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Molly Hamilton
May 20, 2023
Always thinking of and remembering Mike around this time. Miss his energy and big personality. Still love and miss you, buddy.
Jennifer Pearson
May 15, 2023
Mike often crosses my mind, especially this time of year. Continued prayers to his family for ongoing strength. Losing a child is such an unbearable thing, one that no one should ever have to endure. Hopefully we all can take the opportunity to channel some of Mike´s beautiful spirit, humor and energy - not just this week, but always.
Molly Hamilton
May 20, 2022
I always think it´s the 20th. Always.
I found out on the 20th, so maybe that´s why. Either way, I cannot believe that it´s been so long. I miss your laugh, jokes, big personality, and consuming bear hugs. Just miss knowing that you were here. Forever buddies, Mike.
Leslie
February 22, 2022
I remember your smile....and some days, it´s what keeps me going. You are smiling down on us. And that´s all I need to know. I miss you. I love you. I´ll see you again one day.
Mom & Dad
May 19, 2021
Still Love you and miss you.
Mom & Dad
Jenny Pearson-Bonsky
May 20, 2016
I can't believe it's been over twelve years since Mike has been gone. Over the past two years - after my own sweet daughter's terminal diagnosis - have I really been able to reflect upon his passing and how deeply it has affected you as a family. As a friend of Mikes, my heart broke....but as his parents, that pain and heartbreak is simply immeasurable. As a mother, I know your pain will never fully heal...you've lost a piece of your heart that you will never get back until the day you see him again. Mike was so blessed to have such a loving, supportive group of family and friends. He lived life to the absolute fullest...which is a lesson that we all can learn. Thinking about your family always.
May 19, 2015
Other Uncle Dave, Sue, and Matt,
Seems like only yesterday we all heard the devastating news of Mike's passing. I still remember driving down Wales Rd. hearing a song on the radio that made me think of Mike, one in which he liked. Ever time I hear that song I get a smile and I know he is ok. I know some days feel more empty than others, but as many have said before, in the short 24 years he was with us, what an impact he made. Know you all are always in our thoughts and prayers and Mike is smiling down upon all of us excited for when we are all together again.
Love you guys!
Adam Hufstetler
Molly Hamilton
May 19, 2014
Dave, Suzie, and Matt,
I can't believe that today marks the 10 year mark of Mike's death. Even though the time has passed, it doesn't nor ever will feel normal that he's gone. He's so deeply missed by so many people. Michael had a way of connecting with others and treating people the way that we all should treat people - with love, compassion, and respect. I so loved that about him. I just want you to know that I'm thinking of all of you and completely missing him.
Sending hugs,
Molly K. Hamilton
Sally Stevenhagen
October 19, 2013
I miss you Michael David Delaney! There are so many things that remind me of you my dear friend.
October 18, 2013
Some rare people are just unforgettable, and you are one of them, Mike. I got the sheet music to "I Can Only Imagine" and play it for you often.
You are missed by me,
Jo Ann
Molly Hamilton
May 19, 2013
Dave, Suzie, and Matt,
I want you to know that I think of Mike often. Most of the time when I see you guys, I expect him to be there - almost as if I keep forgetting that he's not going to be. The beauty of that, I guess, is that I do feel him in our stories, at your home, and within each of you. He just adored you all. Your family is so dear to me, and I hate seeing the hurt that you have felt all of these years. I wish that I could wipe it clean, and I'm sorry that I cannot. We do know that we'll see him again, and oh, what a wonderful reunion that will be. In the meantime, I can still hear his laugh, feel his bear hugs, and see his smile. Who knows what antics he'd be up to, but I just loved it. He made life fun, didn't he?
I pray for comfort and peace for you on this very difficult day. We love you!
Dan, Molly, Hayden, and Luke Hamilton
Molly Hamilton
May 19, 2013
Oh, Mike, how I miss your smile and laugh. I was recently telling my students how you decided to sit on a whoopi cushion during our graduation. They thought it was great! I'll never forget you showing it to me, smiling, then sitting on it. Classic Mike! My students thought it was hilarious, and I saw their wheels turning with ideas as I spoke. You, my friend, are so missed. Whenever we're at your parents, I find myself expecting you to also be there. I'm saddened with the realization that you're not physically there, but you're certainly there in spirit. You just left us too soon, Mike. I think of you often and wish that things could have been different. Clearly, God had a different plan. I wish you could've met my boys - they are so great and I know you would have taught them things that I wouldn't want them to learn! I love you, and will forever miss my dear friend.
Mark & Cindy Hufstetler
May 13, 2013
Michael, We all miss you so much...we talk about you all the time with your Dad and Mom. We laugh and the tears still fall however God has a way of comforting us and we just know you are smiling and laughing, running around with little "girl" angels playing "tag". A loss as dynamic as your's never goes away! You were a son loved so very dearly by your Dad and Mom and daily your absence is felt. Your Mom told me last week she was riding in the car and heard "I can only imagine" which you loved and was sang at your services. It came when your Mom needed to hear it and was such a comfort to her. Whoever is the heavenly "disc-jockey" tell them she would love to hear it more. We are missing you as always! Love, Your Buddies...Mark and Cindy Hufstetler
mark and cindy hufstetler
May 22, 2010
Dave and Susi, Matt as well. We cannot believe it has been this long. How our hearts ache, just to hug Mike or see him smile. I can tell you, "we" don't take moments for granted anymore, even when we can do that with you guys. coming out there sitting looking at the lake, Mark and Dave telling stories and watching them "belly laugh". It tells me Mike looking down is happy to see all of you guys as well as all of his friends living life to the fullest, the way he would have lived, had that been God's will for him. How we wish it would have been different but then we would be questioning God's will for our lives and His ultimate purpose for us. He never makes mistakes and just gives us the comfort we need to tarry on without our love ones until we meet again! Thankfully that is our belief, and the time we have on earth is a mere minute compared to eternity we have to spend with Mike and your Mom and Ken and Grandma Delaney, my Dad and Mark's dad...the list goes on. We have all suffered broken hearts and will continue but one thing for sure the Lord comforts us and assures us the (Son) never stops shinning! We will see you guys soon hugs until we do. Love You! Mark and Cindy
Jonathan Edwards
December 27, 2009
I revisit this site every view months. I come here to remember my friend. When I reread old entries and read new entries I am amazed at how Mike touch so many lives. I know that I think about him so much and I see that there are so many others thinking about him as well. I am touched that his legacy will live on through other people. I love that people are naming their children to remember Mike.
I love you and we all miss you!
Ryan White
November 10, 2009
Hey Mike,
I've been thinking alot about you lately. I had the birth of my 1st child Sept. 23rd and named her Delaney Renee. Yep, after you buddy. She's so beautiful!!! I turned 30 this year, too, and wish you could have been here for both occasions. I'm always thinking of you bro. I hope you keep watching over all of us and laughing and enjoying yourself up in heaven. I love you and miss you!!!
Jo Garcia
July 23, 2009
Hey D. I know you read this so I figure I'd come to this page where everybody loves and remembers you. I really miss you. And I know your watching over your family and hope they are doing well.
Nathan VonGunten
June 4, 2009
Dear Delaney Family,
Michael has been on my mind so many times over the last fours years that I could not begin to count. The memories I shared with him still bring joy to my heart. I remember playing with Snoop and Dre, and I also remember having dinner with you and Michael at the Waterloo when we were house searching. I am still in the same house on Wilbeth Rd that I found that evening. Thank you for that! Thank you for raising such a wonderful person and son. Michael is in my prayers all the time. I ask for his advice and I ask that he takes care of my doberman until I can get there.
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family each and every day.
