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John M. Wassum
"Audie"

Oct 11, 1922 - Jan 4, 2013
John passed away at the age of 90 in Hughson, California. He was the son of John Hunter Wassum and Gladys Wassum. John's great grandparents settled in Monticello, California in the 1800's, where the homestead would be flooded to give rise to what would become known as Lake Berryessa. After they were told they needed to move, the family went on to settle in the Napa Valley. As adults, John Hunter and his brothers, moved to Gratton - Mont Pelier in the Central Valley, where they farmed grain. This is where John M Wassum spent his childhood on the Hickman Ranch. John was born in Atwater, California. He rode his horse to Gratton Elementary School and then went on to attend Hughson High School, graduating in 1940. Upon graduation, John attended California Polytechnic at San Luis Obispo where he played football. He played both running back and linebacker and was well known for his speed and agility. He is in the record books at Cal Poly for the most interceptions in one game. During his junior year, John enlisted in the Merchant Marines where he served during World War II. Upon returning from his service, John would marry his high school sweetheart, Barbara Hudelson in 1946. John worked for his father raising grain until 1951, and then he and his wife took over Barbara's father's peach ranch eventually farming cherries and almonds in Hughson. His son, Mike and wife, Lori, currently farm the ranch.
John was active in Young Farmer's and was a volunteer for the Hughson Fire Department for many years. He also played on an amateur baseball team known as the Sperry's. He was an avid golfer, hunter, fisherman, and loved to gold pick. His travels with wife, Barbara took them to South Africa to hunt on safari, annual hunting trips to Wyoming, and their most favorite destination, the Hawaiian Islands. One fond memory he liked to share was kissing the Blarney Stone while in Ireland.
Family was an important part of John's life and he took great pride in his family. John is pre-deceased by his sister, Lorrine, who died in 1963, and his wife of 65 years, Barbara, who died in 2011. John is survived by his sister, Chloe Fonda, his three children and their spouses: Barbara and Cleve Willis, Janis and John Skaggs, and Mike and Lori Wassum, seven grandchildren: Michael Willis, Lisa White, Michael Skaggs, Johnny Skaggs, Natalie Wassum, Erin Wassum, and Ryan Wassum, 13 great-grandchildren and many nieces and nephews.
A special thank you to his caregivers, Phyllis Hawkins, Debbie Massey, Shellie Hawkins, Tammy Miller, Delores Gardener, Lorie Simon, Shari Cantal, and the wonderful staff at the Alexander Cohen Hospice House.
Visitation will be Friday, January 11 from 4:00-8:00pm and Funeral Service will be Saturday, January 12 at 11:00am, both will be held at Lakewood Memorial Park and Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to: Alexander Cohen Hospice House, 2201 Euclid Avenue, Hughson, California 95326 or the Hughson United Methodist Church , P.O. Box 129, Hughson, California 95326. A guestbook is available online at www.lakewoodhughson.com
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Published by Modesto Bee from Jan. 10 to Jan. 11, 2013.

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Johnny Skaggs

January 4, 2014

I have many great memories of you Grandpa, you were a very important person in my life, and taught me so much over the years. I loved to be around you. Whenever I think of you, I can't help but smile, you worked hard, and played harder.
I remember when I was growing up, starting at the age of twelve, I got to go stay with grandma and grandpa for three summers in a row. I was staying with you guys to help out in the peaches. It was like a real job. We would get up before sun up. Grandma always sent us out to the orchards with are stomachs full, and somehow you would find a way to share grandma's homemade peach jam. Then we were off in your red ford truck to find the picking spot that day. It was grueling work. Finally, with peach fuzz up to my neck, and the sun at its highest, the end of work whistle would blow. We would head home, you would shower I usually opted for the swimming pool. Then we would wait for grandma to arrive from her day at the weigh station.
Then we were off to the most wonderful place on earth: The Turlock Country Club. I spent many great afternoons riding in your golf cart, sitting in the middle. You were always working on my game, thanks to you and grandma I enjoy golf today as much as you did then. After we finished the front nine, you would both would crack a beer, and there was always a soda for me. Those summer nights out on the golf course till sundown were incredible.
Then we headed back to your house for a little T.V. and ice cream, you always got first dibs. Then it was off to bed so we could wake up and do it all over again, the next day. The money earned in the summer was great, but my memory of you and grandma are priceless. I learned a good lesson from you. Work hard and play even harder. I can still hear that golf ball scream, as you sent it into flight. I love you Grandpa, and I miss you.

