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Michael Gerber

1959 - 2014

Michael Gerber obituary, 1959-2014, Modesto, CA

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Michael Gerber Obituary

Michael John Gerber
1959-2014
Dr. Michael John Gerber, passionate about family, friends, dentistry, and farming, passed away on June 12, 2014. A native and lifelong resident of Modesto, Mike was born October 24, 1959 and attended Beyer High School, CSU Stanislaus, UC San Diego, and University of the Pacific School of Dentistry.  
Mike's family was everything to him, with an enduring love for his wife Kelly and three children Nate, Maci, and Sam.  He was active in his children's education, sports activities, dance recitals, and clubs, and his legacy will be felt in the way he taught them compassion and the value of hard work. Ranching was an important part of Mike's life, and will continue as the family cares for his successful orchards. Together, Mike and his family enjoyed boating, swimming, skiing, traveling, watching the sun rise, and gatherings with friends. He lived life to the fullest, diving (sea and sky), flying, swimming with the Modesto Area Aquatic Club and in the Escape from Alcatraz Triathlon. 
Mike always managed to find time for his parents, Dr. James and Nell Gerber, and his siblings Jim, Karen Gerber Conrotto, Robert, Kimberly Gerber Spina, and Tom. Mike particularly enjoyed cutting roses from his garden for his mother, brightening the home of his parents as well as his office.  
Mike was passionate about dentistry, inspired by his father James Gerber, DDS.  His patients remember Mike's gentleness, personal interest, and perfectionism.  He treated patients, assistants, and professional colleagues, including the groundskeepers with whom he shared coffee every morning, like family.  From 1995-2001, Mike served on the Board of Directors of the Stanislaus Dental Association, was President in 2000, and was a longtime Chair of the Ethics Committee.  He was a delegate to the California Dental Association, 1999-2001.  
Also active in the community, Mike was past President and Life member of the Modesto "500" Lions Club, the recipient of a Melvin Jones Award, and of the first annual Robert Kriese Lionism Award for extraordinary humanitarian efforts in service to others.
Visitation hours at the Lakewood Funeral Home (900 Santa Fe Ave., Hughson) are Wednesday, June 18 from 4:00-8:00 pm. Testimonials can be submitted online to www.lakewoodhughson.com.  
A Celebration of Life service will be held at the Big Valley Grace Community Church, 4040 Tully Road, Friday, June 20 at 11:00 am. In lieu of flowers, please send donations in Mike's name to the American Cancer Society, Hospice Care, or YES (Youth Entertainment Stage) Company, 3920 Bluebird Drive Modesto, CA 95356.
 Mike was loved and will be missed by all. 
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Published by Modesto Bee from Jun. 17 to Jun. 19, 2014.

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Lisa Schripsema

August 10, 2017

It's been over three years Mike and me and my family still miss you. It doesn't seem like 25 years have passed since we met. You and I were two weeks apart in age, went through the major life changes in the 90's about the same time, got married and had kids just six months apart. I'm sure you are looking down upon your family and know how wonderful they are. Sam was in the paper recently for his Footloose performance and Mom called to tell me about it. She was so proud. I miss our conversations about brothers, orchards, marriage and kids. Until we see each other again.

Grace Miralle-Wilkens

October 30, 2014

I was a neighbor and a patient for many years and I learned of his passing just yesterday! I will always remember Mike's kindness and gentleness and his love for his wife and children. I remember when the first time he harvested walnuts from his farm and moved out of our neighborhood, he would bring us his neighbors buckets of walnuts at our front door. As a caring dentist he treated a brother of mine with a horrible abcess tooth and in pain on a sunday!! That's the Mike I know and my heart is full of sadness hearing about his passing. We have lost a wonderful caring human being way too soon. Rest in Peace Mike and love to Kelly, Nate, Maci and Sam

August 25, 2014

I was shocked when I found out. I have known Dr. Gerber since 1997, he was a great human being and an awesome doctor.I havent seen him in the last 7 years due to having a different insurance; a few months ago I got a different insurance that would have allowed me to see Dr. Gerber. He was the only reason I chose that insurance. I am jsut in disbelief...I called today to make an appt with him and I just found out. God bless you Dr Gerber, God bless all your family. I am sure you are in good hands UP there! I will sorelly miss you.Vito Vintila

July 22, 2014

Keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers on this day Dr.Mike.

Chris Reyes

July 21, 2014

We are shocked and saddened to hear of Dr. Mike's passing. We just returned from our annual trek to SD and received the letter from the office. Our Condolences go to the entire Gerber family.

July 16, 2014

With thoughts of you on this day Dr.Mike.