Ryan White
May 20, 2008
Dave, Sue, & Matt,
I thought of Mike all day yesterday. I miss him everyday. I wish I could have celebrated my graduation from the University of Akron with him. I know he would have been proud. He always kept telling me "Hurry up and get done so we can work together in sales somewhere". I always laughed knowing that he was serious and joking at the same time. That was about as serious as Mike would be, kind of like myself, and that's why we were such good friends. I think of you guys all the time and all I can do is pray that one day we will all be able to see hime again one day. I am a firm believer one day we all will. I believe I can say this for all of us and that is...I will never forget Mike and will think of him everyday and miss him even more. I love you!
Ryan
Dan and Molly Hamilton (Hufstetler)
May 19, 2008
Dave, Suzie, and Matt,
I think of Mike often and am always saddened to know that I will not be seeing him soon and hearing some crazy tale or joke from him. He always made me laugh with his humorous charm. My heart aches when I think back to this day... I just wish that we had the option of rewinding life.
I'm sorry that he is not here. I will forever miss my friend and long to see him again.
Adam & Rachel Hufstetler
May 19, 2008
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Delaney and Matt,
I can't believe how the years have come and gone. As for myself I still think of Mike, whether it's a song on the radio, a clip from a movie, or a laugh I may hear, I think back of when he was around. I remember a week before Mike passed, I had made a new cd. After I left the calling hours I remember the song playing. It was a R/B song that I know Mike knew. The song talked about everything being ok, that he was now living the life in Heaven. I felt as if Mike were right there saying, "See buddy, I'm up here and everything is going to be Ok!" and I truly felt it was appropriate since it was a song that I know he not only knew, but liked.
I know that as time passes I will never forgot about Mike. Mike had a personality about him, that no matter what, you could never forget him. I hope that today you all feel Michael's presence and warmth, and realize that the time we all have to spend apart from him, is minimal, compared to the eternal life we will all spend with him someday. You are and always will be in our prayers and we love you all.
mark & cindy HUFSTETLER
May 14, 2008
DAVE, SUE, MATTHEW, AND DELANEY FAMILY, MARK AND I CANNOT BELIEVE IT WILL BE FOUR YEARS SINCE MICHAEL WENT HOME TO BE WITH THE LORD! I DON'T THINK THERE HAS BEEN A TIME WHEN WE ARE ALL TOGETHER THAT WE FAIL TO MENTION HIM SEVERAL TIMES BEFORE OUR VISIT COMES TO AN END. WE HAVE TOLD ONE OF "MANY STORIES" OF SOMETHING HE DID, OR ONE OF OUR KIDS DID WITH HIM THAT WE LAUGH AND REALIZE HOW MUCH WE MISS HIM! I THINK HE WAS SUCH A "LITTLE RUGRAT" AND WE ALL HAVE SUCH GREAT MEMORIES TO KEEP US CHUCKLING FOR SOME TIME. IT HOWEVER, WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH FOR ALL OF YOU ,BUT WE KNOW WITH EACH DAY AND EACH NEW MEMORY YOU GUYS MAKE, WILL COME "WHAT WOULD MIKE THINK?" OR "WHAT WOULD MIKE HAVE DONE WITH THIS?" OR "I WONDER WHAT THE LORD HAS HIM DOING NOW? MOLLY ALWAYS WONDERS WHAT CUTE LITTLE "GIRL ANGEL" HE'S TEASING, AND WE ALL KNOW HE'S PASSING OUT, " FREQUENTLY" THOSE "MICHAEL BEAR HUGS" ONLY HE COULD DO. WE KNOW THE PRICE YOU GUYS WOULD PAY TO GET ONE OF THOSE SO ... SHUT YOUR EYES AND JUST IMAGINE ONE HAS BEEN SENT FROM HEAVEN FOR EACH OF YOU AND ALONG WITH IT IS ONE FROM EACH OF US TOO. OUR PRAYERS HOLD YOU ALL TIGHT, NOW AND ALWAYS, FOREVER... UNTIL THAT GREAT DAY WE WILL BE REUNITED WITH ALL OF OUR LOVED ONES WHO HAVE GONE AHEAD OF US ONLY TO CELEBRATE THE HOMECOMING , AND THE PLACE OUR SAVIOUR WENT BEFORE US TO PREPARE FOR THOSE WHO LOVE AND FOLLOW HIM , THEN ,WE WILL SAY "THANK-YOU" WE LOVE YOU GUYS, MARK AND CINDY
Amanda Bond
May 19, 2007
I love you Mike; I miss you everyday.
Kelly Wood (Evans)
December 7, 2006
Mrs. Delaney,
I was talking to my mom last night and she said she ran into you at the store (probably Fishers...she lives there:))
Anyways, just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of your family and hope the holidays are merry! I am sure it gets difficult at times, but I am sure you have precious memories that you can remember every year of Mike! I saw Matt at the reunion, I didn't get a chance to say much because he was busy running the entrance door, but it was good to see him! ( I am surprised I fit through the door... I was 8 months pregnant!) Congrats on his marriage(my mom filled me in)... I am sure it is nice having a new addition to the Delaney Family. She seemed like a nice girl.
Happy Holidays and take care,
Kelly
Adam Hufstetler
May 19, 2006
Dear Delaney's,
Today is two years from the tragic day for us, yet the wonderful day for Mike. As I sat here and thought about him I can just picture him up in Heaven telling jokes and making everyone laugh. That was Mike. He was able to put a smile on anyone, anytime, and in any situation. Not to long ago I was telling the story when our families were in Myrtle Beach. We had all gone out to dinner at this real nice place. They had large animals mounted on the wall and Mike thought it would be a good idea to put a hush-puppy in one of the fish's mouth. So he got up walked to this fish with a hush-puppy in hand and placed it in the open mouth. We all laughed and kept it there for someone else, got up, and went back to the hotel. Then a few of us ( Matt, others, and I)decided to throw things off of the balcony at people on the beach. Finally security came, which only meant time for us to get lost. We all ran to the beach told Mike what was going on and he just laughed and said don't worry. Mike was such a relaxed person who always seemed to find the humerous side of the story. He will be missed by many, but our stories will give others the joy of knowing what a great person he was. Mr. and Mrs. Delany and Matt you will continue to be in my prayers through these hard times. God Bless.
May 19, 2006
Dear Dave,Susi,Matt,
Just a note to let you all know we all have prayed for you not only today but daily as we told you when we stopped to see you the other night. We enjoyed laughing and reminiscing about happier days with Michael and Molly, as well as Matt and Adam. I don't know if I ever shared this story with you guys about Mike... Mikey to us. Just a day or two after his Uncle Ken passed away I was in McArdle's and I ran into him while he was working, he greeted me with that "big bear" hug that he had done so many times in the past but this time he held on for a very long time. I thought then and I look back now and am so comforted by it...especially now!! ... It was a hug that seemed he was saying, "nobody has a guarantee we will see tomorrow so if in fact ,this is the last time I will ever hug you, I better make it last" And by golly he in fact did...I can still feel that today! If you had the pleasure of knowing him or meeting him just once you in fact know the Mickey Delaney "bear hug". When my own Dad passed away my Mom and sisters and myself were convinced God put Dad in the "art" department, (he was an artist, he loved to paint) because we had never seen such "beautiful" sunsets before so it made sense to us...yes that is where he was assigned...helping paint Godly sunsets. Well I know where Michael's assignment spot is... near the front door of heaven where the hugs begin, I'm not being disrespectful because as a Christian I know "JESUS" will be who my eyes and arms will meet first but then somewhere between "JESUS" and my loved ones waiting to greet me, will be the kid with the most impacted hug I have ever received from anyone here on earth,( and with the kind of smile that could light up all of heaven,) there is where he will be standing assigned (if you may) waiting for all who he loved and cherished in his short life to follow him there to be "reunited" forever, to a place with "no sadness, no more tears" only a place with smiles and hugs, a place where Michael was "chosen" but also where he in fact made that decision to spend eternity. As friends and family who "believe", we are so happy... it was the wisest decision he ever made on this earth, now he is where his rewards will be given to him, and as he awaits the homecoming of all who he loved here on earth, to come get another heavenly bear hug from our MICKEY. we love all of you and our prayers are with you always and forever, Cindy and Mark Hufstetler
Molly Hamilton (Hufstetler)
May 19, 2006
“Just because we don’t see a bird singing, doesn’t mean it isn’t there.”
