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Gail Rountree
July 28, 2025
Grief is such a strange thing to live with after 21 years. As you would expect, the month of July continues to be the one that is likely to be the most difficult. It is especially kind of Nina, Robin and Jill to remember us today. I am most blessed with many friends who reached out via texts and phone calls this week. The words of you all can certainly feel like cool balm calming our hearts and spirits. God bless you for remembering Rhett as the years roll on. It means more than you can possibly know.
Nina
July 22, 2025
Rhett will always be remembered. Still the finest human being I've ever known!
See you in the stars...
Robin & Jill
July 18, 2025
There are special people in our lives who never leave useven after they are gone.
Sending thoughts, prayers and love.
Robin & Jill
Robin & Jill
July 18, 2025
There are people in our lives who never leave us...even after they are gone. Sending thoughts, prayers & love.
Robin & Jill
Gail
September 7, 2024
Thank you friend for taking the time to share.
friend
September 6, 2024
I know this is is very random, but it indeed has been 20 yrs and i still think of him often, despite being so far removed from his closest people. I just wanted his loved ones to know that... indeed his legacy lives on, through people like me who think of him often, despite knowing him only briefly and somewhat tangentially. He was just one of the coolest and best guys i ever knew.
Gail
July 23, 2024
Thank you Brenna, Nina, Robin and Jill for your remembrances
Gail and Mickey Rountree
July 22, 2024
It is hard to believe. Today, July 22, 2024 means that it has now been 20 years since Rhett died. There have been so many moments that we have returned to mourning as if we have just learned of Rhett's death. Memories, friends and family, faith and hope have kept us walking along life's journey. But thanks be to God for allowing us to be Rhett's parents. He will never be forgotten. Even Abi's children, Cecilia and Ezra know Uncle Rhett stories and recognize his photos. God designed love to be eternal.
Nina
July 22, 2024
Remembering the Waltz lessons Rhett taught me.
God bless, my friend.
Robin & Jill
July 15, 2024
Those we love don´t go away, they sit beside us everyday.
With love,
Robin & Jill
Brenna Lefcourt
March 20, 2024
I knew Rhett in middle school at St Andrews. He was one of the people who always treated me with kindness, and also one of my first schoolgirl crushes. He was such a nice person. For some reason, he popped into my mind and I looked him up to see where he was. It was gutting to learn he is no longer with us. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know it never gets easier.
Peace and love in his memory.
Nina Wallace
August 27, 2020
Dear Gail,
Rhett could only come from a wonderful family. Very kind of you to write. I live in NYC and used to visit St. Patrick's regularly. Although all of my family members have passed on, it is Rhett that gives me hope and belief that there are indeed Angels watching over us. We were roommates inside a converted warehouse on Java Street in Brooklyn, NY. He painted his entire room bright Royal Blue. Everything inside was white and perfectly organized. I loved sitting with him discussing philosophy.
Rhett was such a fine example of the best of humanity. I look forward to visiting his resting place in Savannah one day.
God bless you.
Nina
Gail Rountree
August 26, 2020
To Nina :
Nina, you were so very kind to add a message on July 22 of this year. We receive an update when friends and family add a message. Your message was comforting to us on that day. I cannot thank you enough for sharing that you lit a candle in memory of Rhett on the anniversary of his death. Rhett learned to light candles and say prayers in memory of loved ones when he was quite young. Actually I think that I taught him how to do that in St. Patrick's Cathedral in New York when he was 10. He continued to practice this act of faithful remembrance as he grew into an adult and shared with me that this practice was especially meaningful in travels throughout Europe.
We miss him so very much. Know that it comforts us greatly to know that there are friends who remember him.
God bless you.
Gail Rountree
nina wallace
July 22, 2020
Lit a candle for you Rhett. Thank you again for the wonderful memories. A blessed soul I was honored to know on Earth.
Gail Rountree
August 29, 2018
Thank you Laura. Your words are like balm.
Gail
Laura Martin
August 9, 2018
My heart broke to see this. Rhett was like a little brother to me at UGA. He was brilliant and full of life. His positive energy and unconditional love helped me find and hold on to my self worth to this day. The heavens must have needed this pure soul as it was too good for Earth. I can only hope our friendship was as beneficial to him through his short time with us. My heart goes out to his family as I cannot imagine the hole that is still waiting to be filled. You created this beautiful soul that blessed our lives. Thank you.