Jeanne Lytle

July 15, 2014

Kelly, Nate, Maci & Sam - The Lytles, Hursts, Hulsts and Websters send our prayers and love to all of you. We lost a great dentist and a wonderful friend. Dr. Mike was the "best" and we all loved him. God Bless all of you.

July 15, 2014

Missing you today and everyday!!! Kelly, Nate, Maci and Sam

July 13, 2014

Mike will miss you at the Lions meetings ,talking about the old days and Dentistry. And how you took away my favorite Kelly ,all in good fun!!!!
Your friend and fellow Dentist
Danny Pearson DDS

Gail Ferrari-Martin

July 5, 2014

Mike,
Those of us in Lane 8 miss you terribly. We miss the hugs, the laughter, the tears and the farm talk. I wanted you around to enjoy these climbing walnut prices! Arriving at the pool and not seeing your pickup is jolting. I still expect you to stop by our lane for a quick chat. You always spoke with us as though you had known us for years...such a thoughtful, warm person. My heart aches for your family. May they be comforted by the many wonderful memories you gave them. And as far as the rest of us? Let's live as graciously and sincerely as Mike did. He had the gift of knowing how to listen. Let's listen to each other...really listen.
May God Bless Your Soul, Mike.

Sally Wallace

July 3, 2014

Think'n of you each & everyday Mike. Steve & I have talked about it & we can't help but, think of you when we are brushing our teeth daily..; ((.. You truly were the best. We will miss you for always. Holding all of your family, friends & office staff up in our prayers. Gone way to soon dear friend!.

July 3, 2014

Keeping the Gerber Family in our thoughts this day......

Lynda and Catherine Tarone

July 2, 2014

My daughter and I have had heavy hearts since learning about Dr. Mike's passing. For more than 20 years, it has been such a blessing to be in the care of this compassionate, competent man who always greeted us with a smile and showed a genuine interest in our well-being. We will miss Dr. Mike very much. Our hearts go out to his family, who continue to be in our thoughts and in our prayers.

Nancy Levin

July 2, 2014

In total shock. Dr. Gerber was worth the drive. Finding an honest, caring punctual, dentist is not easy. He was such a role model for my son too. I never thought I would have to go anywhere else. My heart goes out to his family and staff too. I don't think I will ever understand how a picture of health and unbelievable humanitarian can leave us. The hour and a half it took to see him from the Bay Area was never an issue. My family would never consider going anywhere else. This is a huge loss for the community. We're so sad.

JEFF and GAIL CORNETT

June 30, 2014

Our condolences to the Gerber family, we just learned of this terrible loss, Dr. Michael was the nicest, kindest, and lovable person I think I've known. A great person and human being besides bring the greatest dentist ever. Were sure GOD has him at his side .

June 29, 2014

I send my prayers to thr Gerber family may God lift your spirits and comfort your hearts. I remember when my son who is in the military refused to let military dentist work on him and made arrangement to take leave just for Dr.Gerber to work on him. RIP Dr. Gerber

June 27, 2014

Keeping Dr.Mike in our thoughts and prayers on this day....

Gust Family

June 26, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
The Gust Family

June 25, 2014

We were so sorry to hear about the sad news of Dr Gerber. Such a wonderful man and gentle dentist. Our son Andrew wished to become a dentist when he was young! Our thoughts are with all the gerber families. I volunteer at the gallo and have seen Sam perform so greatly. Keep up the great job!
Bill, Nancy ,Alexis ,Andrew Webb

Marvene Hernandez

June 25, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. We were blessed to have Dr. Gerber as a part of our life, our kids grew up with the privilege of having him for a dentist and role model of a caring healthcare professional. We will miss him very much.

June 24, 2014

Sending prayers to your family!

Marcia Perkins

June 24, 2014

Bryce and I are in a state of complete shock over the loss of our dear friend and dentist, Mike. We often commented on Mike's relaxed and kind demeanor and his genuine interest in what was going on the live's of each patient. What a loss! Gone too soon.

Irma Horta

June 24, 2014

I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of Dr. Gerber, I have been going to him for years and so have my kids, he was the only dentist I trusted with my children, he was the best dentist. He will definately be missed. My heart breaks for his family, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. God Bless.