Dave, Sue, and Matt,
I have been thinking of you so much this week. My mind wanders to the memory of two years ago. When I came home, I knew simply by the expression on Dan’s face that something was terribly wrong. What came out of his mouth was something that I never expected to hear. His words have replayed in my mind countless times, but each time they replay slower and with more articulation than the previous time. Those words will forever replay in my mind.
I have been looking at my students today and thinking back to the wonderful memories of Mike and I throughout school. I love our home videos of elementary school, our memories of high school, and who could forget Michael’s lasting impression at our graduation ceremony. It made perfect sense for Michael to be the one with the whoopee cushion! I think of the time at the restaurant in Myrtle Beach, or how we almost were banned from our condo because they wanted to throw things from the banister. We all know who was in charge of that escapade! How I wish I could go back sometimes.
I wanted to let you know that I am thinking of Mike today, yesterday, and for the past two years. I notice that I think of him at the strangest times, and my heart aches with the sadness of knowing that I will not randomly see his beautiful smiling face. What joy he brought to all that knew him. While I mourn his presence, I rejoice in the fact that we will all see him again. Dave, Sue, and Matt…someday those arms will hug you the same way they did while he was here. His smiling face and ornery characteristics must only remain in our memory for the short remainder of our existence here because we have eternity with him.
I love you as if you are my own family, and in a sense, you are. Mom and Dad told me that you are now referring to this day as Michael’s Heavenly birthday. I think that is a perfect way to think of it.
We love you,
Dan and Molly
Amanda Bond
May 19, 2006
Today is two years since we lost Mike, and by rereading everyone's words throughout the years I am continually touched by his legacy. Even though we will all take some time today to relive the events of May 19, 2004, and mourn for Mike, my hopes and prayers for us all is that we rejoice in the goodness that he brought to our lives. Hopefully we will all find contentment in the memories that we shared with him and be able to thank God for the time that he blessed us with.
I love you Mike; I miss you everyday. Thank you for being my friend.
Theresa
May 12, 2006
I constantly talk to Mike while I drive in my car and say hello to him (and Snoop, of course). I am sure we can all still hear his funny little laugh, and smile. Mike was a great person that I admired, and cared for. I knew that if I needed him, he was always there. It has been two years now, but I still feel like he is still here for me. I loved Mike, and miss him so. But my heart is glad to have had him in it. We miss you, Mike.
Denise Remark-Lundell
December 21, 2005
Dear Delaney Family,
Christmas is an especially poignant time for those who grieve the loss of loved ones. Although I did not work with Mike for a very long time, he made quite a wonderful impression on me. To that end, I was reflecting on him, as well as several other friends who have passed away over the last couple of years, feeling sorrowful for not only the respective families, but also that those friends are no longer here. On that same day, two things happened to make me realize that, although no longer present in body, Mike is most definitely present in spirit! As I mentioned, I worked with him (at Wingfield Bennett & Baer). His name is still in a database that I use frequently. As I was mousing through available options, the mouse "slipped" and selected the personnel profiles. Even though "Delaney" is not the first name on the list, it was highlighted! I smiled! Mike was reminding me that he's still here! Later, I stopped at the grocery on my way home. When I returned to my car, there was a black Escalade parked right next to me and the first two letters of the license plate were MD. Mike's family & friends still, and will always, mourn his loss, however he remains a rich and lively presence for us to embrace!
Aubrey Cocklin
October 11, 2005
Delaney Family,
I have been thinking of Mike constantly lately and realizing how much I miss having him in my life. I didn't realize how much I relied on him until now. I can only imagine what it must be like for you, and want you to know that you are all in my thoughts daily.
Love,
Aubrey
Ryan Pluskota
May 23, 2005
Just about every day, i see, hear, or feel something that reminds me of Mike. I find myself drifting back to this guestbook reading all the different posts and remembering how great michael was. I believe michael is using all the gifts people have talked about in these posts to complete tasks that are divine. I miss him very much. Dave, Sue, and Matthew my prayers are with you and my door is open to anything you need.
Ryan White
May 19, 2005
Dave, Sue, and Matt,
I sit here typing and don't know what to say. My heart is still broken and I still cry when I think of one of my best friends ever, Mike D. I will never stop thinking about the great times we had together. Mike was like a brother to me. I still pray for him and for your family. I never walked into a room that Mike was in and he didn't say something nice to me and I am sure there are many more people out there that can say the same thing. I miss him so very much. Mike might not know what he meant to alot of people, including me, but if he can see this...Mike, I love you brother. Filled with LOVE...Ryan
Krissi Bruzzese
May 19, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with you always. But I know today is particularly hard.
I read a nice quote that sounds about right for the amount of people touched by Mikey:
"Nothing is ever wholly lost. That which is excellent, remains a part of the universe forever."
Robert Marshall
May 17, 2005
I think of Michael all of the time. When I see or talk with other friends of Michael's we always talk about the great times we had together. Even though he was only in most of our lives for a few short years, we have a life time of memories. Mr. and Mrs. Delaney and Matt, you are all in my prayers and thoughts every day. He will always be here in our minds and dreams.
Amanda Bond
April 20, 2005
While Mike's memory is constantly present in my heart and mind, lately, he has been everywhere and I miss him very much. Eleven months after our loss, I continue to be touched and changed by his life. Missing him and thinking of you, Mandi
Kiki (Shellhammer) Chamberlain
April 1, 2005
I was home in Canton the other weekend visiting my parents when I came across some pictures my dad had taken of Mikey, Matty, Erin and myself. Erin was home from college and Mike, Matt and I were all in high school. We were all acting so silly and doing ridiculous poses. I laughed for a long time looking through those pictures. Although I think of the Delaney's often, it is those surprising moments, like coming across some old photos of Mikey, that seem to brighten my day.
Kris Worrell
March 30, 2005
Dear Sue and Dave,
I continue to still think of Michael frequently. After all this time, I finally came to read the guest book thinking it might be easier now. It isn't. I still miss him dearly.
As I was reading the entries I came across one entered by my mother. I hadn't realized she signed the book and it has opened a floodgate of emotions. You see, I lost my mother in February to Pancreatic Cancer.
All of this has only heightened my awareness of losing loved ones and the grieving that must take place.
As I know, we will all grieve for a lifetime, but I also realize the Lord will ever so slowly lighten our hearts and take some of our sadness from us.
Time and patience will work wonders, I only pray they will also heal our broken hearts...
Peace and Love,
Kris Worrell
Christie Memmer
March 2, 2005
One day after school I was at the Delaney house where Mike and I thought it would be fun to take Matt's "Mr. Gerra Fan Club" card and hide it from him. We laughed as Matt looked all over the house for it, even though he was genuinely getting mad at us. Mike made nachos in the microwave and then we finally gave it up.
I don't know why I remember this day and all of its details, as it happened 10 years ago. But it is this kind of everyday memory about Mike that truly makes me smile.
I am sure all of Mike's friends and family have these kinds of memories that are maybe only meaningful to them. Think of them often and keep your head up!
Love Christie
Lisa Pittinger-Golden
January 6, 2005
Dear Delaney Family,
You are all in my thoughts and my prayers. I went to high school with both Michael and Matt. I got to know Michael briefly while running track. He was a truly exceptional person. I remember one year that Michael had written in my year book that my "smile will light the world", and I definitely know now that his smile lights the heavens while his friends/family grieve for him here on earth.
