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Raymond Patterson "Pat" Farlin

1933 - 2014

Raymond Patterson "Pat" Farlin obituary, 1933-2014, Santa Cruz, CA

Raymond Farlin Obituary

Raymond "Pat" Patterson Farlin
Jun 10, 1933 - Nov 5, 2014
Resident of Aptos
Pat was born in Mason City Iowa and spent his childhood in Los Angeles. He moved to San Jose during his High School years attending University High in Los Angeles, San Jose High and Sequoia High in Redwood City. Pat received a bachelor's degree in business administration from San Jose State in 1956 and an MBA in finance and economics in 1972 from Santa Clara University.
Pat served in the US Air Force from 1956 to 1960 as a combat ready navigator and instructor in Strategic Air Command with the rank of First Lieutenant. He was awarded the Air Force Longevity Service Award. From 1961 to 1969, he served in the California Air National Guard and retired with the rank of Major. This passion for aeronautics and air travel never left him. He worked 35 years in airport management. As Deputy Director of Aviation, for San Jose and Assistant Director of Aviation, Clark County, NV. He consulted in the private sector with Hill International and Parsons Brinkerhoff in a similar role. He thoroughly enjoyed his tenure as educator of Airport Management in the Aeronautics Department of San Jose State University from 1972-1980.
Pat liked to fish and loved spending time in the Sierra Mountain home. He learned to snow ski, with his wife at Badger Pass in Yosemite and was affectionately called "Zorro" because he always wore the same black ski cap which had a black tassel that could be seen flapping behind him as he zipped downhill. His love of skiing was something he made sure to impart on all of his children and grandchildren. Pat loved golf and the social aspect of seeing his Aptos neighbors and to walk the course together. He and his wife June enjoyed golfing together for many years as well as traveling to Western Europe, Norway, the UK, and Hawaii multiple times. He always said that the trip of his life was to Australia and New Zealand involving staying on a live aboard ship and snorkeling the Great Barrier Reef. Pat loved Big Band music and boy could he dance. He had gone to cotillions as young as 13 with his older sister Charlene and her girlfriends didn't mind that he was younger because he knew all the dances, even the jitterbug. If you spent more than a few minutes with Pat, you'd pick up that he had strong opinions about American political responsibilities, was a very patriotic supporter of the Wounded Warrior Project and having embraced the Internet Age, he would forward emails to ensure family and friends knew exactly where he stood on matters. Recently, he enjoyed renting Netflix Black and white films and watching Big Bang Theory.
Pat was a devoted husband, caring for his wife June until her death in January 2013. After losing his wife of 57 years, he spent time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchild. He is remembered as generous, ethical and having a terrific sense of humor. He was a man of somewhat simple tastes who drank his coffee black, liked Cheerios for breakfast and his only requirement from beer was that it was cold and wet.
Pat is survived by two sons; Mark & Kent Farlin and a daughter; Christine Farlin. He is also survived by six grandchildren; Sean, Jessica & James Farlin, Holly & Mark Zinchefsky and Hannah Becker.
In Lieu of flowers contributions may be made to The Wounded Warrior Project P O Box 758517 Topeka, KS 66675 or online @ support.woundedwarriorproject.org.
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Published by Santa Cruz Sentinel on Nov. 16, 2014.

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Robert Keelor

January 13, 2017

Dear Children of Pat Farlin:

I first met your Dad at an Airport Exhibition in San Antonio, Texas in
the mid-80s. About a week later, I was
with him in Las Vegas where we negotiated a Flight Information Display System for his Airport.

Over the next couple of years, I met with Pat and June several times;usually at their beautiful Vegas home but sometimes at restaurants.

Pat and I were born the same year. My
birth date was August 31st of 1933. This
could be one reason why we were friends;
we were contemporaries.

I laughed out loud where his obit said
that he had strong political opinions.
I'LL SAY!

Then, we met-up again when he worked in
Philadelphia, then, finally, New Orleans - a placed he seriously didn't like! He and June and I, and my wife, Barbara, enjoyed supper with them at The 2 Sister's Restaurant one warm evening.

Then, after he and June finally landed
in Aptos/Santa Clara, we communicated
regularly via email. I also remembered
and enjoyed sending them a box of candy each Christmas.

Back in the Vegas days, we enjoyed commiserating over a good wine about
our children and the challenges of bringing them up to be productive
and successful.

After June passed away, I only heard from your Dad a couple of times. And, more
recently, when there were fires out his
way, I wrote to make sure he was okay -
but there weren't any answers from him.

This past December, I sent more candy.
I was concerned because I didn't hear back from Pat. Today, I went on line
and was very saddened to find his
obituary.

I liked your Mom and Dad very much and always felt their caring for me.

I miss them both very much.

Bob Keelor

January 17, 2015

My sincere condolences to the Farlin family. I worked for Pat at the San Jose Airport from 1974 through 1978 as his secretary. He was such a brilliant, fun loving, and inspiring boss to all of us in Finance and Adminstration. The last time I saw Pat was at his farewell luncheon in 1979. Glad to read that he had such a wonderful life doing what he loved.

Kay Ito

Leona Carlson

December 20, 2014

My address is: [email protected].
Sorry for the error

Leona Carlson

December 20, 2014

Sorry, for your loss. I'm heavily involved in Farlin genealogy and would like to connect with you. I can be reached at [email protected].
Sincerely, Leona Farlin Carlson

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