Gail Rountree
July 21, 2018
To our family and friends:
Even after 14 years, July is still a difficult month for us. We have all had to carry on as we should and as Rhett would indeed want us to do. But I just wanted to say that it means so much to know that you still hold him close in memory and thoughts.
May God grant you grace, strength and peace.
Gail R.

Rhett & family, Christmas 2003
Gail Rountree
July 20, 2018

Rhett in Brooklyn
Gail Rountree
July 20, 2018

What a smile
Gail Rountree
July 20, 2018
Chris Fitch
August 5, 2016
I still think about you often. You were a good friend who will always be missed
Marcy Hardy
July 23, 2016
I just read this - oh so sad
nina wallace
July 7, 2016
I just found out very recently about Rhett's passing - 12 years ago - I can barely believe it - now I know who has been watching over me - I was Rhett's roommate for a short time in Greenpoint, Bklyn - on the night of the Big Blackout Aug 14, 2003 - Rhett and I went to Thompson Street in the Village to paint an empty apt for one of his college friends - the lights went out; we turned the drop cloths into mid-evil robes - lit candles and wandered the city - we ended up in the park sitting in front of a bonfire - he held me and we watched the New York Natives dance kabuki - after a few other city adventures - we walked across the bridge together and went home - he gave me a lesson on how to waltz and ballroom dance - I will never forget Rhett - he was and always will be an amazing soul and I am so honored that I could share such moments with a great friend. Love you Rhett, always!!!
nina wallace
July 7, 2016
I just found out very recently about Rhett's passing - 12 years ago - I can barely believe it - now I know who has been watching over me - I was Rhett's roommate for a short time in Greenpoint, Bklyn - on the night of the Big Blackout Aug 14, 2003 - Rhett and I went to Thompson Street in the Village to paint an empty apt for one of his college friends - the lights went out; we turned the drop cloths into mid-evil robes - lit candles and wandered the city - we ended up in the park sitting in front of a bonfire - he held me and we watched the New York Natives dance kabuki - after a few other city adventures - we walked across the bridge together and went home - he gave me a lesson on how to waltz and ballroom dance - I will never forget Rhett - he was and always will be an amazing soul and I am so honored that I could share such moments with a great friend. Love you Rhett, always!!!
November 18, 2015
I still think him almost every day. I miss him.
Debbie Rich
March 10, 2007
With loving thoughts of your family today.
Susan Muscari
February 19, 2007
It took me a few years to work up the courage to visit Rhett at Bonaventure. I almost made it twice but had to turn around. I finally made it after the last visit home to St. Simons. Admittedly, it was difficult to see, but it was beautiful. He always meant so much to me. He was so full of life and had the best laugh ever... I can still hear it now. He never failed to make me smile, and always knew how to make everyone feel welcome. He absolutely gave the best hugs of anyone I ever knew. My fondest memories of my early teens and on involved Rhett. He was so talented in many ways... a bright star. I will always remember our favorite moments in London, in theater, and everything else between. My heart goes out to Mickey, Gail, and Abigail...
Jessica Adkins
December 31, 2006
Dear Rountree family,
I have just learned of Rhett's tragic passing. I have often thought of him throughout the years, always expecting to see him as a contest on Jeopardy or running for presidential office.
I know now he was doing even greater things with his life, which suprises me little.
Your son is truly amongst the greatest people this world has ever been blessed to know.
My heart aches for you all; I will never forget Rhett - after all, how could one?
Deepest regards,
Jessica Adkins
Donna Youngblood
July 25, 2006
Gail, Mickey, and Abbey,
I recently saw your picture while visiting Juanita Mullis in Valdosta. You were in her goodbye book from WIUMC. I was flooded with memories of your wonderful son, and I remember that it's been about 2 years since his death. Please know that even though I don't see you, I always remember you and your wonderful family. I know that this time of year is difficult, and we never have the promise that it will get better. However, you must know that through your prayers and prayers of your friends, you will continue to cope.
Donna, Jeff, and Megan Youngblood
Debbie Rich
July 24, 2006
Gail, Mickey & Abbey,
With love you are all in my thoughts during this especially difficult time of year.
Aimee Fleetwood (Konwinski)
July 12, 2006
Dear Gail, Mickey and Abby:
I visited Rhett for the first time this past week. As I sat with him, it felt no different than the first day. Thank you for giving all of us a beautiful place to visit with him.