Michael Skaggs

December 31, 2013

Dear Grandpa,

We all made it through our first holiday season without your fun, loving and sincere presence- you were and are deeply missed.. I thank you for lifes lessons shared with me and I will do my best to pass them on to my children. Love and thoughts of you forever!

Rest in Peace!

Mike Lewis

Janis Wassum Skaggs

October 11, 2013

Thinking of you daddy on your special day

Janis Wassum Skaggs

June 16, 2013

My Dear Daddy,
It is my first Father's day without you. It's been long, tough and emotional. I'm so thankful for the time that we spent together, I really got to know you as a proud person, and I have realized how amazing you were with all your wisdom, knowledge and the confidence that you always had. I would walk away thinking how did you always know all the right things to say? I always felt you had my best interest and you were always so fair with your thoughts. You were my hero and I was your Pumpkin Head. As I watched you leaving this life with such dignity I would think how important you were to our family. You made the comforts of home real. We didn't always agree on everything, but what we both shared was how important family and home were, and that we should never give up. I wish I could hear your stories that I heard so many times, just once more, I would be a better listener. John and I still recall stories every time we travel to Modesto, you would tell us the same story, in the same spot, and, now in those same spots we smile and have our own private thoughts.
I will cherish my letter you wrote me on my 50th Birthday Day, I knew it must have been a hard task for you to do, but, you did it for me, and it means everything to me now. You made me so proud of your athletic, hunting, fishing abilities. You were always kind and never knew a stranger. I have been with you in Hawaii and even in New York and you would run into someone you knew or they knew you, and you always took the time to talk. You were a loving, kind, gentle and faithful husband, father, grandfather, son friend and most of all my daddy. You are never far from my thought's and always in my heart. I learned from the best and you always encouraged me in your own little way and I knew how grateful you were to be able to stay in your house that you and mom made a home for your family. I know how grateful you were that I was there to help you through to the end of your life, because you would thank me for taking such good care of you. Daddy you believed in your country and served with honor. You lived your life daddy and you left us a legacy to be proud of. You did it YOUR WAY.
Happy Father's Day Daddy.
Love YOU forever,
Your Pumpkin Head.....

May 2, 2013

Living thousands of miles away, with only a few weeks to visit with Grandpa each year, posed no obstacle to the influence and life lessons that he contributed to my upbringing; the noogies, the deadly thumb wars, the bunny ears... his passion for horses and willingness to take time to share his wisdom with me, as well as his horses. I recall spending hours out in the pastures sitting bareback atop 'Barbara J' with Grandpa leading her gently, and her colts and fillies running beside us. I looked forward to these quiet moments with Grandpa, and shared them as well with John Boy, Natalie, and Erin riding double atop Grandpa's brood. Each of these moments with Grandpa was a learning experience, but what stands out in my mind as a reflection to share is when I first learned to drive a car.

On one visit, at about 13 years old, Grandpa thought it be a good idea to teach me how to drive a car. To any teen that would be the coolest thing, but Grandpa took it one step further.. not onl did he teach me how to drive, but he did so in a candy-apple red Mustang Convertible! Grandpa took his time explaining each step of driving a car to me, from putting the key in the ignition, using the choke, the various foot pedals I would need to master, and the gear shifts. He held his breath as my foot hit the gas and we began down the dirt road on the ranch.. 20 some odd years later, Grandpa continued his tradition by taking my eldest son Jack out for his first experience behind the wheel - this time it was in Grandpa's golf cart. Grandpa sat beside me as we embarked on this adventure together as Jack's foot hit the gas pedal for the first time - we both held our breath.

I thank you for the memories, Grandpa.

Love, Lisa

Barbara Willis

March 17, 2013

Dear Dad,

When I think of you, I am reminded of the easy way you lived your life and how much you enjoyed it. Your gift to me was instilling a sense of fairness and justice, respecting the rights of all. Whether it be the human race, a small critter such as a lizard or the land around me, I learned to appreciate and value life in all forms.