Janet Willett

June 24, 2014

Dear Family, I am saddened to hear of your devastating loss. Your family and Mike treated me with kindness, compassion and friendship for all the many years I was employed with the Gerber practice. I will always cherish having known you and Mike. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Diane Mozaffari

June 24, 2014

Dear Kelly, my heart keeps breaking every time I think of Mike. He was and will be, forever in my heart, one of the best people I have ever known. I will miss his beautiful smile and hello hug every time I saw him, his always needed advise and help in all that I was doing and not doing, and his unending friendship. I treasure all the moments that we have all spent together. From enjoying his cooking for us and all our wonderful dining out times together, our vacations, to all the times we spent hanging out enjoying each other's company. There are just so many memories rushing through my head and everyone of them brings a smile to my face. Your husband was a one of a kind guy that brightened my life, even when he was nagging at me to go walking with you. I guess will have to go to make him happy. Thank you for letting me share in his life and at the end of it. It was an honor to be with him in his passing and I know he will be waiting for us on the other side with that great smile and a welcome drink in his hand. But until then know that I loved him and I love you and will always be here for you and the kids. I'm so sorry your heart is breaking.
Nate,Maci, and Sam, I'm so sorry that your dad had to leave so soon. He was a great man and loved you all so much. Whenever he talked about you it was always with pride and love, never an unkind word. I pray that you find peace in all your memories of him because I know he found peace just thinking about you and loving you. Love you all and know that we will all be here for you.

Steve & Sally Wallace

June 22, 2014

Well it's taken me days to even begin to want to write something on this site.. Steve & I are just in such disbelief & so sad with your passing Mike. You were Truly One Of a Kind!.. We are so thankful that we both had a chance to see you just a few months ago back in your office. You Were Your Sweet Sweet Caring Darling Compasionate Self as Always!.. You shared with us that you were doing good & feeling great. We were so thankful & happy for that.. None of us knows why God chooses to take us when he does but, he Defintely has The Best Upstairs Now & He Must Have Needed an Angel Dentist!. ; )).. You have not only been our dentist but, a Good Good Friend since we both first meant you. Steve @ Tri Valley when you were a card runner & both working there. We then followed you to your practice. It was such a joy to watch you grow & go through all of your transitions in life. Marriage, kids, home & farming your land etc. Just being you Mike!.. Living life to the fullest & enjoying each & every minute & moment.. There will never ever be another one like you Mike. We Will Forever Miss You Our Dear Friend.. We Both Look Forward to Seeing You Upstairs Again One Day. Our thoughts & prayers are with you Kelly, Nate, Maci, Sam & Family.. Cherish Each & Every Memory & Just Feel & Carry All The Love Everyone Had For Such An Amazing Soul & That He Had For Each One of You!..
He Was Truly An Angel On Earth! May God Bless You All & Help You Get Through This Sad Loss & Time.

Colette Mink

June 22, 2014

I was flying out of state and upon turning phone back on received the devastating news of Dr. Mike. He took me on as a HYG Assistant after leaving all I'd ever known in Pediatric Dentistry. I was so happy in his Dental Family! He was so gracious and a gentle teacher for myself in the art of general dentistry. Not only did I get to arrange cupboards to my hearts galore and stock but I got to receive his precious roses on Monday morning and arrange them for the staff and patients to enjoy!! The big bowl for the lovely magnolia's was always a favorite. Mike you were so kind, generous, a loving family man, eclectic in all your passions and devoted to them all. Your family was always a bright light when they popped in the office. I'm so sad at the loss of a wonderful man. May your spirit soar above your orchards and beautiful home above the river and the angels be with your loving family. Always your friend, Colette Mink

Steve & Sally Wallace

June 22, 2014

Well it's taken me days to even begin to want to write something on this site.. Steve & I are just in such disbelief & so sad with your passing Mike. You were Truly One Of a Kind!.. We are so thankful that we both had a chance to see you just a few months ago back in your office. You Were Your Sweet Sweet Caring Darling Compasionate Self as Always!.. You shared with us that you were doing good & feeling great. We were so thankful & happy for that.. None of us knows why God chooses to take us when he does but, he Defintely has The Best Upstairs Now & He Must Have Needed an Angel Dentist!. ; )).. You have not only been our dentist but, a Good Good Friend since we both first meant you. Steve @ Tri Valley when you were a card runner & both working there. We then followed you to your practice. It was such a joy to watch you grow & go through all of your transitions in life. Marriage, kids, home & farming your land etc. Just being you Mike!.. Living life to the fullest & enjoying each & every minute & moment.. There will never ever be another one like you Mike. We Will Forever Miss You Our Dear Friend.. We Both Look Forward to Seeing You Upstairs Again One Day. Our thoughts & prayers are with you Kelly, Nate, Maci, Sam & Family.. Cherish Each & Every Memory & Just Feel & Carry All The Love Everyone Had For Such An Amazing Soul & That He Had For Each One of You!..
He Was Truly An Angel On Earth! May God Bless You All & Help You Get Through This Sad Loss & Time.

Ken and Jan Weikle

June 22, 2014

We are shocked and saddened. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family and also to his staff.

