Matthew M. Murphy

Matthew Murphy Obituary

MURPHY-Matthew M., 62, of Vero Beach, died June 22, 2004, after a prolonged illness. He was born June 25, 1941, in Farmingdale, NY, and moved to Vero Beach from Syosset, NY in 2002. Matt lived in Patchogue, NY from 1971 - 1988 and was active in the community. He was a member of St. Helen Catholic Church in Vero Beach and a member of the Knights of Columbus. During Matthew's 35 year career in the paint industry, he finished his career with The General Coatings Paint Co. of Ridgewood, New York as a sales manager. He retired due to illness in 2002. Matthew was a long time member and past president of The New York Paint Travelers Association. Mr. Murphy was a US Navy Veteran from 1959 - 1964. Surviving are his wife of 41 years, Gloria. Devoted father of son, Matthew M. Murphy III and daughter Donna Maloupis. Beloved brother of Thomas Murphy, David Murphy , Michael Owczar, Patricia Alazraki, Margaret Kochner, Veronica Bandy and Rosemary Schweitzer. Cherished grandfather of two grandsons Dean and Matthew Maloupis. At Matthew's request, there will be no visitation or services. A memorial mass will be held on Saturday 10:00AM at St. Helen Catholic Church and a memorial service at the Veterans Cemetery in Bushnell at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to VNA Hospice, 1110 35th Lane, Vero Beach, FL 32960.

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Published by Newsday on Jun. 24, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
for Matthew Murphy

6 Entries

Jim Schweitzer

July 3, 2004

Dear Aunt Gloria, Matt, and Donna,

Uncle Matt was good people. There seem to be fewer of his caliber of person every year. He was always kind and considerate even at times he didn't have to be.

It has been a privilege to be related to him and to experience his happy Murphy laughter.

Sincerely,

Thomas Matthew Murphy II

June 29, 2004

Aunt Gloria, Donna, Matthew, Murphy's & extended Family members;

I unfortunately do not have abundant memories of Uncle Matthew. But as I have shared with many of you, to me he was my first and immediate Uncle. Even though I only first met him at age 26, he let me know (in word & deed) that I was unconditionally his nephew and he was my uncle. With that meeting, I met many other beloved family members.

I admired and love my Uncle Matthew. He put others before himself, even in his suffering. He saw the best in everything and everyone and brought out the best in many of us.

Like many of you, I regret he is no longer with us but am thankful he physically suffers no longer. I envy the memories close family members retain of him and it is through the sharing of each of your memories, we will all remain with him and him with us such that I can continue to learn of the legacy that was and is Uncle Matt.

God's blessing and peace to all of you with my love, T. Matthew.

Lesli Beaton Bautz

June 25, 2004

Dear Aunt Gloria, Dear cousins,

It is difficult to find the words to describe the loss we all feel during this sad time. Uncle Matt was a wonderful man, a loving & kind husband, a good Father & Grandfather, and a great Uncle. He had a sense of humour that had a way of endearing everyone to him and putting a smile on all our faces. He was so generous, freely giving to others, asking for no payment other than the delight on our faces.

My fondest memories of him are surely when I was a little girl and my parents would say, "Uncle Matt and Aunt Gloria, Matty and Donna are coming today!" All 5 of us kids would sit impatiently all day long asking constantly, "When are they gettin' here?" When you arrived we'd run to hug you and Matt would throw us up into the air. After bedtime, we'd listen through the heating vent as you and my parents drank coke, ate chips with dip, played cards and talked into the night down in the kitchen. As the years passed, it was an even closer relationship that formed between both of you, myself and my little family. We have fond memories of staying with you in Long Island, the trips into NY City, the BBQ's, the delicious breakfasts, trips to Jone's Beach, etc.

Matt is an example for all of us. A man who stayed strong until the very end. He fought to stay well so he could be with his family and give them happy memories to hold on in the years to come. He loved you most of all and your support gave him even more strength and courage. Thank you Aunt Gloria for taking such loving care of him.

René, Michael, Stephane, Jessica and I share your pain. Goodbye Uncle Matt, we love you. Happy memories of you are forever etched into our hearts.

With our deepest sympathy,

Lesli and family

JDNV Maloupis

June 24, 2004

We are deeply saddened by the loss of Matt, a genuinely good man, who didn't deserve to suffer the way he did. Our hearts go out to all of you, as we know he will be greatly missed. Please know that we are here if you need us. He will be in our thoughts and prayers as will all of you.

Our Deepest Symapthy and Love,

John, Donna, Nicole & Valerie

Maloupis

Brenda Smith

June 24, 2004

Dear Aunt Gloria, Matt & Donna, I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart just breaks for you. Uncle Matt was very special to me and I love him dearly. I'll miss him terribly! I have many wonderful childhood memories of special times spent with you all. Uncle Matt had a contagious smile and always made me so happy! Nobody could have asked for a better Uncle. I will cherish my memories of him forever. I love you all and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathies ... Love, Brenda

Barbara Weiss(Booth)

June 24, 2004

Dear Gloria and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you. I have been so Blest to have had Matt in my life (although along time ago). He remains to be a part of happier time in my life. My heart is with you all....Barbara

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