Sarah Entrekin-Pringle
June 20, 2006
Dear Rountree Family,
I have just heard of your loss. I attended St. Andrews during Rhetts' senior year and was fortunate enough to have a glimpse into a soul I have never forgotten. We spent much time together the summer before he left for college. Years have past and I still think of him. His passion for life was endless and his charm magnetic. My prayers are with you all.
Dana Rountree
April 26, 2006
He is in a better place. May you and your family have many blessed memories of him
David Romine
March 10, 2006
It's been nearly two years since Rhett's passing and I can still barely read this guestbook without feeling that same pain, still so raw in my heart, that I felt standing by his grave on that hot July day in Savannah. Today we, a few of his many, many friends gather to celebrate him on this, his special day. We have come together to remember him, to tell stories and to find comfort with each other over the loss of our dear friend.
Mickey, Gail, and Abbie, not a day passes when I am not reminded of Rhett. The sun never sets without me finding some tidbit of knowledge that I know he would love or hate or simply want to discuss with him in greater detail. I can't say what I miss most but I know that what truly stands out most profoundly in my mind is his love. His love of knowledge, of family, of friends, of getting together and sharing ourselves with one another. And always we remember his love of life. We who loved him will never forget.
They say that time heals all wounds, but underneath the layers of time the pain is still there. All I can do is remember the love he had in his heart and hope that, someday, I will see him again.
kellie mcdonald
August 21, 2005
With sadness today aug21st rhetts grandmom arlene brown passed away . Rhett was my cousin his grand mom my aunt today savannah we are doing the family viewing monday morning graveside service for ms elisabeth arlene brown she was so sad of rhetts dying now they will be seeing each other again we have a good family . rhett was one of my funny cousins he could tell funny things but usually they were true ha! love rhetts cousin kellie aunt fayes girl of orange park fla.
kellie mcdonald
August 21, 2005
Rhett was one of my many great family members. we have a good fun southern family as gail rhetts mom can tell you our family reunions were a great event ha! rhett was a fun guy as well as educational with his successes too. love a cousin of rhetts kellie and family in orange park florida.
Jan Corrigan
July 12, 2005
Gail,
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and your family. Rhett's death has made me really put my life in perspective. I have recently left my job at SunTrust after nearly 20 years so that I can spend more time with my family. It's probably going to be a struggle, but this is something I feel I should do. I watched your kids grow up while I was working at the Wilmington Island branch and I always loved when you came in so that you could tell me what your kids were doing. You have so much to be proud of. I know your heart is still breaking and probably will forever, but try to remember all the GREAT memories you have and hopefully that will sustain you. Please know that I think of you and remember you in my prayers daily. I'm here if you ever need me.
Jan Corrigan
Collin Behm
March 24, 2005
Gayle and Mickey,
As Easter approaches I wanted to let you know that I have not forgotten you, nor have I forgotten Rhett. You know that I was a close friend of his, and also with other close friends of his (and he had many). Fond memories of Rhett are still a frequent topic of discussion. If there is anything I can do for either of you, or for Abby, I will be here always.
Collin
912-398-3618
Debbie Rich
March 10, 2005
Mickey, Gail and Abbey,
As you remember Rhett on this special day know how much we are thinking of all of you.
God bless you all.
Love, Debbie, Emily and Ashley Rich
Glen Hayman
March 7, 2005
Dear Rountree Family,
I know its been a long time, and writing this is hard, it took me almost 9 months to do it. Rhett was a good man, he always treated me with kindness and respect. I valued his views, and his friendship. He was a good partner in everything that we did together. From going to the state debate championships, to walking the streets of London after dark. He will be missed and mourned long after the flowers and tears fall away. It's always hard to write things like this, people think that becuase of what you have been through and seen you have all the answers, but I remain today as I did that day in the car in Florida when Matt Hoover, and then Pat Cobb called me, stunned. If there is anything I can do for you please just call, you always have a ally and a friend in me, just as your son and brother was the same too me.

Rhett in front of St. Peter's Cathedral-Rome 1997
December 2, 2004
Cliff Archibald
September 2, 2004
Dear Mickey, Gail, and Abbey:
I only just learned of Rhett's passing today. It saddens me deeply to hear the news. I enjoyed knowing him and spending time with him over the years in Boy Scouts and for a brief time in Valdosta at Governor’s Honors. I can honestly say I have never met a more charismatic person than Rhett. He was a pioneer of creative thinking as I knew him and can only imagine how he grew and shaped those around him during his continued education.