Ryan White
December 25, 2004
Dave, Sue, and Matthew,
I just wanted to say that you are in my thoughts this holiday season. I am praying for you and Michael because I miss him very much. I know it is hard this holiday season and I would like all of you to know that I amthinking about and hope it can be nice as possible.
Love Always,
Ryan
CHRISTY LEE
December 24, 2004
IT'S CHRISTMAS EVE AND I WANTED TO LET MIKE AND HIS FAMILY KNOW I AM THINKING OF YOU ALL AND PRAYING FOR YOU. MIKE I MISS YOU!!!
Krissi Bruzzese
December 23, 2004
I wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you, as always...but particularly during these Holidays. God bless you guys. You're in my thoughts!
Love,
Krissi
Michael Dube'
November 29, 2004
Dear Delaney Family,
I recently learned of your tragic loss, and wanted to extend my deepest sympathies to all of you. It had been so long since I had last seen Mike, but from what I have read, his glowing personality only continued to grow throughout his journey in life. I will never forget how Mike was always filled with an abundance of positive energy, and willing to share it with all around him. My best to all of you during these difficult times.
Jo Garcia
October 19, 2004
I write again because this is the only place I can go to feel better about this lost. I am still having a hard time with this. I can come here and read all the great things that people have written about Mike. Mike if you are reading this I wrote you a poem. You where my rock and now I am lost without you. I miss you so much.
FRIENDS
Friends have come and friends have gone,
And there are precious few that stay.
When one of the good ones are lost,
Think of nothing but the good times,
They would want you to remember them that way.
Don’t be sorry they are gone,
But be happy they where here.
Because if you think of anything else,
Down the path of sadness you will veer.
Think of all the people they helped,
And the live that they have touched.
You should always be amazed by
how one person could do so much.
How much they have done,
And all of their helpfulness.
How could they do all of this
With such little selflessness.
When you think of these friends,
Then soon you will start to miss,
Hopefully you will sit down
And you will remember this…
Friends will come and friends will go
It will always be this way.
But the ones that truly matter,
In your heart they will always stay.
Fred and Nancy Scott
September 26, 2004
Dear Delaney Family,
Please accept our sympathy for your son's tagic accident. We were out of town for two weeks in May and were unaware of your loss until advised by Uncle Eugene Scott this past week. Although we did not know Michael personally, our son John told us how helpful he was whenever
asked during our building project.
From all the beautiful letters and testimonies on line, he must have been very special. Your own letter
on line is truly inspirational. As
Christians, we know Michael's last
breathe on earth was his first breathe in heaven and that someday,
we will all be re-united there. We
will keep your family in our daily
prayer asking God to watch over you and comfort your hearts.
John S. Scott
September 23, 2004
Mr. & Mrs. Delaney and Matthew,
I know that my timing is late and I hope not unwanted, but I would like to offer you my condolences on the death of Michael. I was sitting at home studying for an exam the other night when my Father called me and told me the news. I was upset because for the few weeks that I was home this summer, I never knew. If I had, I could have talked to you in person.
After my Father told me what had happened, I immediately went online to look in the Canto Rep as well as Legacy.com. It was in reading the messages on Legacy that I sat back and smiled for a moment as I realized something. As the postings show, Michael was more than just a son, brother, and friend. He was a gift. A gift from God to all he came in contact with. As exemplified in the letters, Michael was caring, compassionate, loving, friendly, and true. He had an impact on everyone from his Family, to his friends, to his co-workers, to old classmates, to old teachers, and believe it or not, even to a new neighbor of his parents.
I will never forget seeing Michael for the first time shortly after I met Mr. Delaney. Up into the driveway pulled an Escalade with rap music coming from the windows. The next thing I knew, a pony, “the Doberman,” jumped out of the truck and then Michael appeared. Great I thought, now I have a neighbor who is as big as a tank, has a dog that looks as mean as the devil, and on top of it all, he listens to loud rap music. Boy did I hope that I never got on the wrong side of whoever that person was.
Needless to say, I was wrong. The person that really came out of the truck that afternoon was a giant teddy bear. One who held all of the qualities I described above. There was never a day in which we met in the driveways where he was not the first to smile and say, “Hello.” Quit frankly, if it were not for Michael and both his motivation and endurance, my nephew would be playing on his new play set in our driveway. I think we all know that Mr. Delaney and I had a hard enough time moving landscaping rocks let alone a 600 pound play set.
In my years as a funeral director, there were certain events that happened that I just never understood. This situation is one of them. But, in our Faith, we believe that God has a plan for each of us. Sometimes, it is hard to not only accept this plan, but to understand it as well. I was once told something that I will never forget and I would like to share it with you. I have been told that God picks His most precious and delicate flowers when they are in their prime to plant them in His heavenly garden to enjoy their beauty. I think that this must be true because of what has happened. Our Father in Heaven has a truly beautiful sight to admire. May God watch over your family and help you to find peace in your hearts. I will keep all of you in my prayers.
John S. Scott
Suzanne Walters
September 5, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Delaney and family,
It was not until I read today's paper (Sept. 5) that I realized that Mike had died in such a tragic way. I did not know him well, but I have never forgotten him. I met him during my first year as choir director at Jackson Middle School - he was a member of the eighth grade choir. I ran into him just a few short months ago at Red Robin and we talked for a short time about the things he was doing now. I'm so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss and offer my deepest sympathy. Your family is in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Suzanne Walters
Linda Kamienski
August 8, 2004
To the Delaney Family:
I recently heard about Michael. I was fortunate enough to have taught Michael in a web-site design class at The University of Akron. I've been teaching for ten years and I can honestly tell you the number of students whose names and faces I remember after they leave my classes are few. Michael is one of my top five standouts. He was bright, witty, articulate, exhuberant and an absolute joy to have in class.
His joy in life was contagious and infectious. We connected over the fact that we both lived in Jackson Twp. and over our mutual love of dogs.
Know that I felt privileged to have had my life cross his. Even after he left my class, he e-mailed me baudy jokes and some of the work he was doing. I lost touch with him the last couple of years, but still thought of him fondly.
Again my deepest sympathy for your loss. God bless you all.
Linda
Linda C. Kamienski
Instructor
The University of Akron
Jamie H.
August 2, 2004
Dear Delaney Family,
I don't know your family, but I am a close friend of someone who loves you all very much. I share in hers and your grief. Even though I never got to meet your son, brother, and friend, I will never forget him. I am praying for you all.
abby
July 27, 2004
Delaney's,
I just want to say that i just heard about Michael a few days ago. No one was able to get ahold of me because i was sick. But i do want to say that im deeply sorry to hear about him. i was in total shock when i heard...i actually didnt believe it, i thought my friend kevin was lying to me. i wish he was. You see, i only got to know him for a little bit, but im glad i did. your son was so genuine, and caring. he made me laugh when we went out to dinner, especially every minute he had to compliment me. haha. he was a character, and i have to say i had so much fun. he was a true gentleman who had so much respect...you brought your son up as a great person. he really knew how to make people smile, he was very charming i have to say and unpredictable. he surprised me a couple times, and when i was down he was there. im so blessed to have gotten to know him, i just wish i couldve told him. i actually tried to but got scared...dont know why. michael thought him and i connected in ways that was different, and i have to say i agree. your son is gorgeouse to me, and always will be. im gonna miss his smiling face at my work...i really am...just know that im praying for him, and praying for the family...the employees (charter one bank) i work with are deeply sorry...you are all in our prayers...just know you havent lost a son, you gained an angel in your presence. hes told me so many times, how much he loved his family. he told me he was a mommas boy. but his parents david and sue, and brother matt, you guys ARE a great deal to him, and always will be. you have my blessings. im praying everday for you and everyone whos even crossed his path, just because they are lucky. GOD BLESS YOU...may he always remain in our hearts.
