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Laurence Adrian "Wink" Wingerter Jr.

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Laurence Wingerter Obituary

Laurence Adrian "Wink" Wingerter, Jr., 77 passed away on February 8, 2020. On that day, his family and friends lost a wonderful man. Wink was born in Manhattan, New York, on April 30, 1942, and his family moved to San Antonio, Texas, when he was 9 months old. He was a 1960 valedictorian of Texas Military Institute in Alamo Heights and a 1964 graduate of Stanford University in California. Wink was an early computer engineer and introduced technology to the family business. Red Arrow Freight Lines, where he worked until 1988. He continued working in the information technology field until he retired. Wink was kind, giving, considerate and highly intelligent. He married the love of his life, Lee on February 14, 1966 in Dallas. They moved to San Antonio in 1968. They enjoyed hiking, camping and visiting National Parks, and travelling abroad. Wink loved cats; Lee loved dogs and horses. They eventually settled in Comal County where they could keep horses and pets at home. Wink and Lee were founding members of Alamo Dressage Association, and Wink put his IT talents to use creating one of first computerized horse-show entry programs. Wink was preceded in death by his parents Laurence A. Wingerter, Sr. and Mary Margaret Willman Wingerter; sister Diane Flynt and husband Don. He is survived by his wife, Lee; brother Nicholas and wife Diana; sister Melinda and husband Jim Keenan and children Debra Cooper, Dana Fletcher, Valerie Hartle, Melissa Young, Leigh Varady, Lindsay Potter and James Flynt; sisters-in-law Kay Scolari and Stephanie Box and husband Jim; nieces and nephews Katie Borden and husband Dru, Allison Lisman, grand-nieces Reese, Olivia, Grace Addison and grand-nephew Preston. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to an animal shelter or a charity of your choice.

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Published by Express-News on Feb. 14, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
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13 Entries

Katie Borden

July 5, 2020

Uncle Winky was such a gift to our family. His kind and gentle spirit, his selfless generosity. So many things in my life would not have been possible without him. I am forever grateful to have shared him - he was like a second father to me. I love you so much Uncle Wink - you have left so many beautiful memories. I will carry you in my heart as long as I live.

Peggy Robertson (Pinkston)

May 5, 2020

Lee, so sorry for your loss! My prayers is that you have God's peace. Please contact your NC family!

Marilyn Agee

March 2, 2020

I was fortunate enough to know Wink for a short time. He was one of the sweetest men I've ever met. His smile was infectious. He was kind and loving. I know he will be gratefully missed.

Ken Hanas

February 18, 2020

Wingerter Family,
I am saddened to hear of Winks passing. We were acquainted in 2009 and corresponded for a time until I guess that our lives took different paths and we lost touch with one another. Wink was a good friend and will be missed.

Albert ( Al ) Guerrero TMI1962

February 15, 2020

TMI Has Lost Another Great Cadet.

Kitch Simpson

February 14, 2020

Lee, I'm so sorry to hear about Wink's passing. You think I would know exactly what to say but all I know to say is that I am thinking of you and sending my love to you both.

Ann Alexander

February 12, 2020

Wink was so generous with his knowledge and spirit. I'll never forget him taking Sean to tour prospective colleges - it was a wonderful adventure for Sean and I hope, Wink as well. But who would do something like that for a someone who was a friend and not a relative? Wink was so giving behind the scenes and never looked for recognition. He was as selfless as they come. Thanks for sharing him with us! I'm so sorry for your loss and will be praying for you and your family.

Melba A Denny

February 11, 2020

I am thankful that I got to meet Wink through A.R.E. I loved discussing topics with him! He was a very intelligent and gentle man. He will be missed! Rest in Peace, Wink! Melba Stewart Denny, Hutto, TX.

Catherine Jett

February 11, 2020

Greatly loved and greatly missed. He is surrounded by loved ones both two and four footed on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge. He was always a joy to visit with, a keen intelligence and loving soul shining through!

Dee and Larry Seligman

February 10, 2020

Wink was a special loving husband who supported Lee in every way possible. We knew him as a kind and gracious friend who was always hospitable. We hope his resting in peace will bring comfort to Lee.

Debbie Sitler

February 10, 2020

Death is a bittersweet release, freedom from worry, pain, confusion. But our Lord hears the cries of his children and welcomes them with open arms, offering comfort and His peace that passes understanding. The two of you provided support and encouragement to me "way back when" and I appreciate that we still call each other friend.

Catherine Hall

February 10, 2020

Wink was a wonderful man and I will miss him.

Eric Gilchrist

February 10, 2020

Dearest Lee, I am so sorry to hear this heartbreaking news, but I am profoundly relieved that Wink is now at peace. He was indeed one of the nicest people that I have ever met, and you two were nothing less than perfect together. You and Wink were an unexpected safe harbour for me ages ago that led to one of my longest and most endearing relationships. I miss you both and feel your loss. My love to you Mom.

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