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Barry Gordon Obituary

Barry Gordon
Resident of Los Altos

Barry Gordon passed away on Wednesday, October 9th from cancer.


Barry was born in Chicago, moving to Southern California as an infant. He attended UCLA undergrad, and graduated from the College of Physicians and Surgeons in San Francisco in 1957. He practiced dentistry at Barber's Point Naval Air Station on Oahu for two years before returning to Northern California to establish his practice. Barry loved his profession and when he retired at 73, he was often seeing a third generation of his patient's families. He is survived by his wife, Margot, after 55 years of marriage and his son, Dan Gordon (Melissa) and daughter, Pam Gordon Takai. He was a devoted grandfather to Oliver, Haley and Cameron Gordon and Travis and Sean Takai.


Barry loved to play racquetball. As a devoted hobbyist his interests ranged from underwater photography, collecting N gauge model trains, deep sea fishing, and relaxing on his Tolleycraft boat. Barry was a prolific reader which he often did while smoking a cigar in his "cave". He and Margot enjoyed traveling the world, culminating with a family safari in Tanzania for their 50th anniversary.


Friends and family will be contacted at a later date for the memorial service. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Palo Alto Medical Foundation http://www.pamf.org/giving/ and Mission Hospice http://www.missionhospice.org/donate.shtml

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Oct. 11 to Oct. 13, 2013.

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Grace Agardy, former neighor

October 7, 2023

Enjoy this special remembrance with the family.

October 8, 2014

Barry was a very good friend many years ago. Our lives haven't crossed paths in many years, but I am blessed to have had this man touch my life.
I remember many fun times shared with Barry and Margo.

Maury Corbett

November 5, 2013

Sending lots of love and prayers to you, Pam, and all of your family.
Love,
Anna

Margaret Abe

October 16, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Margot and family. I will miss Barry,
my favorite wonderful and special friend. Memories of you
will always be in our hearts forever! Now you are pain-free
and at peace.....Margaret Abe, Los Altos, California

October 16, 2013

I am so sorry to learn of your family's loss. My prayers and sympathy to you all.

Warmest regards,
Barbara Mardesich

October 15, 2013

Blessings to all of the family in your time of sad loss, but good memories of a wonderful man. My prayers and condolences go out to you.

Julie Grosvenor

October 15, 2013

A friend for many years, but haven't seen for many years. I was blessed to have Barry touch my life.

Maury Corbett

Grace Agardy

October 13, 2013

My condolences to all. Remembering my few years on Clay Drive.

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