Becky Brainard
July 7, 2004
Dave and Sue,
You are on my mind most every day, praying for your strength and guidance and peace.
I can only imagine how many other people's hearts are touching yours as they are lifting you up in prayer. You Delaney's have a very broad base of friends.
May God continue to give you His peace, His strength, His wisdom and everything that you need to carry on until you get to once again hug that handsome son of yours.
I often wonder how long Michael will be doing nothing but sitting at the feet of the Master, just worshipping Him and thanking Him for all He has done. We can only imagine what it must be like to feel pure, unadulterated love, to have our souls full to capacity, to be completely at peace.
Or is he dancing before the throne with such exuberant joy, joy that mere human words cannot begin to be express?
We want to encourage you to stand fast and keep looking up and know that so many are holding your hearts up in prayer.
Dwight and Becky Brainard
Alisen Fertig
July 5, 2004
Dear Dave and Sue Delaney,
My Deepest Sympathy is with you and your family. I shared your pain with you, for my brother's name is also Micheal David Delaney and he is also 24 from C. Falls. I cannot express or put into words the feeling that I was feeling that day. When I found out that it was not my older brother I felt a feeling of relief but also a feeling of sympathy for your family. That day is certainly not a day that anyone would want to experience and if they have to then "everything happens for a reason" and thats the quote I kept saying to myself that day. Again My deepest sympathy is with you. God Bless
Robert, Roseanne, Natalie & Nick White
June 24, 2004
Dave, Sue & Matthew,
I can't begin to tell you what a shock it was to find out about Michael. We were on a two week vacation and when we returned it was Sunday May 30th. Natalie had just found out on that Friday and she gave us the news upon our return. We all sit down and cryed with each other and didn't want to beleive it.
I want you all to know if we would have been home, we would have flown back to Ohio immediately to be there for the funeral.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We can't imagine that Michael is gone. We all watched him grow up from an infant to a fine young man. Natalie had the pleasure of enjoying her young childhood with both Michael and Matthew. Michael was a little bit on the ornery side, but it was in a good way. His "smile" we will never forget. He had a way of touching you and make you melt inside when you looked at him. We will never forget him. Our hearts are heavy for the loss of this fine young person. We will never understand why God would allow this to happen. His calling had to be important. Michael will always be in our hearts and never leave us.
May God bless all of you.
You have our deepest sympathy.
Love you all,
Bob, Roseanne, Natalie and Nick
Christie Memmer
June 19, 2004
Dave, Sue, and Matt,
I wanted to take this opportunity to tell you again how much I am thinking of you and grieving your loss. Like a child who cannot comprehend thoughts so abstract, I am struggling to believe that Mike is actually gone. His smile brightened my life every time I saw him and so it is in my memories that his smile is plastered forever.My own brothers actually just told me a story where they recently saw Mike driving down our road with Matt in the passenger seat with his feet up. They stopped to talk and my brothers told me how funny they were being. Although not a witness to this encounter, I can picture it so vividly in my head. The love between Matt and Mike was so evident that it poured out of them and into our universe. I know that this love will never cease even though Mike is not physically with us. Matt, he now resides in your heart and every time you think of him and smile you are continuing his legacy.
Your family has been such a blessing in the lives of my own family. We cherish you as neighbors and love you as friends. The strength you have shown me personally during my visits to you amazes me every time. We continue to think about you and pray for you and celebrate the fact that Mike is now with Jesus.
I love you all and will do what I can to help you through this most difficult time.
Melissa Kahl
June 18, 2004
To the Delaney family,
I would like to thank Dave for writing to me by e-mail and for inviting me to share in Michael's book. I am so very sorry for your Loss. I know that sometimes there are just no words to say or even to know how to begin to say the words that you want to say. Michael sure was a Loved Young Man. I felt the Lord's presence as soon as I came here to visit and sign in. I do pray for each visitor that comes here and for the Delaney family. I pray for each of Michael's friends. I pray that you are able to feel the presence of almighty God's Loving Arms each and every time you are missing Michael. I pray that when tears flow from your eyes, that you know one day every tear we cry and all of the pain that we have suffered on this earth will be wiped away by our Lord Jesus in Heaven.(Revelation 21:4) Jesus didn't say that we would never cry or suffer pain on this earth but that one day He would take it all away. I am waiting for that day. I pray that the memories you have of Michael are held so close to your heart. And you can smile for the wonderful memories and when you remember the light that He carried to others around Him.
My brother, Michael, was born on May 23rd, 1977 and died Sept. 16, 1997. He was only 20. He also attended Akron University for a year.Sometimes, it just seems so wrong they are not here anymore. But, I know God is Faithful and He will get us through, even the days we feel we can not get through. I pray that your hearts desires are filled by our Lord Jesus. That others will come to find Spiritual life through the Loss of Michael's Physical life. May God Give You Love, Comfort, Hope & Peace. Peace that only He can give to you. In The Love Of Christ Jesus,
Melissa Kahl
Amanda W.
June 17, 2004
Dear Delaney Family -
I never had the opportunity to meet Michael Delaney. I recently befriended Adam Papas and Adam was determined for me to meet his best friend. We talked about your son and what a wonderful person he was, the many attributes he possessed and how meeting him would be infectious. I did not have the honor of meeting Michael, yet I feel I have met him because of the picture painted by Adam. His stories are endless and the memories, so close to his heart. These two shared a friendship others only dream of. I read the guest book entries and realize what a loss the world has suffered. Michael was so well loved and those that knew him were truly blessed. I wish I could have met your son and experienced his heart warming smile and cracked a few jokes with him, at Adam's expense. Take comfort in knowing your son touched so many people's lives here on earth. He will forever be a Guardian Angel for his family and dear friends. And because of the love he shared for everyone, he will never be forgotten.
Becky Brainard
June 16, 2004
Dave and Sue,
I have no words, only prayers for you all. You have been on my mind almost daily. Dave, you were so selfless with me when I stopped by to see you...thank you. May the God of all comfort continue to be able to make His presence known to you. Becky Brainard
Rocky Checca
June 12, 2004
It is with deep sorrow and a heavy heart that i sign this guest book. I was in shock when i heard about Mike. It only makes me wonder why bad things happen to such good people, I just don't get it. I guess all that you can do is have faith and know that Mike is in a much better place. I can only smile though when thinking about the fun times I had with Mike and Adam Papas or when he would always come through and punt or kick us out of a bad situation on Friday nights. His constant warm smile, upbeat and positive attitude always brightened the room and made others feel much better. Please know that my thoughts and prayers go out to Mike and the entire Delaney family. God bless.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding..." Proverbs 3:5
Casey & Shelley Behm
June 10, 2004
Mike was a very loved young man, every time you talked to him he made you feel like you were the only person that mattered to him. He had one of the most sparkling personalities I've ever come accross and his passing is heart breaking. We will miss you Mike, our prayers go out to you and your family.
God bless
Casey & Shelley
Lori Damron
June 10, 2004
Delaney Family,
I just heard about Michael. I'm in total shock - I just met Michael only a few weeks ago on a Cintas sales call. Such a beautiful smile, warm and friendly personality. I too have lost a child...Rebecca was just a tiny little baby but had such a tremendous impact on my life. I wish no parent would ever have to suffer the loss of a child. I lift your family in my prayers.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Lori Damron
Pam Pihlblad
June 9, 2004
To the Delaney family-
My prayers and thoughts are with you. He touched my life through our work and I am saddened that he is gone from this world. In the short time I have known him, he was a kind young man with a sense of humor. I know your pain, I too have lost a child. But know that you are on the right track. Always remain in your faith because He gives us strength every day.
