Thomas C. Silver

Thomas C. Silver

Thomas Silver Obituary

Published by Hodroff-Epstein Memorial Chapel - Minneapolis from Apr. 10 to Apr. 12, 2009.
Silver, Thomas C. age 67, ended his persistent, ferocious, and dignified battle with cancer on April 8. A lifelong resident of Minneapolis, Tom was a Renaissance man, skilled in multiple areas and with a broad base of knowledge, always surprising others with his expertise in big pictures and miniscule details. Tom found meaning and passion in work, automotive racing, artistic endeavors, and community involvement. Tom served as owner and executive of ‘Mail Handling Incorporated,' ‘Liberty Envelope,' ‘Bindery Express,' and ‘Direct Marketing Group.' He worked with integrity, creativity, and gusto until even his last week of life. Tom had a lifelong interest in anything motorized, and that passion manifested itself in everything from redesigning equipment at work, to restoring vintage automobiles. He was passionate about long-course auto racing - and skilled and lucky enough to have won many awards - through Canada (Targa, Newfoundland) and Mexico (La Carrera Panamericana), as well as locally in his Legend car. In the last year of his life, on a weekend with no chemotherapy, he competed in his last ‘La Chihuahua Express' race - racing 1200 miles in three days - and he took home the first place trophy. Tom took joy in art and design to a gamut of outlets - from creating silver ritual art pieces to architecture and furniture design. There was no area of creativity at which he could not be successful. Tom was an active member of Bet Shalom Congregation, which fostered his spirit, allowed him to participate in fulfilling many good deeds, and gave him an outlet for leadership skills. He was a board member for many years, after which he served as president of the congregation. Tom coordinated the construction of the congregation's new building and was instrumental in its design. As importantly, he excelled at building relationships with people. To honor Tom's multi-faceted building skills, the honor of congregational Boneh (builder) was recently bestowed upon him. Additionally, Tom was on the boards of the Minneapolis Jewish Federation, and Hebrew Union College - Jewish Institute of Religion. Above all else, Tom cherished his family - he was a devoted son, a loving husband, an adoring father, and a close-knit brother. Preceded in death by parents, Dr. John and Grace Silver. Survived by wife, Anita (Lurye); children, Scott David, Sarah Lynn, Alyson Jenna, and Andrea Jean; siblings, Nancy (Charles) Reich, Sally Silver, Daniel (Myndal), and Rita (Russ) Sandstrom; mother-in-law, Millicent Lurye Weinberg; special aunt and uncle, Pat and Jack Galusha; many caring nieces and nephews, cousins, and friends. Many thanks to the skilled, caring, and compassionate health-care professionals who fought side-by-side with Tom to quell his disease and extend his life: Dr. Cathleen Chen, Tanya, Karen and Micki, Park Nicollet Oncology and Infusion Therapy teams. Tom was fortunate to do what he loved, and to love what he did. As a tribute to Tom, his family has established the Tom Silver Nekudot Fund at Bet Shalom Congregation. Proceeds will be used to complete finishing touches around the Temple - the special gift that Tom always had. Funeral service SUNDAY, 3:00 PM at BET SHALOM CONGREGATION, 13613 Orchard Rd., Minnetonka. Please direct memorials to the Tom Silver Nekudot Fund at Bet Shalom Congregation, or Park Nicollet Cancer Center, 3931 Louisiana Ave., St. Louis Park, MN 55426. SHIVA: Sunday, 7 PM at Bet Shalom Congregation and Monday, 7 PM at Tom and Anita's Home. Hodroff-Epstein 612-871-1234 www.hodroffepstein.com
This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.

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April 6, 2020

Paul Barth posted to the memorial.

July 14, 2009

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May 11, 2009

Joe Antonucci posted to the memorial.

Paul Barth

April 6, 2020

I still think often of Tom and all our racing adventures. Still miss him

Jack Abramson

July 14, 2009

Dear Anita,

I just learned last week of the passing of your husband. Know you are in our thoughts and prayers. I saw your mom and others from the Mark family at a dinner at Beth El.

Much love,

Jack Abramson (Ghitia's little brother)

Joe Antonucci

May 11, 2009

Dear Silver Family,
I knew Tom and worked for him on Real Estate transactions for over 15 yrs. I was out of town when I heard the sad news. He will be missed as I'm sure you have been told over and over and you all know all to well.
Tom helped my career like he helped so many others, sharing his gifts, talent and wisdom. He allowed me to work on his behalf and offered his friendship too.
I'm sorry I wasn't able to attend please know our thoughts and prays are with you and your family.
JOe Antonucci.