Cynthia & Amelie Silva

June 22, 2014

To the entire Gerber family & friends - we are so very sorry for your devastating loss. You are in our prayers and we extend our condolences during this most difficult time.
Dr. Gerber truly cared for his patients and always treated them with kindness and dignity. We can only imagine what a wonderful family man and friend he was to those that loved him. He will be greatly missed.

Val and Rex Sutter

June 22, 2014

Dear Gerber Family,
Dr. James was my dentist as a young girl. I new Mike growing up but grew to appreciate him even more as he became our family dentist. And, since my husband Rex grew up with Mike, an office visit was more like hanging out with a good friend. My children will always think highly of Dr. Mike. Hearing today that he had passed, made our hearts sink. So tonight we sat outside together thinking of him and all of you. Dr. Mike made all of us happier with his smile, quick whit, and love of life. His family meant the world to him and all of us enjoyed hearing his stories of you on the property. Our family is praying for yours and extend our love to you.

[email protected]

June 21, 2014

All of our family started with Mike's dad as our dentist and then Mike became our dentist. Mike brought me through some difficult procedures with my teeth and Mike always made me feel good about this. He was one of the kindest and caring person I have ever met. He was not only my dentist but he was my friend. Mike went to school with my son and daughter and became their dentist. Mike will be missed. Our whole family loved Mike.

Judi Glasgow

Bronda Nidey and Family

June 21, 2014

Dr. Mike will always be remembered as a humble, kind, generous, enthusiatic, compassionate man; passionate about everything he was involved in. He was so many things to so many people; husband, father, son, brother, boss, friend, mentor, leader and so much more and did it all so well!! His absence will be felt by all personal and professional relationships that he had. There is no better boss or friend in the world. My heart is broken with sadness at the loss of a truly wonderful example of a great man. My deepest sympathy to Kelly, Nate, Maci, Sam, Dr. James, Nell and all the family and his extended family of employees. We will Love and miss you FOREVER!!

Koren Cain

June 21, 2014

I can't express the sorrow I feel with the passing of this great man. I met Mike on his 30th birthday when I was sent to him due to "pain" in my face. I was very pregnant and feared X-rays, medication etc. He was so kind and took all the time needed to explain that the baby would not be in danger. He explained better and spent more time than my ONGYN. I continued to see him from that date forward, always enjoying our chats, he remembered everything we ever spoke of. I even peeked at my chart to see if he kept secrete notes... He hadn't.
To say Mike will be missed is an understatement!
My thoughts are with his family at this time, I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Lewis & Olga Eisenga

June 21, 2014

My deepest sympathy to his family, you are in my prayers. We will deeply miss Dr.. Gerber , he was a great dentist, friend, and a wonderful person....

Ken Irwin

June 21, 2014

Dr. Gerber has been our dentist for many years and was a very gentle and compasionate person. We will miss him dearly.

Jennifer Bingham (Caron)

June 21, 2014

Going to the dentist will never be the same. Deeply saddened by this loss. He was indeed a remarkable man. Memories of Hogue Road will forever be in my heart. We all have wonderful memories growing up together! Prayers and thoughts to family, friends, coworkers and all that were blessed to have this great man in their lives. Forever missed....??

Virginia Hammond

June 21, 2014

My family and I are going to miss Dr. Gerber. He always showed a deep concern for our needs. We are so privileged to have been his patient.

Michele Lahti

June 21, 2014

While I never met Michael I know him through the love and admiration shared when his sister Kimberly spoke of him. I was honored to be called on for prayer during Michael's battle and pray now that his family will find peace and acceptance.

Jennie Cushenberry

June 21, 2014

He was more than just my dentist. He was more like a friend. He was always happy and had a smile. My deepest sympathy to his family you are in my prayers. Such a wonderful person will truly be missed.

June 20, 2014

I will miss Dr. Mike's cheerful greeting and smile whenever I was in his office. I was a patient of his father's and just naturally stayed on when Dr. Michael took over. I feel a great loss with his passing. The way he lived his life and cared for others is truly an inspiration to everyone who came in contact with him. Pam Blake (Modesto)

Erika Garcia

June 20, 2014

I'm so saddend to hear about Dr. Gerber. My heart and prayers go out to his family. I've been a patient for along time. Dr. Gerber always came in with a smile and in good spirits. I just saw him in March and can't believe he's gone.

Mike and Anna Affholter

June 20, 2014

We will deeply miss Dr. Gerber. He was such a great dentist and a wonderful person. He was so good to our kids and they never once complained about having to go to the dentist. They actually looked forward to it. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Gerber family. He was truly a remarkable man.