I wish you best in your sorrow and healing…
Tammie Butler
August 24, 2004
Dear Gail, I don't know if you remember me or not but I worked for Dr Justiss (front desk) for years. I learned of Rhetts accident the following week. I always enjoyed you coming in the office and telling of Rhetts accomplishments. You were always such a gleaming mother. He was so lucky to have a mother like you, one that supported her son. My Mother passed away last year, so I know death hurts. I like to think shes up there in Heaven looking down on me wagging her finger when I make a wrong decision,and continuing to pray for me. So TRY and find comfort in knowing that Rhett is up there doing what he does best, and beyond a shadow of a doubt that you will see him again. God sees the future, we don't. I am a firm believer that "everything happens for a reason". You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. Keep looking up!!! Love Tammie
Daniel Randolph
August 23, 2004
The thought of Rhett being no longer with us is still so unbelievable , that words still fail to convey the sense of loss. The only comfort I can relay to you is that your grief is shared . Rhett seemed to take the best from every situation and person he came into contact with and make that a part of himself. He was truly an extraordinary person and my regret is not getting to know him better , because my fondness for him could have only grown .
Gi-In An
August 10, 2004
He seemed to always have a knowing smile. I was privileged to have been in a few classes with him. I am saddened for your loss.
Donna London
August 8, 2004
Dear Gail, Mickey, and Abby,
We were so sorry to hear about Rhett. It is unbelievable... Our memories of him at St. Andrews and at Wilmington Island United Methodist are of a young boy, but what an incredible man he became!
When we saw you recently, there were so many smiles of happiness as you told us what Rhett and Abby were doing as young adults. You raised two wonderful children. We are so very sorry for your sadness and feeling of loss now. We pray God's loving presence and the sincere prayers of friends are felt by you all.
Our love,
Ron, Donna, and Kirsten London
Eric Wright
August 3, 2004
Rountree family,
It has been a while, but I assure you that this news came as a shock. I was friends with Rhett in our early childhood and he and my wife (Courtney Brandt) were friends at university. Our hearts go out to you and your family.
Seth Grossman
August 3, 2004
Rountree Family -
My thoughts are with you in these sad times. I was in Rhett's class for only a semester before leaving law school, and even in that short amount of time, I got to realize what an incredible and dynamic person he was. I feel lucky to have had the opportunity to get to know him. I was constantly so impressed by how intelligent, kind, caring, and down to earth he was. He touched and influenced the life of everyone who met him, and I am thankful that I was one of those people who's life was touched by knowing him.
Brenda Oliphant
August 2, 2004
Through our mutual friend, Barbara Roth, I know of this tragic event. There are no words to describe the loss of a young life. The profound sense of this loss can only be recognized, believing in our God to show the way one day at a time. Your family is surrounded by God's love as expressed by family and friends. Many big hugs to all, Brenda
Abbey Moore
August 2, 2004
It is impossible to put into words how I feel about the loss of the greatest influence in my life. Rhett and I became the who we are together, and I feel that when he died, a part of me died.
As anyone that knew well would say, he was the lovable, enraging, hilarious, and eccentrically insane people the world will ever know. He gloried in his contradictions and relished in inappropriate juxtoposition. He was a writer in love with words and the semicolons that separated them. He lived his life larger than anyone, including rock stars. In fact, he WAS a rock star! Our own private rock star; he was solid and luminous.
The days that I spent in Savannah with his, now my, friends celebrating his memory and his life, I believe, will end up being some of the most significant days that I will ever live. They were days of truth and joy, and I have never felt more like myself. That is Rhett's legacy to me. No matter what world of mine he entered, I never felt more like myself then when he was around. God, I loved him and my heart aches with emptiness.
Gail, Mickey, and Abigail, know the gift that you gave not only to me, but to the world.
Agnes Lucinda Harty
August 2, 2004
Dear Rountrees:
I am truly heartbroken to hear of your loss. My sister called me last week to deliver the sad news. I will always remember sharing the stage with a bright, giving, talented young boy. Gail, I remember too, how supportive your whole family was to Rhett and his acting bug. I pray that all of your wonderful memories will bring you comfort in the days to come.
