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MELODY HUBBARD Obituary

HUBBARD, MELODY LYNN Melody Lynn Hubbard, nee Grasso was born January 10, 1964 in Alexandria Virginia. Melody came to the San Diego area in the spring of 1970. She graduated from Hilltop High School in 1981 and attended Southwestern College in Chula Vista. Melody was a wonderful, loving mother and daughter. She loved people and had an out going personality. She enjoyed scrap booking, reading, games, watching her daughter play sports, holidays and spending time with her family and friends. She was a great organizer. She and her family loved Disneyland and Disney World and Ron, Melody and Taylor made many trips to both. She is survived by her husband Ron and her daughter Taylor of Murrieta, her mother and step father Katherine and Robert Howe of El Cajon, her mother in law and father in law Rickie and John McCardell of San Diego. She is also survived by Robert's two children and John's two children and their families. Melody died on May 30, 2011 from complications after a bone marrow transplant on May 19, 2010. She had a strong, positive spirit and fought long and hard to stay with us but passed away at Ronald Reagan Hospital in Los Angeles. She will be missed by all who knew and loved her. A private service will be held.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Jun. 21, 2011.

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Melanie Castleberry

January 10, 2022

Mel, I'm thinking of you today on what would have been your 58th birthday. I sure do miss you. We had so many good times as kids. I can't ever hear The Carpenters without remembering how we would play your album and sing those songs so many times! We obsessed over Trixie Belden mysteries together. You tried to teach me tennis, but finally conceded that I just didn't have that gene. Ha ha! I loved your mom. How did she have the energy to drive us to so many group skating nights and movie nights when she worked fulltime and was a single mom? She made awesome dinners, always with a salad. Her snickerdoodles were the bomb. Gary made pancakes on Saturday morning. Sunday afternoons during football season were all about the Chargers and yummy snacks. I can't believe you're gone. I wish I could call you and catch up. You were such a ray of sunshine in my life. How lucky I was to have you as such a big part of my childhood.
So much love, from the other Mel

Arlene & Dick Bergstrom

July 2, 2011

To Mel's family
We were unable to attend the memorial service for Mel. We loved Mel and have many wonderful memories of her. God bless her. Auntie Arlene and Uncle Dick

Diane Rosas

June 25, 2011

Mel will definitely be missed!!!! She had such a bright smile and a great laugh. I truly enjoyed our visits to Disneyland and I will cherish those memories. My prayers are with all of you.

karen stitcher

June 24, 2011

i struggle with why such a beautiful, caring, loving person had so little time with us. i do find comfort in the knowledge Mel inspired so many of us with unconditional love, her optimism, her strength, her humor, yet still finding her blessings (i.e. her mother and her daughter) while she herself was faced with such an overwhelming battle. thank you, Melody, i am honored to have known you and been inspired by you to be a better person in my own life. God bless and keep you without pain and with much love forever after.

Kim Schmid-Turner

June 23, 2011

I knew Mel from elementary school to high school. She was a gem of a human being. May your wonderful memories comfort you until you meet again.

Shawn Runnells

June 22, 2011

I'm so sorry to hear that Mel has passed. I knew her from elementary school through high school. I last saw her when I went to see her get married. She was a very sweet hearted woman and she will be missed.

Renee Hardy

June 22, 2011

My deepest sympathy to Rocky and Kathy and all of Melody's family. Through all she went though this past year, she was blessed to have a loving family surrounding her. I pray for God's comfort you all your lives...

Melanie Castleberry

June 21, 2011

My old dear friend. How I wish I had been able to get back in touch with you in recent years. We had such great times together as kids. You will be missed.

Wright Carmen

June 21, 2011

I went to elementary and jr high school with Melody, and we lived in the same neighborhood. I'm so sorry to hear about her passing & my thoughts go out to her family.

God be with you Melody! " I Love You!"

Anthony Norfolk

June 21, 2011

I would like to express my deepest condolences to Ron & Taylor. Melody was a childhood friend and very well liked by all who knew her. She was like a big sister to me. When I returned from my tour of duty in the Army she was the first person I looked up to find out about our 10yr reunion. This is when she introduced me to her husband Ron, shortly before moving to Murrieta. I'm deeply saddened by this she will be missed. Anthony F Norfolk

June 21, 2011

Taylor and Ron ~
Mel was an extraordinary person and will be missed by many but she will live on through both of you. Our thoughts and prayers are we with you.

Love, Rhonda, Rachel, Nathan and Casey

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