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Bonnie Reshefsky Obituary

Bonnie Louis Reshefsky, 78, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 4th, 2020. He is survived by his loving wife Beth Sue Reshefsky and his children Terry (Jeffrey) Tessler, Brian (Jessica) Reshefsky, Andrew Reshefsky, his grandchildren Skylar, Laine, and William and his sisters Carol (James) Krochmal and Susan (Mayer) Levy. Bonnie graduated the class of 1960 from Norfolk Academy. He graduated William and Mary with Phi Beta Kappa in 1963, and The University of VIrginia school of medicine in 1967. Dr. Reshefsky served 2 years in the U.S. Airforce and returned to Norfolk, Va. in 1971 and opened his practice in Ophthalmology where he practiced for 25 years. He was a member of the American Board of Ophthalmology and The American College of Surgeons. He enjoyed traveling, reading, golf and vegetable gardening. A private family service will be held Friday at 11:00 A.M. . The service will be streamed though https://www.facebook.com/hdoliverfuneralapts/. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Beth El Synagogue and online condolences may be offered to the family at hdoliver.com

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 5, 2020.

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Dr. Bob Brown, Sr.

October 30, 2025

Dr. Reshefsky was my classmate in Medical School, UVA. He was highly respected by our fellow classmates, a serious and conscientious scholar, and he was admired by his patients and professors alike. I'm also from Norfolk but I am sad to say I did meet Bonnie until our days together in Charlottesville. It was a real loss to his family, friends, and patients when he died at an early age.

Bob Brown, MD, PhD

October 30, 2024

Bonnie was my UVA School of Medicine classmate, a very good one. I remember him .as a humble, quiet, intellectually gifted, and sensitive person, admired and respected by his classmates. Bob Brown, MD, PhD

Robert S. Brown, Sr., MD, PhD

October 30, 2022

Not only was I a classmate in medical school with Bonnie at UVA's School of Medicine, Class of 1967, but I also taught at the Norfolk Academy, 1956-1957, where Bonnie was a distinguished student in the Upper School. I will always fondly remember him as a kind, humble, caring and intelligent person.

Vanessa Pilkington Townsend

February 21, 2022

Dr. Reshefsky, I am just now seeing this...I was a patient of yours back in the late 70's to 80's... you operated on me and you helped me with my crossed eyes...I could really use your help now but GOD needed you more...I will always be grateful to you... Much love to you, you were always like a father to me...God speed

Bob Brown, Sr.

November 16, 2020

Bonnie was a classmate in medical school, a friend respected by all who knew him. A strong sense of modesty kept his academic achievements, remarkable as they were, essentially unknown by us who admired him. He will be missed. He was indeed a good man. May God abundantly bless his family.

Susan Shell Wi ters

November 5, 2020

My husband and I met Dr. Reshefsky back in the early 70’s. He was young and had a new practice in Norfolk. My husband, Jerry Shell, was an optician in Norfolk. Our little boy, Chad, only two years old, needed help with a lazy eye. Dr. Reshefsky had never worked with a patient too young to even read eye charts. He went out and bought puppets to help him work with Chad. He did surgery and worked with our son for several years. Our son is 47 years old now and is still doing just fine. We will always be grateful for Dr. Reshefsky’s patience, knowledge and his eagerness to work with our 2 year old son. The world lost a wonderful doctor and man. May he Rest In Peace.

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