With deepest sympathy,
Agnes Lucinda Harty
Steve Shelton
August 2, 2004
Mickey, Gail, Abbey, I was devasted to read about Rhett. Bobbie sent me the article last Friday. As one of those who moved away, you sometimes lose touch with the activites of family friends. What a full life Rhett was enjoying, and what a distinguished contribution he has made to mankind. You are to be commended for showing Rhett the way to get involved. I miss Mom everyday, as you will Rhett. But know that all who loved him will think about him fondly and often. I am with you in spirit and prayer. Miss you guys........
Steve Shelton
Ed and Evelyn Forman
August 2, 2004
Dear Mickey and Gail, Evelyn and I are terribly saddened to hear about Rhett. We have cried with you. It was just several weeks ago that we talked...we don't know what exactly to say...want to let you know we are praying for all of you. Ida is keeping you in her prayers too. Love, Ed and Evelyn Forman
Patrick Spivey
July 31, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Roundtree,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family right now. I was not very close with Rhett, but he still made a lasting impression with myself and many others at St. Andrew's. I pray that God gives you strength in your time of need. God bless you.
Guy Storey
July 31, 2004
Gail & Mickey, It's been a long time since we talked, and this is such a sad reason to finally connect again. Susan and I are so sorry to hear about your son. What an incredible life he lived, and accomplishments that he earned. Please know that our hearts and prayers are with you, and your family. We grieve with you.
Susan and Guy Storey
Pat and Scott Briggs
July 31, 2004
Dear Mickey and family,
We were stunned to hear of your loss! What a magnificent young man we have ALL lost!
Sincerely,
Pat and Scott
Tana Walker
July 30, 2004
Dear Gail and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Jamie Gilbert Philipp
July 30, 2004
Rountree Family,
I am so sorry to here of your loss. Rhett was a great person and role model. I have very fond memories of him from our years in the youth group together. You are all in my prayers.
KATHERINE SANDERS
July 30, 2004
DEAR MICKEY AND FAMILY, I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR SON'S DEATH. HE SOUNDS LIKE AN EXTRAORDINARY MAN AND THE WORLD WILL MISS HIS TALENTS AND HUMANITARIANISM. I PRAY THAT YOU WILL BE COMFORTED IN KNOWING THAT GOD IS IN CONTROL AND ALTHOUGH WE DON'T UNDERSTAND OUR LOSSES WE KNOW THAT GOD GAVE RHETT TO YOU TO LOVE AND TO CHERISH HIS MEMORIES FOREVER. GOD BLESS YOU. KATHY SANDERS
joan randolph
July 30, 2004
Dearest Friends,
God Bless You. We feel so deeply
sad and loss for the words to express our feelings.
We feel so close to your family and
only know that he is always going to be in our hearts and thoughts, prayers and everyday living. Never
to be forgotten.
We will be there soon.
Love, Joan and Jack
Jack,Joan,Danny and Georgia Randolph
July 30, 2004
Dear Loving Friends,
Words are not sufficent to express
our feelings. We will be near you
soon and bring our love to you.
Rhett, was and will always be a
treasure in our hearts.
God bless all of you.
We love you all so much,
Joan, Jack, Danny and
Georgia
Michael Frech
July 30, 2004
To Mr. and Mrs. Rountree and Abbey,
I just learned of your recent tragedy yesterday, and I am both shocked and saddened. Please know that Lynne and I will be keeping you in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult and painful time. As a parent, I can't even begin to imagine the overwhelming pain and despair that you must be experiencing. If there is anything, ANYTHING, that we could possibly do for you, please do not hesitate to ask. As I read over Rhett's obituary, I was struck by how he lived his life to the fullest and how he accomplished more in his shortened time here than many people do in a lifetime. You have much to be proud of in the way that Rhett lived his life and all that he did to enrich the world while he was here. May God be with you.
Michael, Lynne, and Gabbie
Katy Waters
July 30, 2004
I was very sad to hear the news about Rhett. He was a talented member of our Savannah "theatre family". Those of us who had the honor of being on stage with him were truly blessed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Dotti and Denise Black
July 30, 2004
Dear Mickey and Family,
We were devastated to hear of the death of your Beloved Son. Nothing ever prepares us for the loss of a child. Please fill your hearts with memories and good thoughts of this remarkable young Man. Having just suffering the loss of my Husband and younger Daughter, we empathize and grieve with you. We never know when the Lord needs another Angel to smile down upon us and that is exactly what He is doing. You will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Most sincerely,
Dotti and Denise
Brooks & Jackie Stephens
July 29, 2004
Mickey & Gail, our thoughts, prayers, and love are with you during this very tragic time in your lives.
