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T.J. was born in Kermit, Texas, on July 28, 1957, to his parents Leonard Gray and Harriet Jane (Truesdale) Gray. He married his wife, Cruz (Rodriguez) Gray, on September 10, 1978, in Kermit, Texas. T.J. had a great love for his guns and dove hunting, but most importantly spending time with his family.
Survivors include his wife, Cruz Gray of Gordon, Texas; Daughter, Bernadette Gray and husband David of Gordon, Texas; Brother, Bob Gray and wife Nonie of Odessa, Texas; Grandchildren, Tamra Smith and husband Tommy of Abilene, Texas, Noah Riley Gideon of Gordon, Texas, Tanner Alan Gideon of Gordon, Texas; Sister in-law, Brenda Harrison; and several nieces and nephews.
T.J. is preceded in death by his parents, Leonard and Harriet Gray; brother, R.W Harrison; and sister, Bonnie Harrison.
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Mark B. Hensley
February 13, 2025
I knew TJ back in Odessa,TX in 1984-85 circa.
We both worked for a security company during that time.
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