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Evadale Gurney Obituary

GURNEY, EVADALE Sept. 10, 1921 to October 16, 2008 Evadale, age 87, passed away peacefully on October 16, 2008. She was married for 62 years to her beloved Wayne who preceded her in death. Born and raised on a farm in Farnhamville, Iowa, she graduated from AIB business college in Des Moines. At age 52, Evadale earned an AA degree in Early Childhood Development from San Diego City College and enjoyed a 13-year career as a top notch preschool teacher. Evadale treasured the many friends she made over the 65 years she lived in San Diego. Her church family at University Christian Church and Faith Presbyterian were very important to her. Evadale loved to sing for her entire life. Singing in a barbershop quartet with husband Wayne and best friends brought her great joy. Above all else , Evadale was a loving and devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. She is survived by daughters Deanna Solomonsen (Pete, deceased), Lou Ann Gurney (Mark Harding), grand-daughters Julie Mills (Jerry) and Traci lliff (Steve) and six great-grandchildren. A Service will be held October 22nd, at 7:00 p.m. at University Christian Church, 3900 Cleveland Ave, San Diego. Donations to the Alzheimer's Association of San Diego 4950 Murphy Canyon Road, may be made in Evadale's honor. The family thanks the compassionate caregivers at ActivCare of La Mesa.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Oct. 21, 2008.

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Phillip James Scott

October 15, 2025

Dearest Eva and Wayne,
May you sing with the angels for eternity!
Donna and Phil

Donna and Phil

October 15, 2023

DJ, Lou Ann and family,
Your Mom was so amazing and the most loving Christian! Even at the end of her days on earth, she loved to recite the Lord's Prayer.
So comforting knowing that we will all see her again in Heaven (hopefully!)
Donna and Phil

Phil and Donna Scott

October 15, 2022

Rest in peace dear Eva!
You were a very special lady who brought happiness to all those who knew you.
Donna and Phil Scott

Donna and Phil Scott

October 15, 2021

Gone, but never forgotten! What a loving, kind, dear lady. Big smiles when I picture her hugging those Palisade Preschoolers! Miss you, Eva.
Donna and Phil

Donna Scott

October 15, 2020

The world was a far better place with Evadale in it!
Miss you, dear friend,
Donna

Donna Scott

October 22, 2008

Just remembered Evadale telling me that while she was a young lady in Iowa, a very handsome sports announcer asked her out for a date. She refused because she thought that he was too old for her....
Yes, it was future President of the U.S., Ronald Reagan! He had some good taste!

Darrell and Barb Walls

October 22, 2008

We will always remember her enjoyment in singing with the group.
We had some wonderful RV trips to the Klamath River for the men to fish for salmon. We gals picked blackberries and made jam and delicous cobblers. Any salmon that wasn't consumed at the group dinners were canned for great treats back in San Diego.

Diane Gustafson

October 22, 2008

My husband Bill and I first met Evadale through Lou Ann when she was our son's sixth-grade teacher. Over the years we have had the pleasure of seeing Evadale on several occasions. She was a lovely, warm lady who will be missed. Our deepest sympathy to all of you.

Sue Redding

October 21, 2008

Dear D.J. & Lou Ann:

I always enjoyed visiting with you Mom at ActivCare, La Mesa while Bob was a resident. She had so much spirit and the sound of music would bring a smile and song. I know you will miss her. Thinking of you in this time of sorrow. Sue Redding

Donna Scott

October 21, 2008

Dear DJ, Lou Ann and family,
The world has lost a LOVELY, LOVELY LADY! It was our great pleasure to have met your mom while she was working as a brilliant preschool teacher. I used to love to watch her bring out the best in both the young children AND their parents. She was a true pro and ALWAYS shared her love with so many. Yes, above all a very loving mom, wife and grandmother.
Our love and great sympathy,
Donna and Phil Scott
P.S. AND OUR FAMILY STILL ENJOYS HER CRANBERRY SALAD RECIPE EACH HOLIDAY SEASON!

Peggy Chambers

October 21, 2008

I have many fond memories of both Evadale and Wayne from the days at East San Diego Presbyterian Church. They were both loving and warm people who never failed to encourage, support and lift up a confused teenager. I look forward to seeing them both in God's heavenly kingdom.

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