Aunty Fran & Uncle Den

Fran Danko

December 25, 2017

Hi Phil, -it's Christmas time and we want to send love and prayers to our loved ones.Merry Christmas Phil.RIP dear nephew Aunty Fran &uncle Den

Fran Danko

November 22, 2017

Happy Thanksgiving to you dear nephew.We love and miss you very much and you are always in our prayers.Love Aunty Fran& Uncle Den

Fran Danko

October 22, 2017

Hi Phil,just thinking about you tonight as I was checking in on Kurt.You all are missed so much and always in our prayers.RIP dear nephew,love Aunty Fran & Uncle Den

Elizabeth

April 25, 2017

Thinking of you today. Miss you big brother. I should have called you 3 years ago today. Love you always. :(

Fran Danko

April 18, 2017

Happy belated Easter to you Phil.I'm sorry that I was late ,the time had passed before I realized it .I was even late sending Kurt a message.We miss you very much Phil.Love you and RIP nephew.Aunty Fran & Uncle Den

Steve Bailey

February 5, 2017

After all these years the one thing that I really wish was to tell you before you left how much I loved and respected you. As I was teaching a coach last week the do's and don'ts of wrestling I thought about how much fun we would have laughing about that. Save me a place with our Lord Jesus! Bailey

February 4, 2017

Hi Phil, writing to tell you that were thinking about you and to say hi.We know you are safe in God's care.We love and miss you very much,Love Aunty Fran &Uncle Den

Fran Danko

December 26, 2016

Merry Christmas to you Phil,you were in our prayers today.We love and miss you,Aunty Fran &UncleDen.

Fran Danko

November 24, 2016

Hi Phil,it waa Thanksgiving Day today and you were in our prayer at the dinner table.RIP dear nephew,love Aunty Fran &Uncle Den

Elizabeth Cavanuagh

August 5, 2016

Miss you big brother.

Fran Danko

July 20, 2016

Hi Phil,sorry that I'm a little late wishing you a happy birthday.Anyway's a big " HAPPY BIRTHDAY " TO YOU sweet nephew.Love aunty Fran& uncle Den

Jo-Jo

July 18, 2016

Happy Birthday Phil

Thinking of you and remembering the good old days.

Rest in peace.

Love your cousin,

Greg Seybold

May 18, 2016

Thinking about you Phil!!

Fran Danko

March 26, 2016

Happy Easter to you, dear nephew.You will be in our prayers at church tonight and in our prayers before our Easter feast tomorrow.RIP our dear nephew,Love Aunty Fran&Uncle Den

Fran Danko

December 27, 2015

Hi Phil,sending our blessing to you dear nephew for Christmas and the New Year miss you very much.Aunty Fran & Uncle Den

December 25, 2015

Merry Christmas Phil! Miss you and love you!

October 14, 2015

I've been thinking about you a lot lately. Miss you.

Fran Danko

August 31, 2015

A big "Hi" to our sweet nephew.I just sent Kurt a message and thought it would be nice to send you one also.You and kurt are always in our prayers.Love aunty Fran & uncle Den

August 12, 2015

I miss you, Phil. It's Dad's birthday tomorrow. I bet his wish will be for you to still be with us. He was always so proud of you, as we all were. You were very special. I wish you knew how special you were to us.

Fran Danko

July 19, 2015

A big Happy Birthday 'Phil' on your special day.We said a special prayer for you at church Sat. night.R.I.P. dear nephew.Love Aunty Fran@ Uncle Den

Your Cousin JoJo

July 18, 2015

I am lighting a candle and thinking of you Phil on your Birthday. You often cross my mind. I am sure it is a very hard day for your family so I want to let you know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Phil is and will always be one of a kind and will forever remain in our hearts.

Take care and God Bless,

With Love,
JoJo and Marshall

June 11, 2015

Missing you! Love you.

May 30, 2015

Just thinking about you

May 17, 2015

Hey Phil,
I can't believe it's been a year since your memorial. I still have a hard time accepting that you are gone. Love you...miss you...wish you were still here. Your little sister.

Helen Gault

May 2, 2015

Miss you already now I miss you more

JoJo

April 29, 2015

Thinking of you Phil.

It is hard to believe it has been a year since you began your journey to heaven. I truly believe you are resting in peace, safe in the arms of God. You are in our thoughts and will never be forgotten.

My heart goes out to the entire Danko family as I know just how much you miss Phil.

God Bless you all today and always.

Elizabeth Cavanaugh

April 28, 2015

Thinking of you, always. I hope you are at peace.

Fran Danko

April 28, 2015

Phil it' already a year today that you left on your journey.We will aways remmber your beautiful smile and a twinkle in your eyes.You will always be in our thoughts and prayer.R.I.P.dear nephew,Love Aunty Fran &Uncle Den& family

April 20, 2015

I miss you! Love you. I hope you are at peace.

Fran Danko

April 5, 2015

A happy Easter to you Phil. You are in our thoughts and prayers.R.I.P. OUR DEAR NEPHEW.Love Aunty Fran &Uncle Den,xoxoxoxoxo

March 26, 2015

I miss you. Knowing I'll never see you again is heartbreaking. I hope you know how loved you were and still are.

March 25, 2015

Thinking about you a lot recently.

March 23, 2015

never far from my heart

Fran Danko

February 28, 2015

Hi Phil,letting you know that you're always in our thoughts and prayers.I read the nice message that Greg sent you.God Bless you my dear nephew,Love aunty Fran&uncleDen

February 7, 2015

Talking about you & missing you.??

Greg Seybold

January 31, 2015

Hey Phil - Just wanted to say I have been thinking about you a lot especially over the holidays. Greg

Fran Danko

December 21, 2014

Hi Phil,you are in our thoughts and prayers.On Christmas day you,Jeff and Kurt will be mentioned in our prayers.We must never forget our loved ones.Merry Christmas.Love Aunty Fran&Uncle Den

Elizabeth Cavanaugh

October 30, 2014

Thank you, JoJo and Aunty Frances for your beautiful words. It means so much to me and, I am sure, the rest of our family. It's so hard to lose someone that you loved so much as you know. I think of Kurt and Jeff,too. They left us too soon. Much love to you. Liz

October 29, 2014

I really miss you.

JoJo Danko

October 29, 2014

As I light this candle in memory of Phil, my thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Danko family. I often think of Phil and know just how very much he is missed. The Graduation picture that is posted on here...it is exactly how I remember Phil. With that big smile on his face. He was such a sweet and funny person. I will forever hold on to the memories I have of Phil. Growing up when our families use to spend the Holidays together. As I get older I realize just how special all those times are and hold them close to my heart.

May God bless you all.

Love,
JoJo

Fran Danko

October 25, 2014

Phil it's going to be 6 mths in a few days since you left to go on your journey. We know you are happy and safe with Jesus.I believe we all will be together again in heaven one day.It is so nice having the guestbook,we send messages to Kurt at least twice a mth and also to Granny.We all miss you our dear nephew,love Aunty Fran& uncle Den

September 18, 2014

I've been thinking my brother a lot lately. I miss you so much. There are so many things I wish I had said to you.

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