Paul Wilkins
July 29, 2004
As a member of Rhett's writers group and a friend, I was saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
June Holt
July 29, 2004
Gail, Mickey and family,
I was sadden to hear of your loss.
I'm sure he must have been a wonderful son. You will be in my prayers. May God send you comfort and peace that only He can give.
Love June Holt
Phil and Nancy Bowden
July 29, 2004
Dear Mickey and Family,
Your loss is hard to comprehend. While we did not know your son, the smile on your face when you spoke of him and your family showed your love for them. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
God Bless,
Leslie (Irving) Turner
July 29, 2004
Dear Mickey, Gail, and Abbey,
My heart is broken over this tragic loss of such an outstanding young man. Your family and Rhett have been in my thoughts and prayers constantly since I heard the news. I feel so honored to have been friends with Rhett, and I will never forget all those wonderful years at St. Andrews and acting with him in the "Music Man" play. That's when I knew he was talented in so many artistic ways, and it was time for me to change fields. I remember riding on the boat with ya'll and Rhett on the weekends, and just hanging around with Rhett when we were little and just acting silly.
I will never forget his warm face and his love of people, his life accomplishments absolutely amaze me and everyone that knew him. He is honestly one of the very few people I have ever known in my life that makes me and everyone else he has touched want to strive to be a better person. I respect him, admire him, and miss him very much. I know his spirit will live on forever in each of us and especially in each of you because you represent all of the awesome qualities that Rhett possessed. May God give you peace in your hearts.
Love Always,
Leslie Irving Turner
Janice & Jimmy Whited
July 29, 2004
Dear Mickey, Gail and Abby, Jimmy and I are so very sorry to hear about your tragic loss. We both went to the funeral home but couldn't get near you to speak. I was amazed at how much Rhett accomplished in such a short time. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Andrea Ploucher Francis
July 29, 2004
I had the priveledge of meeting Rhett while studying in England. There are few people in this world that have the charisma, wisdom, and kindness to make everyone around that person feel desired and included. Rhett was one of those few people, and he is, and always will be missed.
Natalie (Burdette) Benson
July 28, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Rountree and Abigail-- Your loss is felt by anyone who ever crossed paths with Rhett. He was one of the kindest people I have ever known. May you find comfort in knowing you raised an incredible son.
Natalie Burdette Benson
Dia Freeman
July 28, 2004
When I heard this sad news, I was heart-broken as I remembered this kind, talented young man. I knew Rhett only through the theatre, but I was not surprised to learn of his many activities in service to others. If there is comfort, it must be found in the number of lives Rhett touched in a positive, caring way.
My prayers are with you.
Love, Dia
Michelle Simpson
July 28, 2004
Mickey, Gail, & Abby,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know that words cannot comfort you during this time, but know that we are all praying for you. This guest book is truly amazing...it shows what a wonderful person Rhett was. I know that heaven is an even better place now because of his presence there.
Michelle Simpson
Ashley and Anita Hillis
July 28, 2004
Gail,Mickey and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you .
Larry Peterson
July 28, 2004
Dear friends,
I am so sorry to hear about my favorite "Winthrop". Such a loss is almost impossible to bear. Rhett always felt like family (as did you all) and will always be remembered as one of the best and the brightest. Our prayers and support go with you across the miles. Always remember the smile and love you cherished and keep that in your heart.
With heartfelt prayer, sympathy and love,
Larry, Sherry & Adler Peterson
Christen Davis Mutz
July 28, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Rountree and Abby,
I am so very sorry about your loss.What an inspiration Rhett was to all of us- he touched so many lives and accomplished so much.I will keep his memory in my heart and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Bert Barrett, Jr.
July 28, 2004
Dear Mickey,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you comfort during this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Mary Helen Vandaveer
July 28, 2004
Mickey, Gail, and Abbey,
John and I wanted you to know what a beautiful service you had yesterday for Rhett. I am so sorry that we never had the opportunity to meet him in person, but we felt we knew him through family and friends.
What an incredible young man he was, and his accomplishments and love of life were a testament to the wonderful job you did in raising him. How inspiring everyday must have been just to know him. His death has changed many lives, including our own. We will never take for granted tomorrow, and we will now look at the world with awe and amazement as Rhett did.
