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Gary Etheredge Obituary

Gary Wayne Etheredge On August 4th, 1948 in Hamilton, Bermuda, Gary Etheredge was born to Douglas W. Etheredge, and Corrine "Corkey" M. Etheredge. Gary graduated from Escondido High in 1966, soon after he enlisted into the US Navy during the Vietnam War and spent four years (1968-72) of what he described as remarkable times. Gary was stationed on the USS Iwo Jima on April 17th, 1970. On that historical day, he called the weather aiding in the safe landing of NASA's Apollo 13. While stationed in Hawaii, Gary taught himself to play the guitar, marking the beginning of his lasting passion to play and create music. Upon return home, Gary later attended college in San Marcos, CA where he met Sheri, his wife of 39 years. Gary and Sheri soon made their way to the Central Coast where they attended and graduated from Cal Poly, San Luis Obispo in 1978. Gary went on to teach Mathematics and coach Varsity Tennis and Basketball at St. Joseph's High School, from 1979-1986. He then taught at San Luis Obispo High, his dream job, from 1986-2012. There he continued to teach Mathematics and coach Varsity Basketball, Tennis and Golf. He loved working with all of his students, athletes and great teachers who became good friends. He fondly answered to, "Coach!" He always said he never wanted to retire. After retirement Gary continued to coach Varsity Tennis and Golf, where his teams enjoyed success. He was known for his compatible nature with all coaches and teams up and down the Central Coast. Gary loved and enjoyed his sons Chris and Brett very much. He was ever present in their lives and extremely proud of both of them. Gary was greatly looking forward to celebrating the upcoming birth of his first grandchild in January, with Chris and his wife Hahn. After bravely confronting a very new diagnosis of Leukemia, on November 28th, 2018, this very loving husband, caring father and amazing friend to many, passed away peacefully. Even with the immense pain and suffering he endured, he never complained. Gary had great faith in God, and this kept Sheri and Gary comforted. We will forever miss Gary's fun and loving zest for life around us. He had a great love for life. You could tell by the great friendships he maintained, the smile on his face, the hop in is step and the music he created. Gary Etheredge is survived by his wife, Sheri, sons Chris and Brett, brothers Douglas Jr. and David, and many nieces and nephews he adored. We are so grateful to all of our close friends and family for their unending love and support. We, also cannot express enough love and appreciation to Dr. Dichmann and his amazing staff for so many years. Along with the UCLA, and VA medical teams for their loving care. A Celebration of Life Memorial Service will be held at 2pm, Saturday, December 15, 2018 at First Christian Church, 1550 South College Avenue, Santa Maria, CA. A reception will follow. If you want to make a donation, Gary would have loved that you support the First Christian Church youth programs, where he enjoyed helping students of all ages. .

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Dec. 9, 2018.

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Alison Fernandez

December 3, 2023

I will always remember Gary and his open and friendly way. You would never know what he was dealing with; and Sheri always warm and loving with a beautiful smile. Hope all is well! Alison Fernandez

Bruce Tedone

December 25, 2018

I've known Gary since the beginnings of our careers in coaching and teaching. It always made my day to spend time with Gary. He was the most talented person I ever met in education. It's been wonderful to read other people's remembrances of Gary, and know he touched the lives of so many of us. He will be missed.

December 17, 2018

Sheri- I just read about Gary in the Lompoc Record. I am so sorry. What a wonderful man! Always warm and friendly! What a great Loss!
My thoughts are with you and your family!
Alison Fernandez

December 14, 2018

I will always remember your smile, laughter and positive attitude.
Do you live on in our memory.
Michael Aiello, San Luis Obispo high school

Doug and Robin Perrin

December 12, 2018

Robin and I were surprised and saddened to hear of Gary' passing. It is tough to hear about old friends moving on. Gary's smile and kindness will be missed. Our thoughts and condolences to Sheri and the family.

Sheila Kircher

December 12, 2018

I was both shocked and saddened to read of Gary's passing. He was such an upbeat man and saw the good in everyone!
He was a true gentle man in every sense of the word!
A fellow teacher,
Sheila Kircher

Ron Barba

December 11, 2018

Very sad to seeing the passing of a fellow colleague, coach and friend. Alawys enjoyed our friendship, competitiveness and laughs together. I admired your courage, humor and wisdom that you exhibited throughout your life. My sincere condolences to your wife Sheri, sons Chris and Brett. RIP Coach
A lot of people will miss you here, but I am sure u will rock heaven's gates :)

A Patrick

December 11, 2018

Mr. E. thank you for being such a wonderful coach. We didn't always make it easy for you; but you always had kind words and a huge smile for us. You will be missed.

Hutkin Family

December 11, 2018

What a great man and coach. His upbeat demeanor was always appreciated. Condolences to his family.

Michael Daigle

December 10, 2018

Coach Etheredge was instrumental in teaching me to trust in my judgment, let go of my fears, and treat others with absolute respect. You will forever be loved by all

December 10, 2018

I'm so sorry for your loss. As you remember your love one, may your cherished memories and Almighty God comfort your broken hearts. (Psalm 147:3)

Danielle Colombo

December 9, 2018

Thank you Mr. E for being such an amazing teacher. You truly were the kind of teacher and coach everyone should have. Your heart was always in the right place!❤ My thoughts and prayers to the family!

Heather Kelley

December 9, 2018

Prayers and hugs to his family. Mr. E was one of my favorite Teachers at SLOHS. Im sad to learn of his passing!

Kevin P Sullivan

December 9, 2018

I want to offer my condolences to Gary's family. I worked with coach for many years, cleaning his classroom or down in the Gym, cleaning up before or after a game. He was a good man, one I respected and enjoyed being in his company. May you RIP coach!

Jennifer O'Hagan

December 9, 2018

Coach was instrumental in Alex's high school tennis years. We are very saddened to hear of his passing and will cherish the beautiful memories we have of him out on the high school tennis court.

Love,
Jen and Alexandria

Edward Valentine

December 9, 2018

Remembering a truly fine gentleman and sending prayers of peace to Gary's family. With greatest respect.

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