Stacey Casteele
June 9, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Mike is watching down over all of us, and I will remember him with a smile.
Brandy White
June 8, 2004
My Deepest sympathy to all of the Delaney family. Mike is one of those few people that if you were ever so lucky to have met him , he made a permanent indention on your heart. I had the pleasure of Mike's friendship while in High school at Jackson and at the Univ. of Akron. Mike and I always made a point to Say Happy Birthday to each other because we were both born on
May23, only a few hours apart. I have to say, I can only Imagine the Birthday celebration that he had in heaven. I know the angels danced. And knowing him, he probably taught them a few new moves. He will forever be fondly remembered.
Kevin McCann
June 8, 2004
Matt and family I was very saddened to hear about the passing of Michael. My thoughts, prayers, and deepest sympathies are with you.
David & Sue Delaney
June 4, 2004
To ALL of Michael's many classmates,
co-workers, business associates, professors, and friends...Michael's Mom & I would like to say THANK YOU to all of you who have shown your support, comfort and especially your PRAYERS. I can tell you that only our Faith & prayers and all of YOUR prayers are sustaining us at this time.
I want to tell you about three signs of comfort that the Lord has sent to us...to assure us that Michael is with God and being Loved and taken care of....and I hope they comfort each of YOU and help you to ask yourself if you have the same Assurance that Michael has.
COMFORT #1) Sue & I went to Michael's house about 2am to pick up his black Doberman, Snoop, and a second Doberman Michael had rescued from being put to sleep at an animal shelter..the red Doberman, Dre...(Snoop Dog & Dr.Dre the "rappers"..you know Mike's sense of humor)..we picked up his dogs about 2 am and brought them to Canton- where Mike's cousin Beth and her husband, Dr. Jeff, a veterinarian offered to take the two dogs and care for them for at least a week on their farm in Dalton. Because Dr. Jeff had been the dogs vet, he knew what "big babies" they were so he slept with them in the walk-out basement. About 7:20am Snoop, Michael's 5 year old black Doberman, his faithful companion, protector and "roomate" , jumped up and became agitated like someone was calling his name...Dr. Jeff thought Snoop had to go potty so he put a leash on Snoop and took him outside..Snoop pulled and drug Dr. Jeff out into the field beside their house to certain spot as though he had found who was calling him...Snoop looked up at the sky then back to Dr. Jeff and layed down and died on that spot....
Sue & I feel this was a sign of Comfort sent from the Lord to let us know that Michael is with Him, is OK, and that God was letting Mike's best buddy, pal and protector come along with him without causing any other human families pain.
COMFORT #2) Our Pastor, Greg, from Rivertree was contacted by a stranger the day that Michael's death notice appearred in the newspaper- listing Mike as a member
of Rivertree Church.. The stranger asked if Michael was a baptized believer and was he Saved? Pastor Greg assurred the stranger that Michael was...The stranger went on to say that he teaches a Bible Class at Akron Baptist Temple and ussually leaves for his class early..but that Wedesday he became very ill at ease that afternoon increasing in intensity to being sick to his stomach and going to cancel his class, but at the last minute had an unmistakeable feeling that he was being told he had to go to that class even though he was leaving late..He told Pastor Greg that he was one of the first people upon the scene, and to reassure the family that Michael died instantly and did NOT suffer...he went on to say that Michael was covered up, had dignity and that he knelt and prayed over Michael until the ambulance came to the scene. It is our understanding that Dana, "the stranger" is teaching this Bible class as a requirement to become an
ordained minister....
COMFORT #3) Michael's funeral was Monday the next day, on Tuesday Michael's great friend, Adam was talking to my wife, Sue ...and as is probably normal, Sue was discussing doubts about wether we had done the right things for Michael's memorial folder, using the "Afterglow Verse" instead of using the 23rd Psalm or another scripture....Adam assurred Sue that the "Afterglow" was perfect, it was what Michael would have wanted and then Adam said, "And Michael's friends and I COULD NOT BELIEVE YOU PICKED MICHAEL'S FAVORITE SONG TO SING AT THE FUNERAL! Sue said, Adam, we didn't pick any songs, Pastor Greg prayed about what songs to pick and he chose the songs...which song are you talking about? Adam said, the last song with the guitar, "I CAN ONLY IMAGINE"... Adam said, Michael had heard the song a few weeks ago and called him up, and called Mandi and several of his other friends and told them, "I HAVE JUST HEARD MY NEW FAVORITE SONG!" As most of you know, Michael was more ornery than "snot" and often times the music he listened to could make a bartender blush..so what a comfort and surprise to us when heard this was Michael's favorite song and especially after we printed out the words...I will include just the chorus:
"Surrounded by Your glory, what will my heart feel...
Will I dance for You Jesus or in awe of You be still...
Will I stand in Your presence or to my knees will I fall...
Will I sing hallelujah, will I be able to speak at all...
I can only imagine"...
We don't know why the Lord has permitted Michael to be called home three days before he tunred age 25...we also know that people without Faith will say...these #3 things are just a series of co-incidences....I can only tell you that people of Faith know that these have been signs of comfort to reassurre all of us that God is in control and He does not make mistakes.
Michael died on Wednesday evening and that Sunday before, Sue & I had been to Mike's house in the afternoon to help him catch up his yardwork and trimming...we had a lovely sunny few hours together...Then late Monday afternoon, Michael called us and said he was finishing working in Canton and would we like to go out to eat dinner together (Michael was NEVER in Canton on Mondays with his new job)...we went out to eat and then afterward hugged and kissed and said, I Love You...twice at the door leaving the restaurant and once more by the car, I hugged him, kissed his neck and told him I loved him....
I must tell you that if I had in my worst nightmares thought that.. that would be the last time I would hug, kiss or tell Michael I loved him....I would have held on a lot longer, a lot tighter and kissed him many many more times.....So my hope and prayer for each of you is two fold...
Love your spouse, children, mom & dad like this is the last day you see them..because it could be ...
Secondly, seek and/or strengthen your Faith and know that you have the same assurance Michael has and that Sue, Matthew and I have...since many of you are Michael's age and either have or are beginning families in the near future...
Find and/or strengthen your Faith so that you can pass it onto your children...It is your MOST IMPORTANT RESPONSIBILITY AS A PARENT...
We hope this message brings comfort to you as it has to us....PLEASE continue to lift us up in your prayers. And THANK YOU.
Sincerely, Dave, Sue & Matthew and YES, Michael Delaney
Kevin Miller
June 3, 2004
Dear Dave, Sue and Matt,
I know that I have called the house when I found out about the tragic loss of Mikey, but I just feel that I didn't get to say everything that I am feeling. I can say that Mikey was truely one of my best friends for many years. I think back to the days of playing NJSL soccer, to electronics class our Jr, and Sr year of high school, to being weight lifting partners for football and always pumping each other up to do our best. But the thing that I remember the most about Mikey was the very last football game that we played aganist North Canton. We won that game to finish out our high school career, but it took coach Mauro comming to get me and Mikey off the field, because we were both crying. That night we were the last two players on that field. Mikey and I did alot of crying, and alot of hugging, but I will never forget all of the I love you's that we said to each other on that field that night. I have thought about that day alot in the last week or so, and I think that will be how I remember Mikey.... that no matter who you were, what you did, it didn't matter, Mikey loved all of us, that is the reason that so many loved him. He will be greatly missed by myself and my family. Next time that I am in town again from the Navy, I will stop in and say hi. It is the least that I can do to return the favor for everything that Mikey has given me.
