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Benny DePalmo Obituary

Benny J. DePALMO, Jr. Born Nov. 29, 1942 in Seattle, WA and passed away peacefully at his home in Renton, WA. He was 63 years old. Benny graduated from Cleveland high School, served briefly in the United States Army, and dedicated 26 years of service to the Seattle Police Department. He began his law enforcement career in 1967 as a patrolman in Seattle and retired as a Sergeant in 1993. He was an outstanding officer and his tenure included time in undercover narcotics, felony fugitive warrants, and the homicide unit. He excelled as a homicide detective and worked very hard to bring justice to many, many, victims and their families. After retirement, he continued to serve the community by working with DSHS and neglected children. Benny was a beloved father, grandfather, son, brother, and friend. He was a guys-guy with a great sense of humor. After retirement his all-time favorite thing was golfing with his "bros" and spending time in the Arizona sunshine. He was preceded in death by his mother, Elizabeth DePalmo, whom he loved very much. He is survived by his long-time companion, Nancy Sharpe, his father Ben DePalmo, Sr., his sisters Mary Cromer and Barbara Derkacht, his brother George DePalmo, his two daughters LeAnn Dodge and Monica Denney and their mother Felicia, and his beloved grandchildren Austin, Conner, Chase, Sydney, Grace, and Brianna. The family wishes to express their thanks to Dr. Jeffrey Westcott and his team at the Seattle Heart & Vascular Institute. A memorial service will be held on Wednesday, May 3rd at 12:00 at Columbia Funeral Home, 4567 Rainier Ave. South, Seattle, WA. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Make-A-Wish Foundation. Please sign the online guest book at www.columbiafuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Seattle Times on Apr. 30, 2006.

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Infanta Spence-Lewis

July 26, 2017

Oh My! It is very late to send condolences. However I knew Benny from Cleveland High School and his work on the Seattle Police Department. I decided to refer to FB and this notice came to my attention. May he continue to rest in peace.

Harriet Benjamin

May 2, 2006

I am sorry for your loss. Benny was a gentleman who was held in high esteem and respect by those that knew him. A rare quality in this day and age. Again, my sympathy.

Monique Losk

May 1, 2006

My condolences to Felicia DePalmo and her family. I know he was a caring part of their lives.

MIke ( Blasto) Bliss

May 1, 2006

Benny was one of the greastest guys I have ever met. He welcomed me into his Golf Fraternity with open arms and always made me feel as one of his "Bro's"..Some of the very best memories I will always cherish are our golf sebatical get togethers. He will forever be missed!!

Jim (Cubby) Walsh

April 30, 2006

Benny was a man of great integrity and love for his fellow man and community. I met him on the Golf course which was one of his passions and learned to love him as a brother instantly. I relished in his stories of his Seattle Police Department escapades and his humorous antics on the Golf course. I will miss him!

My prayers go out to him and his family.

George Shilipetar

April 30, 2006

I've only known Benny for about the last 10 or 11 years, but I sure loved to hear the "war stories" from this great old-school policeman. Thank you Benny for letting me play golf with you and your "old cronies" up in Sequim the past 10 years and including me as one of the guys...I was fortunate enough I got to play with you one last time last month, and I hope our little tournament continues on in your honor. I know you are looking down on us now, laughing as you play that big beautiful golf course in the sky...

Randy Tibbs

April 30, 2006

I played golf with Benny a few times and he was a real gentleman.

I enjoyed his sense of humor and easy manner. I pray for his loved ones that they may find peace in the memories they have of Benny.

Randy and Barbara Tibbs

Lynn Coney

April 30, 2006

Benny was both a fellow Cleveland High Alumnus and SPD member. His watch ended too soon, but he will be long remembered as a man of high character.

ila birkland

April 30, 2006

I had the great honor, and pleasure, of working with Benny in Homicide. He was such a great guy. Had a great sense of humor and great guy to tease. Whenever I was able to put one over him, he would responsd "Je-e-e-sus, Ila". He was loved by all who worked with him. We were all shocked when we got the sad news. Much too young to leave us. We will miss you, Benny.

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