Enjoyed the memorial so fitting for you. Gods Speek Dr. Mike

Sue Monkhouse

June 20, 2014

June 20, 2014

We are so sorry to hear about Dr. Gerber. He was such a wonderful person. We will miss him very much. Our thoughts and prayers are, and will always be with Mike's family and loved ones. God bless them all...
Fredrick and Romella Isaac

Diana Lizarraga

June 20, 2014

I AM IN SHOCK AND STILL CANT BELIEVE YOUR GONE LAST TIME I HAD SEEN YOU IN YEARS WAS IN APRIL WHEN I WENT WITH MY DAD TO THE RANCH. YOU LOOKED SO HAPPY,HEALTHY AND FULL OF LIFE NEVER IN MY MIND WOULD I HAVE THOUGHT THAT A FEW MONTHS LATER YOU WOULD LEAVE US. MY DAD HAS BEEN SO AFFECTED BY YOUR LOST HE CARED SO MUCH ABOUT YOU MORE THAN BEIGN HIS BOSS YOU WERE A FRIEND A PART OF THE FAMILY. HE ALWAYS HAD MY MOM MAKE SOME EXTRA TAMALES TO TAKE THEM TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY BECAUSE HE KNEW HOW MUCH YOU LIKED THEM .I AM HAPPY TO KNOW HE WAS ABLE TO SEE YOU JUST HOURS BEFORE YOUR LEAVE. HE AND THE REST OF THE FAMILY WILL DEEPLY MISS YOU AND WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS. I PRAY TO GOD TO GIVE YOUR FAMILY STRENGHT TO KEEP ON GOIN IN HARD MOMENT IN THEIR LIFE.HOPE TO SEE YOU AGAIN IN HEAVEN ONE DAY MIKE.

Don Ahrens

June 20, 2014

We were so saddened to hear of Dr. Gerber's passing. He will always be remembered with great affection. His sparkling smile, his caring manner and his enthusiasm filled the room. Our daughter (who was four at the time) actually cried when we had to reschedule an appointment for her because she wouldn't get to see Dr. Gerber—it was a filling no less! Our sincerest condolences during this most difficult time. Don Ahrens and Family

neil patterson

June 20, 2014

So sorry, so very sad to hear of Mike's passing into heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with the Gerber Family in this passing of time, his spirit and charisma will be greatly missed by everyone he touched.
neil patterson

mark hofer

June 20, 2014

I just barely got to know you, 4 visits, and you made such an impression on be. You were such were GREAT person that it was hard to believe. I was so happy to have a person who really cared about his patients. I have never had such a good feeling going to the dentist as I had going to you! I will definitely miss you and your Bruce Willis smile. To his family, I am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. He is in a better place and will be with you all forever. To his staff, you lost a good man and a good boss.

Tina Shelley

June 20, 2014

I am so sorry to hear about his passing he was a very kind dentist and a very positive caring man, My daughter and I will miss him deeply. I am sorry to hear about the loss. With deepest sympathy.

Michael &Eleanor Rosenblum

June 20, 2014

Our deepest sympathy for the Gerber family and staff. We have been patients since the early 1990's. Michael was a wonderful caring dentist and person. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Karen Downey

June 20, 2014

I can't express how sorry and sad I am that Dr, Gerber has past. I saw his Dad before him and I don't believe my family and I will ever find a Dentist as kind and caring and as good as what he was to us ever again. Our whole family has seen him for years My husband my children my Mom cousins nieces and nephews my Aunt before she passed. I remember him always asking me how I was and never once heard him complain about anything in his life. I loved seeing the pictures in his office of his beautiful family some which I was blessed to meet and some not the family in which I could tell he loved with all his heart and the family in which I am so saddened for your loss. Our daughter Elise which Mike often asked about while she attended college in Fresno was so inspired by Dr. Michael that she became a dental hygienist and was looking forward to telling him she graduated from college just a few weeks ago and is very sad she didn't get to tell him and is sad as we all are to hear of him passing way. It brings me comfort in knowing She will get to tell him someday just not right now. If this message finds the family please tell Dr. James and Nell how sorry we are for their loss and we are so sorry for yours as well .So sorry to all the ones that had the pleasure to work at the office with Dr. Gerber. We will never forget you Dr. Mike and we will keep your family friends coworkers and patients in our prayers..Rest in peace Best Dentist in all the world ...

June 20, 2014

Mike was my dentist for 16 years, recommended by a fellow patient and former neighbor of his. I will always remember his perpetually sunny outlook, his enthusiasm, and joie de vivre. What a pleasure it was to know him. He will be deeply missed by the many people whose lives he touched. My condolences to his family, his many friends, and to everyone in his office.