Please know how our hearts are breaking for you at this time. Rhett now has that special spot in heaven in God's arms. He is safe.
With deepest sympathy and love,
John, Mary Helen, Amanda and Ashley Vandaveer
Cindi Colley
July 28, 2004
Dear Gail and Abigail,
My heart is broken over your tragic loss. I remember fondly all those wonderful times at the Savannah Theatre. Rhett was a wonderful young person - smart, helpful and always smiling. He and Abigail both loved the theatre and we loved them in return.
I just wanted you to know I was thinking of you and that my prayers are with you during this very difficult time. If I can do anything, please do not hesitate to call.
Paige and Hunter Saussy
July 28, 2004
Gail, Mickey and Abbey.....Your pain must be unbearable...how I wish we could say SOMETHING that might comfort you but I do not think we can. YOUR Rhett was OUR reason for sending our boys to St. Andrews because we saw,in him, AND in YOU, ALL the hopes and dreams we wished for our own children. Rhett accomplished MORE in 26 years than most of us will accomplish in our entire lives. Never again will I walk past a homeless person and NOT acknowledge him as a human being. Never again will I look away if someone doesn't quite 'fit the mold' of who I should or should not be around...AND NEVER AGAIN will I take for granted my blessings. These are the things YOUR Rhett has taught us....how proud you must be!!!!!..Gail....you are my 'dancing partner' whether we were in Pam's step-class (all those yrs ago) OR at the SYC doing the "Pink Cadillac "....God gave you a little boy and YOU and Mickey made him into a fine young man....ALL of us have taken this SO personally BECAUSE of the man that Rhett IS!!!!.. NONE of us TRULY know what you and Mickey and Abbey are feeling.I hope WE can be the parents (and sister) that ya'll are and I hope that my children will accomplish HALF the things that Rhett has......but MOSTLY I hope that WE WILL ALL see the world through Rhett's eyes...to see ONLY the good, only the positive....ONLY THE LOVE that IS possible.... that we can ALL do SOMETHING to help each other and make this world a better place, the world that Rhett KNEW it could be...I believe and I am convinced that the BETTER the person , the sooner God takes him....In Rhett's case,GOD MUST have needed another angel and I truly believe He takes ONLY the BEST people..because some of us are the only ones WORTHY of being HIS angels.. We are thinking of ya'll constantly and we're praying for all of you.I KNOW, YOUR ANGEL, RHETT...is sitting upon ALL of our shoulders and guiding us through this journey we call life. You ARE SO LOVED AND WE WILL PRAY FOR YOU TO FIND COMFORT AND PEACE.....and we are only a phone call away if you need us...Much, Much Love...Paige and Hunter Saussy
kathy vadi
July 28, 2004
To Mickey and your family,
Our deepest sympathies to your family. We learned of your loss when we called your office for advice due to the loss of my Grandmother. Which passed on the same day as your son.
Our thoughts are with you and your family during this time. Gods love will embrasse you all.
Kathy Vadi and Mel Robbins
Katherine Keena
July 27, 2004
Dear Gail, Mickey and Abby,
It is so hard to give voice to words which will sooth. Just know that you have been in our hearts and prayers.
Many pictures rush thru our minds, but the patient face of a boy allowing himself to be costumed to be part of a general effect... no glory for him alone, and yet the team effort made him willing, even eager. That patient and calm visage, so unusual, even in the experienced theatre kid.When others were anxiously pulling and pushing to move on, he seemed to enjoy the moment.
And so, as his friend testified at the service today, I add my snippet of a memory.
There is little we can add, or do or say..but know you are in our prayers !
Love, Katherine, Jamie, Laura and John Keena
Mae Smith
July 27, 2004
Gail, Mickey and Abigail, I was heartbroken to learn about Rhett.
You are all in my prayers. May God keep you and help you through this awful time. With Love, Mae Smith
Janet Stroud
July 27, 2004
Dear Gail, Mickey and Abigail,
Words cannot adequately express our heartfelt sadness and sympathy for your tragic loss.
May God bless you and forever hold you in His loving arms.