(757) 934-6856
Cathy L. Martin
June 2, 2004
Dear Delaney family,
I just heard about your tragic loss and I am heartbroken for you and for all of us. To have lost such a vibrant, wonderful young man is just heartrending. I will never forget the summer that Michael was in my Buyer Behavior class. It was always difficult to keep the constant laughter in check when he and his friends got going. But who could stop that infectious smile and genuine good-natured kidding. I helped with his reference when he moved over to Cintas and spoke with him just a few weeks ago. I know he was enjoying his position and saw a great future ahead. I told him to get me some current business cards. A day or so later, I came back from class to find a few stuck in my door. How I wish I'd been able to see him then. He was a joy and it is a loss to all of us that knew him. I am so glad that he was in my classes and that I got to experience his charm and love of life. I will keep you in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Cathy L. Martin
Instructor
Marketing Department
College of Business Administration
The University of Akron
Jen R.
June 2, 2004
I was glancing again at all the people who Michael has touched. Me included. You are a wonderful family, and Michael will always be with you. I am still so saddened for all of you, but with his spirit by your side, you will get through anything. I love you all, and best to you. Keeping you in my prayers!
Barney & Barb Kessler
June 2, 2004
To the Delaney family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tina Sutter
June 1, 2004
Dear Matt,
I haven't been able to stop thinking of you and praying for you since I heard of the horrible accident. I've never known two closer brothers. Please know your family is on my mind.
Many hugs,
Tina Sutter
jason kovach
May 31, 2004
Dear Delaney Family,
I was just informed of the loss of a great man who i had the pleasure of meeting at the U of Akron. I also worked with Mike at Lorenzos drive-thru,And i am proud to say that i knew such a wonderful man, and i will miss Mike dearly as will many others.I send my deepest regards to your family.Mike was a wonferful person and i know ill see him again in heaven one day.
Jo Garcia
May 30, 2004
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Delaney
I am so sorry. I don't know what to say but that Michael changed my life. He taught me how to love unconditonally. He taught me how to be a better person. I don't know what I am going to do without him. I wrote him a song. I love him so much.
Just One Moment Away
No more stuggles and no more strive.
Your passing over to a better life.
No more tears and no more pain.
In a heavenly roll they'll call your name.
Upon my face tears of joy come running down. A better life I know you've found. And when I see your smiling face. I know that I'm just one moment away from his grace.
I will always remember how he stood by me. When others said I was different you said I was unique. To me you gave love in a special way. Like no other could. And it's here with me to stay.
Upon my face tears of joy come running down. A better life I know you've found. And when I see your smiling face I know that I'm just one moment away from his grace.
Sorry I couldn't be there. I just found out about it The day before yesterday. I don't know what to do.
My Sincere Apologies
Jo Garcia
Corinne (Dickey) Febus
May 27, 2004
Dear Delaney Family,
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Mike was a wonderful person and was one of a kind. He always put a smile on my face and will be truly missed.
Betty Kovach
May 27, 2004
Dear David, Sue, Matt and all the Delaney family, I have just read all the latest entries in the guest book for Mike, and I am so deeply moved that I felt the need to send additional expressions of caring to all of you..There is a poem which I am going to include here which I hope will be of some small comfort to all of you during this time of sorrow and sadness, It is very beautiful in context and words of consolation for anyone who has lost someone so dear to them and to others. it goes like this: Actually it is a native American Prayer----------------------------- - I GIVE YOU THIS ONE THOUGHT TO KEEP I AM WITH YOU STILL I DO NOT SLEEP- I AM A THOUSAND WINDS THAT BLOW, I AM THE DIAMOND GLINTS ON SNOW, I AM THE SUNLIGHT ON RIPENED GRAIN, I AM THE GENTLE AUTUMN RAIN, WHEN YOU AWAKEN IN THE MORNING'S HUSH, I AM THE SWIFT, UPLIFTING RUSH OF QUIET BIRDS IN CIRCLED FLIGHT, I AM THE SOFT STARS THAT SHINE AT NIGHT.....DO NOT THINK OF ME AS GONE----I AM WITH YOU STILL IN EACH NEW DAWN.........I WISH THAT I COULD EASE YOUR PAIN AND SADNESS, DAD, MOM, MATT AND EVERYONE, JUST KNOW OTHERS CARE AND ARE PRAYING THAT GOD WILL COMFORT YOU EACH HOUR OF EVERY DAY NOW AND IN THE DAYS TO COME..GOD'S LOVE TO ALL OF YOU..BETTY KOVACH, LONG TIME FRIEND OF THE DELANEY FAMILY ..AS WELL AS A NEIGHBOR OF THE FAMILY FOR ALMOST 50 YEARS!!!
Giorgia Risaliti
May 27, 2004
Dear Delaney Family,
I was so sorry to hear about Mike. My deepest sympathy goes out to you at this difficult time. I was a classmate of his at Jackson. I will always remember Mike as an outstanding individual who always had a huge grin on his face. Mike will be greatly missed. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time.
Abby Tignor
May 26, 2004
I'm sorry that I didn't have the privilege of knowing Michael, but judging by the remarkable words I've heard and read from his family and friends, he must have been a truly wonderful person. Your State Farm family here in New Albany is thinking of you and wishing you the best during this time.
Meghan McGinnis
May 26, 2004
Mr. & Mrs. Delany and Matt,
My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you all. I will always remember Mikey as so many do, for the wonderful and caring man that he was with a smile and personality that would light up a room. He touched so many with his kind heart. Mine was one.
Patti and Missy Wilson
May 26, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Delaney and Matt,
our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. May God give you strength during this time.
Dave Yanok
May 26, 2004
I knew Mike during our time at Jackson, and like so many others, I considered him a good friend. Mike was just that kind of guy... a good friend to everyone. He and I lost touch over the years, but I will always have fond memories of him. May the grace of God comfort the Delaneys, and all of us during this time of grief and rememberance.
Adam S. Papas
May 26, 2004
Dearest Delaney Family and Friends,
Enclosed you will find the Eulogy I read on Michael’s Birthday. I hope you find comfort in reading it again, I know I do. Michael was truly the most special person to me. His desire and dedication to please, fulfill, and honor his family and friends. His life is truly a reflection of you—I know this first hand. Your unconditional love, guidance, and wisdom created a young man who truly fulfilled those lofty expectations parents pray their children remember. Michael was the Perfect Son and Perfect Friend. He always followed “The Golden Rule” , always donated his time to friends, family, and even strangers. He always brought joy to those who were saddened. Michael succeeded and exceeded all he set out to accomplish. His greatest accomplishment was fulfilling his good name. I have been thankful every day that Michael and I became friends twenty years ago, and I thank you for allowing me to be apart of your lives and Michael’s, especially during family FUNctions. I only wish that there were words to express my feelings, but we all know those words to express our feelings and thankfulness of Mikey don’t exist because it was more than mere words. It was something that encompassed the five senses to their max! Even that is but a scratch on the surface. I want to continue to be apart of your lives and extend myself as a brother to you Matthew, and a son to you Mama and Papa “D” and cousin to your beloved extended family of whom I have grown to love so much. I couldn’t love all of you more if I were torn from the same cloth!
With all my heart,
Adam S. Papas
EULOGY
Michael David Delaney May 23, 1979 – May 19, 2004
My name is Adam Papas, and I am proud to say that Mikey was my best friend.
Through out the 20 years of knowing Michael, we went to elementary school, middle school, and high school together. We feared that when we went to college that we would grow apart. A new environment, new friends, and the pressure of doing well would dwindle the candle of our friendship. It was quite the opposite. Michael and I called another at least 2 times a day and had a new and exciting story through out our college career. After college I worked in NYC then I moved to Florida. Distance never was a hurdle in our friendship.
Many people say, “In life, nothing is constant.” We proved them wrong. Our friendship and loyalty only grew stronger.
We had our wisdom teeth pulled out on the same day and time then we recuperated at my Dad’s house while watching television after our surgery. Michael and I looked like chipmunks from the swelling of the extraction, even then he would bare a smile and tell jokes. For some reason the pain never came.