June 20, 2014

My wife and I were saddened to hear of Dr. Gerber's passing. We thought very highly of him. We always felt we had his full attention when we were being treated by him.
Our prayers are now for his family. May God bless and prosper them through this tough time. Ed & Pat Parker

David Swanson

June 20, 2014

We just heard and are so devastated, Such a wonderful man and Dentist. God bless you and your family,

Jim & Dee Woodbury

June 19, 2014

Remembrance…
It was Granlibakken! High Sierra, North Shore Lake Tahoe is where it happened. We, dental study club professionals of Modesto, would gather in a spirit to improve ourselves for the betterment of patient care in our practices. That's where I realized the true grit of Michael Gerber so many years ago. The group banded together like brothers and sisters to become a professional family of higher learning. Michael always contributed in his, you know, his special way with that bright enthusiastic and genuine way of caring. All of our young families gathered round the old hotel fireplace to share our lives in winter, … it was Granlibakken!

Love you Mike

June 19, 2014

Mike we will miss you greatly. Our deepest sympathy to all the Gerber family and his staff. You were such an inspiration to our daughter Renee who is now a registered dental hygienist. You will be missed by our family. Our prayers are with your family. Darwin, Robin, Jason & Darin Zachary

Joseph & Theresa Gomes

June 19, 2014

We loved Dr. Gerber. My husband had such a great experience after some difficult dental work that he bought a flat of strawberries to show his appreciation. Dr. laughed at the gesture and always brought it up every time they met. We will miss him dearly and will never forget the kindness he showed us. We are praying for your family.

Castro Carla

June 19, 2014

I was sad to read of Dr. Mike's passing in the letter your family sent out to patients. I will miss seeing him after over two decades as one of his devoted patients. He will be greatly missed and mourned by many. My thoughts prayers, and God's speed to you and your family in this sad time. Carla Castro (Modesto, CA. )

June 19, 2014

My deepest sympathy I was so sad to hear of your loss. He was a great person, Dentist. I pray for your healing and the comfort that he is mourned by many. Carla Castro, Modesto

Clay,Anna &Sky Pait

June 19, 2014

Our deepest sympathy to the Gerber family and his staff. Dr. Gerber was our family dentist for years. We always thought he was a warm and amazing person. He was a wonderful dentist and we will miss him dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Clay, Anna and Sky Pait

Sue Monkhouse

June 19, 2014

I am completely devastated of learning of of Dr. Mike's passing. I always had the greatest respect and admiration for him.He brought sunshine and smiles to everyone. He was truly infectious with his wonderful smiling personality. He lifted your spirit just being around him. I was referred to Dr. Mike, and was completely fearful of dentists . He made me totally at ease , and to never fear the dentist again. I will always treasure his kindness, caring and excellent dental care that he extended to my daughter and I. I will never forget after my daughter passed at 19, the lovely flowers and card from him. On my first visit after her passing, I was touched by Dr.Mike's geniune compassion for me, and was truly emotional trying to be strong for me after suffering such a loss. He always was geniune when asking about how you were doing and holding up in life. To this day, I have never had the joy of being in the presence of someone so gracious, caring ,and compassionate . A few times, when times were tough for me financially, he would just tell me dont worry about it, or give me what I needed and never charge.I will never forget that kindness, and the gentleness of the wonderful Dr.Mike. If more people were like Dr.Mike, what a wonderful world this would be. I am sorry for the familys loss, he was a great man. RIP Dr.Mike, say hello to Danielle for me...Gods Speed... you will be greatly missed.

June 19, 2014

I started with his dad as my dentist as a young man and then after years when his dad retired Mike became my dentist. Great dentist and always had a smile on his face and had time to visit. What a loss of great human being.

Lloyd Glasgow

Debbie & Jayme Jensen

June 19, 2014

Our deepest sympathy to the Gerber family. May god comfort you during this difficult time. Thoughts and prayers from the Jensen family <3

Gary & Stella Rusk

June 19, 2014

We love you Michael - like our son, and we will miss you terribly. Our prayers & thoughts go out to your family.

Nancy Calderara

June 19, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Patricia West

June 19, 2014

My most sincere sympathy goes to Dr. Gerber's family. I pray for your sorrow to heal. He will be greatly missed.

Leonard Alba

June 19, 2014

Sorry for your lose, Dr. Gerber was my dentist since the early 90's, he was a kind man and always smiled, I'm sad a great man is gone to the heavens, he will be missed...

Gloria Bracco

June 19, 2014

My deepest sympathy to the Gerber family. Though I did not know Dr. Mike Gerber, (I knew 2 of his sisters) he sounded like a fantastic dentist and wonderful family man. May the good memories live on in your hearts now and forever. My condolences to the family.