In Deepest Heartfelt Sympathy,
Jan, David & David, Jr. Stroud
Elizabeth Demere
July 27, 2004
Rhett was a friend of mine for as long as I can remember. When we were kids he convinced our whole elementary school class that he was Zeus and then he named all of us after mythological characters. Recess was the best time of the day when we could go out on the playground and dodge Rhett's lightning bolts, which were actually sticks. He was so much fun to have around. Growing up together in school Rhett and I got to know so many of the same people. Coming to his funeral today was like reliving parts of my life. My best friend from elementary school who I haven't seen since 6th grade was there, and two of Rhett's best friends that spent senior prom with us and most of the summer thereafter. Seeing everyone again was a blessing, although I wish it could have been under different circumstances, where Rhett could have been there as well. But, as a couple of his friends and I guessed, Rhett was probably sitting up on the limb of that old oak tree in Bonaventure, barefoot with one leg folded indian style and his chin on his other knee, looking down at us smiling, thinking how happy he was to see everyone again, and we were all thinking how lucky we were to have known him.
David Walker
July 27, 2004
Gail, Mickey and Abigail-
Rhett spread light wherever he went. My heart is with you.
Kendra Norman
July 27, 2004
I had the pleasure of working with Rhett during his last year in Athens and, subsequently, the priviledge to know him as a friend. There are far too few people in this world made of mettle such as his; words prove inadequate to fully express my sadness for all of Rhett's friends, loved ones, and above all, his family.
DRU JONES
July 27, 2004
AS I LOOKED AROUND DURING THE SERVICE THIS MORNING I WAS IN AWE OF ALL THE PEOPLE THAT WERE THERE TO HONOR RHETT. WHAT A WONDERFUL TESTMENT TO THE MAN HE WAS. HIS MANY INTERESTS BROUGHT US TOGETHER TODAY TO REMEMBER HOW HE TOUCHED OUR LIVES. I WANT TO THANK HIS FAMILY FOR SUCH A WONDERFUL YOUNG MAN. IT WILL BE HARD TO FILL THE VOID WE NOW FIND IN OUR LIVES.
DRU JONES
Matthew Grieco
July 27, 2004
I met Rhett this past year during my first year of law school. In addition to being my section's Criminal Law TA, he gave me a lot of useful advice outside of class about how to strategize my law school career, and he was an all-around nice guy. I extend my deepest sympathy to his family.
Diane Lyon
July 27, 2004
Gail and family
May God bless those left behind.
For the one called to Him is truly blessed.
May Rhett's love for you continue to surround you forever.
Aimee Peavy
July 27, 2004
Mr & Mrs Rountree and Abby,
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Rhett was an exceptional person whose great accomplishments will be remembered and looked up to for years to come. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sorrowful time.
Aimee Lamas Peavy, Jinan Lamas Cole & Pam Lamas
Billy, Debbie, and Clay James
July 27, 2004
We are all so sorry about your lost, best of wishes and remember that our prayers are with your family.
Hope Brown
July 27, 2004
Dear Rountree Family,
I was devistated to hear the news of Rhett's passing. I will always remember that beautiful smile that just lit up the room. I can still see him running down the halls at youth group at WIUMC. What an incredible man you raised. He will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you for understanding and peace at this difficult time.
"The God who never leaves you nor forsakes you, will be with you strengthing you every step of the way"
Hope Brown
July 27, 2004
Dear Roundtree Family,
I was devistated to hear the news of Rhett's passing. I will always remember that beautiful smile that just lit up the room. I can still see him running down the halls at youth group at WIUMC. What an incredible man you raised. He will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you for understanding and peace at this difficult time.
"The God who never leaves you nor forsakes you, will be with you strengthing you every step of the way"
Kim, Terry, Ryan,Justin &Erin Fowler
July 27, 2004
Dear Gail, Mickey & Abbigale, I just can not begin to imagine the pain and sorrow you are experiencing. Our prayers are with you. May you find comfort in remembering Rhett's many accomplishments. Rhett was a fine young man that everyone was proud to have known.
Hope Brown
July 27, 2004
Dear Roundtree Family,
I was devistated to hear the news of Rhett's passing. I will always remember that beautiful smile that just lit up the room. I can still see him running down the halls at youth group. What an incredible man you raised. He will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you for understanding and peace at this difficult time.
Sandra and Denny Smith
July 27, 2004
Dear Mickey and Gail,
Our hearts are breaking for your loss. Rhett's outstanding accomplishments are a testament to his character and upbringing. We hope it comforts you to know that your son was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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