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Nikola Bates Obituary

Bates, Nikola Jean Barnes, Born June 25, 1947, died Nov. 13, 2006 after battling breast cancer. Survived by son, Jeffrey Bates; mother, Betty Barnes; brothers, Gregory Barnes and Jeffry Barnes, and sister, Kimberly Dorr. Niki was part of the La Habra HS class of 1965, attended UCLA and completed her undergraduate degree at UC Irvine. She earned a Juris Doctor degree from Western States University of Law, where she graduated cum laude and finished 3rd in her class. Master of five languages, life highlights include motherhood, world travel, a winning appearance on Jeopardy, study at both the University of Florence and Cambridge University, plus being an avid bridge player and football support mom. Services will be held graveside on Saturday, Nov. 18th at 12:30 PM at El Toro Memorial Park, Lake Forest, CA.

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Published by Orange County Register on Nov. 17, 2006.

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Donna McCabe McKinney

November 19, 2006

I, too, was part of our very special high school gang. Too soon our lives parted as we went our different ways - but our friendships will endure forever. I will and do miss you, Niki.

Carole Parks

November 18, 2006

Nikki Barnes and I were friends since she moved to California from Michigan, attending La Habra High School and UCLA together. We celebrated our fortieth reunion in August 2006 and caught up with our children and careers. Nikki spoke with regret that we were the only two from “our gang” in attendance, recalling how nice it was when all of us got together with our mothers some years ago. We’ve all taken different paths, yet we’re linked so tightly from that time of innocence and hope. Nikki is blazing a new trail now. She will be missed but remembered so fondly. Our deepest sympathies to her family, friends, and colleagues.
Carole deVries Parks and Gary Parks

Ruth McKee

November 17, 2006

It was truly a honor to have known Niki. We shared many happy times together, when are boys were growning up. I will miss her.

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