Jim & Bonnie Gansel

June 19, 2014

We can never forget how Mike and his family made us feel a part of them. While we have lost Mike we will forever have memories of all our experiences with him. He was like a Son to us and yet he was our teacher on how to live life in the short time he had. Bonnie had the greatest opportunity to work in the Gerber practice, and welcome Mike into it when he completed his studies. Our thoughts and prayers will remain with the entire family forever. Love, Jim & Bonnie Gansel

Mark Carpenter

June 19, 2014

What a wonderful guy. Always thoughtful, always willing to help. We went through chemo at the same time. He kept track of my progress and I tracked his. Mike is the only dentist my kids have ever known. I will miss Mike very much. My thoughts and prayers to Mike's family.

Janet Shummon

June 19, 2014

Our family is deeply sad to hear that Dr. Gerber passed away. I started my first job in Modesto as dental assistant in Dr. James Gerber's office for one summer. I saw how much he cared for his patients that after I moved to a diffrent job I stayed as his patient. When Dr. Michael took over the office I told him he has a very big shoe to fill. But he was as good as his dad if not better. Dr. Gerber was our family dentist for the past 37 years and a good friend. He was so kind and caring. Everyone hates to go to dentist but I am sure all Dr. Gerber's patients looked forward to their visits to his office and seeing his beautiful and kind smile. Our community has lost an amazing dentist and truly a wonderful man. Our prayers and thoughts are with his family.

Barbara MacPhail

June 19, 2014

Dear Kelly, Nate, Maci, and Sam, Dr. James Gerber, Nell, Jim, Karen, Robert, Kimberly and Tom, and all the rest of the family......
I am so very sorry to hear of Dr. Mike's passing. I always had the greatest respect for him, his practice, and all the family. So many fond memories during the so many years ago that I worked in same office building on Orangeburg with his Dad and Mom and then later when Dr. Mike started his practice there also. He brought sunshine and smiles to everyone. He was truly infectious with his wonderful smiling personality. He lifted your spirit just being around him. Later, when he moved to the office on Coffee, he took such good care of my Mother's dental care. I shall always treasure his kindness, caring and excellent dental care that he extended to her. Our daughter Minnde and her family have been patients for years and also so saddened in hearing of Dr. Mike's passing. Even though I haven't seen him in years, he always asked about me.
May God's Grace give you peace and strength for the difficult days ahead. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.....each of you. Love to you all. And......Rest in Peace Dear Dr. Mike! Thanks for shining here......Barbara MacPhail and Family

Mercedes Lopez

June 19, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jennai Lawson

June 19, 2014

I was so sad to hear of Dr. Gerber's passing. He was a wonderful dentist to me for over 20 years. My heart and prayers go out to his family. He will be greatly missed!

William and Sara Trogdon

June 19, 2014

My husband and I are shocked and very sad to have lost such a fine dentist and friend. I've never liked going to the dentist until I met Mike, I actually looked forward to it. We always talked farming and family. Such a loss to so many. He was a fine man. We will certainly miss him.

Pauline Gerber-Norquist

June 19, 2014

My sympathy to his family. I wish I had met him.

June 19, 2014

SO SORRY TO HEAR OF MIKE'S PASSING, I WAS FIRST A PATIENT OF HIS FATHERS AND THEN BECAME A PATIENT OF MIKES. HE WAS AN AWESOME DENTIST AND ALL AROUND NICE PERSON. HE IS THE REASON THAT MY CHILDREN ARE NOT AFRAID OF THE DENTIST. GOD MUST HAVE NEEDED A GOOD DENTIST TO TAKE HIS SO EARLY IN LIFE. MAY HE REST IN PEACE. CONDOLENCES TO THE ENTIRE FAMILY. HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED!!!!
VICTORIA HENDRICKSON FARIA WARREN

Judy Smetana

June 19, 2014

My heart goes out to all of Mike's family.Our prayers are with you.From one of many on Hogue Rd. and lots of great memories.

Jeri Trainor

June 19, 2014

My heart goes to Mike's family with this huge unexpected loss. He will be remembered as one who always cared about others and treated them with kindness and respect. I know my late husband was one of the first ones welcoming him home to heaven with open arms. He will be missed dearly by all who knew him. May God comfort his wife and family at this time.

Mehran Abbassian

June 19, 2014

My heart broke from the news. Always nice and smiling. He will be missed, may he rest in peace.

Troy & Angela Smith

June 19, 2014

Our family is deeply sad to hear that
Dr Gerber passed away. He was a wonderful dentist to our family for 22 years and we will miss him very much. He was patient and kind and personable to us when we came in his office. Our sympathy and prayers go out to his wife and children

Mike and Kelly

Stan Baker

June 18, 2014

I will always treasure the memory of Mike. Besides being an awesome dentist, he was a true friend that loved life and his family. My wife, Lori, and myself will forever remember all the fun times we had with Mike and Kelly from the cruise when they got married to fun weekends away like Laguna and of course all the parties. I will especially miss the lunches we would share when we would rarely discuss dentistry, but instead talk about family or travel plans, or what was happening on the ranch. Our deepest sympathies to the entire family.