April 16, 2009

Godspeed friend.

Hootis.

April 14, 2009

I remember Tom fondly from growing up around Lake Nokomis. My Dad, Reuben, and John Silver were close friends and the two families enjoyed the relationship. Tom was a good friend and a devoted son. He will surely be missed. My sympathy to the family and hope to see you at happier occasions. Best regards, David Berman, M.D.

Jennifer Sokol

April 14, 2009

My name is Jennifer, I am Jack & Pat Galusha's granddaughter; Kathy Reak's daughter. I have found memories of Tom! I still tell my kids about when he tied my shoes together at Uncle Dave's wedding. I am just so glad that my kids got the opportunity to meet Tom a few years ago when we made our trip to Minnesota. My kids had the same experience I did. He had such a way with kids! I am so honored to call him family, even if it was distant.
I am so sorry for your loss but so happy for the time everyone had with him!

Love you lots!
Jennifer, Mark, Samantha & Jack Sokol

April 13, 2009

To Tom's family,
I knew Tom for many years through my brother, who was his business partner. I always thought he was a special person, and he will be greatly missed by so many. My sympathy goes out to all of you. He will always remain in our memories.

Cathy Rusnacko (Cummings)

Beth Yelensky

April 13, 2009

Dear Anita, Allyson and Andrea,

Though we have been out of touch for awhile, Annie just informed me of Tom's passing. I, We send our heartfelt thoughts and prayers to you all at this most tender and vulnerable of times

Nancy Milinkovich

April 13, 2009

Anita,

I was never lucky enough to get to know Tom, but after the funeral yesterday I feel like I've known him for years! What a beautiful tribute to your husband from your friends, family and your Rabbi! I was touched by the beautiful memorial you had for him! I can't express this enough...if you need anyting at all, do not hesitate to call myself or any of your Brookside family who love and care for you SO much!!

Glen Hausfeld

April 13, 2009

My heart goes out to you at this time in your lives and in the days ahead.
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
May your memories bring you comfort.

Martin Long

April 12, 2009

Anita - Tom was clearly a fine man and I am so sorry for you and your family. My best thoughts are with you.

Garry Powers

April 12, 2009

Best wishes to your family. Tom was fun to work with and always took time to say hi to the kids. I enjoyed his passion of his antique cars.

Christine and Andy (Hodroff) Gagnon

April 11, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Tom will be missed dearly by the people he has touched in his life. We are sorry to hear of his passing, but hope he is in peace now.

TIM TIM

April 10, 2009

I always looked forward to seeing Tom and his Silver & Blue Legends racecar at the racetracks. It was always that smile on his face that caught my attention and win or lose he had a great charisma and that smile. The drivers, crews and fans will surely miss that guy.

Butch & Val Donahue

April 10, 2009

Dear Anita and family, We are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. He was a very kind and generous person and will be greatly missed by all who knew him. So glad we had a chance to have some laughs on your recent visit to Palm Desert. God Bless you all.

Marty Schneider

April 10, 2009

Dear Silver family,It was such an honor to gather in your home last weekend in celebration of Tom.Tom will keep bringing wonderful memories to the Carrera motorsport fraternity from many years to come.I knew Tom as a determined competitor,but above all else,a as a gentleman and sportsman.You will be in my prayers.All the best,Marty Schneider

April 10, 2009

Dear Anita and family,
Tom was sure one of a kind. I will miss a kind, generous, friend and especially all the laughs we shared about our auto racing adventures.
You are in my prayers,
Paul Barth
Chaska, Minnesota

Julia Kalland

April 10, 2009

Dear Silver family,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Just know that our family is thinking about you during this difficult time.

-The Kalland Family (Mike, Cindy, Shana and Julia)

Tom and one of his passions

Sam & Deb Stern

April 10, 2009

Dear Anita, Scott, Sarah, Allyson and Andrea,
There is little point in trying to capture the menschkeit of Tom here other than to proclaim to the world what a magnificent individual he was and continues to be as our inspiration.
With much love,
Sam and Deb

molly ambrose

April 10, 2009

Anita and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. He was such a great guy! In time, memories will bring smiles and laughter back into your life!
BIG HUGS to everyone,
Molly and Tim Ambrose and family

Terry Schmidt

April 10, 2009

I worked for Tom - I always thought of him as a genuine "good guy" to all that crossed his path...I will miss him dearly but he brightened my life; for that I thank you Tom.

wendy downie

April 10, 2009

Dear Scott and Family.
Our sympathy to you and your family for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow.
Wendy Downie and the entire DMMS/Re-reg Team.

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