Through your love of playing the game, you demonstrated first-hand what it meant to be a team player. You taught me how to swing the bat, throw a ball, and to ride a two wheeler. I was in my 30's before I could take you in a footrace (and I was fast) and so fitness continues to be a strong part of my life. Your level of fitness into your 90's is an inspiration to us all.

On your travels east, ususally in the fall, you were always a willing helper to rake leaves, or any task that might need doing. On our visits west, you found time to spend with my children whether it be golfing or horseback riding, you made them feel special. You will always be remembered for your quick smile and teasing manner that kept 'us' kids, our kids and their kids riled and coming back for more. For many reasons you are missed, each of us in our own way. Love, Ann

Michael Scott Willis

January 16, 2013

Dearest Grandpa,

You were warm, kind, fun-loving, industrious, always had time for us, and you could be a downright "rascal"! Though we know you are in a better place now, you are deeply missed and we are saddened. I promise to keep wonderful memories of you alive and pass along your zest for life to the coming generations.

Rest in Peace!!

Mike Scott

Linda (Wallis) White

January 12, 2013

My dad, Earl Wallis, and Audie were great story tellers. I'm sure they have found each other in Heaven and Audie is telling stories to my dad to catch him up. I'm very sorry to hear of your great loss. I remember Audie clear back to my childhood. He was always so nice to me. I'll never forget him. May our Lord give you comfort during this dark hour of your lives.

Brenda Mejia

January 11, 2013

My family has worked at the Wassum Ranch for many years. We all have fond memories of John Wassum (waso) like we called him. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Mary and Scott Holly

January 11, 2013

Scott and I are going to miss Uncle Audrey. HIs wonderful stories will alway put a smile on my face. And who can ever forget his and Aunt Bobbie's love of the Big Band Sound. They are once again dancing together. Love to you all.

Cleve Willis

January 11, 2013

John Wassum was intrepid, a force of nature and one for whom the "better angels of our nature" might have been coined. I remember when Ann and I took our delayed honeymoon in the late 60s on a trout fishing expedition to Wyoming. We fly fished with Roy Fisk, the hunting guide that John and Barbara used each winter for elk and deer hunting. We had supper with Roy and his wife one evening, and in the conversation Roy said something that rang so true that I have never forgotten it. He spoke of John's character and good nature, saying that you really get to know a person by how he reacts when the going gets really hard. High on the mountain, exposed to a harsh and freezing wind, many fold and show their worst. But he had never seen John lose his poise or his good humor in all the years of hunting in the harshest of conditions. And I truly believe his account--John was that steadfast, and I have admired him and envied his constitution over the many years I have been blessed to be a part of his family.

Cleve

Kenn Cunningham

January 11, 2013

Audie was a wonderful family man and member of the Hughson community. May God comfort all those that love him and know that he is safely in Heaven with Jesus.

Darlene DuBose-Bodiford

January 10, 2013

Your family will always love and remember you. Be at peace.

Doris & George Tavernas

January 10, 2013

I have many wonderful childhood memories at the Wassum ranch. Audie was a great husband, father, grandfather and a good friend to all who knew him. We will all miss him!

Leroy & Diane Evans

January 10, 2013

Wonderful memories that we shared with you and Barbara. You certainly made life fun for us.

Charlie & Anita Morisoli

January 10, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to the family. Anita was childhood friends through her parents of Elmer & Dorothy Butterfield.

Michael Klein

January 10, 2013

A beautifully written story of a wonderful man and family. He lived an epic life. One of the greats - from the Greatest Generation. Michael Klein

Al Vieira

January 10, 2013

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

jane norde

January 10, 2013

Where does one begin giving thanks for an amazing uncle and aunt. Godspeed on this journey home, Uncle Audrey. You and Aunt Bobbie brought many fine memories to mind. What an amazing life and family you created. You will be dancing in heaven and telling stories to all who will listen. I hope your photo of Red Skelton was found...and all the fun memories continue in the stories to be told. Thank you for blessing my life. xxoojanie

Lakewood Funeral Home

January 5, 2013

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