June 18, 2014

Mike, you will be forever missed. Your beautiful smile added sunshine to many of the souls that were lucky enough to have known you. Our heart and prayers are with Kelly, Maci, Nate and Sammy and his family/parents. Love and Aloha from Maui - Steve and Dana Newinsky and the Gust Family in Modesto.

Thomas Hogan

June 18, 2014

Mike: May we all be like you in character, integrity, and spirit. God Bless you and your family. Lion Tom

Casey Herrera

June 18, 2014

My heart goes out to all of Mike's family. You are all in prayers. He was truly a gentle, kind, pure soul.

Kirsten Lundeby (Polack)

June 18, 2014

Lots of happy memories at the Gerber household! I was best friends with Mike's sister, Kim.....through Stanislaus Union, Prescott Jr High and Beyer High School. My heart is heavy upon hearing the news of Mike's passing. Love and Peace to the Gerber Family.

Scott Miller

June 18, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I was a classmate with Mike in dental school and I always remember his friendship and smile! A wonderful person and I know he'll be deeply missed. I am encouraged as I'm sure you are that life goes on for us and God has a grand plan of happiness for all.

Lance Ogata

June 18, 2014

I looked at the photo gallery...Quality photos captivating life's precious memories...
I will always remember Mike as one of the super coolest guys ever, always had that friendly grin, the grin of a happy man!
In and out of dental school his sidekick Herb, they were inseparable, never saw one without the other.
It is a surprise to learn of his passing, just reconnected at our 25th reunion last year. There he was with Herb! (Oh, and their wives, of course!)
From my family to yours, our heartfelt condolences and kindest sympathies during this difficult time, Mike is one of a kind.

Aloha with love,

Lance, Vien, Summer and Autumn Ogata

Branden Mozaffari

June 18, 2014

You cannot put how Mike lived his life into words. He was like a father to me, always there if I needed him. I trusted him with everything and he will be deeply missed, he is forever in our hearts.

Lynda Bettencourt

June 18, 2014

Your time was so brief it was our fortune to be so blessed. We will all miss Mike, he touched so many lives in such amazing ways.

Brian and Kelli Bergstrom

June 18, 2014

It was such a pleasure to get to know Mike thru our work together in Lions. Our thoughts and prayers are with Kelly, Nate, Maci and Sam during this time. We will miss Mike and look forward to seeing him again someday.

June 18, 2014

We did not know Mike personally but have heard so many wonderful stories about your family through a mutual friend. Mike sounds like he was an amazing man and we are very truly sorry for your loss. Tagre Family

Bary & Becky Pfaff

June 18, 2014

This man will be sorely missed by all he has touched. The wonderful times my family and I have shared with the Gerber family are moments we will carry in our hearts forever. One thing that always reminds me of what a wonderful man Mike was, is that smile. It's almost like he was advertising for his dentistry; but it wasn't. If you knew him, it was because he was a warm, compassionate and wonderful person. Mike, as you shared that smile while on this earth we all know you're doing nothing less as an angel. We will never forget your warmth.

Kelly, Maci, Mate and Sam. You're left to carry on this charter and we all know you'll do wonderfully. We love you!

Sherri Hayes

June 18, 2014

Mike will be greatly missed, he was our dentist for over 20 years. He was an amazing dentist who took care of my whole family, my son didn't even know he ever used a needle to numb his mouth until he was in junior high, that's how amazing he was, he will truly be missed our hearts and prayers go out to the family. Greg & Sherri Hayes

Holly Fielder

June 18, 2014

When I was little and was taken to the dentist, I was slapped by the dentist because I cried. I was terrified as an adult to have anything done by a dentist. Then came Dr. Gerber. At the age of 50, I had my first cavity. Dr. Gerber was so gentle, patient, caring during the filling. He spoke so softly to me to make sure I was okay and even stopped to wipe a tear from my cheek. He patted my white knuckled hand and before I knew it my tooth was filled. He changed my mind about dentists. I will NEVER forget him and what a wonderful man he was.

Ninon Lapan-Dalman

June 18, 2014

Mike was an amazing man, amazing friend and the best neighbor ever! He will be hugely missed! We love you, Kelly, Nate, Maci and Sam!

June 18, 2014

Mike was an amazing man, amazing friend and the best neighbor ever! He will be hugely missed! We love you, Kelly, Nate, Maci and Sam!

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