We went to our first college party together. I was wearing jeans and a tee-shirt that said “Underneath These Whiskers Hides a Handsome Fellow.” As you know, Michael would not have that. He pulled out clothes from his closet and in his Michael tone would say, “Ooookkkkkay, put this on, You don’t need to tell the girls something they already know…. And one more thing, throw that other stuff away IMMEDIATELY!” From that moment on I knew Michael was a trend-setter. At every other party we went to, everyone mimicked what Michael and I wore. I knew, with Michael in my corner, I was guaranteed to look good, smell good, and have the time of my life.
As Michael and I grew up and matured our conversations would reflect our entering into manhood. It was amazing, upon reflection the common denominator Girls!
Although we grieve for Michael, he leaves us a legacy of what it means to be our brother’s keeper. Through out this weekend, I have heard story after story of Michael’s kindred spirit. Through these stories within all of us lies a piece of Michael.
I can only hope that with the uncountable stories and memories we have of Michael we can emulate his selflessness, unconditional love, and devotion in our own lives.
Today we wipe away the tears. Tomorrow there will be a void, but somewhere down the road will be that smile, that memory of Mikey’s generosity. His intuition of knowing when we needed to see or hear from him.
Michael Delaney possessed so many attributes. He truly was a Renaissance Man. He could walk into a room filled with people with IQ’s that ranged from 80 to 180 and discuss intelligently everything and anything that could possibly be a topic.
Most importantly, through out Michael’s life, he loved and respected his parents (David and Sue Delaney), He loved his brother Matthew, and would never miss an opportunity to spend time with family and friends.
For Michael’s love that united us in life, which death cannot sever, for his companionship shared along life’s path—as a Son, a Brother, Grandson, a Cousin, and a Friend. Those special moments each person has shared with Michael continues now through the tenderness of memory. For the gifts of his heart and his mind that brought joy and happiness is now a precious remembrance. Though we grieve this day for the loss of our beloved Michael, we give thanks to God for his life.
I shall miss him greatly.
Angela Fach
May 25, 2004
....And I know your shining down on me from heaven... like so many friends we've lost along the way
....And I know eventually we'll all be together... one sweet day..
Delaney Family: your son is a gem! I have never met anyone quite like him... He will forever live in my my heart.... as my mother said.... he is in good hands now.... trust in God.... and let Michael be your inspiration.... as he is mine!
Ryan White
May 25, 2004
Dear Dave, Sue, & Matt,
As I sit here with tears running down my face, I can't help but feel the pain for your family. I loved Mike like the brother I never got to have. He was the most wonderful person I have ever met. I am truly honored to say that Mike was my friend, and even more honored that he would say the same. My thoughts and prayers will be with you always as we try and get through these tough times. My fiance (Cortney) and I will always have a smile on our face when we think of the time we had with Michael. I love you Mike!! My deepest sympothy for you family Mr. and Mrs. Delaney and Matthew.
Erin Shellhammer-Weber
May 25, 2004
As with my parents and sister, I too have a heavy heart as I sign this guest book. Mikey was not only our neighborhood friend, but also like an incorrigible little brother. His bright smile and goal for living life to its fullest each and every day was what I admired most about him. That--and the Delaney hugs....Hugs that didn't let you go until all was well with your world. I was devastated that I was unable to attend the services. I wanted to be there in person to share my condolences and let you all know how important your family is to me. Mattie, I love you and am here if you need me.
Krissy Britton
May 25, 2004
The Delaney Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Mike is one of the greatest men I have ever met. So caring and always willing to put others before himself. At Jackson High and at UA whenever Mikes name was said there was always a smile(usually talking about the practical joke he had done the night before). Even though the miles between us have greatened, over all these years he has and always will be in my heart. I don't feel regret losing him but I feel grateful to have known him.
Denise Remark
May 25, 2004
Dear Sue, Dave, & Matt--
A haiku in honor of Mike:
Brightness from your eyes
Now radiates upon us all--
You are the sunshine.
my love and sympathy to you,
Denise Remark
Robert Marshall
May 25, 2004
Michael made every person feel like they were the only person in the world to Mike when he talked to you. Mike was one of the greatest friends I could have ever asked for. From the first time that we met we were great friends. I could not have asked for more from a friend. Mr. and Mrs. Delaney and Matt, you will be in my prayers.
Candice Robb
May 24, 2004
Mike,
Today, I watched as so many people mourned the loss of a wonderful person. I too mourned losing you. However, as I sat and listened to your brother praying and thanking God for blessing him with you as his only brother, I no longer want to think of the loss I feel. I will think of how blessed I was to say you were my friend.
Lorrina Hess
May 24, 2004
I only met Michael once, he was a friend of my daughter's. Because of his kind heart, he made it possible for me and my daughter to go to the HOF Fashion Show and Luncheon, and transportation was first class, a limo. It was a wonderful time, thanks Michael. See you in heaven one day, and thanks for being such a wonderful friend to my daughter, she loves you so much! My heart is with the Delaney Family, I know it is very painful now, but Michael is in excellent hands, sincerely, Lorrina Hess
Jessica Anderson Fitzgerald
May 24, 2004
Dear Delaney Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Mike was a wonderful person and I am honored to have known him.
Chase Armstrong
May 24, 2004
I was lucky enough to meet Mike a few years ago through a mutual friend. My cousin went to high school with him. We even share the same birthday! "Stranger" was definitely not in Mike's vocabulary. I just have to say that he brought a smile to my face each time our paths crossed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Olin & Deborah Harding
May 24, 2004
Dear Dave,Sue& Matt.
We share greatly in your loss and will keep your family upheld in prayer before God.
Due to a minor physical condition I was unable to attend the services
and will memoralize Mike at your church.
Olin
Kelley Horn
May 24, 2004
Dear Delaney Family,
I can't stop thinking about Mike and yesterday's service. What a tribute to see all of the people that have been touched by Mike's kindness. I feel like I have grown up with Mike by my side. We have known each other since we were little and attended The University of Akron together. It was always a relief to see his familiar smiling face on campus. He also introduced me to some of my dearest friends at Akron. He will be missed by so many. My heart and prayers go out to your family. I find comfort knowing that Mike is watching over us.
Love,
Adam Hufstetler
May 24, 2004
Dear Delaney's,
I am deeply sorry for your loss of mike. As i was at his calling hours i started to think back on the times our familys were together and mike was present. I couldn't think of one time where Mike didn't make everyone laugh. Always having a smile on his face mike would brighten up the room making a stranger feel like a true friend. He had a special heart, something that i will never forget. My prayers and thoughts are with you. If there is anything i can do please feel free to call. God Bless
Robert Crabtree
May 24, 2004
Mike Delaney has the most infectious I've ever known. When he walks into a room, it lights up every time!
I had the pleasure of meeting Mike through business and after about 15 minutes into our meeting we were planning on getting together to have a drink. He is the kind of guy you can't help but to love.
In a very short time he became one of my closest and trusted friends. Myself and my wife will miss him dearly we will never forget the joy, laughter and friendship "Heavy D" brought into our lives.
We love you Mike!
Rob & Rachelle Crabtree
M. C. Robinson & Associates
May 24, 2004
Dear David, Sue & Matt,
As our sympathy overflows for your great loss, so are there praises that Michael's life though brief touched so many lives. He was surely a blessing to all of you as he added accomplishments to his already rich life. May God's peace be with you in the knowledge that Michael is home with His Father, and until we join him, we will pray that your lives will be mended and be used for the Kingdom just as was Michael's.
In Christ,
Mick Robinson, Barb & Erin
Pamela Headley-Gardner
May 24, 2004
Dave & family... I am so sorry to hear about your son. My prayers are with you........Pam
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